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choie

(4,111 posts)
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 03:39 PM Dec 2021

My sister has covid

I can't believe it. She suffers from depression and other health issues and has gone out of her apartment approximately three times since March 2020. I'm the only person who goes into her apartment (I live a floor below her) so I must have given it to her. I work from home and go out not even once a day (with a mask) and am vaccinated and boosted. What the hell??

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My sister has covid (Original Post) choie Dec 2021 OP
Sending hugs and well wishes for you and your sister. mucifer Dec 2021 #1
Did she get a PCR test? LisaL Dec 2021 #2
No she took a home test choie Dec 2021 #5
Does she have symptoms? There's a small chance of false alarm with home tests. Klaralven Dec 2021 #20
Yes she does have a bad sore throat and feeling achy choie Dec 2021 #28
Sorry to hear that wendyb-NC Dec 2021 #3
This goddamn virus is a motherfucker Walleye Dec 2021 #4
Thanks everybody for your good wishes! choie Dec 2021 #6
Dang. My she have a complete recovery! electric_blue68 Dec 2021 #7
What kind of ventilation system does the complex have? NickB79 Dec 2021 #8
Yikes. What the hell? ecstatic Dec 2021 #9
Well spotted Hekate Dec 2021 #14
Good Catch ! Gilbert Moore Dec 2021 #15
yes, if cigarette smoke and cooking smells are transmitted internally, I can imagine COVID would too Demovictory9 Dec 2021 #16
Good point. I was trying to think of explanation:) Laura PourMeADrink Dec 2021 #24
And remember those cruise ships that couldn't dock? Laura PourMeADrink Dec 2021 #26
The shared ventilation is scary as hell I_UndergroundPanther Dec 2021 #38
Crossing my fingers she was vaccinated and boosted? n/t Ms. Toad Dec 2021 #10
Yes, she was! choie Dec 2021 #29
Then, with luck, it will be mild. n/t Ms. Toad Dec 2021 #31
Hope she recovers quickly malaise Dec 2021 #37
does she have symptoms? orleans Dec 2021 #11
Yes, she has symptoms choie Dec 2021 #30
so glad to hear you both are vaxed & boosted --hopefully it will be uneventful, hoping your sister orleans Jan 2022 #41
Sorry to hear it. You did the right things, don't beat yourself up over it. patphil Dec 2021 #12
I'm so very sorry. Please do not blame yourself. It is very likely to be the Omicron variant... Hekate Dec 2021 #13
This thing is so ubiquitous! And as another poster said, maybe it's the ventilation system? deurbano Dec 2021 #17
Could be ventilation system. SheltieLover Dec 2021 #18
My husband has it, so I probably do too LeftInTX Dec 2021 #19
I'm so sorry MissB Dec 2021 #32
Yeah, getting shots frequently is a bit inconvenient. ShazzieB Dec 2021 #39
But young people think it's "like the flu" LeftInTX Dec 2021 #40
She was never vaccinated? Emile Dec 2021 #21
I posted earlier this week that my brother has it left-of-center2012 Dec 2021 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author traitorsgalore Dec 2021 #23
Every single one of us will get it, or live in a bubble forever. Jon King Dec 2021 #25
I am so sorry. I doubt you gave it to her and the home tests are supposedly not that reliable. LoisB Dec 2021 #27
The Reliability Concern... ProfessorGAC Dec 2021 #33
Good information. Thank you. LoisB Dec 2021 #34
Sorry to hear that Meowmee Dec 2021 #35
I'm sorry to hear that MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #36

wendyb-NC

(3,327 posts)
3. Sorry to hear that
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 03:47 PM
Dec 2021

Sending you both good vibes and well wishes. I hope she has the mildest case and gets better soon

NickB79

(19,243 posts)
8. What kind of ventilation system does the complex have?
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 04:40 PM
Dec 2021

It's possible for Covid to spread in apartments without direct exposure if they use shared ventilation systems. It has been documented before.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33346125/

Demovictory9

(32,456 posts)
16. yes, if cigarette smoke and cooking smells are transmitted internally, I can imagine COVID would too
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 05:46 PM
Dec 2021

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,470 posts)
38. The shared ventilation is scary as hell
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 09:25 PM
Dec 2021

In the case regarding covid.

I am so glad that each apartment where I live has its own hvac system for each apartment.

orleans

(34,051 posts)
11. does she have symptoms?
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 05:28 PM
Dec 2021

just wondering if the test could be a false positive
i don't know how common that is... but... ???

will you be testing yourself? we can still be contagious even if we are vaxed. hope your sister got a vaccine.
hope you are both okay.

choie

(4,111 posts)
30. Yes, she has symptoms
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 07:02 PM
Dec 2021

I went to get tested, but they pop up near me was closed. Both of us are vaccinated and boosted.

orleans

(34,051 posts)
41. so glad to hear you both are vaxed & boosted --hopefully it will be uneventful, hoping your sister
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 01:35 AM
Jan 2022

just has a mild case
hugs to both of you!

Hekate

(90,690 posts)
13. I'm so very sorry. Please do not blame yourself. It is very likely to be the Omicron variant...
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 05:38 PM
Dec 2021

Check overall symptoms, of course, but Omicron is so incredibly transmissible it seems it will be a miracle if we don’t all have a brush with it before 2022 is over.

All the best for your sister’s recovery. I know you are taking care of her, but please take care of yourself too.

LeftInTX

(25,337 posts)
19. My husband has it, so I probably do too
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 06:12 PM
Dec 2021

But we only have ourselves to blame. It was "Christmas with his family...40 people in room" mess.
Now his mother has it and is in the hospital.
We're all vaccinated and boosted.

But my mother in law has been dying for about a month and was told she needed a new aorta..She's 89 and can't withstand open heart surgery.
So, she had to have a big Christmas celebration because she's dying.

Now we're all gonna die..whoopie....
Well, hubby is gonna miss a week of work...

I do hope it gets my kids serious about their boosters and the grandkid's vaccinations. My son said, "I don't want to get shots every few months, it's a big pain"...

If my MIL dies of Covid, then they will always remember it as what killed grandma.

MissB

(15,808 posts)
32. I'm so sorry
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 07:32 PM
Dec 2021

I lost a relative recently due to a failing heart and no surgical options based on age and condition. It’s so hard.

Hope everyone bounces back ok.

ShazzieB

(16,399 posts)
39. Yeah, getting shots frequently is a bit inconvenient.
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 09:33 PM
Dec 2021

But it's a lot less inconvenient (and less of a pain) than dying of covid, so I'll take all the shots they want to give me, thankyouverymuch.

I wonder if he has a needle phobia? That's the only way his stance even almost makes sense to me.

LeftInTX

(25,337 posts)
40. But young people think it's "like the flu"
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 10:20 PM
Dec 2021

My nephew had it fairly early in 2020, so they figure it will be like the flu.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
22. I posted earlier this week that my brother has it
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 06:18 PM
Dec 2021

He received his two vaccinations plus the booster.
He's very good at wearing a mask everywhere he goes.
Yeah he got it.

He said he has severe cold or flu-like symptoms and can't taste anything.
He was told his loss of taste may last 10 weeks.

He has to quarantine for 10 days and he's taking cold flu over the counter medicine.
No fever.

Response to choie (Original post)

Jon King

(1,910 posts)
25. Every single one of us will get it, or live in a bubble forever.
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 06:33 PM
Dec 2021

There literally is no way to avoid the Omicron variant and future variants which will trend to being less severe but way more transmissible.

We all got vaxxed, we get boosted, we wear a mask for the sole reason of slowing this wave to lessen the pressure on hospitals. But there will be no way to avoid Covid going forward unless you choose to live exactly like a person with no immune system has to live....literally in a bubble with filtered air.

LoisB

(7,206 posts)
27. I am so sorry. I doubt you gave it to her and the home tests are supposedly not that reliable.
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 06:44 PM
Dec 2021

I hope she recovers quickly and fully.

ProfessorGAC

(65,042 posts)
33. The Reliability Concern...
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 07:38 PM
Dec 2021

...is more about false negatives, than false positives.
That said, I've seen contrary opinions about the tests, with some experts being so negative as to wholly discourage the use of at-home tests, and others saying the accuracy issues are overblown.
Which ever way one chooses to lean, it's more about getting a false sense of security than a negative that's not real.
Like any chemical test, the possibility of a false result exists. But, one direction is more impactful on overall public health.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
35. Sorry to hear that
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 08:35 PM
Dec 2021

Hugs to you all. Maybe it is a false positive, the at home otc tests are not that great. She should get treatment asap including a pcr test to confirm. I am not sure how it could happen but if someone other than you came to the door even, it could happen with omicron- it is so much more contagious. Maybe you had an asymptomatic case and didn't realize it. With my father we knew with no doubt he was negligently infected at the er.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,611 posts)
36. I'm sorry to hear that
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 09:19 PM
Dec 2021

It may not have been you that gave it to her. It could've been passed through your apartment buildings ventilation system or some other factor you're not aware of. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. A person can do everything right and still catch it.

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