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So is it totally cool to wear pajamas everywhere now? (Original Post) milestogo Nov 2021 OP
Who cares. I might run to convenience store in my perfectly acceptable LizBeth Nov 2021 #1
Probably Joinfortmill Nov 2021 #3
I agree. Who cares? Peregrine Took Nov 2021 #13
+1. I switch it around a bit. All about comfort. I am covered and clean, lol. LizBeth Nov 2021 #15
Not new. Elessar Zappa Nov 2021 #2
Saw the same thing in my classes way back when. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2021 #21
It does seem to be a thing. In my lifetime the way people Tomconroy Nov 2021 #4
Here in Wilmington, whatever you wore in college is currently in style.No matter when it was Walleye Nov 2021 #35
If there are people in shetland sweaters, corduroys and boat shoes Tomconroy Nov 2021 #38
I'm sure you could find that, if you looked around Walleye Nov 2021 #49
I will shock the world next summer. I just bought a pair of Tomconroy Nov 2021 #51
👍 Walleye Nov 2021 #52
Seems like I see someone wearing them at the airport everytime I fly Thomas Hurt Nov 2021 #5
I saw a man in pj bottoms at the pharmacy yesterday. Ilsa Nov 2021 #6
I think I have seen that same man! BlackSkimmer Nov 2021 #58
Funny, given that was the subject of nightmares as a child (showing up in school in pjs) hlthe2b Nov 2021 #7
Underwear or less was a more common nightmare for many, I think. tblue37 Nov 2021 #14
I still have those dreams occasionally EYESORE 9001 Nov 2021 #25
We actually had a kid in middle school shoe up in PJs Ms. Toad Nov 2021 #63
Who cares. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2021 #8
Huh. And I thought I was way out there marybourg Nov 2021 #9
WWBLW? blm Nov 2021 #10
Sounds like they were comfortable. Good for them. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2021 #11
Anytime you see a woman in leggins FakeNoose Nov 2021 #12
It is if they are fit and the leggings are not see-through pandr32 Nov 2021 #23
Wait. Women should only wear them if they're fit? leftstreet Nov 2021 #31
Answering the "not a good look" leggings reference pandr32 Nov 2021 #44
Why are leggings "not a good look for women"? obamanut2012 Nov 2021 #24
It was common on campus about twenty years ago central scrutinizer Nov 2021 #16
I can mentally see and hear my Grandma disapprove pandr32 Nov 2021 #17
Pajamas are history - I go shopping in a Snuggie Effete Snob Nov 2021 #18
Hey that has been the uniform of many a club crawl. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2021 #27
It's been acceptable since they invented Lularoe! N/t liberal_mama Nov 2021 #19
Yep. Wrote a song about it: "Someday I'll wear pajamas in the daytime!" LakeArenal Nov 2021 #20
Haven't heard these guys since there song "Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm". n/t Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2021 #32
My favorite album at the time. LakeArenal Nov 2021 #33
I hope it is obamanut2012 Nov 2021 #22
In winter.. luvs2sing Nov 2021 #26
Sweats by another name tirebiter Nov 2021 #28
Funny this subject came up because I recently bought a kimono. So far the farthest I have worn it dameatball Nov 2021 #29
I would like to reply 48656c6c6f20 Nov 2021 #30
I would rather see someone in pajamas than a kid having to hold up Baitball Blogger Nov 2021 #34
No. Though, I will wear my gym pants. sakabatou Nov 2021 #36
Yes, they came out in full force Nov. 2016 election and I had to help them vote MagickMuffin Nov 2021 #37
As you can see from this thread, Elessar Zappa Nov 2021 #46
I hate seeing pajamas and/or bedroom slippers in public. Wingus Dingus Nov 2021 #39
Exactly. Looks sloppy. Owl Nov 2021 #70
My son and his wife went to the movies in pjs some years ago and met her boss. nt LAS14 Nov 2021 #40
I do for my early morning grocery store runs! bif Nov 2021 #41
Lots of possible explanations - maybe a quirky birthday event. maxsolomon Nov 2021 #42
There is something about getting dressed that makes you feel better. milestogo Nov 2021 #43
Maybe they don't care what anyone thinks. Elessar Zappa Nov 2021 #47
Maybe they are depressed. milestogo Nov 2021 #53
I don't care what anyone thinks. BlackSkimmer Nov 2021 #59
I had an elderly friend I used to visit at her genteel retirement home. I swear it was the Tomconroy Nov 2021 #65
I wear them to take out trash Tree Lady Nov 2021 #45
Wear scrubs to work. Kinda like pajamas ismnotwasm Nov 2021 #48
I don't really care what people wear. MineralMan Nov 2021 #50
Loungewear iemanja Nov 2021 #54
In a classless society it proper to act like you don't have any. Sneederbunk Nov 2021 #55
Fabric bigotry Cartoonist Nov 2021 #56
It's not cool to wear them in the pool, eShirl Nov 2021 #57
Why worry? blogslug Nov 2021 #60
It's just clothing. Torchlight Nov 2021 #61
Damn kids these days... jcgoldie Nov 2021 #62
Only if they're camo shanti Nov 2021 #64
You must have missed the memo...Been going about 12 years or so. LeftInTX Nov 2021 #66
All of my daughter's schools would encourage this janterry Nov 2021 #67
That is considered formal wear at Walmart. nt doc03 Nov 2021 #68
In Germany, during Fasching, yeah. Aristus Nov 2021 #69
No. Suits are a lot cooler question everything Nov 2021 #71
Why do you care??? Weird! Nt USALiberal Nov 2021 #72

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
1. Who cares. I might run to convenience store in my perfectly acceptable
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:47 PM
Nov 2021

cotton comfy warm sweatpant type bottoms.

Peregrine Took

(7,416 posts)
13. I agree. Who cares?
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:58 PM
Nov 2021

The old rules are over. As long as you are covered (!) and clean - be comfortable.

Elessar Zappa

(14,022 posts)
2. Not new.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:48 PM
Nov 2021

When I was in college 15 years ago a lot of students came to class in pajamas. Oh well, to each their own.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
21. Saw the same thing in my classes way back when.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:07 PM
Nov 2021

Heck I was one of them wearing them my freshman year.
The only class for communication history was at 8am.

 

Tomconroy

(7,611 posts)
4. It does seem to be a thing. In my lifetime the way people
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:49 PM
Nov 2021

dress in public has changed so much. I dress the way I did in college. Nobody looks like me.

Walleye

(31,035 posts)
49. I'm sure you could find that, if you looked around
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:59 PM
Nov 2021

I am partial to Madras clothes. I used to love the pink and gray combinations in the 50s.And of course everyone’s been wearing jeans and T-shirts for the last 60 years.

 

Tomconroy

(7,611 posts)
51. I will shock the world next summer. I just bought a pair of
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 02:02 PM
Nov 2021

Patch madras shorts. I know summer will return.

Thomas Hurt

(13,903 posts)
5. Seems like I see someone wearing them at the airport everytime I fly
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:50 PM
Nov 2021

not a big thing considering what some people wear to Walmart, if the videos are to be believed

Ilsa

(61,696 posts)
6. I saw a man in pj bottoms at the pharmacy yesterday.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:52 PM
Nov 2021

They fit poorly, and the drawstring must have been gone and the elastic worn out. He had to hold them up with one hand the entire time. That's where I draw the line: you should wear clothes that don't fall off when you raise your hands.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
58. I think I have seen that same man!
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 03:02 PM
Nov 2021

I can’t imagine going out of the house in pajamas, personally.

EYESORE 9001

(25,962 posts)
25. I still have those dreams occasionally
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:12 PM
Nov 2021

except it’s buck nekkidness. PJs or underwear would be greatly appreciated in those dreams.

Ms. Toad

(34,085 posts)
63. We actually had a kid in middle school shoe up in PJs
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 03:07 PM
Nov 2021

That was a case of child abuse, though. He had been sent to school in pjs as a punishment for some infraction of the house rules. (Not the first time the parents' disciplinary methods came to the attention of the school.)

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
8. Who cares.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:54 PM
Nov 2021

Anyone who wore anything fashionable in the past... I dunno, entire history of mankind... is not really in a position to judge how people these days choose to dress.

marybourg

(12,633 posts)
9. Huh. And I thought I was way out there
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:55 PM
Nov 2021

wearing house-dresses (somewhat disguised as going-to-the -pool wear) to the supermarket, etc.

FakeNoose

(32,706 posts)
12. Anytime you see a woman in leggins
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 12:57 PM
Nov 2021

... well, that's basically pajamas. To me leggins ARE pajamas, or else they're long-johns (as in thermal underwear).

To me it's not a good look for women to wear leggins in public.

pandr32

(11,601 posts)
23. It is if they are fit and the leggings are not see-through
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:09 PM
Nov 2021

The thing with leggings is that they kind of started as footless tights and worn with longer tops or sweater dresses so one never really saw the butt area. They evolved into workout wear, and now everyday wear with any length top. They are not forgiving. Some (gawd!!!) are light colored and semi-sheer after being stretched out.

pandr32

(11,601 posts)
44. Answering the "not a good look" leggings reference
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:36 PM
Nov 2021

I countered they can be and gave the fit person answer as an example. I also gave others but pointed out that leggings are not very forgiving and can be semi-sheer when stretched out.
Is that a problem?

pandr32

(11,601 posts)
17. I can mentally see and hear my Grandma disapprove
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:03 PM
Nov 2021

She always taught us that, no matter what, we put on proper clothing when going out in public. It became the norm for us.
When I see people out wearing pajamas or old stained clothes I assume they either are too poor to do otherwise or are in their own world. The latter seems to becoming the norm now.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
27. Hey that has been the uniform of many a club crawl.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:14 PM
Nov 2021

Even did one at the end of my freshman year. Then I had to grow back up because I got a early morning job at a TV station at the start of my sophomore year.

obamanut2012

(26,094 posts)
22. I hope it is
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:08 PM
Nov 2021

Seriously, who cares? We shouldn't care anyway, but after the last couple years, this is really something that matters?

luvs2sing

(2,220 posts)
26. In winter..
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:12 PM
Nov 2021

I frequently spend the whole day in my Jammie’s if I’m not going any farther than the back yard to chase the dog back in the house. I figure I’ve spent the whole damn night getting those clothes warm, and I’m not taking them off without a good reason.

dameatball

(7,399 posts)
29. Funny this subject came up because I recently bought a kimono. So far the farthest I have worn it
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:22 PM
Nov 2021

is to haul the trash can out to the road.

 

48656c6c6f20

(7,638 posts)
30. I would like to reply
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:23 PM
Nov 2021

But I am 403 forbidden
Anyhoo. I don't care if they only wear a mask they are OK in my book. Hm maybe a new trend, mask only Fridays oh yeah

Baitball Blogger

(46,753 posts)
34. I would rather see someone in pajamas than a kid having to hold up
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:27 PM
Nov 2021

his pants with his hand because he wants them them to droop below his butt cheeks and show off his dirty underwear.

MagickMuffin

(15,950 posts)
37. Yes, they came out in full force Nov. 2016 election and I had to help them vote
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:29 PM
Nov 2021


That did in for me working elections. I cannot help people vote for grifters.


Elessar Zappa

(14,022 posts)
46. As you can see from this thread,
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:38 PM
Nov 2021

it’s not just Republicans who go out in pajamas. And why not, pajamas are comfortable. As long as the clothes are clean I don’t really have a problem with what people choose to wear.

Wingus Dingus

(8,059 posts)
39. I hate seeing pajamas and/or bedroom slippers in public.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:31 PM
Nov 2021

They just fucking gave up on getting themselves dressed, apparently.

bif

(22,733 posts)
41. I do for my early morning grocery store runs!
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:33 PM
Nov 2021

I go about every other week at 7 a.m. I really don't care who sees me. Actually, the store is practically empty.

maxsolomon

(33,360 posts)
42. Lots of possible explanations - maybe a quirky birthday event.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:34 PM
Nov 2021

but no, it is not "totally cool". It's a kid thing - up through college.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
43. There is something about getting dressed that makes you feel better.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:35 PM
Nov 2021

When my relative was in assisted living, all the ladies came to meals nicely dressed. I guess they could have come in their nighties, but putting on clothes gives you a sense of normalcy and social decorum.

Staying in your pajamas all day is a way of saying I don't care what anybody thinks.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
53. Maybe they are depressed.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 02:04 PM
Nov 2021

Not taking care of yourself is a symptom of depression. I think there are a lot of people suffering right now and this may be a symptom of it.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
59. I don't care what anyone thinks.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 03:04 PM
Nov 2021

But I do care what I think.

Wearing nightclothes out of the house is just sad, imo.

 

Tomconroy

(7,611 posts)
65. I had an elderly friend I used to visit at her genteel retirement home. I swear it was the
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 03:10 PM
Nov 2021

last place in America where every man came to dinner wearing a jacket and tie. Elder Style!

Tree Lady

(11,482 posts)
45. I wear them to take out trash
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 01:37 PM
Nov 2021

In front yard, my neighbors must be used to it. I step it up to slip on pants and shirt when I shop, my big hurrah is I put I long dangly earrings that will still show up with mask. I pull them over strap. I have a ton of hats all kinds and mix that up too, my style.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
50. I don't really care what people wear.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 02:02 PM
Nov 2021

Even so, the clothes you wear do say something about you. People make judgments based on clothing all the time.

That said, if you ever see me in anything other than jeans, a shirt, and athletic shoe style hikers, I must be going to a funeral.

Sneederbunk

(14,297 posts)
55. In a classless society it proper to act like you don't have any.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 02:18 PM
Nov 2021

Remember, today's slobs were yesterday's slobs.

Cartoonist

(7,320 posts)
56. Fabric bigotry
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 02:26 PM
Nov 2021

What's the problem? I think leather pants look ridiculous, but if the wearer is comfortable, it's their business.

eShirl

(18,496 posts)
57. It's not cool to wear them in the pool,
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 02:32 PM
Nov 2021

but you can wear rashguards that look like a set of longjohns.

Torchlight

(3,358 posts)
61. It's just clothing.
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 03:06 PM
Nov 2021

I've known of people who cry foul when someone in sweats boards an airplane or walks into a library. I'll never really understand that view. I guess we're just a very fashion-oriented consumer base. Or maybe what others wear gives us a chance to feel self-satisfied at their expense or something.

As far as I care, if it covers what it's supposed to cover, and doesn't smell bad, I can ignore it easier than white paint on a white wall.

 

janterry

(4,429 posts)
67. All of my daughter's schools would encourage this
Mon Nov 8, 2021, 03:15 PM
Nov 2021

by setting aside days when one would wear pajamas.

She and I both agreed this was not something to be done, lol. She has never worn pajamas in public. Nor have I.

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