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boston bean

(36,221 posts)
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 09:41 PM Mar 2022

I am not going to live in fear of nuclear war

It is something I have zero control over. I truly do not fear it for myself. May I get vaporized quickly!

I understand some have a great fear. But I suggest no one let that fear rule their lives.

Covid scared me more. That was something I had a minimal amount of control of/over myself.

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I am not going to live in fear of nuclear war (Original Post) boston bean Mar 2022 OP
Agreed Timewas Mar 2022 #1
The 70's and 80's were affected too. I was scared as a teenager. boston bean Mar 2022 #2
Pretty much Timewas Mar 2022 #15
..."I don't feel safe in this world no more, I don't want to die in a nuclear war..." Kittycatkat Mar 2022 #3
My first thought too musette_sf Mar 2022 #13
Probably 20+ years since I've heard that Bristlecone Mar 2022 #31
I think a lot about that which I can influence or control Kaleva Mar 2022 #4
We spoke about nuclear war in elementary school. Gore1FL Mar 2022 #5
1964 was a good year Lots of doomsday movies that year... TreasonousBastard Mar 2022 #6
TB, you and I are on the same timeline. [drafted in '65] Lucid Dreamer Mar 2022 #20
Pretty close. I was actually drafted in '65, but spent my entire time... TreasonousBastard Mar 2022 #28
Glad you won yours. We lost mine. Lucid Dreamer Mar 2022 #33
I'm certainly not going to let little men frighten me with threats of it prodigitalson Mar 2022 #7
hear hear. AllaN01Bear Mar 2022 #8
If their missiles are anything like their truck tires... yagotme Mar 2022 #9
After I saw ours (fall, '68) I wondered how many would get out of the tube. HubertHeaver Mar 2022 #38
Supposedly, that's how the Russkies copied our Sparrow... yagotme Mar 2022 #65
Cooler heads in the White House have this under control. WarGamer Mar 2022 #10
thank you ! I hate defeatist attitudes ! no room for that - period ! monkeyman1 Mar 2022 #25
Never heard that. Hope it is true. Thanks for the info. Kittycatkat Mar 2022 #63
Seems to be true WarGamer Mar 2022 #64
I'm living till I die.... bahboo Mar 2022 #11
"I'm going to live forever, or die in the attempt," Capt. Yossarian, Catch-22 . . . Journeyman Mar 2022 #18
I worried about it more when I was younger. Mr.Bill Mar 2022 #12
Same age. Texaswitchy Mar 2022 #14
Most do fear it though on some level Meowmee Mar 2022 #16
I was at Minot in '73 when Nixon sent us to DEFCON 3. . . Journeyman Mar 2022 #17
The people in control on the organizational chart aren't always the ones in control struggle4progress Mar 2022 #19
I'm more fearful of Covid. The area in New York that I live in would be a direct hit. liberal_mama Mar 2022 #21
This is nuclear blackmail, we have no control over it. If we get the warning I don't doc03 Mar 2022 #22
Same. I have more than enough on my plate right now. Thank you. herding cats Mar 2022 #23
I'm sorry... calimary Mar 2022 #29
Oh, you made my evening! herding cats Mar 2022 #32
When the BIG ONE comes...go outside and yell Take Me Jesus ashredux Mar 2022 #24
just don't worry ! the retarded man of former-- monkeyman1 Mar 2022 #27
It's not the worst way to go Calculating Mar 2022 #26
I grew up with air raid drills ramapo Mar 2022 #30
I gave it up after the sheer terror of the Cuban Missile Crisis when I was 14... Hekate Mar 2022 #34
I prefer not to speculate about the best way to die. Fast does seem... TreasonousBastard Mar 2022 #35
If there is a bomb I hope I am right under it and don't suffer, BigmanPigman Mar 2022 #36
I'd prefer if we do get nuked, it would be in the middle in the night and I would have no awareness smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #37
Most will have prolonged and or terrible suffering Meowmee Mar 2022 #40
Ok, that scares me. What if you are within like a 5 mile radius of a direct hit? smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #41
It depends on the size of the bomb and whether the bomb is an air burst, the wind etc. Meowmee Mar 2022 #47
Thanks for the link! smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #52
Yw 😀 Yes that would be preferable to Meowmee Mar 2022 #59
Oh god! What a nightmare! smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #60
Yw, lets hope it never happens Meowmee Mar 2022 #62
You got that right! nancy1942 Mar 2022 #44
I do not have the emotional energy to waste worrying about such a thing. alphafemale Mar 2022 #39
Well, that's why I'm hedging my bets. smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #42
Me too. nancy1942 Mar 2022 #46
There is always an upside to nuclear annihilation! smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #51
I don't think I thought there would be nuclear annihilation this month alphafemale Mar 2022 #48
Don't worry. I am on a on a regular payment plan. smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #50
My utilities are included with my rent. alphafemale Mar 2022 #55
I hear you BB canetoad Mar 2022 #43
During the height of the cold war, I lived very near one of the top three targets niyad Mar 2022 #45
How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb? n/t Silent3 Mar 2022 #49
After dealing with Trump and Covid nothing surprises me Buckeyeblue Mar 2022 #53
I fear for my grandchildren! Emile Mar 2022 #54
+1000 MineralMan Mar 2022 #57
OK. That's you. MineralMan Mar 2022 #56
Not endorsing or supporting nuclear war... but it would seem kind of silly ck4829 Mar 2022 #58
I did the anxiety over nuclear war thing back in the early 80s. Torchlight Mar 2022 #61

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
2. The 70's and 80's were affected too. I was scared as a teenager.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 09:47 PM
Mar 2022

We can’t control what some russian mad man may use as an excuse to push the button. It could be because he is constipated one day and his hemorrhoids were acting up for all we would know.

Gore1FL

(21,128 posts)
5. We spoke about nuclear war in elementary school.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:01 PM
Mar 2022

I remember have class discussions about it, even.

To your point. There is no reason to live in fear.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
6. 1964 was a good year Lots of doomsday movies that year...
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:01 PM
Mar 2022

And then I got drafted. Definitely doomsday on the way.

Lucid Dreamer

(584 posts)
20. TB, you and I are on the same timeline. [drafted in '65]
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 11:05 PM
Mar 2022

I observed death and survived close calls often [med-evac missions] and I sort of became a fatalist. That actually helped me focus on my job.

Now I'm in the mood that if doomsday is coming I'll be around to see it.
It may be uncomfortable. So it goes.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
28. Pretty close. I was actually drafted in '65, but spent my entire time...
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:07 AM
Mar 2022

trying every drug known to man in a signal unit in Germany. Our job was to hold off the Soviets for three days until an airborne division got over there to win ww3.

Saw a lot of guys levied to go to Nam and even more spending their last few months before discharge. Most of those going were terrified and a lot od those on their way back were basket cases.

Lucid Dreamer

(584 posts)
33. Glad you won yours. We lost mine.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:20 AM
Mar 2022
TB> Our job was to hold off the Soviets for three days until an airborne division got over there to win ww3.

Glad you won yours. We lost mine.

prodigitalson

(2,408 posts)
7. I'm certainly not going to let little men frighten me with threats of it
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:02 PM
Mar 2022

People who make such threats are weak bullshitters given the
fact the countriess they are threatening can va0orize them too

yagotme

(2,919 posts)
9. If their missiles are anything like their truck tires...
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:03 PM
Mar 2022

they'll be lucky to leave their silos, much less cross the pole/ocean.

HubertHeaver

(2,522 posts)
38. After I saw ours (fall, '68) I wondered how many would get out of the tube.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:59 AM
Mar 2022

Second thought was "theirs aren't any better so, no worries".

yagotme

(2,919 posts)
65. Supposedly, that's how the Russkies copied our Sparrow...
Wed Mar 9, 2022, 12:02 PM
Mar 2022

Enough of them made it back to base stuck in the tails of Mig fighters, failure to detonate.

WarGamer

(12,436 posts)
10. Cooler heads in the White House have this under control.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:04 PM
Mar 2022

There's a "deconfliction line" set up 24/7 between Moscow and DC.

For now... adults are in charge.

WarGamer

(12,436 posts)
64. Seems to be true
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 12:21 AM
Mar 2022
https://www.defenseone.com/threats/2022/03/us-russia-agree-deconfliction-hotline-putins-attack-ukraine-escalates/362750/


“The United States retains a number of channels to discuss critical security issues with the Russians during a contingency or emergency. The Department of the Defense recently established a deconfliction line with the Russian Ministry of Defense on March 1 for the purposes of preventing miscalculation, military incidents, and escalation,” a senior defense official confirmed in a statement to Defense One.

News of the deconfliction line was first reported by NBC News.

Mr.Bill

(24,282 posts)
12. I worried about it more when I was younger.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:06 PM
Mar 2022

I'm 68 now and if I died in my sleep tonight I've had a great life and I am content. I'm in good health, but I know in my future years that may not be so.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
16. Most do fear it though on some level
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:51 PM
Mar 2022

More so now of course. It’s natural to fear something catastrophic like that. Most people will not be vaporized, they will die horrible deaths. Society will likely collapse.

It’s not a matter of letting it control your life, we have no control over whether it happens to us. Doing x will not protect you from it unless you have a well stocked bunker built somewhere with protection from the radiation for about 2 weeks.

Journeyman

(15,031 posts)
17. I was at Minot in '73 when Nixon sent us to DEFCON 3. . .
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 10:59 PM
Mar 2022

I was in the Air Force in October, 1973, stationed in Minot, North Dakota, the morning the original White House Dick, Nixon, placed us on nuclear alert over actions by the Soviets in regards the October Mid-East War. I remember standing in my duty station, looking out a barred window, wondering when the missiles might fly (I'd already seen the bomber pilots take off, and at that time, NoDak was the third largest nuclear power in the world -- behind only the rest of the US and the Soviet Union).

As I stood there that morning, a thought occurred to me -- later confirmed, when I spoke to my family in California -- that the only difference between the home front and the front line is a matter of perception. I knew the alert was on, so I was on the front line, while my family in California was ignorant of even the idea they were part of a 'home front.'

It's all different today. We are all on the front line, as events in recent weeks have made all so abundantly clear. So keep your head down and your wits about you, for if you let your wits down your head may end up all around you.

Ultimately, all we have left is Viktor Frankl's Challenge:


"For the world is in a bad state, but everything will become still worse unless each of us does his best. So let us be alert -- alert in a two-fold sense:

"Since Auschwitz we know what man is capable of. And since Hiroshima we know what is at stake."


liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
21. I'm more fearful of Covid. The area in New York that I live in would be a direct hit.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 11:08 PM
Mar 2022

I fear a long suffering death. A family member of mine suffered for 2 months before dying of Covid. In the hospital, on a ventilator.

When I was a young girl in the 70s, I was really terrified of nuclear war. My uncle was a science teacher and talked about it to me all the time. That terrifying movie, The Day After, in the 80s, didn't help either.

But now that I'm in my 50s, I realize that it wouldn't be the worst way to go. Maybe it would be one of the better and quicker ways to go. Assuming there was immediate vaporization and not radiation sickness.

doc03

(35,325 posts)
22. This is nuclear blackmail, we have no control over it. If we get the warning I don't
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 11:24 PM
Mar 2022

think there is any use even running to the basement, life would not be worth living afterwards I am 74.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
23. Same. I have more than enough on my plate right now. Thank you.
Sun Mar 6, 2022, 11:27 PM
Mar 2022

I agree about Covid. I'm not even scared of Covid right now. I'm vaxxed to the max and caught mild omicron from my granddaughter. I'm still standing. I still mitigate, but I'm not scared anymore. I was one of the weakest dominos in our family construct and I was fine. Yay, me! I was lucky and here I am.

I'm more worried for my brother's recent Spinocerebellar Ataxia 2 diagnosis right now. Which I can do nothing about, either, but it's a sure thing and not a what if this... blah. It's genetic, so my family may have to deal with it down the road. There's a 50% chance they will. Way better odds than a nuclear winter.

I feel like I'm less of a knee jerk person now than I was before Covid, and other events in my life since then.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
29. I'm sorry...
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:07 AM
Mar 2022

That little video of the attempted herding of cats (kittens in that case) at the bottom of your post was absolutely hilarious! Made me chuckle on a day when the news is leaving me near tears.

REALLY TRULY and SERIOUSLY appreciate it!

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
32. Oh, you made my evening!
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:19 AM
Mar 2022

I put that up as a happy thing to make people smile! I'm so very glad it worked for you. That's what my end goal was.

Nothing to be sorry about... life happens, that was my point. Don't live in fear because our own reality is what we're all dealing with. Forge on and be strong, and don't let anyone make you afraid of a randomized possibility. ❤️

 

monkeyman1

(5,109 posts)
27. just don't worry ! the retarded man of former--
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:05 AM
Mar 2022

administration is not in control & is locked up in his bunker ! the adult's are in charge !! the only thing he will do is just run his gum's !

Calculating

(2,955 posts)
26. It's not the worst way to go
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:04 AM
Mar 2022

I'd rather die in a nuclear war than get old and die of cancer or slowly lose my mind. At least you'd get to see the actual end of the world 😂

ramapo

(4,588 posts)
30. I grew up with air raid drills
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:09 AM
Mar 2022

Seemed so silly. We lived close enough to NYC that we could only hope to just be vaporized.

I thought we were long done with this nonsense. That was silly of me to think

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
34. I gave it up after the sheer terror of the Cuban Missile Crisis when I was 14...
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:26 AM
Mar 2022

I realized there was zero I could do about it and such an event would probably kill me fairly quickly due to my location. As an adult, same thing.

As an adult I prep for more foreseeable disasters like fires and earthquakes and now pandemics, which are generally more survivable if you respond sensibly.



TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
35. I prefer not to speculate about the best way to die. Fast does seem...
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:31 AM
Mar 2022

to have some advantages, but there's a part of me sorta wants to see what the mess looks like.

It really doesn't make any difference, though. Most of us will be dead or dying, and the future is not ours to see, just like the billions who went before us.

Want to really keel over in despair? Watch "On the Beach" again.

BigmanPigman

(51,584 posts)
36. If there is a bomb I hope I am right under it and don't suffer,
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:43 AM
Mar 2022

just disintegrate like in the film Failsafe.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
37. I'd prefer if we do get nuked, it would be in the middle in the night and I would have no awareness
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 12:52 AM
Mar 2022

of it coming. Just curious. Do you die instantly and painlessly? I would prefer that much more to prolonged suffering.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
40. Most will have prolonged and or terrible suffering
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:02 AM
Mar 2022

And will die of radiation poisoning/ sickness. It can take up to two years depending on the dose received. Which is determined by how close to the blast/ cloud you are, direction of wind and other factors. And whether you were able to protect yourself at all. You can read about all of this. In addition society will collapse if multiple attacks occur. There will be little or no medical treatment for those who are not super wealthy who may be able to survive.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
41. Ok, that scares me. What if you are within like a 5 mile radius of a direct hit?
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:05 AM
Mar 2022

Are you vaporized immediately? Is there a good/preferred site at which to read about this?

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
47. It depends on the size of the bomb and whether the bomb is an air burst, the wind etc.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:11 AM
Mar 2022

In Hiroshima, 90% within a kilometer were killed by the blast. Not a huge number were killed by a huge dose because they died from the blast. The radiation was released in an air burst and went into the atmosphere mostly. But others who survived the blast and didn’t die immediately, had radiation doses and they died from radiation sickness and cancers over a longer period.

Some things to do are to seek protection indoors or in a bunker for 2 weeks. Take a shower after the blast, clean surfaces, don’t open any windows etc.

Here is one site, there are lots of articles about it also. I don’t know if this isa preferred site.

https://www.ready.gov/nuclear-explosion

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
52. Thanks for the link!
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 07:27 AM
Mar 2022

Very helpful! I still think I would preferred to get immediately vaporized on strike, especially as I was asleep, but that's just me.

Thanks for the info!

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
59. Yw 😀 Yes that would be preferable to
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 09:00 PM
Mar 2022

Dying from wounds due to the blast etc. and or radiation. Here is another link which has very detailed info about all of it and some first hand accounts of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, pics etc.

Before the atomic bombs were used there were also numerous fire bombs used which killed many more people. Most people died from the blast, burns and other injuries, many due to destruction of buildings and inadequate medical care for those who survived. Due to the air burst the radiation was lower and the radiation exposure happened in the first seconds of the blast, not after it is believed.

If you scroll through there is a description of what happened to people who survived the blast and who had radiation exposure. Pics show that the whole city around the hypocenter(in Hiroshima) was pretty much leveled instantly except for one or two concrete structures. Most of the buildings were wood. Many buildings progressively outside the hypocenter were also damaged and set on fire. A german priest described what he saw, and more from the whole day, when the burst happened, they were about 2 kilometers outside:

“Suddenly--the time is approximately 8:14--the whole valley is filled by a garish light which resembles the magnesium light used in photography, and I am conscious of a wave of heat. I jump to the window to find out the cause of this remarkable phenomenon, but I see nothing more than that brilliant yellow light. As I make for the door, it doesn't occur to me that the light might have something to do with enemy planes. On the way from the window, I hear a moderately loud explosion which seems to come from a distance and, at the same time, the windows are broken in with a loud crash. There has been an interval of perhaps ten seconds since the flash of light. I am sprayed by fragments of glass. The entire window frame has been forced into the room. I realize now that a bomb has burst and I am under the impression that it exploded directly over our house or in the immediate vicinity.”

https://www.atomicarchive.com/resources/documents/med/med_chp3.html

https://www.atomicarchive.com/resources/documents/bombing-survey/section_IIIc.html

https://www.atomicarchive.com/resources/documents/hiroshima-nagasaki/hiroshima-siemes.html

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
60. Oh god! What a nightmare!
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 09:16 PM
Mar 2022

I know I have spoken about it in a careless manner, but i would not wish that on anybody! Not even my worst enemy. it seems to be the ultimate nightmare for humanity.

Thank you for the information. I appreciate the research.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
62. Yw, lets hope it never happens
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 09:43 PM
Mar 2022

It would be likely even worse now than what happened then if they use, larger bombs, multiple strikes with an at surface burst / at or just above ground level where the radiation fallout would be far greater. I think it’s a given society will collapse if multiple major cities are targeted.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
39. I do not have the emotional energy to waste worrying about such a thing.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:01 AM
Mar 2022

I will spend as much time stressing on it as I do the Yellowstone Super volcano.

It might happen.

Meh

I have no power or influence.

Meanwhile the cats are hungry and there bills needing paid.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
42. Well, that's why I'm hedging my bets.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:07 AM
Mar 2022

How soon do, if at all, do those bills need to be paid depending upon the likeliness of being a nuclear target?

Kidding, but kind of not at the same time.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
48. I don't think I thought there would be nuclear annihilation this month
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:14 AM
Mar 2022

Is an acceptable excuse for not paying your bills.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
50. Don't worry. I am on a on a regular payment plan.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 07:18 AM
Mar 2022

My bills always get payed. It was kind of a joke, as I said.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
55. My utilities are included with my rent.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 08:19 AM
Mar 2022

Other than that most things are auto deducted.

Even the rent I hit a few computer buttons.

I haven't written an actual check in ages.

canetoad

(17,152 posts)
43. I hear you BB
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:09 AM
Mar 2022

And agree to an extent but find the statement is a bit libertarian and close to the anti-maskers/vaxxers.

We should be scared. This is the world we have created; bought and paid for. Voted for - whether we like the result or not.

We encourage greed, possessiveness, resentment, retribution. We downplay and minimise kindness, gentleness and an appreciation of the planet and its people. Not you or I personally, but humans as a species.

When a single being on this planet is in possession of the means to annihilate millions of other beings, WE SHOULD BE SCARED.



niyad

(113,265 posts)
45. During the height of the cold war, I lived very near one of the top three targets
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 01:10 AM
Mar 2022

in the country. After the third false alarm within weeks, and knowing that we were targeted for multiples, and after reading the last lines of "Triumph" ("Who won the war? "We did. .Not that it matters.&quot , I decided that living in fear was a waste of time and energy.

Years later, I heard Dr. Helen Caldicott speak about what the aftermath of a nuclear war would look like for the survivors. "The living will envy the dead."

Buckeyeblue

(5,499 posts)
53. After dealing with Trump and Covid nothing surprises me
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 07:45 AM
Mar 2022

I wouldn't be at all surprised if in a fit of desperation Putin attempted to or did launch a nuke or two.

Worst case scenarios have become the new normal.

But I'm not going to spend too much time worrying about it.

MineralMan

(146,287 posts)
56. OK. That's you.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 10:52 AM
Mar 2022

Others might feel differently. Others might know that not everyone gets instantly vaporized. Others might remember very well the descriptions of the likely aftermath of a global nuclear war.

What you think is also something over which I have zero control. Nor do I want to have any control over that.

But, I will say this: It's not all about you and your fear or lack of fear. Nope.

ck4829

(35,062 posts)
58. Not endorsing or supporting nuclear war... but it would seem kind of silly
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 10:58 AM
Mar 2022

to have all the problems our economic system has... like pursuing massive medical debts over simple medical procedures or evicting people from substandard homes in the aftermath of a nuclear war.

"Hey, is Mr. Soandso here? We're here to collect on a debt when he visited the ER 3 years ago, before the Booms."
*Throws burnt dollar at debt collectors and racks shotgun*
"There you go"

Torchlight

(3,327 posts)
61. I did the anxiety over nuclear war thing back in the early 80s.
Mon Mar 7, 2022, 09:25 PM
Mar 2022

Many nights, I used to go to bed as as a young teen fretting every airplane flying over was The Bomb (and before anyone wants to impress themselves by telling me-- yes, I know I'd be dead before I even knew it was happening, but I was a young kid and rational thinking wasn't in my tool box yet).

I think we're to an closer to a nuclear exchange in the present than we have been for 20 or 30 years, but I just can't get worked up about it. If I get vaporized by a blast one day, it happens. If not, well... I'm going to the office tomorrow and printing 5000 new cover sheets for the TPS reports.

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