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brewens

(13,582 posts)
Sat Mar 19, 2022, 11:25 PM Mar 2022

The woman I've seen blowing off all COVID precautions the most posted she lost her dad to

COVID. Two years ago! She never said that was what killed him, so I figured it was cancer or something.

Jesus! She whined incessantly about masks and posted all the COVIDiot memes. She has posted more pics out in close contact with no masks that anyone I know. Now she's posting about missing her dad. She says both parents had first signs of COVID two years ago today.

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Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
1. I can't even imagine what thought processes...
Sat Mar 19, 2022, 11:38 PM
Mar 2022

... are happening in her noggin.

I try to put myself in the shoes of others, and their particular situations, but I can't do it for her.

PlutosHeart

(1,275 posts)
5. Social media has been great
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 12:30 AM
Mar 2022

for noticing how some people put attention as their first motivator. Could be with her as well. That is sad because there is a disconnect from other people like her parents.

I wouldn't try to rationalize it too much.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
12. I was trying to understand it earlier, but figured...
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 01:53 AM
Mar 2022

... my guesses would more likely be wrong than correct anyway.

wnylib

(21,447 posts)
14. I don't get it either. Maybe she is
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 01:56 AM
Mar 2022

bragging that she is somehow superior to her parents physically for not getting covid and dying.

Who knows?

pidge

(274 posts)
3. She's alive....that would prove her point. I am always masked when out and
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 12:20 AM
Mar 2022

triple vaxxed…I doubt I would be alive without those precautions.

I read somewhere that some people have a natural immunity.

wnylib

(21,447 posts)
13. Natural immunity seems to show up
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 01:54 AM
Mar 2022

in some people in all kinds of illnesses.

Some people who don't get symptoms when infected with covid develop long term damage later despite seeming to be immune. Occasionally they get long covid symptoms weeks or months later.

Variations in immune systems.

brewens

(13,582 posts)
4. Her dad may have been exposed on the very day I went to double secret, defcon COVID
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 12:26 AM
Mar 2022

lockdown. I had gone to ground but had one more appointment to make. That was 03/15/20 if I remember right. They started having symptoms four days later. Her dad was among the first to go. He had just retired too if I remember right.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
6. My lockdown was a week later, on 3/22, when...
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 12:32 AM
Mar 2022

... I quit my job that I'd grown to hate anyway. Too many Trump-supporting coworkers who'd play "jokes" like coughing in my face was the final straw.

They hated "RINO" Governor Mike DeWine at that time for being very proactive about about the pandemic, but that approach didn't last long for him anyway.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
8. I actually looked through some obituaries...
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 01:01 AM
Mar 2022

Last edited Sun Mar 20, 2022, 02:22 AM - Edit history (4)

... for the city where that company was located, many months later, but never saw any of them among those dead.

It was a factory which kept hiring convicted felons the last couple years that I was there too. Like Aryan Nation types of guys! I later learned that Ohio has a program which gives companies tax breaks for hiring people with felonies, and a manager told me that's exactly what they were doing when I mentioned it.

So I'd also hear about "prison rules" from those idiots, who I'd witness doing stuff like kicking the privacy walls of a bathroom stall because some guy in there was supposedly "sitting on his shit" instead of quickly flushing it. And how guys in the joint would get shanked for doing something like that.

Everyone on the production floor was given large cutting blades, like machetes, to quickly cut through the large rolls of adhesive-coated products manufactured there, and two of the ex-cons got in a fight and pulled those blades out of their leather sheaths too. Then a couple other ex-cons pulled them away from each other, and nothing happened to anyone. Nobody was fired or even suspended.

So I also wondered if the obits might include a murder!

Edit: I called a former (nice) co-worker from that place a few months ago, around Christmas, and he recited a long list of coworkers who were let go after I'd left. I think every felon was included in their pretty sizable layoff.

Edit #2: My work life is pretty much always hellish for me. I was a straight-A student in high school who voluntarily took all of the "honors" coursework just so I could learn more (like a male-version of Lisa Simpson), and later majored in math with a minor in physics. Then I learned about my "guaranteed" (according to my retinologists) blindness because of a rare genetic condition, and I no longer cared about my career. My life was more centered around preparing for that inevitable outcome -- e.g., keeping my expenses low and practicing a life with disability checks as my income and Medicaid as my health insurance.
I'm indeed blind in one eye, but now I'm not going blind in the other eye for reasons that I won't explain because it's a long story.
So now I'm typecast as a factory worker, and I honestly wonder sometimes if I'd be happier as a blind man instead of being around the typical coworkers in factories around here just to have an income.
I've had coworkers who couldn't even identify George Washington as the man on the $1 bill. No joke. Work for me has been like going to a Trump rally in Appalachia every day, and it feels unbearable sometimes.

brewens

(13,582 posts)
15. I'm disabled. Had both knees and hips replaced and going for the first shoulder soon.
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 09:06 AM
Mar 2022

I'll have the other shoulder done this year maybe too. I was most a warehouse worker and beer driver for years, then drove the bus for a blood center for 12 years before my joints went really bad.

That blood center job saved my life. I would have never made it as long doing much physical labor. I was always a big powerful guy, but you can only work like that for so long. I'm just glad it's not my back. If you use your knees and lift properly and all that, the wear and tear still goes somewhere and that's hips and knees.

That blood center HQ at Spokane, WA usually hired respectable people. You had to pass a background check.

I'm doing okay on disability. I don't need much money to be happy. I lost 140 pounds leading up to when COVID hit. The diet also greatly improved my cooking skills. I turned into a whole food homemade fanatic. Boy did I ever pick the right time to do all that. It's saved me a fortune. Also when some items were scarce, I was still able to get produce, whole chickens and stuff like that when all the canned and packaged shit I used to eat was wiped out.

I feel very lucky. I'm one that came out ahead so far with the pandemic. The stimulus money helped me pay off all my debt, which wasn't huge, but still made a big difference.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
17. So sorry about your work-related joint problems!
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 09:54 AM
Mar 2022

I'm relieved that your back was spared too, and I hope that you don't suffer from chronic pain issues. At least not severe chronic pain, the kind that makes a person almost unable to think about anything else! I suspect that spinal issues are more likely to cause that sort of problem, but I could be wrong.

My two oldest siblings are blind from the same genetic condition that I inherited, called Pseudoxanthoma Elasticum (PXE). It causes elastic tissues within the body to mineralize abnormally, so it also causes problems like peripheral artery disease from less elastic arterial walls.

I wasn't born until our parents were in their 40's, so those siblings are 21 and 17 years older than me. Our parents were only carriers of the defective gene that causes the condition, so they knew nothing about it. They took my oldest sister to a dermatologist in the 1950's, and he correctly identified her skin blemishes as PXE. However, he assured Mom and Dad that was the extent of it! The doctor never mentioned vision loss or anything else that could happen other than minor bumps of the outer skin at some locations of the body, most of which are covered by clothing.

Just before I graduated from college, I first learned about my sister's vision problems from it! Then my brother soon thereafter. And I was affected at an earlier age than either of them, so I wasn't too many years behind when my one eye was going through neovascularization, retinal scarring and then central vision blindness.

There's also an elastic membrane behind our retinas which gets mineralized and then cracks. It's those tiny cracks -- called angioid streaks -- that causes "wet" macular degeneration from choroidal neovascularization (tiny blood vessels that grow through the cracks into the retina) at an early age for people with PXE.

I was getting shots of Avastin into my only "good eye" for several years, to prolong the vision from that eye as long as possible. My retinologist repeatedly assured me that I'd go blind regardless because my retina kept being traumatized by new blood vessel growth about once every one or two months. So Avastin would only slow down the blindness, dramatically, but that retina was still doomed. He said that my RPE (part of the retina) looked terrible from so much repeated trauma.

To avoid this post from becoming a small novel, I'll just say that there's now scar tissue BEHIND the tiny cracks within the elastic membrane which is located behind the retina. So those cracks are sealed shut now! I'm not a religious person at all, but it was highly unusual that I had scar tissue that formed at such an ideal location! And it happened after I was assaulted and robbed too! (Knocked out with a blow to the back of my head, and then punched in my only remaining good eye for extra measure! Which is something that people with PXE are constantly warned to avoid because blows to the head can more easily cause detached retinas for us!)

I have been keeping my expenses low for many years, expecting the need to survive on disability later. Never tried to buy a house either. And I quit dating years ago too. I've lived completely alone for over 21 years now, so the Covid lockdowns were a piece of cake for me!

Hugin

(33,140 posts)
18. I was ahead of the curve as well.
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 10:02 AM
Mar 2022

I started gearing back in early Feb 2020. I was eligible for early retirement. So I figured I would throw the switch at mid-March. Then I was absolutely floored when someone somewhere (I still haven’t figured it out) uncharacteristically did the right thing and called for a near universal lockdown. (which didn’t last a week if it was implemented at all in most places)

Anyway, I found my situation actually an improvement and coasted along for another six months. I did this to block for a few worthwhile junior colleagues. Then the fight to maintain my status started against the narcissistic management who after scattering about a few dried out sanitizers (no masks) decided they were willing to risk our lives so they could have their in-person audience back. Which has continued incessantly during this period.

Now, I’m done. I have more important things to do and it is actually costing me money to work there.

Hugin

(33,140 posts)
16. There is no incentive to treating mental illness in the US...
Sun Mar 20, 2022, 09:45 AM
Mar 2022

Because people like that will also eat garbage, wear toxic makeup, and drive a death trap. All at market price.

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