My sis in law passed away today.

[PA_jen]

She was being moved from the hospital in pittsburgh to the hospice in town. They got her into the facility and she passed. I want to thank you all for your kindness in letting me vent. We knew it was coming but it still stuns. (Sorry for any errors in tablet)

[TheProle]

1. I'm sorry for your loss

And hope you and her family find peace.

[PA_jen]

9. Thanks.

[Wicked Blue]

2. I'm so sorry for your loss

[PA_jen]

11. Thank you

[LoisB]

3. I am so sorry. Please accept my sincere condolences.

[demtenjeep]

4. you have my prayers

I lost my sister to cancer last year.


I am sure you were close.

Please give my love to your family and taie care of yourself as well

[Skittles]

5. so sorry PA-jen

I know the feeling of having this happen during a pandemic, very stressful. Be kind to yourself.

[Atticus]

6. May her memory be a blessing. nt

[niyad]

7. Sending hugs and vibes for healing and comfort for you and your family.

[Nevilledog]

8. ...

[CentralMass]

10. My condolences on your loss.

[crickets]

12. I am so very sorry, PA_jen.

[FakeNoose]

13. May she rest in peace

May you and your family find solace in your memories of happier times.

[Karadeniz]

14. Aw, deepest sympathy...

[onecaliberal]

15. Very sorry.

[momta]

16. So sorry, PA_jen.

Take care.

[essaynnc]

17. so sorry for your loss.

its got to be tough to lose someone so close. find peace.

[58Sunliner]

18. I'm sorry for your loss.

[PoindexterOglethorpe]

19. Condolences.

A bit over a year ago I got a call on my cell phone. The man calling identified himself as Officer Brian somebody with the Tucson police. I knew what he was going to say, and so I put him on speakerphone, as my sister was visiting me. It was the news that our younger brother had died. Sad, but not unexpected, as he'd been in declining health for some years.

I'll add this good news. My sister was able to take control of our brother's bank account. We knew he'd long wanted his good friend Tom to have his leftover money, and sister was able to make that happen. Hooray!

This is a reminder to all of you that you need a will. You need to designate who should get your stuff, your money. Have a POD (pay on death) on your checking account. And if those you will your stuff to die, make a new will. Better yet, have a will that anticipates such things.

[soldierant]

29. Not just checking - all accounts.

You can make the POD your estate and then put details in your will. But if you don't have a POD there, it's likely to be distributed before the will is even seen, let alone officially read. Same goes for life insurance policies.

[PoindexterOglethorpe]

31. Yes. Unfortunately, my brother had not made the POD needed.

I have a will, needed PODs, and pretty much every thing else needed.

I've been through settling the estates of various others. It is truly vastly more complicated than you know, if you've never been through this.

When I see people say something like, "I don't care, I'll be dead" I want to scream. You need to find out what it is like, you need to have a clue what it is like.

Everyone over the age of 18 needs a will. I made sure both of my sons made a will when they were 18. Fast forward a decade or so. My younger son died, at age 30. But he had a will. Which made lots of things very easier.

So, to every one who might see this post, make sure you have a will. Trust me, it will make things vastly easier for your survivors

[summer_in_TX]

20. So, so sorry, PA_jen!

[dlk]

21. I'm very sorry for your loss

Even if it’s expected, it’s never easy. Sending thoughts of peace and comfort to you and your family.

[spanone]

22. .

[Meowmee]

23. I am so sorry

[sheshe2]

24. I am so sorry, Jen.

[Cozmo]

25. Kindest thoughts, I just lost a brother in law to pancreatic cancer. my sis loved him so.

[Backseat Driver]

26. My condolences and comfort, Jen.

[Samrob]

27. Condolences to you and your family.

[Bayard]

28. So sorry

To you and your spouse.

[AllyCat]

30. I'm sorry Jen! Safe passage to your beloved sister.

[cate94]

32. I'm sorry.

May she Rest In Peace.

[vercetti2021]

33. I'm sorry for your loss

[OAITW r.2.0]

34. I hear your pain.

I haven't lost any sibs, SIL's or BIL's...yet. I honestly hope I exit 1st so as to avoid it.

[gopiscrap]

35. I am so sorry

prayers go with you