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How Many Degrees Are You Separated From Ukraine? (Original Post) Sneederbunk Mar 2022 OP
I think one of my grandparents was from there. But, back then they didn't like us Jews. So much mucifer Mar 2022 #1
my grandfather was from luninetz in belarus. right across the border. bullimiami Mar 2022 #4
I remember my grandparents saying sometimes they lived in Russia sometimes Poland mucifer Mar 2022 #6
exactly. we could be related. :) bullimiami Mar 2022 #9
I have a friend in Costa Rica that is from the Ukraine originally. LakeArenal Mar 2022 #2
One. My late MIL's family came from Odessa. She was only born in Rumania because the family Hekate Mar 2022 #3
My MIL was born in Odessa MaryMagdaline Mar 2022 #5
No blood connection. Igel Mar 2022 #7
My niece's violin teacher and family friend is from there. She and her husband applegrove Mar 2022 #8
Three grandparents emigrated here, two as refugees ironflange Mar 2022 #10
my friend who's helped me save tremendously on car upkeep FrogStatue Mar 2022 #11
My great great grandparents lived in Zaporizhzhia Oblast. They were farmers who moved there JoanofArgh Mar 2022 #12
I am half-Ukrainian unblock Mar 2022 #13
Me too. But don't know what part. When my grandparents Laura PourMeADrink Mar 2022 #47
They changed my grandparents' names as well unblock Mar 2022 #49
Did you ever go there? Fascinating. They had like a minute Laura PourMeADrink Mar 2022 #52
Yes! Fascinating and to think we were set up to bring in so many immigrants unblock Mar 2022 #55
My grandfather was born about 75 miles from the border in Poland. GoCubsGo Mar 2022 #14
Yes. My mom said records were burned too. So impossible to Laura PourMeADrink Mar 2022 #48
No relatives, but I had a wonderful voice teacher Ocelot II Mar 2022 #15
My great-grandfather Sgent Mar 2022 #16
My grandmother and her family were at the time she left Meowmee Mar 2022 #17
Worked as a consultant from 2014-2016 at Ukroboronprom. MenloParque Mar 2022 #18
My father was born there, as were my mother's parents. bluewater Mar 2022 #19
How Ukraine became Ukraine, in 7 maps Celerity Mar 2022 #22
Hey, post a map post 1812! I am not THAT old lol bluewater Mar 2022 #27
lololol Celerity Mar 2022 #33
I see some people don't get the reference to the movie, so here.... Hekate Mar 2022 #20
In other words, Kevin Bacon. Sneederbunk Mar 2022 #21
Definitely. I'm sure that's how far I am from him.Closer to Joe Biden because of being an active Dem Hekate Mar 2022 #23
Four degrees from Zelensky, because of a brief meeting with an actor who's 2 degrees highplainsdem Mar 2022 #34
Speaker jim Wright was a member of my church; we became friends yellowdogintexas Mar 2022 #39
Know what you mean, when you think of 2 degrees of separation. highplainsdem Mar 2022 #45
that would put me 2 degrees from Zelensky, since I've met Morgan Freeman... Spider Jerusalem Mar 2022 #56
That would be 3 degrees -- 1st to Morgan Freeman, then to Sean Penn, highplainsdem Mar 2022 #57
My dental hygienist is from Ukraine wishstar Mar 2022 #24
I don't have any family or friends from Ukraine FakeNoose Mar 2022 #25
So do I. highplainsdem Mar 2022 #35
ABSOLUTELY , I LOVE these people!!! 👍🌻 💛 💙 🌻 nt 😍 Raine Mar 2022 #41
My grandson's mother is from Ukraine. Mollyann Mar 2022 #26
I live in a high rise lees1975 Mar 2022 #28
Husband's grandfather was born in Kyiv (late 1800s) mcar Mar 2022 #29
Personally know 2 young ladies who were High School Exchange students in our area - so 1 Degree Tommymac Mar 2022 #30
Physically, I don't know. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #31
Two Jewish Grandparents survived multiple pogroms Bad Thoughts Mar 2022 #32
same apartment building Skittles Mar 2022 #36
What a sweetheart! highplainsdem Mar 2022 #37
Half Ukrainian/half Finnish kiranon Mar 2022 #38
My neighbors when I was a child were Ukranian. NNadir Mar 2022 #40
My father is the first generation born here. discntnt_irny_srcsm Mar 2022 #42
We have brunch with a Ukrainian every Saturday. Geographically? DFW Mar 2022 #43
I have many Ukrainian relatives. Swede Mar 2022 #44
My grandparents Mossfern Mar 2022 #46
Not far. ananda Mar 2022 #50
my Father's second wife is Russian Kali Mar 2022 #51
Recommended. H2O Man Mar 2022 #53
I know a young lady from Ukraine who's engaged to a friend. Dial H For Hero Mar 2022 #54
My second cousin is half-Ukrainian shanti Mar 2022 #58
Second generation on mom's side. Tommy Carcetti Mar 2022 #59

mucifer

(23,539 posts)
1. I think one of my grandparents was from there. But, back then they didn't like us Jews. So much
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:30 PM
Mar 2022

different from now.

mucifer

(23,539 posts)
6. I remember my grandparents saying sometimes they lived in Russia sometimes Poland
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:39 PM
Mar 2022

the boarder kept changing. So it might have been Kyiv. Either way, they always described themselves as Ashkenazi Jews. They didn't consider the country they lived in around the time of WWI.

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
2. I have a friend in Costa Rica that is from the Ukraine originally.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:33 PM
Mar 2022

Does that count?

Edit to add: She’s not a family member or anything.

Hekate

(90,669 posts)
3. One. My late MIL's family came from Odessa. She was only born in Rumania because the family
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:35 PM
Mar 2022

… was on its way to Vienna, where they lived until the Anschluss.

🌻 RIP Lilli.

MaryMagdaline

(6,853 posts)
5. My MIL was born in Odessa
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:38 PM
Mar 2022

Her father was killed in a pogrom and her mother had to take her as a baby to Cuba, where she had relatives. She was a Russian speaking Ukrainian. Always told her children she was Russian.

Igel

(35,300 posts)
7. No blood connection.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:39 PM
Mar 2022

Just had blins made on a Ukrainian-made pan. I always wanted to triangulate Czech-Russian-Serbian to become a fluent reader in Ukrainina. Given the amount of Ukrainian-printed materials that I've acquired in the last 3 months (because that sends money to Ukr), I'm sort of committed.

I learned basic Ukrainian in grad school. Take East Slavic, old school, and you learn basic historical differences, then spend a bit of time learning Old Russian, mod Ukr, and mod Belorusian. By "basic" I don't mean "can order coffee or vodka in a restaurant" but "can read literary and newspaper prose with not much use of a dictionary." (Can't handle Belorusian orthography ... linguists helped design it, so it's insane.)

I've known a lot of Ukrainians in grad school and afterwards, when I helped Russian-speakers (whether from Piter or Odesa) learn English to pass the citizenship test as well as have basic survival skills.

applegrove

(118,639 posts)
8. My niece's violin teacher and family friend is from there. She and her husband
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:42 PM
Mar 2022

escaped during communism. She still has family there.

JoanofArgh

(14,971 posts)
12. My great great grandparents lived in Zaporizhzhia Oblast. They were farmers who moved there
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:48 PM
Mar 2022

from West Prussia and then they emigrated to the US in the late 1800's. Currently, my doctor and one of my co-workers are from Ukraine.

unblock

(52,206 posts)
13. I am half-Ukrainian
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:58 PM
Mar 2022

My father was born in the u.s., but his father was born outside of Kyiv, and my grandmother's family is from a different town also outside of Kyiv.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
47. Me too. But don't know what part. When my grandparents
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 11:42 PM
Mar 2022

Came thru Ellis Island they didn't understand their name so they gave them an Irish last name.

unblock

(52,206 posts)
49. They changed my grandparents' names as well
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 11:56 PM
Mar 2022

My grandmothers's family name was changed to a very Austrian name. Many years later, my father married an Austrian woman.

It always confused me growing up that there was this Austrian name on the Ukrainian side of the family. Thanks Ellis island!

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
52. Did you ever go there? Fascinating. They had like a minute
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 12:44 AM
Mar 2022

To decide if an immigrant was crazy or not. If they thought yes, they put an X with chalk on their coat and their whole family had to get back on the boat.

We do know where my dad's parents came over from... Posnan Poland. Looks close to Berlin.

unblock

(52,206 posts)
55. Yes! Fascinating and to think we were set up to bring in so many immigrants
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 03:17 AM
Mar 2022

And now our nation is so hostile even to us citizens who even "look foreign" or "sound foreign".

GoCubsGo

(32,080 posts)
14. My grandfather was born about 75 miles from the border in Poland.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 07:59 PM
Mar 2022

It's possible I have ancestors that lived in what is now western Ukraine, but I don't really know anything about that branch of my family tree prior to my grandfather. Other than that, I was born at the edge of the Ukrainian Village neighborhood where it borders Bucktown in Chicago, and that's about it.

Ocelot II

(115,683 posts)
15. No relatives, but I had a wonderful voice teacher
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:00 PM
Mar 2022

who was from Ukraine, and who came to the US shortly after WWII. She was a warm-hearted, really delightful person, a great teacher and musician; she passed away a few years ago at the age of 90. Her daughter still makes the most beautiful Ukrainian Easter eggs. I have one of them. Oksana would be devastated to know what’s happening now- probably a good thing in a way that she didn’t live to see it.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
17. My grandmother and her family were at the time she left
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:02 PM
Mar 2022

Living in what she said was between Poland/ Ukraine/ Russia, it was not clearly defined maybe then. They were jewish and lived mostly in shetls, but they had their house taken by Germans in WW1. WW2 outbreak- her brother’s entire town was massacred by german soldiers, her brother, whose wife and three year old daughter were bayonetted with the town escaped to Russia in the army and was never allowed to leave. Her father and another brother were murdered by their Ukrainian neighbor of 24 years, a teacher, at the outbreak of WW2 not long after the other brother escaped. Their names are on a holocaust memorial.

So they did not consider themselves to be part of these countries. When their house was taken they were refugees of a sort and traveled in a wagon starving, digging potatoes to eat and her mother and many other siblings died of illness. She left at that point with 3 sisters. My relatives in Canada- at least one said they feel no affiliation with these countries.

I most certainly have eastern European heritage being part ashkenazim. My grandmother although she never had more than an 8th grade education spoke several languages including hebrew, yiddish, german, and all of the slavic languages including Russian. And then she learned English when she came to North America.

I was once walking around in freezing weather in Brooklyn with a head scarf and a woman approached me and started to speak Polish to me, she was shocked when I had no clue what she was saying. I had a similar thing in GB when I was there once, people trying to speak gaelic to me in the islands.

MenloParque

(512 posts)
18. Worked as a consultant from 2014-2016 at Ukroboronprom.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:03 PM
Mar 2022

Been to Ukraine a total of 12 times serving as a consultant to Ukraine’s largest state run defense firms. Stateside, I’ve been been at both Lockheed and Northrop Grumman.
Many, many colleagues in both Ukraine and Russia. Of course, very large Russian and Ukraine population in the Silicon Valley.

bluewater

(5,376 posts)
19. My father was born there, as were my mother's parents.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:03 PM
Mar 2022

But I am very old and the maps were different back then and what is now Ukraine was in different countries.

Talking pre-WWI borders for them all.

Still in contact with cousins and second cousins who live there now.



Celerity

(43,335 posts)
22. How Ukraine became Ukraine, in 7 maps
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:46 PM
Mar 2022
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2015/03/09/maps-how-ukraine-became-ukraine/

March 9, 2015

For the past year, Ukraine has been plunged into chaos. Mass protests against pro-Moscow President Viktor Yanukovych led to his ouster in February 2014. That sparked a spiralling crisis: a fledgling interim government in Kiev looked on as Russia first seized and then annexed the territory of Crimea, a strategic Black Sea peninsula. A pro-Russian separatist insurgency in eastern Ukraine, believed to have direct backing from Moscow, has led to the deaths of thousands since.

To some, Ukraine has become the geopolitical faultline between the liberal democratic West and authoritarian, neo-imperial Russia under President Vladimir Putin. Foreign policy luminaries in Washington openly discuss the current state of affairs as a new Cold War. Beneath the political divisions of the present lies a country's deep, complex past. The land that's now Ukraine has long been dear to Russian nationalists. But it has also been home to a host of other peoples and empires. Its shifting borders and overlapping histories all have echoes in the current heated moment. What follows is a sketch of how Ukraine became Ukraine over 1,300 years of history, mapped by The Washington Post's cartographer Gene Thorp. Ukraine's modern borders are outlined in green throughout.



8th century to 13th century

The "Rus" -- the people whose name got tacked on to Russia -- were originally Scandinavian traders and settlers who made their way from the Baltic Sea through the marshes and forests of Eastern Europe down toward the fertile riverlands of what's now Ukraine. Other Viking adventurers journeyed to Constantinople, the great capital of the Byzantine Empire, to find their fortune -- sometimes as hired muscle.

The first major center of the "Rus" was at Kiev, established in the 9th century. In 988, Vladimir, a prince of the Kievan Rus, was baptized by a Byzantine priest in the old Greek colony of Khersonesos on the Crimean coast. His conversion marked the advent of Orthodox Christianity among the Rus and remains a moment of great nationalist symbolism for Russians. Putin invoked this older Vladimir in a speech last December when justifying his annexation of Crimea. Successive Mongol invasions beginning in the 13th century subdued Kiev's influence, and led eventually to the rise of other Rus settlements to the north, including Moscow. The Turkic descendants of the Mongol Golden Horde formed their own Khanate along the northern rim of the Black Sea.



1650 to 1812................

snip

Hekate

(90,669 posts)
20. I see some people don't get the reference to the movie, so here....
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:39 PM
Mar 2022
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Six_degrees_of_separation

Six degrees of separation is the idea that all people are six or fewer social connections away from each other. As a result, a chain of "friend of a friend" statements can be made to connect any two people in a maximum of six steps. It is also known as the six handshakes rule.[citation needed]

The concept was originally set out in a 1929 short story by Frigyes Karinthy, where a group of people play a game trying to connect any person in the world to themselves by a chain of five others. It was popularized in John Guare's 1990 play Six Degrees of Separation.

The idea is sometimes generalized to the average social distance being logarithmic in the size of the population.

Hekate

(90,669 posts)
23. Definitely. I'm sure that's how far I am from him.Closer to Joe Biden because of being an active Dem
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:46 PM
Mar 2022

What is says is you don’t have to be related by blood or marriage.

highplainsdem

(48,975 posts)
34. Four degrees from Zelensky, because of a brief meeting with an actor who's 2 degrees
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 09:34 PM
Mar 2022

from Sean Penn (in terms of films done, wouldn't be surprised if they've met socially), and Penn has met Zelensky.

But I don't have any family or personal friends who are Ukrainian.

yellowdogintexas

(22,252 posts)
39. Speaker jim Wright was a member of my church; we became friends
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 10:30 PM
Mar 2022

So this reminds me that he knew practically everybody during his career.

every President from Truman through Obama, everyone in Congress and most likely a few foreign dignitaries.

2 degrees. It kind of blew me away when I realized that.

highplainsdem

(48,975 posts)
45. Know what you mean, when you think of 2 degrees of separation.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 11:02 PM
Mar 2022

Last edited Sun Mar 6, 2022, 12:07 AM - Edit history (2)

Society's a lot more closely linked than most people realize.

Editing to add that I just realized that via politicians I'm 3 degrees from Zelensky.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
56. that would put me 2 degrees from Zelensky, since I've met Morgan Freeman...
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 04:19 AM
Mar 2022

who is 1 degree froom Sean Penn, apparently...at least, according to this site.

highplainsdem

(48,975 posts)
57. That would be 3 degrees -- 1st to Morgan Freeman, then to Sean Penn,
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 04:29 AM
Mar 2022

then to Zelensky.

And that's the same site I used.

I realized after Jim Wright was mentioned that because a couple of politicians I've met have both met Biden, that's 3 degrees (from Zelensky) because of them.

A lot of people here have met politicians and aides and activists who know Biden, considering how many years he's been in politics....and think of all the famous people he's met.

wishstar

(5,269 posts)
24. My dental hygienist is from Ukraine
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:48 PM
Mar 2022

She took excellent care of my teeth for at least 10 years. Both of her young sons are pilots in US Air Force.

Mollyann

(108 posts)
26. My grandson's mother is from Ukraine.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 08:59 PM
Mar 2022

His other set of grandparents live there. His grandmother has been visiting several months and was due to return this month. They are working to get her visa extended. Unfortunately the grandfather is still there, but he and other relatives are safe for now.

lees1975

(3,850 posts)
28. I live in a high rise
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 09:02 PM
Mar 2022

where there are multiple residents from Eastern Europe. Neighbor on my left is Ukranian, directly upstairs and two down the hall. I work with two Ukrainians, one just emigrated here in 2020.

mcar

(42,307 posts)
29. Husband's grandfather was born in Kyiv (late 1800s)
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 09:07 PM
Mar 2022

Borders weren't the same back then so it may have been part of Poland. The family ended up in a small town in what is now Belarus. Hubby's grandfather was a Russian soldier, here in the US buying guns for WWI when the Russian Revolution broke out.

He was never able to go home.

2. Nephew was raised in Switzerland. He is getting a master's degree in forestry and did an internship in the Carpathian Mountains. He just sent us a photo yesterday of 2 of his fellow internees - 2 Ukrainian brothers who have returned to Ukraine for military service.

Tommymac

(7,263 posts)
30. Personally know 2 young ladies who were High School Exchange students in our area - so 1 Degree
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 09:08 PM
Mar 2022

We were host parents of different students at the time but had many interactions with the Ukrainian girls.

Correspondence is active now. We were asked to keep details private. Both are fine, in Western Ukraine and so far no combat in their cities.

What they are asking for is to write our Congress folk and President to support Ukraine - they need planes, guns, antiair guns/missiles, drones, ammo and food.

They asked us to keep up support for Ukraine in all social media and write supportive letters to local papers.

Morale is as high as it can be, they say. They really believe Ukraine can beat Russia, the people are willing to die for Freedom and a chance to continue to improve their Democracy.

Bad Thoughts

(2,522 posts)
32. Two Jewish Grandparents survived multiple pogroms
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 09:25 PM
Mar 2022

My paternal grandfather left in 1905 with his family. The area is actually part of Russia now, but was in the Governate of Kiev and the Ukraine SSR until 1929.

My maternal grandmother left around 1920. She had been raped several times by both Communists and nationalists. The day before she was set to leave, her father was lynched in the public square.

Skittles

(153,156 posts)
36. same apartment building
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 09:43 PM
Mar 2022

during the Texas grid blackout a Ukrainian neighbor brought me a giant, ancient thermos filled with hot water,w with some tea bags (she was staying with a friend who had electricity but stopped by to make sure I was OK)....how cool is that?!?

kiranon

(1,727 posts)
38. Half Ukrainian/half Finnish
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 10:18 PM
Mar 2022

Maternal grandparents from Finland and paternal grandparents from Kyiv. The Finns want their land back that Russia now has.

NNadir

(33,515 posts)
40. My neighbors when I was a child were Ukranian.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 10:38 PM
Mar 2022

Actually they were my neighbor's parents who lived with her.

They were wonderful people and when I was about five or six, I used to call them "Grandma" and "Grandpa."

They used to give me Soviet stamps when they received letters from relatives. I still have them.

Now that I am a man, I understand something of what they went through under Stalin, the Homodor. They did escape to the US however.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
43. We have brunch with a Ukrainian every Saturday. Geographically?
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 10:43 PM
Mar 2022

We are about a 2 hour flight west of Kyiv, and that‘s by commercial aircraft.

Not much separation at all.

Swede

(33,236 posts)
44. I have many Ukrainian relatives.
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 10:46 PM
Mar 2022

These are ethnic Ukrainians living in Canada. Cousins, nephews, nieces, etc.

Mossfern

(2,487 posts)
46. My grandparents
Sat Mar 5, 2022, 11:12 PM
Mar 2022

were from Ukraine. My grandfather from Odessa, and my grandmother from Ekaterinislav, now Dnipro.
They didn't like to talk about the old country - Tzar Nicolas was not very nice to Jews. My grandmother did talk about
Cossacks hitting them with "sticks."

Kali

(55,007 posts)
51. my Father's second wife is Russian
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 12:17 AM
Mar 2022

she has a dear friend that she helps(ed?) support in Kiev. that is all I know for sure.

Tommy Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
59. Second generation on mom's side.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 05:28 PM
Mar 2022

My grandparents fled the Soviets with my infant mother in tow.

Grandmother spoke almost entirely Ukrainian so I know a couple of words. Familiar with all the holiday traditions and foods.

Visited Kyiv, Lviv and the Carpathians in 2019. Absolutely incredible experience. One of the most underrated countries to visit—rivals France and Italy in history and culture.

Still have numerous family in Lviv. They are safe, for now.

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