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(297,260 posts)Betty White Lived..
The amount of press coverage she is getting is amazing.
I think the flags should be lowered to half-mast.
Cha
(297,260 posts)Sweetheart!💙
DURHAM D
(32,610 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,296 posts)"This is the most fun I've ever had standing up."
Cha
(297,260 posts)of Betty White & Pres Obama in the White House!
Rt TY!
Have you seen this sweet compilation of her over the years?💙
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=16199603
malaise
(269,020 posts)Loved her - genuinely authentic.
Joinfortmill
(14,425 posts)Fritz Walter
(4,291 posts)🥺
Skittles
(153,164 posts)Betty White didn't say it, but I too have never understood why THE most delicate body part is associated with courage.
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/betty-white-grow-some-balls/
ItsjustMe
(11,230 posts)Despite public denial, service records show The Golden Girls actress rose to the rank of staff sergeant in the Marine Corps Women's Reserve during World War II.
StClone
(11,683 posts)White was well-known, to me, as a vet. Bea, I did not.
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)Never fake nor phony, unless the part demanded it.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)A Real Woman, I'd say.
calimary
(81,295 posts)One might say she was "everybody's 'girl'." A genuine "America's Sweetheart."
I worked in entertainment coverage for years. Never heard a single word about her that wasn't complimentary at the least, and almost literally adoring at the most.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)She seems to have been a VERY nice person, and living to the age she did with her humor and "joi de vivre" intact is truly remarkable..Sure as hell hope I can do it he same!
calimary
(81,295 posts)Just charming! She loved gummy bears and pointed out a big glass container of them in her dressing room. FRESH gummy bears! She brought the container over and offered me some, and took a handful for herself. Then we did the interview.
How could you not love that woman? With or without gummy bears? Every time I eat some, Ill think of her.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)She sounds very natural, very down to earth..Correct me if I'm wrong, but, in that field, I'm guessing you had many opposite experiences?
calimary
(81,295 posts)Had a few shitty bosses. Worked with a few backstabbed. That was treacherous going.
But the WORK - it was always the WORK. You had to go out and witness it, report on it (sometimes live on the spot) and then write about it.
In that job I was hired as an entertainment reporter. However, if I was the only reporter-type in the bureau late at night or on a weekend and there was an airplane crash at LAX or a highrise fire downtown, theyd send me to that, too.
But ordinarily my beat was all-things-entertainment, the studios, the films, the TV series and specials, the strikes, any breaking news - from casting to firings, from new babies to obits, arrests and trials and personal appearances and premieres and interview junkets and everything else, and every event and ceremony from the Oscars to some celeb getting their star on the Walk of Fame.
It was fun, but it was also hard work. I had three TV networks and a set group of studios to cover. But now? Shit - there are so many outlets to keep track of, Im not sure whos coming and going anymore.
When I was hired at the AP, they had one guy at the base of ops in Washington covering it all, and quickly realized they had to have somebody in L.A. That turned out to be me. But soon enough, they also realized it was such a big mouthful to try to chew through that it needed to be further. subdivided. So they kept me on the TV/prime time/feature film beat and added three more people to cover music: rock, R&B, and what they called urban. So I didnt cover music-anything anymore. There were specialists too cover that end of things. Actually did me a favor, workload-wise.
I kept that gig til I retired because there were two new little people at home that I thought should get all my attention.
It was a wild ride while it happened, and a genuinely fun job! It was secure employment for the first time in my career. And it left me with a lot of cool stories to share - but only if/when somebody asks. I dont like arbitrary name-dropping.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)I'm jealous!..The closest I ever got to entertainment, professionally, was a job at a record producer/distribution company in the 70's, and then later, a script reading internship (I was a college film major) at Tri- Star Productions in New York.
Neither, of course, was anything like yours..Were you a journalism major in college and/ or grad school?
I admit, Calimary, to being a bit 'starstruck', so if you'd like to share some of your stories, either here or by pm, I am all ears.
calimary
(81,295 posts)NOTHING really. There was one magazine-writing class that I took, but that was IT.
My "education" was of the hands-on alternative kind. Four years at the college radio station - a real honest-to-goodness FM station (okay, 10 watts, but it was FM, NOT carrier current or some other not-ready-for-airtime platform. It was a real live FM station, and until KCRW got an increase in power, and suddenly, we didn't reach all the way into Santa Ana anymore.
I had all four years of my college experience right there. Sometimes it was literally EVERY day. I hung out there and helped out there when I wasn't actually on the air. I helmed a ragtag "news department," mainly because none of the guys in leadership positions wanted it - they all wanted to be station manager and program director and music director because of all the free albums the record companies were giving out by the shovelful. I got experience in on-air broadcasting, engineering, production, and promotion. Streaking was a suddenly-big fad on campus. And - uh - well, er - somebody had to cover it, 'eh? And that was usually me!
During the summer between sophomore and junior year, it occurred to me that maybe - could I maybe, just maybe, do this for a living? After all, there weren't many women as actual on-air practitioners at the time. Let's just say a woman in the newsroom always had the ladies' room all to herself. My dad had a friend who was an account executive (translation: salesman) at one of the big AM stations in L.A., and told him about me. He suggested I look into the news department. That hadn't really occurred to me because initially, I wanted to be an FM rock deejay. But the openings started coming in news, and who was I to "fight city hall," 'eh?" And the openings all came because they had guys on staff already and recognized that they needed to add a woman to the ranks. After all, the women's movement nationally was starting to get noisier about the lack of equal opportunities for women in MANY different professions, not just broadcasting.
So basically, I went looking when they were looking. And I had "credentials," such as they were, including the summer internship they gave me in that first newsroom. And I got TONS of experience just in those six weeks - writing/re-writing the news for the anchors, spending a week with the City Hall reporter, spending a week with the nightside reporter ("...a body found in Echo Park..." ), they even put me on the air while out in the field - when the on-air deejay had some regularly-scheduled chit-chat with the nightside guy and the nightside guy thought it'd be fun to do a brief interview with ME. (Evidently absolutely NOTHING was going on that night and they had to fill the time SOME way!)
After that summer, they heard about it at the college station and as soon as fall arrived, they handed me the news directorship, with the 20-or-20 new freshmen who'd crowded into the first staff meeting with stars in their eyes (and ears!) and wanting to be the next B. Mitchell Reed. And from there I realized that maybe I could do this as a real job someday.
And Every Single Thing I did - became a line in my fledgeling resume. And it actually mattered - especially back then. All of my first actual on-air jobs (for which I got paid) came my way SPECIFICALLY because they were looking for a woman for that job. For example - they had a guy in the morning, doing the morning news, a guy in the afternoon, doing the afternoon news - and on weekends/fill-ins/vacation relief - ? Or they had the news guy in the morning but that was it, and they realized they needed somebody ready to fill in (or take on an afternoon-news shift they'd just opened up) who wasn't just one of the jocks. And that kind of vacancy-filler turned out to be me.
TIMING WAS EVERYTHING. And for me the timing was perfect. Mid-to-late 70s - news shops all over the dial started opening up to women. And I just happened to be right there, experienced, available, and ready to get rolling.
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)Shes a real girl, not a fake phony girl.
I call my girlfriends girls. I know their age. I wish Betty had been my girlfriend.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)that I"m questioning, but, if you're a Democrat, you must know that most women beyond a certain age (90 Somethings for sure ) object to being
regarded as "girls".
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)I dont mind when someone calls me a girl. I am a girl.
niyad
(113,318 posts)is a female child. To accept being called a girl is to accept being treated as a child.
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)I will make sure I determine everyones age category before referring to their gender. I will call all my girlfriends womenfriends. No more Hey, Girl as a greeting. No more trips to the little girls room. Canasta night will not be boys against the girls.
I have been properly scorned for using a common word. Thanks, and Happy New Year.
erronis
(15,286 posts)I'm just a mid-70s boy, but I love the girls in my life (many older than me.)
whathehell
(29,067 posts)but can you imagine a 62 year old man being called a " boy"?.
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)But, Im not spending any more time answering questions or defending myself.
Happy New Year
Abolishinist
(1,298 posts)Your time would be better spend watching old episodes of "The Golden Women".
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)LisaM
(27,813 posts)Good one.
Happy New Year.
Abolishinist
(1,298 posts)I wonder what 'Golden Girl' Betty White would have to say about this discussion... I imagine it would be QUITE entertaining!
LisaM
(27,813 posts)I always loved her healthy attitude towards sex. Rock on, Betty.
albacore
(2,399 posts)When deaths like hers happen, I hate myself for thinking: "And yet trump still draws breath? There is no god/justice."
Piasladic
(1,160 posts)No heart, no pulse, and still evil, alive and well.
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,002 posts)senseandsensibility
(17,056 posts)RIP, Ms. White. Thanks for the memories.
JanMichael
(24,890 posts)Kind of weird in a way. She was a knock out in WWII and Sue Ann Nivens was one too in 70's. Go figure...
Hekate
(90,704 posts)burrowowl
(17,641 posts)RIP we will miss you very much!
Mysterian
(4,587 posts)We have lost our beloved queen.
TxGuitar
(4,191 posts)Dolly Parton.
KS Toronado
(17,243 posts)Mysterian
(4,587 posts)yardwork
(61,622 posts)ChazII
(6,205 posts)to grieve on this last day of the year.
DinahMoeHum
(21,791 posts)Rest In Peace, Betty White.
SeattleVet
(5,477 posts)Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Cozmo
(1,402 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,611 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,192 posts)They are both animal lovers and animal rights activists. When they were going to expand and improve the elephant habitat at the LA Zoo for their 25 year old elephant, Billy, she supported it. Bob was adamant that zoos absolutely should not have elephants and tried to block the project. The project was approved and Bob considered her his "enemy" ever since. She offered an olive branch a few years ago, but he refused to talk to her.
JHB
(37,160 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,192 posts)I understand his point, but short of moving the elephant to a sanctuary (and that is stressful), I think enlarging and improving his habitat was the next best thing. It's not like he could be released into the wild.
BigmanPigman
(51,599 posts)Now she will be reunited with 99 years of pets who have already passed on as well as her husband Allen.
Raine
(30,540 posts)for them really touched my heart.💓 A loss for the animals too with her leaving all of us. 💔
Joinfortmill
(14,425 posts)LoisB
(7,206 posts)Evolve Dammit
(16,736 posts)Rhiannon12866
(205,409 posts)sarge43
(28,941 posts)The AWVS was a civilian organization of women volunteers who provided support services, such couriers, canteen workers, truck drivers, fire fighters and much more. They don't have the recognition they earned and deserved.
There are many ways to serve and she did.
Skittles
(153,164 posts)from what I understand, she was not enlisted, but certainly she supported the military during wartime
MustLoveBeagles
(11,611 posts)She did it all didn't she? She will be missed.