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IcyPeas

(21,842 posts)
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 09:20 PM Mar 2022

it would be permissible for any family member of a rapist to sue the victim of rape for proceeding..

Note: the rapist himself cannot sue the victim, but his family can.

Watch Rep. Bob Freeman's (D) question (at :54 second mark in video).

In advancing HB2779, a bill modeled after the Texas abortion law, Rep. Rebecca Alexander (R) says that it would be permissible for any family member of a rapist to sue the victim of rape for proceeding with an abortion.

The bill is moving forward to full committee.





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it would be permissible for any family member of a rapist to sue the victim of rape for proceeding.. (Original Post) IcyPeas Mar 2022 OP
Wtf? cate94 Mar 2022 #1
Even Republican women hate... themselves?! dchill Mar 2022 #2
The women pushing these laws is what I MerryBlooms Mar 2022 #7
Would any self-respecting woman be a Republican? wnylib Mar 2022 #29
So I guess the rape victim can sue the rapists family for raising a child to become a rapist? Kittycatkat Mar 2022 #3
This makes sense. There oughta be a law... Beartracks Mar 2022 #10
Monsters!!! Akacia Mar 2022 #4
Next..bill to lock up pregnant women Demovictory9 Mar 2022 #6
if that victim "loses it" & shoots the rapist's family members for unbearable levels of harrassment hlthe2b Mar 2022 #5
I see some episodes of "Snapped" in the future. Ka-Dinh Oy Mar 2022 #24
WTAH? JudyM Mar 2022 #8
I'm sure I've been told that the war on women is purely imaginary, Arkansas Granny Mar 2022 #9
Imaginary only in that we could never have imagined how far they would go.... Kittycatkat Mar 2022 #11
Good for Rep Freeman 70sEraVet Mar 2022 #12
He's definitely one of our good guys. evolves Mar 2022 #14
The rapist's family should be required to adopt the baby and/or support it for life. keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #13
I think 99.9% of women would find that option hideous beyond belief Hekate Mar 2022 #15
Full support then. keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #19
Let me amend: 99.9% of raped women would find the option hideous. The idea of bearing a rapist's ... Hekate Mar 2022 #33
I'm with you, Hekate. ShazzieB Mar 2022 #35
Thank you Hekate Mar 2022 #39
IF the court should make her carry it full term. keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #37
Why the hell should the rapist and his family have ANY say???? obamanut2012 Mar 2022 #45
As do 100% of adult adoptees. Claire Oh Nette Mar 2022 #20
WTF no obamanut2012 Mar 2022 #44
I'm beginning to believe that there are "lawmakers" here who have completely lost their minds Rhiannon12866 Mar 2022 #16
Never had one to lose. What passes for a mind wnylib Mar 2022 #31
So the rapist gets to justgamma Mar 2022 #17
Cave man fantasy. wnylib Mar 2022 #34
To say the country is going to hell in a handbasket is like saying Ferrets are Cool Mar 2022 #18
Who is running the asylum? FuzzyRabbit Mar 2022 #21
These scum are sowing the wind... First Speaker Mar 2022 #22
My god! Lunabell Mar 2022 #23
I had to read this three times. Thought for sure I had misunderstood. niyad Mar 2022 #25
Yes Hekate Mar 2022 #40
By that fucked up logic, if someone were to stab ol' Freeman... Orrex Mar 2022 #26
Pretty sure there's an "undue burden" clause in constitutional law that does impact state law. ancianita Mar 2022 #27
But there is no war on women.... Grins Mar 2022 #28
Brainwashed. wnylib Mar 2022 #38
I know Hekate Mar 2022 #41
It was so damned horrifying and infuriating. wnylib Mar 2022 #42
Huh? mzmolly Mar 2022 #30
The rapist would have to testify in open court that he raped the woman. Jacson6 Mar 2022 #32
Once the rape baby is born gaskinite Mar 2022 #36
And that family member is going to provide for the child. raccoon Mar 2022 #43
All of these laws are SCOTUS' fault obamanut2012 Mar 2022 #46
SO...Full sexual and reproductive slavery then. CousinIT Mar 2022 #47

MerryBlooms

(11,759 posts)
7. The women pushing these laws is what I
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 09:36 PM
Mar 2022

Don't understand. Did they all birth babies from rape, and it worked okay for them, so, it's okay for all? Wtf is their motivation? Money? OfTennessee. OfTexas...

hlthe2b

(102,141 posts)
5. if that victim "loses it" & shoots the rapist's family members for unbearable levels of harrassment
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 09:27 PM
Mar 2022

what will these white male POS (plural) do to the jury that nullifies against any charges? At some point, someone IS going to attempt to render karma on some of these sadistic a'holes addicted to cruel misogyny. Do they even consider that possibility?

keithbvadu2

(36,678 posts)
13. The rapist's family should be required to adopt the baby and/or support it for life.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 10:30 PM
Mar 2022

The rapist's family should be required to adopt the baby and/or support it for life.

Hekate

(90,565 posts)
33. Let me amend: 99.9% of raped women would find the option hideous. The idea of bearing a rapist's ...
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:18 AM
Mar 2022

…child, feeling it grow and move, feeling the hormones of motherhood kick in, will she nor nil she, and then give it up to the rapist? Like being a brood mare, a bitch with puppies, a sheep or cow?

I think I would rather die and take my infant with me to the next world, if I could not run fast and far.

Just so we are clear about what I meant.

ShazzieB

(16,291 posts)
35. I'm with you, Hekate.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:25 AM
Mar 2022

Can't see a word there that I disagree with. ☹

First, there's not an iceberg's chance in hell that I would ever want some disgusting rapist's family to raise MY baby, even one I was forced against my will to have. (Seriously, what an incredibly revolting idea!)

Second, even PERPETUAL financial support would not begin to make up for being robbed of my agency in such a heinous way.

If I couldn't provide for the child myself, I'd prefer to give it up for adoption to adoptive parents I myself chose and vetted, rather than accept either of those options.

keithbvadu2

(36,678 posts)
37. IF the court should make her carry it full term.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:46 AM
Mar 2022

IF the court should make her carry it full term.

I left that part out.

I don't disagree with you on the hideous part if the victim feels that way.

But I do want the rapist's family accountable if they fight to make the victim carry it.

Even if the baby is adopted elsewhere.

obamanut2012

(26,047 posts)
45. Why the hell should the rapist and his family have ANY say????
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 09:33 AM
Mar 2022

Fuck that. No.

Why in the world are you even suggesting this as a solution???

Claire Oh Nette

(2,636 posts)
20. As do 100% of adult adoptees.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 11:02 PM
Mar 2022

Adoption is not the opposite of abortion.

In each instance, being able to keep your own child is.

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
22. These scum are sowing the wind...
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 11:14 PM
Mar 2022

...and somehow, some time, they're going to reap the whirlwind. For obvious reasons, I won't elucidate exactly what's in my mind right now. But karma is going to be a very big bitch, sooner or later, to these clerical fascist monsters...

niyad

(113,095 posts)
25. I had to read this three times. Thought for sure I had misunderstood.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 11:45 PM
Mar 2022

There are words. .most of which would net me a visit from the suits.

Orrex

(63,173 posts)
26. By that fucked up logic, if someone were to stab ol' Freeman...
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:02 AM
Mar 2022

any family member of the stabber could sue Freeman if he pulled out the knife.

ancianita

(35,950 posts)
27. Pretty sure there's an "undue burden" clause in constitutional law that does impact state law.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:02 AM
Mar 2022

Way to impoverish women, the babies they're made to have, and ruin both mothers' and babies' lives for good!
There needs to be a Women's Defense Force.

See those Tennessee guys? See their groomed token performing as their proxy? They are what woman haters look and talk like.

wnylib

(21,347 posts)
38. Brainwashed.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:49 AM
Mar 2022

There is a related phenomenon among women that I remember seeing back in the 1970s. It is women blaming women for being raped. Sometimes women are the harshest critics of a rape victim/survivor. It comes from fear and a desire to distance herself from what she fears. So a woman will say, "She asked for it. She dressed wrong." Or, "She should not have been at the party (or out shopping, or wherever she was.)" Or, "She must have led him on."

The psychology of it is, "If I just do the right thing and avoid the wrong thing, I am in control and it won't happen to me. So you must have done something wrong."

I saw it, as I said, in 1970 and it still exists among some women today. I was 20 and a 19 year old friend of mine from our high school days had been kidnapped, driven out of state, and repeatedly raped by a stranger. She managed to escape from a hotel room that he had locked her in and got to the office to call police.

The police made a joke of it, accused her of making it up as a cover story for running away with a boyfriend and then being frightened by the reality of sex. She called per parents who called the FBI. They took it seriously because her description of the guy matched their alert for a prison escapee.

But the original cop version got printed in the papers. I was amazed by the heartlessly cruel comments that I heard from women in the lunch room at work the next day. They never met the young woman, but spoke "authoritatively" about her being a liar, slut with a cover story, etc. The reality is that she was the shyest, most trusting and innocent of the group we hung out with at school. I was furious at their verbal attacks on the victim. I had gone to see her right after it hit the news and she was a total wreck. I lashed out at the cruelty of my coworkers.

(The guy was caught 6 months later and convicted )

So I am not surprised when I hear of women supporting misogynistic ideas and legislation.

wnylib

(21,347 posts)
42. It was so damned horrifying and infuriating.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 01:13 AM
Mar 2022

They did not even know the young woman but presumed to know all about what had happened and how. That was at a time when victim's names were made public. So, when I called her house immediately after hearing it on the news, her mother's tone was very guarded until I gave my name. She checked with my friend to see if she was up to visitors before telling me it was ok to come over.

I felt so bad for her and so helpless. Didn't know what to say, so I just listened and let her talk.

And then ran into that awful attitude at work. I was so angry at them that I made enemies that day for the things that I said to them but I could not consider any of them friends after that anyway.

Jacson6

(350 posts)
32. The rapist would have to testify in open court that he raped the woman.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:18 AM
Mar 2022

That could be used by a prosecutor to imprison the rapist. Stupid conservatives.

 

gaskinite

(73 posts)
36. Once the rape baby is born
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:26 AM
Mar 2022

If the mother asks for help from the state she will be referred to as a welfare queen.

raccoon

(31,105 posts)
43. And that family member is going to provide for the child.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 09:18 AM
Mar 2022

In a pig’s ass.

Just when you think Republicans couldn’t get more stupid, they never fail to disappoint.

CousinIT

(9,225 posts)
47. SO...Full sexual and reproductive slavery then.
Thu Mar 17, 2022, 03:46 AM
Mar 2022

FORCED sex (rape); FORCED pregnancy and childbirth - completely disregarding the human rights of the woman or girl and denying her bodily autonomy. That's some EVIL American Taliban shit right there.

https://www.thenation.com/article/archive/reproductive-rights-and-long-hand-slave-breeding/

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