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Paula Sims

(877 posts)
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:13 AM Mar 2022

As a Ukrainian American, I thank you all. . .

Honestly, I don't know how to begin sharing what's in my heart. Well. . . let's start with a deep "thank you".

Thank you for remembering Ukraine. Thank you for caring. Thank you for your in-depth analysis. Everything has kept me and others going, especially since we have faced decades of hearing "That's Russia, right?" We Ukrainians are a kind, jovial, stubborn group with a dark sense of humor. But it's caring and not being forgotten that keeps us going, answers the question: Why bother? Who cares?

You see, even though my brother and I were fortunate enough to be born in the US, it was only because my parent were forced to flee Ukraine in the early 1940s. My Mother was 10 when Soviet solders came knocking on her parent's door, telling them that the next day, they will be transported to Siberia. All of them: my Mother (10 years old at the time), her 8 year old brother, and her parents, in their late 20's/early 30's. Their crime? They owned land. A whole acre (or probably less). That night, the 4 of them left, on foot, west, though Slovakia, Poland, Czech republic, Hungary, and finally, 10 years later, in a DP camp in Germany. Mother always cried when she spoke of those days. G-d knows what horrors a 10 year old child faced.

Meanwhile, about 200 miles north, around the same time, other soldiers came to my Father's house, looking for him and his family. These soldiers weren't so kind. My Father (around 21 at the time) was out with friends for a few days, so they took his two brothers (about 25 years old) and shot them in front of their parents' home. And left them for "others to sweep up the garbage". Then they went to my aunt's home (she was about 22 years old), took her, her husband, and their 3 children to Siberia for 25 years' hard labor. Their "crime"? They had university educations and were professors in literature, history, and math. When my Father came home, he was told what happened, and he and his two friends packed up and left to lands west. All on foot.

Yes, my parents faced horrors of war but also the kindness of strangers. Just as many stories of joy and laughter were told as stories of terror and horror. My Father also had a true visitation from the Virgin Mary who showed him and his friends the only passage through the mountain. But through it all my Parents impressed one thing on me: Do not forget who you are & where you came from, and be prepared for anything by learning about everything you can (including automotive, woodworking, cooking, sewing -- you never know.)

Our Parents are gone now but my Brother and I have family back in Ukraine, fighting for their land, their freedom. They remember what their families went though and their cry is "Never Again".

So know, that your posts, your support, your interest all bring me and others with similar stories comfort that someone out there cares. We, as a nation, haven't been dismissed.

Again, I thank you from the bottom of my heart

Paula

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As a Ukrainian American, I thank you all. . . (Original Post) Paula Sims Mar 2022 OP
... Nevilledog Mar 2022 #1
Thank you!!! Paula Sims Mar 2022 #4
🙏🏽 blm Mar 2022 #2
I like the advice they gave you... BigmanPigman Mar 2022 #3
🌻🙏🏻🇺🇦 onecaliberal Mar 2022 #5
K&R ismnotwasm Mar 2022 #6
K&R gristy Mar 2022 #7
Until this happened, I knew little about Ukrainians. summer_in_TX Mar 2022 #8
It's hard to imagine NJCher Mar 2022 #9
Through it all blue-wave Mar 2022 #10
Thank you so much for sharing your story of your family. lucca18 Mar 2022 #11
We are far from perfect, but we try.Glad to have you here at DU & in the US strengthening the nation Hekate Mar 2022 #12
... alwaysinasnit Mar 2022 #13
... cilla4progress Mar 2022 #14
... UTUSN Mar 2022 #15
Thank you so much, Paula, for sharing your families' stories. pnwmom Mar 2022 #16
American & Ukrainian strong ! p.s -World strong ! monkeyman1 Mar 2022 #17
Very moving reading... Thank you ! Karadeniz Mar 2022 #18
Thank you for sharing your family's story. I shared it with my family. Silver Gaia Mar 2022 #19
Thank you for sharing your family story with us. brer cat Mar 2022 #20
... highplainsdem Mar 2022 #21
Kick dalton99a Mar 2022 #22
Thank you for sharing your story. virgdem Mar 2022 #23
Who knew? Roy Rolling Mar 2022 #24
I've read a lot of words on this site in 20 years... orwell Mar 2022 #25
... sprinkleeninow Mar 2022 #26
We are all Ukraine 🇺🇦 Deuxcents Mar 2022 #27
Thank you for sharing your story. KS Toronado Mar 2022 #28
Kicking for visibility. love_katz Mar 2022 #29
Velseka: Ukrainian for rainbow BlueBassLines Mar 2022 #30
Thank you for sharing your story MustLoveBeagles Mar 2022 #31
Paula: Ubuntu: "I am because you are." fierywoman Mar 2022 #32
The two well regarded Russian classical musicians are thankfully ostracized SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2022 #33
Netrebko is being replaced in what would have been her next role at the Met by a Ukrainian soprano. catrose Mar 2022 #44
Saw that SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2022 #45
As an American of 100% Northwestern European descent I'm Ukrainian now. argyl Mar 2022 #34
This song's for you: Over the Hills and Far Away Hekate Mar 2022 #35
🌍The World is United with Ukraine 🇺🇦 Donkees Mar 2022 #36
Ty for sharing your family's story with us. SheltieLover Mar 2022 #37
Thank you for sharing your story and I thank the Ukrainians for giving me Raine Mar 2022 #38
Veselka: Ukrainian for rainbow BlueBassLines Mar 2022 #39
Veselka. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2022 #40
Welcome to DU, BlueBassLines! calimary Mar 2022 #51
Thank you for sharing AmBlue Mar 2022 #41
K & R n/t denbot Mar 2022 #42
Blessings to you andnyours mcar Mar 2022 #43
Your story is remarkably similar to mine. Tommy Carcetti Mar 2022 #46
💙💛🇺🇦💛💙 dixiechiken1 Mar 2022 #47
You are welcome I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #48
Thank you for sharing your family and your love for a country that is part of your heritage. Lonestarblue Mar 2022 #49
Thanks for telling us this wonderful touching story about your parents FakeNoose Mar 2022 #50
Paula, MLAA Mar 2022 #52

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
3. I like the advice they gave you...
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:20 AM
Mar 2022

"Do not forget who you are & where you came from, and be prepared for anything by learning about everything you can (including automotive, woodworking, cooking, sewing -- you never know".

summer_in_TX

(2,710 posts)
8. Until this happened, I knew little about Ukrainians.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:44 AM
Mar 2022

Now they are known and loved for their amazing character, pluck, humor, stubbornness, cleverness, love of country, and much more.

NJCher

(35,622 posts)
9. It's hard to imagine
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:44 AM
Mar 2022

Being told you are being sent to Siberia, and being told this by soldiers. And having no recourse.

We are so used to the courts as a recourse here that it’s hard to wrap one’s mind around this.

This is why we have to continue our fight against republicans until they are transferred back into a decent opposition party. Instant runoff voting preferred.

I am sorry your family had to go through such horrible experiences. Glad you are here.

blue-wave

(4,344 posts)
10. Through it all
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:46 AM
Mar 2022

they survived and we have you and your brother because of their struggles. My family too, suffered through ethnic cleansing back in WWII where there are no Ukrainians living any more. As one relative who visited the village where they once lived said "there is nothing there anymore." The courage and fortitude our ancestors exhibited is amazing to me. Where and how did they ever find the strength?

lucca18

(1,239 posts)
11. Thank you so much for sharing your story of your family.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:48 AM
Mar 2022

The Ukrainian people are truly amazing, and are fighting so hard together, to save and protect their country.

I am in awe.
My heart is with Ukraine.

PEACE ❤️🙏

Hekate

(90,562 posts)
12. We are far from perfect, but we try.Glad to have you here at DU & in the US strengthening the nation
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:49 AM
Mar 2022

🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
16. Thank you so much, Paula, for sharing your families' stories.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:52 AM
Mar 2022

Everyone who reads this here will hold them in their hearts.

Silver Gaia

(4,541 posts)
19. Thank you for sharing your family's story. I shared it with my family.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 01:59 AM
Mar 2022

Your story inspires us. Your people are inspiring the world!

Our 💛hearts💙 are with you! 🌻🇺🇦🌻

Roy Rolling

(6,908 posts)
24. Who knew?
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 02:13 AM
Mar 2022

I was ignorant of the Ukraine people, their love of freedom, dislike of Russians, and sense of humor. Your heroism and sacrifice is worth our support.

I think, what would the world have done in 1939 when Hitler made his first move, knowing what we do now?

I don’t know the answer, I just hope it’s what Biden and the world are doing now.

orwell

(7,769 posts)
25. I've read a lot of words on this site in 20 years...
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 02:22 AM
Mar 2022

...but none more moving than those.

Thank you of reminding us that the beauty of the human spirit can still rise from such great evil.

You give us all hope in these very dark times...

Deuxcents

(16,087 posts)
27. We are all Ukraine 🇺🇦
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 02:29 AM
Mar 2022

There more I learn of your home country n the people, the more I am in love with their love for their land, their freedom n strong resolve to keep fighting for it. My hope is help is on the way n the invaders are vanquished for good. I think we will all feel differently about what we did not know and give the respect due. Thank you, Paula

KS Toronado

(17,155 posts)
28. Thank you for sharing your story.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 02:34 AM
Mar 2022

Ordered a Ukrainian flag (3x5) few days ago, when it arrives I'll fly it every day.

BlueBassLines

(17 posts)
30. Velseka: Ukrainian for rainbow
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 03:23 AM
Mar 2022

From the menu of Velseka restaurant in the East Village of NYC, (the largest Ukrainian population in the US)

Much ❤️ to u + all of Ukraine

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,087 posts)
33. The two well regarded Russian classical musicians are thankfully ostracized
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 04:06 AM
Mar 2022

... for not denouncing actions of Putin, expose an arrogant and callous heart. They seem to be medals warn on the puffed chest of the dictator and his craven disregard for humanity.

I want to tell them this to their faces. I'm so angry. They can bury their brains in music, but they support atrocities unbound by the Russian Pig Putin.

P.s. the musicians are Valery Gergiev and Anna Netrebko.

argyl

(3,064 posts)
34. As an American of 100% Northwestern European descent I'm Ukrainian now.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 04:06 AM
Mar 2022

We'll certainly never quit remembering or caring what the courageous Ukrainians are going through. Your indomitable courage, your relentless resistance against against an evil little man is noticed, to say the least.
The whole world is behind you and proud of you. You will undergo a period of hopefullly short suffering and then will be fully welcomed as a full fledged member of NATO and of the West as well. I hope we deserve you.

And the despicable little man who started this? He was in serious trouble before he pulled this and if he lasts the Summer he'll be lucky. If he's simply removed, if a bullet to the back of the head, or polonium is used I'm good with any of them.
The whole world is on your side.

Donkees

(31,340 posts)
36. 🌍The World is United with Ukraine 🇺🇦
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 05:27 AM
Mar 2022




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SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
37. Ty for sharing your family's story with us.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 05:28 AM
Mar 2022

Like many others, I have come to absolutely love the Ukranian people for their bravery, dedication to their country and each other, and their creativity in the face of great danger.

I am also in admiration for the apparent lack of toxic masculinity in the Ukranian culture.

My ancestors' stories are similar.

🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦

Raine

(30,540 posts)
38. Thank you for sharing your story and I thank the Ukrainians for giving me
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 05:29 AM
Mar 2022

hope and belief in the goodness of people, a belief that I had lost and now regained.

🌻 💙 ❤ 💛🌻

BlueBassLines

(17 posts)
39. Veselka: Ukrainian for rainbow
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:32 AM
Mar 2022

Last edited Mon Mar 7, 2022, 10:51 AM - Edit history (1)

From the menu of Veselka restaurant in the East Village of NYC, (the largest Ukrainian population in the US)

Much ❤️ to u + all of Ukraine

AmBlue

(3,104 posts)
41. Thank you for sharing
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 04:05 PM
Mar 2022

I am so sorry for what your family has experienced. My in-laws were born in Austria and Romania and survived atrocities committed by Hitler. They lost many family members during that conflict, with the survivors ultimately emigrating to Panama.

My heart breaks for all of Ukraine and what is happening there right now. It is the last thought before I sleep and the first thought when I wake up every morning. Ukraine is in my constant thoughts and fervent prayers.

There is a bright line between good and evil in this world, and the Ukrainian people and your courageous President Zelensky are shining examples of goodness for ALL the world. Ukraine gives me hope. I just have to believe somehow Ukraine will win and this evil cannot succeed. We all must do all we can to help. The world cannot allow this evil.

🇺🇦🌻🇺🇦 🌻🇺🇦 🌻🇺🇦
SLAVA UKRAINI!!

Tommy Carcetti

(43,155 posts)
46. Your story is remarkably similar to mine.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 09:22 PM
Mar 2022

My grandparents were being pestered by the Soviet authorities. Some of their family was deported to Siberia.

Where abouts is your family from and have you been back to visit?

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,462 posts)
48. You are welcome
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 09:31 PM
Mar 2022

Ukraine lives in our hearts now. Thank you for being in this world. You and all the Ukrainan people.
💛💙🌻🌻🌻❤️

Lonestarblue

(9,958 posts)
49. Thank you for sharing your family and your love for a country that is part of your heritage.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:14 PM
Mar 2022

I did not have an opinion about Ukrainians prior to Putin’s illegal attack, but I am so impressed with their fighting spirit, their creativity in attacking the Russians, and their determination to defeat Putin and save their democracy. Your forbears are a brave people, and it is my fervent hope that Putin will be forced to leave Ukraine very soon. It breaks my heart that people are dying and suffering there.

Stay strong, Paula. We are all rooting for Ukraine. After Islamist terrorists attacked the office of the publisher Charlie Hebdo in Paris, the phrase “We are all Charlie Hebdo” symbolized the solidarity of the world for the French. Tonight, tomorrow, and the days after, “We are all Ukrainian.”

FakeNoose

(32,596 posts)
50. Thanks for telling us this wonderful touching story about your parents
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:21 PM
Mar 2022

My best friend Kay became a refugee after World War II, along with her mother and brother. She was born in Yugoslavia but after the war was over, Russians came and shot her father. My friend Kay was about 12, her brother was a year older, and her mom was in her mid-30s. Yugoslavia got taken over by communists and they all had to leave after their property was confiscated. Luckily they got out of the holding camp, and they walked all the way to Austria. This was in 1947 or 48. Through the help of International Red Cross, they contacted relatives in Pittsburgh, and were lucky to be sponsored to come over to Pittsburgh. This was the best thing that could have happened, and they've always been grateful for the chance to come to America and start over.

It's hard to come to a new country, not knowing the language or where to turn for help. We Americans need to open our eyes and our hearts, and help however we can. Ukraine is a good country with stout-hearted people. It doesn't deserve this horrible treatment by Putin. We must stand by Ukraine and help however we can.

MLAA

(17,252 posts)
52. Paula,
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:19 AM
Mar 2022

I’ve sent $$ to military and humanitarian efforts, but I feel I’m not doing enough. I put a Ukrainian flag on the front of my house. Finally I say this mantra multiple times a day: Ukraine strong, strong Ukraine.

My heart breaks and I will do more ❤️.

Xoxo

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