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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumsit would be permissible for any family member of a rapist to sue the victim of rape for proceeding..
Note: the rapist himself cannot sue the victim, but his family can.
Watch Rep. Bob Freeman's (D) question (at :54 second mark in video).
The bill is moving forward to full committee.
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Republicans just hate women. Sickening.
dchill
(38,453 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,759 posts)Don't understand. Did they all birth babies from rape, and it worked okay for them, so, it's okay for all? Wtf is their motivation? Money? OfTennessee. OfTexas...
wnylib
(21,347 posts)Why belong to a party of misogynists?
Kittycatkat
(1,356 posts)Beartracks
(12,801 posts)Akacia
(583 posts)Demovictory9
(32,423 posts)hlthe2b
(102,141 posts)what will these white male POS (plural) do to the jury that nullifies against any charges? At some point, someone IS going to attempt to render karma on some of these sadistic a'holes addicted to cruel misogyny. Do they even consider that possibility?
Ka-Dinh Oy
(11,686 posts)Arkansas Granny
(31,507 posts)but it sure doesn't feel like it.
Kittycatkat
(1,356 posts)70sEraVet
(3,474 posts)evolves
(5,399 posts)But most of our legislature is batshit crazy.
keithbvadu2
(36,678 posts)The rapist's family should be required to adopt the baby and/or support it for life.
Hekate
(90,565 posts)keithbvadu2
(36,678 posts)Hekate
(90,565 posts)
child, feeling it grow and move, feeling the hormones of motherhood kick in, will she nor nil she, and then give it up to the rapist? Like being a brood mare, a bitch with puppies, a sheep or cow?
I think I would rather die and take my infant with me to the next world, if I could not run fast and far.
Just so we are clear about what I meant.
ShazzieB
(16,291 posts)Can't see a word there that I disagree with. ☹
First, there's not an iceberg's chance in hell that I would ever want some disgusting rapist's family to raise MY baby, even one I was forced against my will to have. (Seriously, what an incredibly revolting idea!)
Second, even PERPETUAL financial support would not begin to make up for being robbed of my agency in such a heinous way.
If I couldn't provide for the child myself, I'd prefer to give it up for adoption to adoptive parents I myself chose and vetted, rather than accept either of those options.
Hekate
(90,565 posts)keithbvadu2
(36,678 posts)IF the court should make her carry it full term.
I left that part out.
I don't disagree with you on the hideous part if the victim feels that way.
But I do want the rapist's family accountable if they fight to make the victim carry it.
Even if the baby is adopted elsewhere.
obamanut2012
(26,047 posts)Fuck that. No.
Why in the world are you even suggesting this as a solution???
Claire Oh Nette
(2,636 posts)Adoption is not the opposite of abortion.
In each instance, being able to keep your own child is.
obamanut2012
(26,047 posts)Rhiannon12866
(204,842 posts)wnylib
(21,347 posts)among them is located in their genitals.
justgamma
(3,662 posts)choose his baby momma and there's nothing she can do about it.
wnylib
(21,347 posts)Grab a woman by the hair and carry her off to a cave.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,104 posts)the moon is far away from the earth.
FuzzyRabbit
(1,967 posts)The inmates are running the asylum.
First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...and somehow, some time, they're going to reap the whirlwind. For obvious reasons, I won't elucidate exactly what's in my mind right now. But karma is going to be a very big bitch, sooner or later, to these clerical fascist monsters...
Lunabell
(6,046 posts)What will these christo-fascists do next? Goddamnit!
niyad
(113,095 posts)There are words. .most of which would net me a visit from the suits.
I have to stop now
Orrex
(63,173 posts)any family member of the stabber could sue Freeman if he pulled out the knife.
ancianita
(35,950 posts)Way to impoverish women, the babies they're made to have, and ruin both mothers' and babies' lives for good!
There needs to be a Women's Defense Force.
See those Tennessee guys? See their groomed token performing as their proxy? They are what woman haters look and talk like.
Grins
(7,199 posts)And in this case, war on women BY (Republican) women.
wnylib
(21,347 posts)There is a related phenomenon among women that I remember seeing back in the 1970s. It is women blaming women for being raped. Sometimes women are the harshest critics of a rape victim/survivor. It comes from fear and a desire to distance herself from what she fears. So a woman will say, "She asked for it. She dressed wrong." Or, "She should not have been at the party (or out shopping, or wherever she was.)" Or, "She must have led him on."
The psychology of it is, "If I just do the right thing and avoid the wrong thing, I am in control and it won't happen to me. So you must have done something wrong."
I saw it, as I said, in 1970 and it still exists among some women today. I was 20 and a 19 year old friend of mine from our high school days had been kidnapped, driven out of state, and repeatedly raped by a stranger. She managed to escape from a hotel room that he had locked her in and got to the office to call police.
The police made a joke of it, accused her of making it up as a cover story for running away with a boyfriend and then being frightened by the reality of sex. She called per parents who called the FBI. They took it seriously because her description of the guy matched their alert for a prison escapee.
But the original cop version got printed in the papers. I was amazed by the heartlessly cruel comments that I heard from women in the lunch room at work the next day. They never met the young woman, but spoke "authoritatively" about her being a liar, slut with a cover story, etc. The reality is that she was the shyest, most trusting and innocent of the group we hung out with at school. I was furious at their verbal attacks on the victim. I had gone to see her right after it hit the news and she was a total wreck. I lashed out at the cruelty of my coworkers.
(The guy was caught 6 months later and convicted )
So I am not surprised when I hear of women supporting misogynistic ideas and legislation.
wnylib
(21,347 posts)They did not even know the young woman but presumed to know all about what had happened and how. That was at a time when victim's names were made public. So, when I called her house immediately after hearing it on the news, her mother's tone was very guarded until I gave my name. She checked with my friend to see if she was up to visitors before telling me it was ok to come over.
I felt so bad for her and so helpless. Didn't know what to say, so I just listened and let her talk.
And then ran into that awful attitude at work. I was so angry at them that I made enemies that day for the things that I said to them but I could not consider any of them friends after that anyway.
mzmolly
(50,980 posts)Jacson6
(350 posts)That could be used by a prosecutor to imprison the rapist. Stupid conservatives.
gaskinite
(73 posts)If the mother asks for help from the state she will be referred to as a welfare queen.
raccoon
(31,105 posts)In a pigs ass.
Just when you think Republicans couldnt get more stupid, they never fail to disappoint.
obamanut2012
(26,047 posts)Or rather, the GZP members.
CousinIT
(9,225 posts)FORCED sex (rape); FORCED pregnancy and childbirth - completely disregarding the human rights of the woman or girl and denying her bodily autonomy. That's some EVIL American Taliban shit right there.
https://www.thenation.com/article/archive/reproductive-rights-and-long-hand-slave-breeding/