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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSo our measure of time has brought us through another cycle
About 48 hours ago, I lost my significant other and I am in grief that may never end.
In this new cycle, even as I grieve my loss, I fear that all of us are about to lose our democracy and our freedoms.
And they will be lost to those who have no souls.
The term "politics" is meaningless to me at this time. I'm thinking about the concepts of decency and being human.
essaynnc
(801 posts)tough to lose during the holidays.. by strong, this too will get better !
Sucha NastyWoman
(2,749 posts)Yes, politics does not seem like a strong enough remedy to solve the problem of opponents who seem to have lost their humanity.
Can you tell us about your lost love, or is it not a good time right now?
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Not sure what the circumstances were, obviously, or where you are, but every hospice organization has a bereavement therapy department with professionals trained to help people to resolve their grief.
mia
(8,361 posts)I'm so sorry for the loss of your near and dear loved one.
dchill
(38,502 posts)Backseat Driver
(4,392 posts)To everything there is a season; may your season of grief be comforted and your season of joy return as it will
2naSalit
(86,642 posts)My condolences.
Take care of yourself for now and take what time you need, just remember to come back to those who know you and know they care. Stay within your circle until you feel string again, we'll be here, too.
mahina
(17,663 posts)How do we bear this kind of loss? In this mess too.
Hoping your can breathe. Sending aloha.
littlemissmartypants
(22,691 posts)ornotna
(10,801 posts)I hope you find peace in your heart this new year.
alwaysinasnit
(5,066 posts)electric_blue68
(14,906 posts)LoisB
(7,206 posts)calimary
(81,298 posts)Im so sorry.
Hard to put it into words.
Wish it could be more. Shit, we cant even hug safely
Ill be thinking about you all day.
Tree Lady
(11,470 posts)Sending you hugs and hoping for peace for you.
Meowmee
(5,164 posts)I hope you have support and friends.
Everything you said is true. We lost my father also and that was all that was in my mind, nothing will be same, he was murdered by those soulless people. They have caused much of what happened and what it looks like will happen. I would give anything to have made different choices and left years ago.
mercuryblues
(14,532 posts)For your profound loss.
in2herbs
(2,945 posts)you were not interested in participating, helps in the grieving process. For example, a friend lost a loved one who did volunteer work at an animal shelter. He never was interested but started volunteering at the shelter after she died. It helped with the grief he was experiencing because he brought happiness to the animals and that lessened his pain. Take it day by day.
yardwork
(61,622 posts)AwakeAtLast
(14,130 posts)BComplex
(8,053 posts)I'm so sorry for your loss.
It's those, like you, who have the capacity to love deeply, that is what makes this world worth fighting for.