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packman

(16,296 posts)
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 04:48 PM Nov 2021

Non-rich people on what made them feel "Rich"

"Those fridges with the water dispenser on it."

."Being able to buy something you need without having to ask yourself how badly you need it."

."Scheduling regular doctor's office visits or seeing a dentist for anything other than an emergency."

."Eating pizza because you want to, not because it's $2."

"There's a line from Nick in New Girl that describes being well off as 'filling your gas tank up all the way rich.' That was the rich I wanted to be. Comfortable. Also, not having to do math in the grocery store to see what food you can buy. I hated that.

."Having nice teeth that don't cause constant, debilitating pain."

"I'm showing my age here, but having a shower in your house. Back in the day, only people with money had showers. We all only had baths."

"Being able to get a new mattress."

More on people feeling " Rich"

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/ordering-appetizers-having-basketball-hoop-031602102.html

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Non-rich people on what made them feel "Rich" (Original Post) packman Nov 2021 OP
Being able to turn on the lights in your house at night without worrying about bill collectors Midnight Writer Nov 2021 #1
and telephone calls Piasladic Nov 2021 #8
Income Percentile Calculator for the United States Xipe Totec Nov 2021 #2
I remember when my kids were real little and how much we struggled back then. FM123 Nov 2021 #3
god yeah Piasladic Nov 2021 #11
Tipping well... lapucelle Nov 2021 #4
Yes Hekate Nov 2021 #10
Good article. House I lived in for first 6 months of my life did not have running water until a few Hoyt Nov 2021 #5
Ditto. Indoor plumbing was installed in 1971. I lived there for the first three years of my life. ❤ littlemissmartypants Nov 2021 #20
Feeding half the neighborhood Xipe Totec Nov 2021 #6
Knowing your car will work. Xavier Breath Nov 2021 #7
"Filling your gas tank all the way up to the top" rich. Aristus Nov 2021 #9
I remember just driving around with a few friends. We'd chip in for gas. JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 2021 #24
When I was 9, I found a $5 bill. It was so much money I didn't know what to do with it . . . Journeyman Nov 2021 #12
Paying for a major car repair in cash. LakeArenal Nov 2021 #13
First time I paid cash for a new car... VarryOn Nov 2021 #14
Time. Having time to do things I want to do without feeling guilty... TygrBright Nov 2021 #15
I always said justgamma Nov 2021 #16
Being able to buy things you want, not just the things you need. patphil Nov 2021 #17
I look at one number bucolic_frolic Nov 2021 #18
Not having to buy retreads. Lars39 Nov 2021 #19
I remember the day when my son said... Delmette2.0 Nov 2021 #21
Spacing out and almost crying over the meat counter. littlemissmartypants Nov 2021 #22
Being able to adopt a cat. Nt spooky3 Nov 2021 #23
Being able to grocery shop without a calculator in hand Bettie Nov 2021 #25
When I was a kid, I used to think having a pool table in the basement did the trick. PatrickforB Nov 2021 #26
Couldn't reply there so I'll do it here... Whatthe_Firetruck Nov 2021 #27
lol, I misread one of the lines and thought "now that IS rich"... getagrip_already Nov 2021 #28
Oh my ... Delphinus Nov 2021 #29

Midnight Writer

(21,795 posts)
1. Being able to turn on the lights in your house at night without worrying about bill collectors
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 04:54 PM
Nov 2021

When I was a kid, my Mom raised four kids on her own while working full time plus.

We were not allowed to turn on the lights in the house at night because then the bill collectors would know we were home.

Bill collectors were like the boogieman to us.

Xipe Totec

(43,890 posts)
2. Income Percentile Calculator for the United States
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 04:56 PM
Nov 2021

Useful tool for figuring out where your income stands relative to the rest of the US population.

https://dqydj.com/income-percentile-calculator/

FM123

(10,054 posts)
3. I remember when my kids were real little and how much we struggled back then.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 04:57 PM
Nov 2021

My kids are grown now and don't seem to remember what I remember - but this one line I read felt like I could have written it:

"That, and mom eating along with us normally instead of pretending that the crust is her favorite part and that's why she'd eat the crust we'd leave."

Piasladic

(1,160 posts)
11. god yeah
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 05:30 PM
Nov 2021

Imagine a mom pretending not to be hungry so her kids could eat without guilt. Imagine growing up and understanding what happened. Your mom going hungry so you could eat.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
5. Good article. House I lived in for first 6 months of my life did not have running water until a few
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 05:02 PM
Nov 2021

years later.

Don't wish that on anyone. I did have an uncle who still preferred the outhouse decades later.



Xipe Totec

(43,890 posts)
6. Feeding half the neighborhood
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 05:04 PM
Nov 2021

Coming home with six to twelve neighborhood friends in tow and having a place at the table for all of them.

Didn't matter that we all ate rice & beans, but that every one of them was fed.

Xavier Breath

(3,650 posts)
7. Knowing your car will work.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 05:09 PM
Nov 2021

My parents divorced and my Mom and I had little money. The cars we had were second hand, held together by rust and always seemed to be prone to breaking down. My mom's biggest fear was the car not working, or breaking down while we were out somewhere. Having a car that was in good repair, or even a new car, that was being rich to us.

Aristus

(66,460 posts)
9. "Filling your gas tank all the way up to the top" rich.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 05:23 PM
Nov 2021

I can remember as a working adult the very first time I was able to fill my gas tank to the top. I felt like I had arrived, and that I could finally stop worrying about money. The feeling was fleeting, since worrying about money is a very human thing to do.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,364 posts)
24. I remember just driving around with a few friends. We'd chip in for gas.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 07:02 PM
Nov 2021

Back then, $5 would fill the tank with enough change left over for a pack of Camels.

My first real job, at a factory, I made so much money I couldn't imagine spending it all. That didn't last long: Uncle Sam and LBJ had other plans for this Bozo, off to basic training.

Journeyman

(15,038 posts)
12. When I was 9, I found a $5 bill. It was so much money I didn't know what to do with it . . .
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 05:46 PM
Nov 2021

Even then, I realized I'd never be that rich ever again. And here I am, 60 years later, still convinced those were my glory days.

TygrBright

(20,763 posts)
15. Time. Having time to do things I want to do without feeling guilty...
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 06:10 PM
Nov 2021

...because I'm not "working".

wearily,
Bright

justgamma

(3,666 posts)
16. I always said
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 06:22 PM
Nov 2021

with 4 kids that if I had enough towels to last all week, I'd be rich. Also My hubby , raised in a very poor family with 7 kids, refused to eat until we were all done eating.

littlemissmartypants

(22,796 posts)
22. Spacing out and almost crying over the meat counter.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 06:52 PM
Nov 2021

Wanting to make homemade chili but not able to afford even the cheap hamburger. I just wanted some meat, beef to be exact, but I couldn't afford it. I can still see the image of the memory in my mind. I bought a can of tuna instead.

I lived mostly on potatoes. I made my own chips and salted them by shaking them around in a large paper grocery shopping bag.

Now, I can buy prime rib and I make double stuffed potatoes. Even though I don't buy it very often, I rarely linger at the meat counter at all. I get what I want and go without giving it a second thought.

Bettie

(16,124 posts)
25. Being able to grocery shop without a calculator in hand
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 07:13 PM
Nov 2021

that's mine.

Oh, and being able to afford to get myself a coffee when I'm in town. (We're 40 minutes out of town)

PatrickforB

(14,587 posts)
26. When I was a kid, I used to think having a pool table in the basement did the trick.
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 07:24 PM
Nov 2021

I eventually was able to get one, and soon found out that pool tables and other 'status' trappings really are kind of meaningless.

Nowadays, here in this capitalist utopia that is 'Murika, I'd like the luxury of being able to actually go get my teeth fixed, and feel comfortable with regular doctor visits - because, hey, we live in days of crummy, rationed healthcare with financially crippling copays.

Whatthe_Firetruck

(558 posts)
27. Couldn't reply there so I'll do it here...
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 07:47 PM
Nov 2021

...women wearing all white, especially during their period without a care.

For the rest of us, particularly those with irregular periods, it just was not a thing. We also owned a fair number of black pants to wear 'just in case'.

getagrip_already

(14,837 posts)
28. lol, I misread one of the lines and thought "now that IS rich"...
Sun Nov 14, 2021, 07:51 PM
Nov 2021

"Being able to get a new mattress."

I read mattress as mistress.

Very rich indeed.

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