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While attempting to make an analogy about abandoning efforts to decertify the 2020 election, Robert Regan, a GOP candidate favored to win a seat in the Michigan House, said he tells his daughters to "lie back and enjoy it" if raped:
leftieNanner
(15,082 posts)I'll post a link if I can find the article again.
This is akin to Paul Gosar's entire family telling people not to vote for him.
MuseRider
(34,105 posts)I was going to try to find out how old they were and see if they had anyone around to tell them they had no obligation to let any man touch them let alone enjoy it.
When I was a kid our minister told us pretty much the same. He prefaced that by telling us he did not believe there was any such thing as rape. He asked us all to try to insert a pencil into a coke bottle he was waving around. See? If you really fight there is no way he can do it so if he does it it is your fault. Warped my little mind and scared the crap out of me for a while.
leftieNanner
(15,082 posts)I have two adult daughters. Cannot imagine raising them to think that is true. Unfortunately, lots of people (not just men) choose to blame the woman. "What was she wearing?" "She probably had drinks."
MuseRider
(34,105 posts)I would not be surprised to hear that some are still told that however. Remember the aspirin between the knees guy? We have made progress but in no way are we close to safe. They can and will legislate us into handmaids if they work at it but thankfully there are more women who DO NOT believe this stuff and who are not cowed by men with silly showcases to scare little girls. I have no faith that it will not happen but a hope that it will not. Too many things going on at this moment but once settled down I figure they will be gunning for us as hard as they can.
dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)Edit: lol I figured something like that. I can't believe I've never heard of this.
leftieNanner
(15,082 posts)I heard that one from my father.
And I learned about sex from a friend who slept over at my house one night.
I did not grow up in a very open minded family. Fortunately, I changed that with my daughters.
leftieNanner
(15,082 posts)I dare them to mess with my 6 foot tall kick-boxing daughter!
The thing about these awful anti abortion laws is that it won't end abortion. Women for all time have ended pregnancies. It will continue. But what we have had since Roe is that women could have SAFE and LEGAL abortions. Medical care.
I sometimes fear for the future, but when I think of my two fabulous daughters, I have hope.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Wingus Dingus
(8,052 posts)Why would he think it's in any way appropriate to bring up rape in that moment and context, and why would he put it in terms of rape happening to his own daughters? What a sick demented fuck.
Tadpole Raisin
(972 posts)Mr. Ected
(9,670 posts)Who in turn will elect other significantly unevolved representatives of their shared micro-knowledge, which in turn will be given a platform and a megaphone by our illustrious media, which in turn will amplify the volume at which the significant unevolved population should resonate among the majority who find the whole thing an abominable mess.
Rinse. Repeat.