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a kennedy

(29,672 posts)
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 08:54 PM Jan 2022

Now I'm starting to get pissed off...I did donate to Val Demings campaign against Marco Rubio....

And now EVERY DEMOCRAT RUNNING FOR CONGRESS IS ASKING, “CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE TO MY CAMPAIGN”?? 😡 😡 😡 I would if I was a millionaire, I’m not, I’m retired on a fixed income……..I want help them all, but damn, I can’t.

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Now I'm starting to get pissed off...I did donate to Val Demings campaign against Marco Rubio.... (Original Post) a kennedy Jan 2022 OP
Don't get mad. Just unsubscribe. You did a good thing. They kind of have Scrivener7 Jan 2022 #1
I know.....and thanks.... a kennedy Jan 2022 #6
That's what I do Rebl2 Jan 2022 #33
Came to say it. Thanks. mahina Jan 2022 #39
It happens to. Everyone. They trade mailing lists. Funtatlaguy Jan 2022 #2
Yes, indeed..My email is filled with such requests. n/t whathehell Jan 2022 #4
Exactly. If you have ever done anything for DEMS or related (planned parenthood, women's march, hlthe2b Jan 2022 #8
Yep. They sure do. calimary Jan 2022 #51
Ignore them. I donated and now every candidate, even Rs... TreasonousBastard Jan 2022 #3
I want to contribute to them all......and mail is, you're right soooooooo much better then door knocks. a kennedy Jan 2022 #10
Personal contact works. HubertHeaver Jan 2022 #31
I block mine. It's quick, and eventually they thin out. GoodRaisin Jan 2022 #5
Val Demings RandPaulsNeighbor Jan 2022 #7
Damn, you're right.....I'll fix it, and thanks. a kennedy Jan 2022 #11
No Worries RandPaulsNeighbor Jan 2022 #21
Oh, and you being his neighbor, DAMN HIM. 😊 a kennedy Jan 2022 #22
Tough RandPaulsNeighbor Jan 2022 #23
If you're pissed off, you haven't been paying attention... brooklynite Jan 2022 #9
So how do I give to politicians I want to win?? I want Val to kick Marco's arse..... a kennedy Jan 2022 #16
As the philosopher Jagger once observed: Act_of_Reparation Jan 2022 #30
It doesn't matter whom you contribute to. marie999 Jan 2022 #12
That is the thing. I rarely donate because of this captain queeg Jan 2022 #13
Good reason to use a temporary disposable email address Pinback Jan 2022 #14
I just got kicked out of the DNC WVreaper Jan 2022 #15
I wouldn't blame the Poles though. They are very nice folks JohnSJ Jan 2022 #45
I have NEVER gotten a threat to be 'kicked out' for no donations. alittlelark Jan 2022 #53
For myself, I feel that's a small price to pay for having supported a saner future Tommymac Jan 2022 #17
With 'ya! MyOwnPeace Jan 2022 #26
Absolutely going to several winning Democratic Candidates all over the Land. GOTV 2022 nt Tommymac Jan 2022 #38
veterans groups 90-percent Jan 2022 #43
Well, DAMN, I'm gonna' say 'WITH 'YA' again!!!! MyOwnPeace Jan 2022 #47
Val send sends me a dozen emails a day cinematicdiversions Jan 2022 #18
I get those requests, too, but they don't make me angry at all. Ocelot II Jan 2022 #19
Hey thanks....... a kennedy Jan 2022 #25
Yeah - well stated! MyOwnPeace Jan 2022 #27
Is it that difficult to delete emails ? JI7 Jan 2022 #20
No it really isn't.....just shows me Democrats NEED MONEY to win their seats. a kennedy Jan 2022 #24
The 'ONE PERCENT' knows what they want..... MyOwnPeace Jan 2022 #28
Get Used To It! I probably get 10 -20 Solicitations from Democrats redstateblues Jan 2022 #29
at least not from trump , monkeyman1 Jan 2022 #36
Go down to the bottom of each email and look where it says "unsubscribe" in tiny print.... Hekate Jan 2022 #32
Donated to NPR and Habitats for Humanity... Hulk Jan 2022 #34
It is not just you left-of-center2012 Jan 2022 #35
I know I had to unsubcribe from a bunch BumRushDaShow Jan 2022 #37
Some folks make a separate email account just for this kind of thing mahina Jan 2022 #40
Most ipo's allow you multiple addresses Good egg Jan 2022 #46
I'm in the same situation lunatica Jan 2022 #41
I get about 50-70 emails a day... PatrickforB Jan 2022 #42
I don't give my phone number so no texts or calls... WarGamer Jan 2022 #44
A lot of charities do this too. Aussie105 Jan 2022 #48
I'm on like every Senate campaign e-mail list AZProgressive Jan 2022 #49
They need to ask Sucha NastyWoman Jan 2022 #50
I feel your pain. bluescribbler Jan 2022 #52

Scrivener7

(50,954 posts)
1. Don't get mad. Just unsubscribe. You did a good thing. They kind of have
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 08:56 PM
Jan 2022

to trade donor names with each other to make their numbers.

mahina

(17,664 posts)
39. Came to say it. Thanks.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 10:43 PM
Jan 2022

And good going OP. Val is awesome and Marco is a slithery worm. Apology to worms

hlthe2b

(102,288 posts)
8. Exactly. If you have ever done anything for DEMS or related (planned parenthood, women's march,
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:00 PM
Jan 2022

made calls for Dems in any prior election, etc. you are on all kinds of lists. I get a half dozen or so daily. Just unsubscribe, set your spam filter to identify them as spam, or gain the peace of mind I tend to have, knowing they are working hard to try to counter the R's in upcoming elections.

calimary

(81,304 posts)
51. Yep. They sure do.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:44 PM
Jan 2022

It’s what they do.

Discouraging, certainly, but if you do want to help a worthy candidate, hopefully you’ll continue with that. I just wind up deleting what I can’t satisfy, because I’m not made of money, either.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
3. Ignore them. I donated and now every candidate, even Rs...
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 08:59 PM
Jan 2022

has me on the sucker, eh donor, list. At least it's just email and not door knocks

a kennedy

(29,672 posts)
10. I want to contribute to them all......and mail is, you're right soooooooo much better then door knocks.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:02 PM
Jan 2022

Although I do love my neighbors knocking on my door for my vote…..local ya know, a city of less then 500 people. 😊

HubertHeaver

(2,522 posts)
31. Personal contact works.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:48 PM
Jan 2022

I had no intention of voting for the incumbent. Until she showed up at my door asking for my vote. The rest of the field wouldn't come near our end of town. I voted for the incumbent.

GoodRaisin

(8,924 posts)
5. I block mine. It's quick, and eventually they thin out.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 08:59 PM
Jan 2022

They pretty much all go to my Trash folder automatically now.

brooklynite

(94,591 posts)
9. If you're pissed off, you haven't been paying attention...
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:01 PM
Jan 2022

Contact information is regularly shared between campaigns and Party Committees. If you don't want extra mail don't contribute.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
30. As the philosopher Jagger once observed:
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:37 PM
Jan 2022

You can't always get what you want.

Donate to who you can. Ignore the rest. Unwanted mail is easily disposed of.

 

marie999

(3,334 posts)
12. It doesn't matter whom you contribute to.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:06 PM
Jan 2022

I became a life member of the DAV and American Legion. Then I started getting letters from every military group. Then letters from politicians, hospitals, and just about any group that wants money.

captain queeg

(10,207 posts)
13. That is the thing. I rarely donate because of this
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:06 PM
Jan 2022

It goes on with commercial entities too. You buy something and then start getting ads for similar products.

Pinback

(12,155 posts)
14. Good reason to use a temporary disposable email address
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:07 PM
Jan 2022

for all online contributions and purchases: https://www.geckoandfly.com/7782/how-to-create-temporary-email-and-gmail-forwarding-service/

The service I use, Spamex, is not in that list. There may better alternatives nowadays, but I've been using them for years with good results, and the cost is low.

Snail mail, of course, is a different matter. I've asked several organizations to quit sending me paper mail, and most comply -- for a while, anyway.

WVreaper

(621 posts)
15. I just got kicked out of the DNC
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:10 PM
Jan 2022

Or something like that, because I have been ignoring their emails to contribute. I am tired of the supposed voter poles. Yes I want my opinions heard but do I have to donate 10$ to do that? Like you, i contribute what I can when I can. But some of the democratic fund raising efforts are starting to look more like their repug counterparts. Getting asked to contribute to a democratic candidate in another state, that is campaigning for the primary election, wait a minute here. That's local politics. Win the primary, then I might think about it.

alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
53. I have NEVER gotten a threat to be 'kicked out' for no donations.
Sun Jan 9, 2022, 05:51 PM
Jan 2022

That is a RW tactic - I have never experienced it in my world.

Tommymac

(7,263 posts)
17. For myself, I feel that's a small price to pay for having supported a saner future
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:12 PM
Jan 2022

And now, Democracy itself.

Easy enough to filter them to a folder where I can sort through them when I have time. I'll judge if any of them need more help and push another dollar or two their way.

I can see where it could be annoying, no doubt.



MyOwnPeace

(16,927 posts)
26. With 'ya!
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:26 PM
Jan 2022

They ARE a pain-in-the-a$$, but so are the car warranties, medicare enrolments, the 'medical' needs, the 'veterans groups' and everybody else that needs money. In a 'just' society - those needs would be taken care of by a decent, caring government.

Just be strong, pick a 'favorite or two' - then just hit "DELETE" for the rest.

They all NEED the money - you just have to decide where you want YOURS to go (hopefully a DEM!).

90-percent

(6,829 posts)
43. veterans groups
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:22 PM
Jan 2022

this "wounded Warriors" charity I find irksome. Our country sends them off to be wounded or killed in stupid unwinnable wars based on lies and the voracious never ending hunger of our grotesque military-industrial-congressional-complex.

If our government has the money to go to war, they should have the money to take care of all those that lost parts of their bodies, lives and humanity for the benefit of war profiteering sociopaths.

Harry Truman used to prosecute war profiteers. Now we elect them.

Come to think of it, my beloved home state of liberal Democratic Connecticut is home base for a lot of major MIC corporations. Electric Boat, UTC, Pratt and Whitney, Sikorsky and some others.

-90% Jimmy

MyOwnPeace

(16,927 posts)
47. Well, DAMN, I'm gonna' say 'WITH 'YA' again!!!!
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:30 PM
Jan 2022

I TRULY hate those commercials/groups! NOT for what they are doing, but, GAWD DAMN, WE, the US GOVERNMENT should be doing EVERYTHING we can to support and meet the needs of these brave people who went off to serve our country, no matter how much we may believe or not believe in the cause for which they sacrificed.

We CANNOT send them off and then say "Good bye, good luck, and don't expect me to care "if and when" you get back....."

 

cinematicdiversions

(1,969 posts)
18. Val send sends me a dozen emails a day
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:16 PM
Jan 2022

This is not an exaggeration in any way shape or form and has been going on for the last six months at least.

Sometimes it can be too much. And yes Val will sell/trade your info like nobody can.

It is too much.

Ocelot II

(115,731 posts)
19. I get those requests, too, but they don't make me angry at all.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:16 PM
Jan 2022

They need money and they are asking people known to contribute to Democrats. I have contributed to the campaigns of a few out-of-state candidates - notably to Warnock and Ossoff - but obviously I can't help everybody. So I just ignore the requests if I can't contribute. The emails are automatically generated and nobody will be offended if they don't get any money from me. No point in getting mad over an automatic email blast.

MyOwnPeace

(16,927 posts)
28. The 'ONE PERCENT' knows what they want.....
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:29 PM
Jan 2022

but there's WAY more of us - we just have to do our duty to make things matter for the other 99%!

redstateblues

(10,565 posts)
29. Get Used To It! I probably get 10 -20 Solicitations from Democrats
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:30 PM
Jan 2022

Honestly I don't like it and the more they inundate me with desperate pleas, the less I send. It's annoying.

 

monkeyman1

(5,109 posts)
36. at least not from trump ,
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 10:22 PM
Jan 2022

In 2020 , got a email from trump campaign that if I didn't donate 100. buck's , he would take me off his mailing list !!! I can't stand the sob !! didn't think I'd stop laughing!! I than plastered it all over Facebook with -- return to sender !

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
32. Go down to the bottom of each email and look where it says "unsubscribe" in tiny print....
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:51 PM
Jan 2022

Tap that. Keep doing that every day until the emails stop.

All that has happened is they share lists. They don’t expect more than a tiny fraction to respond, but email literally costs them nothing, so they might as well try.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
34. Donated to NPR and Habitats for Humanity...
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 10:09 PM
Jan 2022

And I think NPR is finally giving up on me....😞 I still get solicitations and note pads from HforH years later. I just hate to see them waste their budget on this rare bird.

I will often donate to Free Speech TV and a handful of solid candidates that I wish would win their close elections.

I'm also of modest means...but I just unsubscribe whenever I get hammered with more solicitations.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
35. It is not just you
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 10:20 PM
Jan 2022

I am getting many requests for donations here in New Mexico from many Democratic candidates

BumRushDaShow

(129,072 posts)
37. I know I had to unsubcribe from a bunch
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 10:37 PM
Jan 2022

although I would also say that anyone who asks "What are Democrats doing????!!!?!!!!" apparently doesn't get any of those emails (many of which are chock full of what Democrats "are doing". ).

Some of them had an option for "receive fewer emails" when doing an unsubscribe, which I would assume would mean instead of multiples every day, maybe it becomes a couple times a week or once a week.

Good egg

(27 posts)
46. Most ipo's allow you multiple addresses
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:29 PM
Jan 2022

I have a separate address reserved only for what I think will result in consumer and political solicitations (move on, etc)...I basically ignor it and delete it all every month or so.

You can also find out the real snail mail addresses, send them a paper check. They are happy to cash it. Don't ever give them your e-mail address.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
41. I'm in the same situation
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:20 PM
Jan 2022

And it’ll get worse as the year progresses. All of them screaming that we’re losing to the Republicans.

PatrickforB

(14,576 posts)
42. I get about 50-70 emails a day...
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:21 PM
Jan 2022

PLEASE give us money! PLEASE!

But you know, here in 'Murika, people get nickel and dimed to death.

The whole capitalist system seeks to pass as much of the cost of everything onto consumers and at the same time have taxpayers cover any risk. The costs of childcare, for example, have been mostly passed onto young families that have the most difficulty affording it, and healthcare costs are more and more and more being foisted off onto consumers with fine print, sky high premiums and financially crippling copays.

I often reply back, to places like the DNC, asking where my healthcare is. Where my dental care is. I point out that we have squandered trillions on forever wars and tax cuts, and just now spent $770 billion on this year's war bill. Where is my healthcare? Where is my dental care? Where is the K-12 system that should be the envy of the world? Where is the affordable, debt-free college for my grandkids?

And now it is the same with political donations. Big biz donates billions in dark money to super pacs, but our guys rely on small donations from us. If we quit spending so much on war, raised taxes, and began putting policies in place that actually help everyday Americans, this place would be a great place to live. As it is, it is only a great place if you are not old, poor, sick or different.

WarGamer

(12,445 posts)
44. I don't give my phone number so no texts or calls...
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:24 PM
Jan 2022

And have an email account dedicated to my political support... which will be extensive this cycle.

Aussie105

(5,401 posts)
48. A lot of charities do this too.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:35 PM
Jan 2022

Donate to one, others descend on you - email, phone calls, snail mail.

My response is cold hearted - after all, their income probably exceeds mine by a long shot.

But if 10c per month will save a child / feed a newborn kitten / stop an angel's wings from falling off, imagine what a few million from the government would achieve! So go see them!

As for political contributions - no guarantee your money will be used for anything fruitful.

As for 'Can you contribute to my campaign?', there is a little word that works well as a response . . . . NO!

AZProgressive

(29,322 posts)
49. I'm on like every Senate campaign e-mail list
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:37 PM
Jan 2022

After splitting donations with Warnock & Kelly. I can’t afford to donate every time they ask but I don’t worry about it.

Sucha NastyWoman

(2,749 posts)
50. They need to ask
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:38 PM
Jan 2022

And you need to be comfortable saying no when you’ve hit your limit.

Don’t let it get to you.

bluescribbler

(2,117 posts)
52. I feel your pain.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 11:47 PM
Jan 2022

I donated to John Kerry's Presidential campaign in 2004, and now, like you, they all are begging me for money. Like you, I am retired and living on a fixed income. Even when I was working full time, I could not even think about contributing to every campaign that asked. I resolved years ago to contribute only to candidates whose name would appear ON MY BALLOT, and who shared my priorities. In addition, I limit my contributions to candidates who really need the money.

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