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Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(107,884 posts)
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 12:49 PM Sep 2021

Chris Cuomo Had to Apologize for Grabbing Ex-Boss' Buttock at 2005 Party

Chris Cuomo had to write an apology email to his former boss, veteran TV reporter Shelley Ross, after grabbing her rear-end at a party in 2005.

Ross spoke out about the incident in an op-ed piece for The New York Times published Friday morning. Ross, Cuomo’s boss at ABC News in the early 2000s, explained that she isn’t trying to get the CNN anchor fired from his job, but decided she couldn’t stay silent after seeing Cuomo “escape accountability” for advising his brother, disgraced former New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo, during his sexual-harassment scandal.

Ross wrote that the incident happened at a farewell party for an unnamed ABC News colleague in 2005. “I was at the party with my husband, who sat behind me on an ottoman sipping his Diet Coke as I spoke with work friends,” she recalled. “When Mr. Cuomo entered the Upper West Side bar, he walked toward me and greeted me with a strong bear hug while lowering one hand to firmly grab and squeeze the cheek of my buttock.”

The veteran reporter went on to write that, while he was grabbing her, Cuomo told her: “I can do this now that you’re no longer my boss.” Ross wrote that she immediately rebuked Cuomo and pushed him away from her while stepping back, which revealed her husband sitting behind her. After the incident, Ross “quickly left” the party with her partner.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/chris-cuomo-had-to-apologize-for-grabbing-ex-boss-buttock-at-2005-party/ar-AAOM7IO

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Chris Cuomo Had to Apologize for Grabbing Ex-Boss' Buttock at 2005 Party (Original Post) Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2021 OP
What the fuck is wrong with these men? I think they weren't brought up right Walleye Sep 2021 #1
They don't think it is wrong. maxsolomon Sep 2021 #24
Larry elder would tell her to "work harder" and not spoil the fun Demovictory9 Sep 2021 #61
Listen well governors' children are usually entitled assholes malaise Sep 2021 #39
That's a good point. I didn't think about that. Walleye Sep 2021 #53
I misread this and just assumed it was about Andrew Bucky Sep 2021 #2
Who wants Cuomo's job, is the better question Budi Sep 2021 #3
Please I hope it's not one of those annoying ones like John Berman Laura PourMeADrink Sep 2021 #5
Oh no!!!!!! Not Chris too :( Laura PourMeADrink Sep 2021 #4
As a heterosexual male PCIntern Sep 2021 #6
'These guys' have always thought they were seductive. There's A LOT of 'these guys' throught history Budi Sep 2021 #10
Has he been fired? Treefrog Sep 2021 #45
He should just say it was "Stupid or Dumb" then it'd magically disappear from the headliines. Budi Sep 2021 #46
You keep saying you want to see who replaces him. Treefrog Sep 2021 #47
as a mostly heterosexual female Piasladic Sep 2021 #63
Makes one wonder what was going on in the Cuomo household Sympthsical Sep 2021 #7
Shelley Ross??????? calimary Sep 2021 #8
according to Chris Cuomo jcgoldie Sep 2021 #9
Cuomo said this? Budi Sep 2021 #11
Read the last paragraph. edhopper Sep 2021 #13
Thats what he said to her when he grabbed her ass according to her story jcgoldie Sep 2021 #14
That's what Shelly Ross said he said. Budi Sep 2021 #15
which is why my title says "according to her story" jcgoldie Sep 2021 #28
I'm not accusing you nor you OP. You just posted the article. Budi Sep 2021 #31
Thank you. Figures Budi Sep 2021 #12
In the article she said she knew it wasn't sexual in nature. I don't think he should be fired for Pisces Sep 2021 #16
Get a grip Xoan Sep 2021 #17
Yes the article says as much Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2021 #18
Targeted Media works this way Budi Sep 2021 #23
Many BeerBarrelPolka Sep 2021 #19
Likewise Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2021 #20
Request this be explained away as this was, "dumb". "Stupid", & forgotten Budi Sep 2021 #21
I forget the details and don't want to go do research, but... LAS14 Sep 2021 #26
It is the trigger it invokes. The author was no student. He was 30. Budi Sep 2021 #30
It wasn't a student newspaper and he was 30 years old. For comparison, our President was.... George II Sep 2021 #62
It is amazing to me... tonedevil Sep 2021 #22
As was this dismissed as "dumb & stupid" aaaannnd buried. Budi Sep 2021 #25
But whatabout. tonedevil Sep 2021 #27
Yes. Exactly. What about the disappearing act from media with this vulgar thing Budi Sep 2021 #29
Whataboutism... tonedevil Sep 2021 #32
Cuomo's actions were no more than "dumb & stupid" then as well? Budi Sep 2021 #34
Apparantly Cuomo's not on "everybody's" side! Budi Sep 2021 #36
You seem a bit premature... tonedevil Sep 2021 #37
The evidence is already there. Budi Sep 2021 #38
Then who is replacing Chris Cuomo... tonedevil Sep 2021 #40
As I said, we'll find out !! Stay tuned! Budi Sep 2021 #41
It's all a conspiracy... tonedevil Sep 2021 #42
Not a conspiracy at all. It's blatantly out in the open Budi Sep 2021 #43
I know, right? Treefrog Sep 2021 #54
That's what I'm wondering. Treefrog Sep 2021 #48
As near as I can tell... tonedevil Sep 2021 #50
Lol, good point. Treefrog Sep 2021 #51
Of course Lindsey Boylan is cheering Ross on on Twitter. Guess what folks, when I was 12.... George II Sep 2021 #33
Now THAT salacious gem belongs in the NY Post headline!! Budi Sep 2021 #35
I read her piece in the Times. Treefrog Sep 2021 #49
Can you link to the Post headline? Treefrog Sep 2021 #52
How long before someone comes out with a story regarding Mario Cuomo? kskiska Sep 2021 #44
Shouldn't be too long after they're done with Chris.... Budi Sep 2021 #56
2005? Patton French Sep 2021 #55
Who the hell makes such a move with their married boss? LiberalFighter Sep 2021 #57
This message was self-deleted by its author MagickMuffin Sep 2021 #58
Most of us do Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2021 #59
I deleted my post because I din't think it worthy MagickMuffin Sep 2021 #60
She handled it exactly the right way ecstatic Sep 2021 #64

maxsolomon

(33,284 posts)
24. They don't think it is wrong.
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:54 PM
Sep 2021

They think it is fun, and yes, they were brought up in an environment where such behavior was condoned: one of patriarchal privilege and power. Their Dad was Governor of NY.

I'd wager Chris Cuomo knows it's wrong now, 16 years later.

malaise

(268,903 posts)
39. Listen well governors' children are usually entitled assholes
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:55 PM
Sep 2021

Last edited Fri Sep 24, 2021, 05:33 PM - Edit history (1)

These are no different

Bucky

(53,987 posts)
2. I misread this and just assumed it was about Andrew
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 12:58 PM
Sep 2021

Just ignore my previous comments

LoL, this family is such a throw back to the 60s. They're liberal, but they're entitled fratboys

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
3. Who wants Cuomo's job, is the better question
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:05 PM
Sep 2021

We'll see who emerges in his evening CNN spot since upper mgmt has now jumped the shark from half-reasonable reporting to full blown "anybody but a Democrat"

Of I outed every person who did/ said a sexist thing to me or my friends at an office or group party, wedding etc 16 yrs ago I'd have a list a mile long.
And none of them apologized to this day.

*Who's replacing Cuomo? Guess we'll know where the origins of this bs OMG!! piece began, when we see who replaces Cuomo on CNN.

How come only Democrats are publicly targeted & outed in a mad media push 'out the door' for sexism?

Tara reade tried it with Biden but found to be a liar with a past of lying...and now she's speaks to Russia Today.

"Money & Media"..

PCIntern

(25,520 posts)
6. As a heterosexual male
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:10 PM
Sep 2021

who WAS raised right, I am grotesquely appalled by these behaviors. And you know what? Besides being GROSSLY INAPPROPRIATE, do these guys think that they’re being seductive? Like Charlie Rose and his open bathrobe. My God…yuck.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
10. 'These guys' have always thought they were seductive. There's A LOT of 'these guys' throught history
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:17 PM
Sep 2021

It's the precise targeting that bothers me more.

We'll see who succeeds in claiming Cuomo's evening spot on CNN.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
46. He should just say it was "Stupid or Dumb" then it'd magically disappear from the headliines.
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 03:18 PM
Sep 2021

Those reasons have been proven to work like magic.

Piasladic

(1,160 posts)
63. as a mostly heterosexual female
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 08:03 PM
Sep 2021

who was raised by wolves, I am grotesquely appalled as well. Too much ugly at once. Not seductive, not close.

Sympthsical

(9,068 posts)
7. Makes one wonder what was going on in the Cuomo household
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:13 PM
Sep 2021

That both sons felt entitled to behave in this manner. I know Mario is beloved by many in the party, but eesh.

I said it before. I have no idea why CNN still employs him. Not like he has killer ratings. Colluding with a politician in a career-ending scandal should've been the finale there if they wanted to maintain any smidgen of credibility.

jcgoldie

(11,629 posts)
14. Thats what he said to her when he grabbed her ass according to her story
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:23 PM
Sep 2021

As if the workplace conflict of interest were the only reason he hadn't done so before. He did however apologize for the behavior afterward and it occurred 16 years ago so in my opinion doesn't warrant crucifixion but thats still a pretty fucked up thing to say when you are groping someone and shows a bizarre sense of entitlement.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
15. That's what Shelly Ross said he said.
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:35 PM
Sep 2021

What she 1st rushed out to the NY Post .

🙄
AGENDA!!! ALERT!!!

jcgoldie

(11,629 posts)
28. which is why my title says "according to her story"
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:58 PM
Sep 2021

I don't know what her agenda is but Cuomo doesn't deny the story and she actually accused Roger Ailes of sexual harrassment in a separate story in 2016.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
31. I'm not accusing you nor you OP. You just posted the article.
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:04 PM
Sep 2021

It's the bigger picture of what NY media decides is 'news' & why it's suddenly news, and what is hidden.

Pisces

(5,599 posts)
16. In the article she said she knew it wasn't sexual in nature. I don't think he should be fired for
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:36 PM
Sep 2021

Something he acknowledged and apologized for ( although cringey). Some things are cultural.
Anyone see The Wood? Guys bet friend to pinch a girls butt in the 80’s or 90’s. This and pulling bra straps were standard fare growing up. It wasn’t right and we girls did not like it. But many boys were raised to think this was ok.

No one has a perfect past, and I guarantee many girls were traumatized by this. Some boys who are upstanding me today did these things if you are a certain age. I don’t think boys are doing these things now because it is not the social norm.

She obviously wants him to be fired even though she says she doesn’t. In this era we have no latitude.

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(107,884 posts)
20. Likewise
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:45 PM
Sep 2021

I had a female co-worker do the same to me. It was not welcome but I did not report it. Just avoided her as much as possible after that.

LAS14

(13,781 posts)
26. I forget the details and don't want to go do research, but...
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:57 PM
Sep 2021

... I'm not a Sanders fan and do recall getting incensed at people who pointed to this opinion piece in something like a student newspaper as representing his own thoughts. Suggest you read it again with that in mind.

George II

(67,782 posts)
62. It wasn't a student newspaper and he was 30 years old. For comparison, our President was....
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 07:58 PM
Sep 2021

....a Senator when he was 30 years old, He was actually elected before he was qualified but turned 30 in the December before he was sworn in.

Joe Biden never wrote anything like that.

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
22. It is amazing to me...
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:53 PM
Sep 2021

how many in this thread are ready to dismiss this because Cumo is on our side. True colors on bright display.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
25. As was this dismissed as "dumb & stupid" aaaannnd buried.
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:56 PM
Sep 2021
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/2015/5/28/8682503/bernie-sanders-rape-fantasy

The tell will be who appears once Cuomo is gone from his CNN spot.

Guess we'll know who pushed the 16 yr old story. Shelly Ross is an old pro in the NY media industry.
 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
29. Yes. Exactly. What about the disappearing act from media with this vulgar thing
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 01:59 PM
Sep 2021

Chirp....

It is more triggering to this day than this Cuomo story.
So ya. What tf about this?

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
32. Whataboutism...
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:08 PM
Sep 2021

this persons actions don't matter because another person did something I think is worse. For my part, I try not to be so flexible with my principles.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
36. Apparantly Cuomo's not on "everybody's" side!
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:19 PM
Sep 2021

We'll find out who emerges seated in his CNN evening spot.
Maybe Tara Reade will move over from RT

👍

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
37. You seem a bit premature...
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:26 PM
Sep 2021

to the best of my knowledge there is no word of him being out so it would be hard for someone to replace him. Maybe if he does get bounced there will be evidence of a plot against him.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
41. As I said, we'll find out !! Stay tuned!
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:58 PM
Sep 2021

It's not when but WHO.
Or we could ask the NY Post who did a mad dash to run this 16 yr old Breaking Headline for an old friend of the NY media circle, Shelly Ross.

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
50. As near as I can tell...
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 03:34 PM
Sep 2021

we are supposed to be outraged because obviously Chris Cuomo will get fired and be replaced by someone who is a conservative Republican. Why wait for something to actually happen when you can get outraged in advance.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
51. Lol, good point.
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 04:13 PM
Sep 2021

As someone pointed out here not too long ago…we field an impressive conclusion jumping team here!

I used to like him ok, but the whole Fredo incident, along with the “emerging from the basement” scene kind of soured me on him.

George II

(67,782 posts)
33. Of course Lindsey Boylan is cheering Ross on on Twitter. Guess what folks, when I was 12....
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 02:08 PM
Sep 2021

....I farted in church. God has forgiven me.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
52. Can you link to the Post headline?
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 04:15 PM
Sep 2021

I can’t find it. I read the piece on the opinion page of the Times.

kskiska

(27,045 posts)
44. How long before someone comes out with a story regarding Mario Cuomo?
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 03:10 PM
Sep 2021

regarding something that supposedly happened in 1975 when he was Secretary of State?

Response to Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin (Original post)

MagickMuffin

(15,933 posts)
60. I deleted my post because I din't think it worthy
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 05:49 PM
Sep 2021


But of course not all men are like that which I never claimed all men behave like that.



ecstatic

(32,681 posts)
64. She handled it exactly the right way
Fri Sep 24, 2021, 11:21 PM
Sep 2021

She confronted him directly and told him to get his hands off of her. At that point she could have even called the police to file charges, but I guess she decided to let it go. I'm not sure why the op/ed was necessary but to each his or her own.

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