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babylonsister

(171,070 posts)
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 01:26 PM Jan 2022

Stewart Rhodes' Estranged Wife Calls Him a 'Complete Sociopath' a Day After Jan. 6 Arrest

https://www.thedailybeast.com/tasha-adams-stewart-rhodes-estranged-wife-calls-oath-keeper-a-complete-sociopath-after-jan-6-arrest?ref=home


Stewart Rhodes’ Estranged Wife Calls Him a ‘Complete Sociopath’ a Day After Jan. 6 Arrest
RELIEF OVER ARREST
Dia Gill
Breaking News Intern
Published Jan. 14, 2022 11:35AM ET


One day after his arrest on charges of seditious conspiracy in the Jan. 6 riots, the estranged wife of Oath Keepers founder Stewart Rhodes went on CNN and called him a “complete sociopath.” Tasha Adams announced joy over his arrest and discussed fears for her family’s safety: “I knew I lived in fear he might show up here. But the... just setting that weight down and knowing we were safe and my kids were safe and my kids’ school doesn’t have to worry, that was a relief I didn’t know existed.” When asked by CNN’s John Berman of what threat she feels Rhodes poses to the country at large, Adams responded “He’s a dangerous man.” She added, “He sees himself as a great leader, he almost has his own mythology of himself and I think he almost made it come true as seeing himself as some sort of figure in history and it sort of happened. He’s a complete sociopath, he does not feel empathy for anyone around him at all.”
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Stewart Rhodes' Estranged Wife Calls Him a 'Complete Sociopath' a Day After Jan. 6 Arrest (Original Post) babylonsister Jan 2022 OP
Hmmm OLDMDDEM Jan 2022 #1
Very Interesting, but Not Surprising. MineralMan Jan 2022 #2
No, not surprising at all. Mickju Jan 2022 #20
Post removed Post removed Jan 2022 #3
Probably why the poster put it in General Discussion Stuckinthebush Jan 2022 #5
I can think of other stories to report, but this IS newsworthy. L. Coyote Jan 2022 #6
terms of endearment NJCher Jan 2022 #49
L. Coyote .... Upthevibe Jan 2022 #59
Rantings? More like a clear and concise description of him. Lars39 Jan 2022 #8
One of the cartoons JHB posted today soldierant Jan 2022 #47
Wow... It makes me think someone has "issues" (and it is not the OP) hlthe2b Jan 2022 #9
Yep. llmart Jan 2022 #12
Same thought. tosh Jan 2022 #24
Agreed obamanut2012 Jan 2022 #31
I find it very reassuring. I'm happy this was posted... msfiddlestix Jan 2022 #10
"Rantings"? She fairly calmly described a life where she, her kids, & their schools lived in fear... Hekate Jan 2022 #11
I didn't think BoBo Gunslinger was estranged from her perverted husband. Tommymac Jan 2022 #13
The response of the estranged wife of someone charged with sedition is newsworthy. Torchlight Jan 2022 #17
Why not? She, better than anyone can speak about the guy's character. Escurumbele Jan 2022 #18
Rantings? What? MineralMan Jan 2022 #21
And what about the "rantings" of his children? Pachamama Jan 2022 #22
Rantings?! Wow. KPN Jan 2022 #25
"Rantings"? I didn't see that. I thought she was rather calm and clinical in her description of this Raven Jan 2022 #26
That's a tad naive and slightly derogatory PJMcK Jan 2022 #28
"The rantings of an estranged wife" obamanut2012 Jan 2022 #30
+1 NJCher Jan 2022 #50
Poster said obamanut2012 Jan 2022 #60
thanks for the info NJCher Jan 2022 #62
I think so, too, as does his son obamanut2012 Jan 2022 #70
Ahhhhh, the good ole days when man was king of his castle and anything he did was his natural right. 2Gingersnaps Jan 2022 #63
Yeah, most of these guys have DV obamanut2012 Jan 2022 #71
Go rot. JanMichael Jan 2022 #33
Seriously?? NoMoreRepugs Jan 2022 #34
seems like a sweet guy... CurtEastPoint Jan 2022 #4
The StayPuff Marshmallow man wears an eye patch?? Who knew....... NoMoreRepugs Jan 2022 #35
Supposedly he dropped a gun and it shot into his eye. nt Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2022 #42
His son feels the same way. 11cents Jan 2022 #7
Wow, even his son PatSeg Jan 2022 #51
Dakota is a very intelligent human being, not like Dad at all. Two hour interview: L. Coyote Jan 2022 #54
Thanks, after just a couple of minutes PatSeg Jan 2022 #55
Thank you so much for posting this interview Trailrider1951 Jan 2022 #67
Marco Inaros Deep State Witch Jan 2022 #14
That must be an odd feeling and realization bucolic_frolic Jan 2022 #15
he's a good republican. barbtries Jan 2022 #16
Don't forget the restraining order. soldierant Jan 2022 #48
He'll be quite busy for a while trying to keep his sorry ass out of jail. oasis Jan 2022 #19
I've come across a number of VGNonly Jan 2022 #23
yet another self centered selfish jerk. AllaN01Bear Jan 2022 #27
Anyone seen the V/H/S movies? canuckledragger Jan 2022 #29
Are they good? Haven't seen them. JanMichael Jan 2022 #36
They're horror movies canuckledragger Jan 2022 #38
I believe her LymphocyteLover Jan 2022 #32
noteworthy ahlnord Jan 2022 #37
Thank you. AllyCat Jan 2022 #45
I believe her. Nt BootinUp Jan 2022 #39
This assertion is as surprising as falling off a pier and ending up wet. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2022 #40
I saw her interview. Came across as very truthful and called him for what he was/is. Sociopath. She Evolve Dammit Jan 2022 #41
I'm really happy for her. ShazzieB Jan 2022 #43
She probably called him that a few times before this, too! Gore1FL Jan 2022 #44
yeah, me too NJCher Jan 2022 #53
She can't be forced to testify, but she can volunteer. Marcuse Jan 2022 #46
We'll see how far this great leader gets in prison. Emile Jan 2022 #52
My question about Stewie Rhodes is for Yale Law School COL Mustard Jan 2022 #56
George W Bush graduated from Yale too. Ivy league diploma must Emile Jan 2022 #57
W looks like Einstein compared to Stewie COL Mustard Jan 2022 #58
I don't put much stock in what an Ex or an estranged family member says Yandex Jan 2022 #61
And I have spent a lifetime listening to my sister being called a liar. 2Gingersnaps Jan 2022 #64
I stand by my statement n/t Yandex Jan 2022 #65
This message was self-deleted by its author Yandex Jan 2022 #66
well bless your heart demtenjeep Jan 2022 #68
Ow 😥 Yandex Jan 2022 #69

Response to babylonsister (Original post)

Stuckinthebush

(10,845 posts)
5. Probably why the poster put it in General Discussion
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 01:51 PM
Jan 2022

However it is indeed interesting to hear how whacked out this guy is - no surprise though being a loony militia nut. He can spend the rest of his pathetic life in prison pretending to be a great leader.

L. Coyote

(51,129 posts)
6. I can think of other stories to report, but this IS newsworthy.
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 01:52 PM
Jan 2022

Who has a closer understanding of his psychology?

We'll get the other stories too, not like this story is blocking anything.








soldierant

(6,890 posts)
47. One of the cartoons JHB posted today
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 02:59 AM
Jan 2022

shows McConnell similarly describing a calm and reasoned position as an "incoherent rant."

What's that saying - "consider the source"?

msfiddlestix

(7,282 posts)
10. I find it very reassuring. I'm happy this was posted...
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:22 PM
Jan 2022

It's unfortunately not uncommon phenom to be hooked up with a partner (married or not) whose Sociopathic inclinations and pattern of behavior is realized, finally recognized.

But the really shocking realization is the moment when it becomes obvious there are no limits, no boundaries to the extreme danger that Sociopath poses to everyone around him and especially in domestic environments.

A lot of Women are victims and so it's good to hear these "rants".



Hekate

(90,714 posts)
11. "Rantings"? She fairly calmly described a life where she, her kids, & their schools lived in fear...
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:26 PM
Jan 2022

… of this violent man. Now she’s relieved, and who wouldn’t be?

Torchlight

(3,341 posts)
17. The response of the estranged wife of someone charged with sedition is newsworthy.
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:35 PM
Jan 2022

I certainly think so, as it meets three (arguably four) of the seven components* of being newsworthy.

(*see: The Elements of Journalism by Bill Kovach)

Escurumbele

(3,395 posts)
18. Why not? She, better than anyone can speak about the guy's character.
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:39 PM
Jan 2022

It is always good to know about the people who are good or bad. I bet no one knew he created a myth about himself, that his wife and kids were in danger from him...that he seems to be the twin brother of trump...It is definitely newsworthy.

Pachamama

(16,887 posts)
22. And what about the "rantings" of his children?
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:55 PM
Jan 2022

Apparently they feel the same way…

Maybe you have had a bad ex-spouse experience that leads you to make this kind of statement.

But who knows better about a sociopath than a family member or spouse who know intimate details and had to live with someone.

Raven

(13,893 posts)
26. "Rantings"? I didn't see that. I thought she was rather calm and clinical in her description of this
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 03:09 PM
Jan 2022

nutcase.

PJMcK

(22,037 posts)
28. That's a tad naive and slightly derogatory
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 03:30 PM
Jan 2022

Former spouses generally know their exes pretty well. Given that this nut job was planning to take over the Capitol-- and had an arsenal at the ready!-- perhaps you might reconsider your derision of this woman's comments.

Further, the Daily Beast is not a sensationalist website and their reporting tends to be professional.

Besides, don't you think the FBI would interview her? Why shouldn't the public hear what she has to say about this seditionist?

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
30. "The rantings of an estranged wife"
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 03:41 PM
Jan 2022

I think you meant, "The legitimate concerns of an abused wife fearing her abusive ex husband will kill her."

Fixed it for you, Champ.

NJCher

(35,687 posts)
50. +1
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 11:26 AM
Jan 2022

I didn't see the post but it is pretty clear from follow-up posts that it was in dire need of your editorial services.

I think it's important to look at the psychology of these insurrectionists. Any real psychologist would find the comments of a wife or life partner to be worth listening to.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
60. Poster said
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 01:03 PM
Jan 2022

Why should we listen to the rantings of an estranged wife?

That is very close to word for word, then to paraphrase the rest: the crazy ex wife is an unreliable narrator of this poor, derided husband.

NJCher

(35,687 posts)
62. thanks for the info
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 01:37 PM
Jan 2022

she seemed sane to me. I watched both the clip at the post plus one I saw on the program "Inside Edition."

2Gingersnaps

(1,000 posts)
63. Ahhhhh, the good ole days when man was king of his castle and anything he did was his natural right.
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 01:46 PM
Jan 2022

If his noblesse oblige did not extend to the little wife and the kids, that was his private business and for the families good name we must not speak ill of "family."

The bane of our domestic courts, law enforcement, prison system, medical professionals, and broken underfunded mental health system.

The guy that drove through the Christmas parade was a domestic violence practitioner who was out on bail for having tried to run over his ex wife with the same SUV, after having attacked her again with a knife.

Or so said the rantings of the estranged ex wife, and the police report. This guy went to Yale and has a nice house in Texas, can't be true.

Trailrider1951

(3,414 posts)
67. Thank you so much for posting this interview
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 05:25 PM
Jan 2022

I'm only 10 minutes into the interview and Dakota is very adept at describing the origin and pathology of the Q madness. His remarks on M Flynn are enlightening.

bucolic_frolic

(43,182 posts)
15. That must be an odd feeling and realization
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:33 PM
Jan 2022

It was probably happening all along but you weren't tuned in to it.

barbtries

(28,799 posts)
16. he's a good republican.
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 02:34 PM
Jan 2022

i get it, i get it


she should probably divorce him asap, get total physical and legal custody of the children, and move.

soldierant

(6,890 posts)
48. Don't forget the restraining order.
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 03:02 AM
Jan 2022

Come to think of it, she might turn out to be eligible for witness protection.

canuckledragger

(1,642 posts)
29. Anyone seen the V/H/S movies?
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 03:37 PM
Jan 2022

This guy reminds me of the idiot militia leader that thought he was something special too.

canuckledragger

(1,642 posts)
38. They're horror movies
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 04:01 PM
Jan 2022

With the theme being a group of folks stumble upon troves of V/H/S snuff-style movies, and watching them messes you up good.

They're not the greatest, but they're not that bad either. It's just a twist on the usual horror stuff.

I can't remember which one has the pretend militia, but the 'leader' was just a bumbling egotistical moron, and his followers even more so. Hearing the guy in the OP described reminded me of the movie.

ahlnord

(91 posts)
37. noteworthy
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 04:01 PM
Jan 2022

Noteworthy AND newsworthy that so many of the insurrectionists have histories of domestic violence, as well as financial stresses and gun fetishes. The women who live in fear of their partners are the canary in the coal mine that we ignore at our peril. Do NOT dismiss her story as a "disgruntled" woman. Men who emerge as dangers to society started first as a danger to their family.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,564 posts)
40. This assertion is as surprising as falling off a pier and ending up wet.
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 04:34 PM
Jan 2022

And, unfortunately, this condition is NOT something that can be undone medically...except by Ketamine or similar, but all you achieve is turning a sociopath into something akin to a vegetable.

The best you can hope for is someone being very motivated to change, to the point that they will be extremely diligent and cognizant of their behaviors and the way they must be modified.

Evolve Dammit

(16,743 posts)
41. I saw her interview. Came across as very truthful and called him for what he was/is. Sociopath. She
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 09:06 PM
Jan 2022

would know him best of anyone.

ShazzieB

(16,426 posts)
43. I'm really happy for her.
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 09:12 PM
Jan 2022

Now that he's behind are, she has a chance to get a divorce and build a new life without having to constantly worry about him waiting around the best corner with a gun.

Getting out of an abusive relationship without getting maimed or murdered in the process is a hell of a lot harder than a lot of people seem to think.

Gore1FL

(21,132 posts)
44. She probably called him that a few times before this, too!
Fri Jan 14, 2022, 11:45 PM
Jan 2022

it's weird to me when people say a person has no empathy. I freaking feel pain as people describe it to me. I can't watch fights. I feel every blow. I can't watch "jackass" type videos for the same reason.

The total inability of anyone to even have tangent of that seems so alien to me.

NJCher

(35,687 posts)
53. yeah, me too
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 11:35 AM
Jan 2022

I once tried to understand sociopaths so I found a book by one whose purpose was to describe what her day-to- day life was like. I was only about 7 pages into the book where she reported watching an animal drown in a swimming pool with complete detachment. I could read no more and in fact felt the need to get the book out of my house immediately.

COL Mustard

(5,906 posts)
56. My question about Stewie Rhodes is for Yale Law School
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 12:00 PM
Jan 2022

What the hell were you thinking, admitting this man? How in the absolute fuck did HE ever get in there? Are you going to take back his degree?

I'm sure there's at least one Yale Law grad on this forum who can provide some insight.

Emile

(22,789 posts)
57. George W Bush graduated from Yale too. Ivy league diploma must
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 12:06 PM
Jan 2022

be easy to get with the right amount of money.

 

Yandex

(273 posts)
61. I don't put much stock in what an Ex or an estranged family member says
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 01:12 PM
Jan 2022

having multiples of each in my life.

2Gingersnaps

(1,000 posts)
64. And I have spent a lifetime listening to my sister being called a liar.
Sat Jan 15, 2022, 01:57 PM
Jan 2022

My other two siblings were non functional before they were out of high school. I walked away, and eventually had the care of my three siblings, and God love my husband, he never questioned our duty. Ohio is a duty to report state, there were witnesses. The only one who did was a school guidance counselor, who got fired for "interfering" because there was money involved. My parents home, social security, and life insurance.

My sister was no liar.

Stewart Rhodes wife and children have a chance with him in prison.

Response to 2Gingersnaps (Reply #64)

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