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hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:19 AM Nov 2021

She was sold to a stranger so her family could eat as Afghanistan crumbles.

This story just broke my heart.

Could Elon Musk’s money help this little girl? I don’t pretend to know the answer, but I just can’t believe we live in the 21st century and this still happens.


(CNN) - Parwana Malik, a 9-year-old girl with dark eyes and rosy cheeks, giggles with her friends as they play jump rope in a dusty clearing.

But Parwana's laughter disappears as she returns home, a small hut with dirt walls, where she's reminded of her fate: she's being sold to a stranger as a child bride.

The man who wants to buy Parwana says he's 55, but to her, he's "an old man" with white eyebrows and a thick white beard, she told CNN on October 22. She worries he will beat her and force her to work in his house.





https://www.cnn.com/2021/11/01/asia/afghanistan-child-marriage-crisis-taliban-intl-hnk-dst/index.html

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She was sold to a stranger so her family could eat as Afghanistan crumbles. (Original Post) hamsterjill Nov 2021 OP
Yes it still happens all over the world .. .. Lovie777 Nov 2021 #1
I read this last nite and it kept me awake all night jmbar2 Nov 2021 #2
Same here. hamsterjill Nov 2021 #3
K & NauseousR! Carlitos Brigante Nov 2021 #4
the education is highly uneven Tetrachloride Nov 2021 #5
Are you over there? hamsterjill Nov 2021 #6
yes. my area is a tourist area in some neighborhoods Tetrachloride Nov 2021 #7
Oh goodness.I hope you are safe. hamsterjill Nov 2021 #8
I am safer than most DU members Tetrachloride Nov 2021 #9
The videos they showed of the transactions, I found horrific. egduj Nov 2021 #10
It was horrific. hamsterjill Nov 2021 #11
They will live the rest of their life in misery. lpbk2713 Nov 2021 #12
I saw this on CNN this morning PlanetBev Nov 2021 #13

Lovie777

(12,320 posts)
1. Yes it still happens all over the world .. ..
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:35 AM
Nov 2021

not just in Afghanistan. Also, girls that start their monthly cycles in some cultures are ready for marriage. Also if a girl or women don't comply with certain cultures and or speak out can be murdered, and I still believe China still continues to kill baby girls.

jmbar2

(4,904 posts)
2. I read this last nite and it kept me awake all night
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:53 AM
Nov 2021

In the west, we have the money to support these girls. We just don't have reliable organizations on the ground to get to the parents before the girls are sold.

I'd like to see some sort of NGO able to just outright support the girls' families, provided that they are in school and unmarried until an appropriate age. Unlikely under Taliban rule, but my heart aches for these girls.

hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
3. Same here.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 09:58 AM
Nov 2021

I watched this before bed and then woke up several times thinking about that little girl. I know she’s one of many, but it starts with just one.

Like you, I wish there was a legitimate organization that I could trust and donate towards. I don’t have much to give, but I’d give what I could.

Tetrachloride

(7,865 posts)
5. the education is highly uneven
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:00 AM
Nov 2021

After sunset, the ratio of men to women rises dramatically in the non-cosmopolitan streets.

I make sure to carry some small
bills in case i meet some poor women. They wear black. 4 recognize me by face.

Schools are tough. The senior high schools are a bit more challenging than my first year college chemistry courses.

Tetrachloride

(7,865 posts)
7. yes. my area is a tourist area in some neighborhoods
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 10:36 AM
Nov 2021

Tourist areas are the classic example of trickle down in action.

My haircut , mustache and ordinary T shirts make me pass for native among quite a few people.

Tetrachloride

(7,865 posts)
9. I am safer than most DU members
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:01 PM
Nov 2021

Less corona
Far less road rage and other outdoor dangers
close to zero Trump discussion


the danger is from people asking for money or fun phone calls at 12-2 am from new “friends “

Single foreign women will be asked to get married 1-3x a day.

egduj

(805 posts)
10. The videos they showed of the transactions, I found horrific.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:12 PM
Nov 2021

But as another poster stated, it happens all over the world, all the time, so I guess I'm over-reacting and it's no big deal.

lpbk2713

(42,766 posts)
12. They will live the rest of their life in misery.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 07:14 PM
Nov 2021


We are well into the 21st Century and shit like this is still happening.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
13. I saw this on CNN this morning
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 07:18 PM
Nov 2021

Couldn’t help but start crying. All the grief I feel about the lunacy that is America pales in comparison.

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