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cksmithy

(231 posts)
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 05:59 PM Mar 2022

I have been a reader since 2016, and posted I've posted a few responses since I joined this year.

I learned about du after the 2016 election. I have loved reading all the posts, I agree with almost everything I have read. I guess this is my first original post. So to introduce myself, I was born in 1951, I am a 72 years old women, my father had major shell shock, ptsd from ww2, which he took out on his children. I really can't stand what is going on in Ukraine and the US. I grew up with the threat (in my father's imagination, (somewhere I have a pamphlet of what to do in case of nuclear attack)) of communists coming over our hill, which is connected to Hwy 101, in California, 13 miles from Fort Ord, CA. I am so sad and angry about what is happening to Ukraine. I feel it. I read a story about a 91 year old Leningrad survivor who is in Ukraine, and how difficult her life is. I, too, worry about my grandchildren and children living in this world and the world that is to come. I can only hope it will be ok. It feels like it is happening right now, to everyone. I am no longer on the California coast, though, I sure wish I was, the weather is wonderful and the country side and foothills, where I grew up, are so beautiful.

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I have been a reader since 2016, and posted I've posted a few responses since I joined this year. (Original Post) cksmithy Mar 2022 OP
And welcome to the DU. applegrove Mar 2022 #1
We are glad you are here. CurtEastPoint Mar 2022 #2
Welcome, cksmithy Glorfindel Mar 2022 #3
Thank you to all have responded. cksmithy Mar 2022 #6
I think you demonstrated excellent etiquette in your OP. momta Mar 2022 #48
Welcome Deuxcents Mar 2022 #4
Safe and sane at DU. blm Mar 2022 #5
Welcome to DU! SheltieLover Mar 2022 #7
Welcome! femmedem Mar 2022 #8
Welcome. Joined in mid '18. Great place, good people. electric_blue68 Mar 2022 #9
Or right next door to NORAD. niyad Mar 2022 #11
Ha! Well, there's THAT, then, too! 😄 (Eeeeeek) electric_blue68 Mar 2022 #13
Welcome to our DU family officially. Glad you came in from the cold. niyad Mar 2022 #10
Welcome to DU, cksmithy Hekate Mar 2022 #12
Welcome to DU, hope to hear more from you KS Toronado Mar 2022 #14
Welcome to DU fellow California native. Magoo48 Mar 2022 #15
I always get my news from DU since I discovered this site. BigmanPigman Mar 2022 #16
Welcome, and enjoy DU! Totally Tunsie Mar 2022 #17
Welcome aboard cksmithy. Glad to meet you. lamp_shade Mar 2022 #18
Well, welcome to posting on the forums here, since you've been a reader since '16. PatrickforB Mar 2022 #19
Welcome Aboard! MLAA Mar 2022 #20
Welcome to DU! Aristus Mar 2022 #21
Welcome. Looking forward to more of your posts. justhanginon Mar 2022 #22
Welcome to DU, cksmithy! calimary Mar 2022 #23
Thank you for the warm welcome. cksmithy Mar 2022 #24
Yes, Welcome to DU! I imagine the Central Valley-cowboy country - feels VERY FailureToCommunicate Mar 2022 #27
Nice to have ya. multigraincracker Mar 2022 #25
I'm in the "duck and cover" generation, too Warpy Mar 2022 #26
Welcome to DU. xxqqqzme Mar 2022 #28
Welcome to DU. xxqqqzme Mar 2022 #29
Nice to meet you Sister Woman irisblue Mar 2022 #30
Welcome 😀 Meowmee Mar 2022 #31
Welcome ck. I too worry about our children living in this world and the world that is to come. Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #32
Welcome to DU! n/t Backseat Driver Mar 2022 #33
Hang in there!! usonian Mar 2022 #34
cksmithy, I so feel what you said. Mr. Evil Mar 2022 #35
My dad was liberated from the Plattling death camp Danmel Mar 2022 #49
Thanx! Mr. Evil Mar 2022 #53
Welcome! I've read DU off and on since 2002 but didn't join until 2017. Still don't post a lot, but chia Mar 2022 #36
I'm older by 2 years and just expressed my age as the only positive I take from the news SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2022 #37
Bay of Pigs cksmithy Mar 2022 #41
I guess another earthquake is around the corner. SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2022 #42
You probably already know this but Robert Redford is a fellow Boomerproud Mar 2022 #44
Thank you for sharing Joinfortmill Mar 2022 #38
:) Welcome to chat, Cksmithy. Remember, tho, it's NOT happening now to everyone. Hortensis Mar 2022 #39
❤️ ❤️ ❤️ welcome. a kennedy Mar 2022 #40
Welcome to DU! PittBlue Mar 2022 #43
Welcome. DU can be a great place for news and meeting new friends. Boomerproud Mar 2022 #45
Welcome to DU cksmithy! spanone Mar 2022 #46
I was born in 1951 too! kpete Mar 2022 #47
Welcome cksmithy! Danmel Mar 2022 #50
Glad you joined those who post. I look forward to seeing more. nolabear Mar 2022 #51
Hi there!... MiHale Mar 2022 #52
I have been a member since 2009 kellytore Mar 2022 #54
This 1949 baby welcomes you. I drove up Highway One from Monterey to San Francisco NBachers Mar 2022 #55
Great to hear from you! Now keep it up. flying_wahini Mar 2022 #56

cksmithy

(231 posts)
6. Thank you to all have responded.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:15 PM
Mar 2022

This is the only forum? i have ever joined and posted in, I am not sure of the etiquette or rules. No facebook or Instagram.

momta

(4,079 posts)
48. I think you demonstrated excellent etiquette in your OP.
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 11:48 AM
Mar 2022

As for rules, well, there are some, but they basically boil down to "don't be a rude idiot."

I don't have Instagram either. I check facebook once a month or so, but it's pretty toxic, so if you're not there now, don't bother.

Welcome to the conversation.

Deuxcents

(16,190 posts)
4. Welcome
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:11 PM
Mar 2022

In 2016, I, too, read the posts here for a while but I soon added my deuxcents and have learned so much on many topics. I’m 75 as of last month n a grandmother to three great kids..all getting older n ready to start their own lives. I’m worried to death about the world we are leaving them...not only with this going on in Ukraine but environmentally n economically n politically. I hope you feel at home here..it’s a great place to be.

electric_blue68

(14,886 posts)
9. Welcome. Joined in mid '18. Great place, good people.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:21 PM
Mar 2022

And heh, try living (it is a often wonderful place) in the #2 target in the The USA back in '59 onward. NYC.

niyad

(113,259 posts)
10. Welcome to our DU family officially. Glad you came in from the cold.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:24 PM
Mar 2022

I loved the Ft. Ord area when my father was stationed there. Now, according to an article here on DU recently, it is more of a toxic waste dump.

DU helps many of us stay at least somewhat sane in these truly insane times.

lamp_shade

(14,828 posts)
18. Welcome aboard cksmithy. Glad to meet you.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:36 PM
Mar 2022

I joined DU in '03; have since come here every day and, dawn to dusk, DU is my refuge.

PatrickforB

(14,570 posts)
19. Well, welcome to posting on the forums here, since you've been a reader since '16.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 06:42 PM
Mar 2022

The more dialogue we have, the better - I have learned a lot from fellow DUers, for sure.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
23. Welcome to DU, cksmithy!
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:03 PM
Mar 2022

Glad you’re here, and that you decided to weigh in!

DU has been a lifeline for me, at times. During the rise of Pox Noise, bush2, and trump, especially! I’ve learned so much from the people here, and I’m a lot smarter on the issues and the personalities because of the writing, reporting, and perspectives posted here.

cksmithy

(231 posts)
24. Thank you for the warm welcome.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:07 PM
Mar 2022

The wind and fog would blow up the little canyon I lived in and my friends in town (Salinas) would get home before me to have a little sunshine before the wind and fog would set in. I lived in the country, 45 min. or more by bus ride before I got home after high school. Thank you for Welcoming me. I now live in the Central Valley, in California, wish I was still on the coast.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,012 posts)
27. Yes, Welcome to DU! I imagine the Central Valley-cowboy country - feels VERY
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:32 PM
Mar 2022

different than the Coast!

We were just out a few years ago visiting from Jack London's wine country (before the terrible fires) then down to old haunts around Carmel and Big Sur. Just a magical land.

But, yes, so many of us are heart sick about the war in Ukrane, and reawakened memories of fears of the Cold War days, hiding under our desks, making no long term life plans...

multigraincracker

(32,673 posts)
25. Nice to have ya.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:29 PM
Mar 2022

Great to have a place where birds of a feather can flock together. If we fly high enough, we can poop on the world...

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
28. Welcome to DU.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:43 PM
Mar 2022

I'm a neighbor to the south on the coast. Just celebrated my 20th DU-anniversary. I wish I could leave this impossibly high rent area but I'm a weather wuss.
It is a little windy in the OC today but the temperature is 71 and not a cloud in the sky. As you know we need some rain but the Sierra snow pack is a little assist this year.

You will enjoy it here at DU.

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
29. Welcome to DU.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:44 PM
Mar 2022

I'm a neighbor to the south on the coast. Just celebrated my 20th DU-anniversary. I wish I could leave this impossibly high rent area but I'm a weather wuss.
It is a little windy in the OC today but the temperature is 71 and not a cloud in the sky. As you know we need some rain but the Sierra snow pack is a little assist this year.

You will enjoy it here at DU.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
31. Welcome 😀
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 07:52 PM
Mar 2022

I remember having to get down under our desks with elbows over our heads. I joined in 2016 when I came to read a post about dump’s evil press person, the night before the election.

I have come to believe we will all be nuked or subjected to fascism at some point. Too many people are just to stupid and hateful. If nuked we will mostly die. Hopefully the better among us will survive if any do.

usonian

(9,776 posts)
34. Hang in there!!
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 08:31 PM
Mar 2022

I am 73, living in the foothills, probably near you (near, in CA, can be many miles!)

I grew up having nightmares over the Cuban Missile crisis, and lived quite a few years in Sunnyvale, close to the "Blue Cube" which was Onizuka Air Force Base, basically satellite command, and target #1 for Soviet missiles.

All that said, I have just begun to fight! My resource page for the Fall 2022 campaign is here:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100216380145

And I invite all to contribute links to action items.

I have also belatedly started a page for humanitarian relief in Ukraine.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=16468885

At my age, It's not about me!, It's what I can do to make this world better while I am still around.

You have friends here.
We care about others.









Mr. Evil

(2,839 posts)
35. cksmithy, I so feel what you said.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 08:34 PM
Mar 2022

I'll be 62 in about 3 weeks and my father also served in WWII. He was a part of Patton's 3rd Army '44-'45. He didn't really show any PTSD but, he did have his issues.

This is an expansive website and I'm still learning to navigate it while trying to adhere to its protocols. And I've been here since 2013. It can be daunting at times but, you'll get there. There are so many nice and knowledgeable people here. I think that's a major reason DU is so unique.

Welcome to DU and enjoy your stay!

Danmel

(4,913 posts)
49. My dad was liberated from the Plattling death camp
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 12:15 PM
Mar 2022

By Patton's Third Army. Grateful to your dad and all WWII
Veterans. I literally would not be here without them.

chia

(2,244 posts)
36. Welcome! I've read DU off and on since 2002 but didn't join until 2017. Still don't post a lot, but
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 08:35 PM
Mar 2022

boy have I learned a lot from reading! I too love the CA coast, live in SoCal but have been all up and down the coast from Crescent City to Imperial Beach. Love this state. I grew up with a mom who thought like your dad, and wonder what she would think, if she were still here, about the Putin-worshipping fascist GOP of today. I really don't want to know whether she would disavow them or make apologies for them. Best that I'll never know.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,110 posts)
37. I'm older by 2 years and just expressed my age as the only positive I take from the news
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 08:37 PM
Mar 2022

I'm a 101 gal myself. Grew up in the SF Valley. Hid under the desk at the sound of the siren at Van Nuys High.

Those were the good old days, I guess.



Welcome aboard. Huddling among friends and sharing info, good and bad, makes me feel patriotic.

cksmithy

(231 posts)
41. Bay of Pigs
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 09:05 PM
Mar 2022

Our entire school K-8, 30 kids in a class, two classrooms per grade level, went outside and waited in line to get on the buses. Since it was the country, only a few kids walked home. The principal on the loud speaker, said it was ok, and we went back to our classrooms. My husband doesn't really get it. He grew up in Ohio. Also, my school and my house was literally on the San Andres Fault line, I can't ever remember not having duck and cover drills. House swaying, baby buggy rolling across the floor. As you said, the good old days.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,110 posts)
42. I guess another earthquake is around the corner.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 10:30 PM
Mar 2022

We try to stay prepared. As it is, I consider that we live "near the sea's breeze". Or so it says on my Twitter handle.

Boomerproud

(7,951 posts)
44. You probably already know this but Robert Redford is a fellow
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 09:59 AM
Mar 2022

alum of Van Nuys High. He played 1st base on the baseball team. Just a tiny distraction in these frightening times.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
39. :) Welcome to chat, Cksmithy. Remember, tho, it's NOT happening now to everyone.
Fri Mar 11, 2022, 08:47 PM
Mar 2022

Most people around the planet are doing just fine. And it's spring wherever you are.

kpete

(71,984 posts)
47. I was born in 1951 too!
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 11:38 AM
Mar 2022

Important post - Remembering the fog & consequences of war

thanks & peace,
kp

Danmel

(4,913 posts)
50. Welcome cksmithy!
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 12:17 PM
Mar 2022

I joined in 2004 after the election because I was ready to go full fetal. Ended up joining my local Democratic committee, and working for a Democratic elected official since 2006.

kellytore

(182 posts)
54. I have been a member since 2009
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 02:04 PM
Mar 2022

and as I you can tell I do not post often. I feel as though DU is my home and it brings me comfort in knowing I am not alone in my beliefs.

NBachers

(17,107 posts)
55. This 1949 baby welcomes you. I drove up Highway One from Monterey to San Francisco
Sat Mar 12, 2022, 02:19 PM
Mar 2022

a few weeks back, so I passed right through your home territory. I will be heading out to Golden Gate Park and the seashore in a few minutes, and will think of you.

I am glad you are here!

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