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spinbaby

(15,090 posts)
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:53 AM Nov 2021

Dear store with an app

I would like to buy this thing here and pay for it with money.
No, I don’t have your app.
No thank you, I have quite enough apps on my phone.
Yes, I understand the app has special deals.
I just want to buy this thing here and pay for it with money.
No, I really don’t want to join your special club.
No, I don’t want to collect points.
I don’t need another credit card, thank you.
I just want to buy this thing here and pay for it with money.
No, I don’t want a special reward for filling out an online survey.
Thank you for all these coupons with my receipt.
Next time I’ll buy this thing here at the store without an app.

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Dear store with an app (Original Post) spinbaby Nov 2021 OP
They must think we have oodles of free time to waste on all that nonsense... lagomorph777 Nov 2021 #1
I use cash I_UndergroundPanther Nov 2021 #13
cash is a time-honored tradition kiri Nov 2021 #21
Also NQAS Nov 2021 #2
Gmail must live off the follow up ads underpants Nov 2021 #7
But, you can block them. They go to junk/spam so you can delete them in bulk. LogicFirst Nov 2021 #34
But, you can block them. They go to junk/spam so you can delete them in bulk. LogicFirst Nov 2021 #35
Use disposable email addresses Pinback Nov 2021 #37
No kidding - If I have something to say about my experience in your store rurallib Nov 2021 #11
I love it when car dealers where you just purchased a whole CAR send you promos for car sales. Beartracks Nov 2021 #22
Or have ten subscription cards fall out of a magazine rsdsharp Nov 2021 #29
No shit. FoxNewsSucks Nov 2021 #3
The apps only track you if you let them luv2fly Nov 2021 #14
Just think of the coming fury as money AND credit cards are eschewed over cryptocurrency! hlthe2b Nov 2021 #4
Cash is only legally required to be accepted for debt. sir pball Nov 2021 #36
New Colorado law mandates state's businesses accept cash (other states passing similar laws) hlthe2b Nov 2021 #40
YES!!!!!! Also, dear hairdresser: Scrivener7 Nov 2021 #5
this made me laugh. thank you! i have to pass this on to my daughter! NT orleans Nov 2021 #24
Oh YES!!! This! catchnrelease Nov 2021 #32
Almost as annoying as those websites the push their app before you can log on... Wounded Bear Nov 2021 #6
Yikes - haven't seen that one. lagomorph777 Nov 2021 #8
I don't surf much, but the particular site I'm referring to is Paypal...nt Wounded Bear Nov 2021 #9
Paypal --- all the power of a bank with fewer regulations and even less morals! n/t CloudWatcher Nov 2021 #17
Actually Paypal has been regulated like a bank for years now localroger Nov 2021 #25
No idea what you're complaining about... brooklynite Nov 2021 #10
My experiences with local grocery stores echo the poster. Heartstrings Nov 2021 #12
You know you're going to hell now, right? FoxNewsSucks Nov 2021 #15
Oh I don't believe in hell. Heartstrings Nov 2021 #19
THIS!!!!! calimary Nov 2021 #16
I have an app that stores all my other "Apps" Username & Passwords ... aggiesal Nov 2021 #18
The most aggravating one to me is the Adobe CC popup jmowreader Nov 2021 #20
I didn't realize GIMP doesn't do CMYK. Beartracks Nov 2021 #26
When I found out it has no CMYK support, I deleted it jmowreader Nov 2021 #28
I was quite inrigued by the Oculus VR nuxvomica Nov 2021 #23
Same here - Oculus looked cool, but FB was a dealbreaker. I'll get into VR sometime petronius Nov 2021 #44
Perhaps, there is an app to help with your issue? cayugafalls Nov 2021 #27
Total Agreement marieo1 Nov 2021 #30
Excellent OP! bucolic_frolic Nov 2021 #31
What bugs me are popups to evaluate a site before I have even had a chance to use it! flor-de-jasmim Nov 2021 #33
But information is a valuable commodity. How can they make money without your information? Pobeka Nov 2021 #38
The waste of the American mind. Advertised to death. lostnfound Nov 2021 #39
I save tons of money on the Safeway app Sympthsical Nov 2021 #41
Absolutely! Duppers Nov 2021 #42
All of the above ... PLUS stop sending me emails every freaking day! FakeNoose Nov 2021 #43

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
1. They must think we have oodles of free time to waste on all that nonsense...
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:57 AM
Nov 2021

...and unlimited storage in our phones...

Though I must admit, I almost never use cash anymore; it is a big time waster. I get annoyed when I see somebody in the front of the line using cash.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,480 posts)
13. I use cash
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:45 PM
Nov 2021

Because it makes it easier to budget.

The bills and rent get paid with cash converted to a money order.

However I get my wallet out and pull out my best guesstimate cost for the things I am buying

I do this to make paying by cash quicker for others in line.

Also people with cards can take longer than cash payers,

if they use thier card, and the card didnt read for various reasons,or the purchase goes past the money that's on the card so they have to pull out cash to cover the cost or they have to remove items so they can afford the cost.

kiri

(796 posts)
21. cash is a time-honored tradition
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:44 PM
Nov 2021

I get annoyed and impatient when someone buys a candy bar for 75¢ and uses a credit card. Or $1.49 package of kleenex. For anything less than $10 or $20 I always pay with cash.

NQAS

(10,749 posts)
2. Also
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:58 AM
Nov 2021

No, I don’t want to evaluate your service or rate your employees. I just want to buy what you’re selling and be left alone.

Also, yes I bought something from you, and, no, I don’t want to receive emails from you every day.

underpants

(182,868 posts)
7. Gmail must live off the follow up ads
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:06 PM
Nov 2021

There’s no way to unsubscribe from them that I’ve found.

LogicFirst

(572 posts)
34. But, you can block them. They go to junk/spam so you can delete them in bulk.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:40 PM
Nov 2021

Instructions regarding how to block on your device are on Google.

LogicFirst

(572 posts)
35. But, you can block them. They go to junk/spam so you can delete them in bulk.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:45 PM
Nov 2021

Instructions regarding how to block on your device are on Google.

Pinback

(12,164 posts)
37. Use disposable email addresses
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:56 PM
Nov 2021

that forward to your real email address (which you never give out to businesses). That way, when they start spamming you (or get hacked), you can just delete that disposable address.

I have created hundreds of these with a Spamex account. There are other services, which may or may not be better. I just use Spamex because I’ve had an account with them for years.

I still get too much crap in my inbox, but this strategy does make it easier to control.

rurallib

(62,444 posts)
11. No kidding - If I have something to say about my experience in your store
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:13 PM
Nov 2021

I will say it. Otherwise just leave me alone.

Beartracks

(12,821 posts)
22. I love it when car dealers where you just purchased a whole CAR send you promos for car sales.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:55 PM
Nov 2021


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rsdsharp

(9,195 posts)
29. Or have ten subscription cards fall out of a magazine
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:24 PM
Nov 2021

when your existing subscription is good for two more years.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,434 posts)
3. No shit.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 11:59 AM
Nov 2021

The apps just let them track everything you do and your location 24/7. I don't even like having to have the stupid card to get the sale price.

hlthe2b

(102,343 posts)
4. Just think of the coming fury as money AND credit cards are eschewed over cryptocurrency!
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:04 PM
Nov 2021

Funny, I always thought US Treasury controlled the only legal tender, but now that more and more stores are not accepting cash (something I thought was illegal), it is only a matter of time.

Not all change is good. Not all those who want to slow down the rate of change and consider the consequences are "obstinant old Foggies."

sir pball

(4,758 posts)
36. Cash is only legally required to be accepted for debt.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:49 PM
Nov 2021
[A]ll United States money as identified above are a valid and legal offer of payment for debts when tendered to a creditor. There is, however, no Federal statute mandating that a private business, a person or an organization must accept currency or coins as for payment for goods and/or services.


https://www.treasury.gov/resource-center/faqs/Currency/Pages/legal-tender.aspx

hlthe2b

(102,343 posts)
40. New Colorado law mandates state's businesses accept cash (other states passing similar laws)
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 05:32 PM
Nov 2021
https://www.vendingmarketwatch.com/home/news/21222930/new-colorado-law-mandates-states-businesses-accept-cash



https://www.pewtrusts.org/en/research-and-analysis/blogs/stateline/2021/05/11/paying-with-cash-retailers-must-take-your-dollars-in-these-states
Paying With Cash? Retailers Must Take Your Dollars in These States
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In recent years, left-leaning leaders in cities such as New York, Philadelphia and San Francisco, as well as in the state of New Jersey, have enacted similar laws to protect unbanked customers who rely on cash. Massachusetts has required businesses to accept cash since 1978.


The idea gained traction this year, after public health measures and scattered coin shortages made it more difficult for some consumers to make cash purchases in 2020. Republican lawmakers in Idaho, Mississippi and North Dakota proposed bills that would require shops and restaurants to accept cash, and Washington, D.C.’s City Council voted on a cash transaction bill.

While the bills in Democratic-controlled Colorado and Washington, D.C., passed, the red state proposals did not. Many Republicans opposed the bills, siding with business groups that argue retailers should be free to choose how to serve their customers.

Scrivener7

(50,993 posts)
5. YES!!!!!! Also, dear hairdresser:
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:05 PM
Nov 2021

No, I don't want to rate the process of making an appointment.

No, I don't want to rate the rating thing that rates the process of making an appointment.

I have confirmed three times that I will be there for my appointment. I will effing be there!

No, I don't want to give you my email. Because you are my damn HAIRDRESSER and you don't need to email me.

Please leave me alone. We are not dating. You are cutting my hair. Stop stalking me!!!

catchnrelease

(1,945 posts)
32. Oh YES!!! This!
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:32 PM
Nov 2021

I get this kind of stuff now from almost every appointment I go to! Primary dr, chiropractor, eye dr, massage therapist, dog groomer, etc etc! Please rate us how many stars? So, ok I give them some stars. But that's not enough, then they want to go leave a review on yelp or facebook and so on! Give me a break, just do your job properly, I'll pay you and leave me alone!!

Also with the confirming appointments as you said. Once I don't mind as a reminder, but it's always several times.

Ironically, my hair guy is the one that doesn't do it. We've been 'together' for about 40yrs now, so he sends me a text the day before--'See you tomorrow at 10?' and I send back a and we're good. No reviews or stars, lol.

Wounded Bear

(58,698 posts)
6. Almost as annoying as those websites the push their app before you can log on...
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:05 PM
Nov 2021

and there is no way to bypass the app request. Nope, you have to click through it every time you log on.

Kind of discourages you from visiting, no?

localroger

(3,629 posts)
25. Actually Paypal has been regulated like a bank for years now
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:57 PM
Nov 2021

Somewhere along the line the regulators pointed out to them that if you are acting like a bank you have to observe the banking rules even if you prefer not to think of yourself as a bank. That's also why they started paying interest on money held in Paypal accounts.

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
12. My experiences with local grocery stores echo the poster.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 12:39 PM
Nov 2021

If something is on “sale” you must have their app installed on your phone to get the sale price.
Just happened to me the other day at Target. Cashier gave me the sale price on the promise that I would install the app when I got home. I didn’t…..

aggiesal

(8,923 posts)
18. I have an app that stores all my other "Apps" Username & Passwords ...
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:37 PM
Nov 2021

Last count I had over 600+ accounts.
The majority are for Job Placement accounts, so I find those worth keeping.
I also have apps from Medical, Financial and other such necessities.

But I refuse to continue to create accounts for stores or services, just because I want to buy something.

If I want to transfer money to a store for payment or a family member, there is GPay, Venmo, Zelle, CashApp, ApplePay & Square,
because everyone uses something different.

My family members want to do a conference call so they set up a Zoom call, I refused to create an account with Zoom, because I use Google Meet.

Constantly wanting to create more accounts.
Unless I use it on a monthly basis, I will not create an account.

jmowreader

(50,562 posts)
20. The most aggravating one to me is the Adobe CC popup
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:43 PM
Nov 2021

This damned popup comes up at random times while you’re using Illustrator or Photoshop asking you if you’d recommend their programs to others. One day I was working on a very important color correction when it came up, and I answered it as follows:

From 1 to 10, I put a 1.
In the explanation box, I put “I was doing very important work on deadline in your overpriced rental software when you started begging for affirmation. If there was even one program out there that did what yours does, your programs would be off my computer this very day.”

(And no, GIMP won’t work as a substitute. It can’t do CMYK, it can’t do duotones and it won’t edit IPSC metadata - all things I use regularly.)

I don’t see that popup anymore.

Beartracks

(12,821 posts)
26. I didn't realize GIMP doesn't do CMYK.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:59 PM
Nov 2021

That seems like an important oversight.

You can't even view your RGB image to see how it would look in CMYK?

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jmowreader

(50,562 posts)
28. When I found out it has no CMYK support, I deleted it
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:20 PM
Nov 2021

GIMP is a good program for web creators and amateur photographers but I’m using it in an industrial setting. Like it or not, I’m stuck using Photoshop.

nuxvomica

(12,438 posts)
23. I was quite inrigued by the Oculus VR
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 01:56 PM
Nov 2021

The price didn't bother me but I decided not to get it because it absolutely requires a Facebook account, which carries far too much baggage on its own.

Earlier this year when so many of us oldsters were scrambling for a vaccine appointment, I created a Walgreen's account because I had to in order to be notified when vaccine scheduling was available. I wound up getting the vaccine at a CVS, without creating an account.

No matter where I go on the internet, I feel I am swatting flies all the time: to agree to cookie policies, to avoid getting notifications in my email, to purchase something as "guest", etc. Walking into a store and paying for something in cash is unexpectedly a delight.

petronius

(26,603 posts)
44. Same here - Oculus looked cool, but FB was a dealbreaker. I'll get into VR sometime
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 07:49 PM
Nov 2021

when there's a cleaner option...

marieo1

(1,402 posts)
30. Total Agreement
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:29 PM
Nov 2021

Another one as sick of all the BS as I am. You cannot just go online and purchase something from a site, it doesn't make any difference what site it is - they are all the same.

bucolic_frolic

(43,258 posts)
31. Excellent OP!
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 02:30 PM
Nov 2021

There's no time to install and use apps. I'm already storing and sorting email. And bills. Which come with wads of promos. I swear 20% of the economy is marketing offers that few use.

Pobeka

(4,999 posts)
38. But information is a valuable commodity. How can they make money without your information?
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 03:04 PM
Nov 2021

Oh, I suppose you are old fashioned like me and think they can just charge and amount, and if you think it's worth it just buy it.

Seriously though, this is the Facebook lesson -- information is valuable, extremely valuable.
*Everyone* wants in on the deal, to capture specific information about you and then resell that information

It's infuriating.

lostnfound

(16,189 posts)
39. The waste of the American mind. Advertised to death.
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 03:34 PM
Nov 2021

Eighty year old man with not much engagement watches television. Poor eyesight, or he would read books. Technology changes so fast, or maybe he would be set up on Netflix or something.

As his days are precious it troubles me to see the absence of decent television, and whatever he watches, he is subjected to at least 15 minutes of inane advertising in every hour.

As we all are.

To get us to buy more stuff than we need, while the planet burns from overconsumption.


Sympthsical

(9,097 posts)
41. I save tons of money on the Safeway app
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 05:45 PM
Nov 2021

The deals and coupons change every Wednesday, and we do our shopping on Fridays since as it's $5 Friday then. Combined, it's pretty sweet. You can double it up with manufacturer's coupons sometimes. My partner got a thing of Breyer's ice cream for like a buck last week. And since it's all attached to the phone number I type in, I'm still checking out at a normal pace.

It's crazy convenient for me. We usually do our shopping list on my phone while watching TV and save a bunch of money that week.

If people don't like it, that's cool.

FakeNoose

(32,725 posts)
43. All of the above ... PLUS stop sending me emails every freaking day!
Tue Nov 2, 2021, 07:29 PM
Nov 2021

My God I'm sick of the emails.

Yes I'm loyal to certain stores and retails outlets - UNTIL THEY DRIVE ME AWAY with their incessant emails.
Then I'm done.

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