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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsBeneath the mystery of Tom Brady's greatness is a modest secret: Self-discipline
If youre offered $400 now but you can have $550 by waiting three months, which do you take: the quick cash or more money later? The answer to that question says something about your ability to compete with Tom Brady. Because he will wait. And then he will wait some more. He will give up todays fun for tomorrows reward, and eventually he will bury you with all the loose change that is the difference between his self-discipline and your itch for immediate gratification.
At 44, with most of his peers retired, limping or clutching at the disks in their backs, Brady is on a blitzing pace to throw for more than 5,000 yards and 50 touchdowns this season as he and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers approach Sundays game with the Washington Football Team. This is a feat worthy of gaping incredulity, and it raises the question of what makes Bradys clock tick. It would be sooooo convenient to think Brady came preloaded with some unattainable, far-fetched genetic gift not relevant to you. The simple truth may be more banal and exposing than that. His longevity may just be the product of better habits than yours and mine.
The behavioral-science term for the inability to reject immediate gratification in favor of a bigger gain is delayed reward discounting. People who delay-discount tend to perceive something as less valuable the longer they have to wait and work for it. Whereas others are stronger at setting and attaining more distant-horizon goals. This is one of the most relevant predictors of long-term success, according to Michael Sofis, a senior scientist with health services consultant firm Advocates for Human Potential. And its undoubtedly a contributor to Bradys sheer longevity. He was in his 30s when he started training for his 40s, quitting sugar and white flour, among other steps. And he works in May for what might happen in February. Consider this story about him.
In the spring of 2020, in the midst of the coronavirus outbreak, Brady participated in the Match II, the made-for-TV golf exhibition with Phil Mickelson and Tiger Woods in Florida. It was hot and raining. Nevertheless, a couple of hours before tee-off, Charles Barkley saw Brady in the parking lot of the golf club. He was running sprints. What the hell are you doing? Barkley said.
Im trying to win a Super Bowl, Brady replied.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/2021/11/12/tom-brady-age-longevity-discipline/
jimfields33
(15,978 posts)I think its awesome that he doesnt mind a bit that his wife makes more then he does. Hes definitely a modern guy with an incredible work ethic. Many should emulate him but dont to their detriment.
Sympthsical
(9,121 posts)They followed the kids through their lives. The children who could delay instant gratification tended to do better in life.
Somewhat counterintuitively (and hilariously), children are better at this than adults.