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(3,185 posts)My publicist told me I have to do this. Also, I want to win more awards in the future. Please accept this new performance... er, I mean, this apology, and don't hold last night against me.
Thanks,
Will"
Beakybird
(3,333 posts)JoanofArgh
(14,971 posts)SmittyWerben
(823 posts)The Grand Illuminist
(1,331 posts)This means that AMPAS is a hair's breath away from stripping him of his Oscar, and he knows it.
ripcord
(5,372 posts)IcyPeas
(21,865 posts)Cha
(297,191 posts)wishes he had never said that.
Thank you for this, ripcord. Definitely a Real Apology.
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Sunsky
(1,737 posts)I have a newfound respect for Chris Rock. Will Smith is one of my faves and I'm deeply disappointed in his inexcusable action and the weak-ass apology he gave at the event but to err is human. I won't dismiss him based on one act. We can all learn from the moment.
Cha
(297,191 posts)me the source of Chris Rock's Statement.. I can't find it on Instagram or FB.
Mahalo!
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JoanofArgh
(14,971 posts)he needed to do it. Chris Rock should now apologize to Jada and everybody can move on.
Cha
(297,191 posts)JoanofArgh
(14,971 posts)Cha
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a kennedy
(29,655 posts)am so happy he did it.
tishaLA
(14,176 posts)Cha
(297,191 posts)his apology was real, I think, and I choked up a bit.
https://democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=16537848
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tishaLA
(14,176 posts)Cha
(297,191 posts)from the heart💕 very humble and sincere.
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BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)That sniveling speech when he accepted his reward just made me even more sickened than I was after the slap.
Doc Sportello
(7,517 posts)Several on here said it was staged and wouldn't listen to any contrary evidence. Oops.
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frazzled
(18,402 posts)This is my last word on this issue (hopefully), but I feel compelled to explain my contrarian view on this subject and to open up the discussion to what I see as the larger issue ... the very anti-feminist, toxic masculinity that was at the heart not just of the incident but of the film for which Smith (perhaps deservedly)won the Oscar.
Lets start at the beginning. When I watched King Richard some months ago I truly enjoyed it. It was well made and well acted, and quite entertaining. All good. But in the back of my mind I was a little disturbed about the portrayal of Richard Williams, a figure who had been seen as quite controversial back in the day. What Smith saw as his fierce protection of his family might, through a different lens, also be seen as verging on a kind of abusivess based on control. And this was Smiths visionhe wasnt just an actor here, this project was his personal baby. But no one was talking about it, so I figured it was just me.
Though Amy Schumer must have been thinking about it, because in the opening segment last night she made this comment:
After years of Hollywood ignoring women, we finally got a movie about the incredible Williams sisters
dad.
Snap. And I bet that was the beginning of Smiths anger that night. He was about to be crowned King Will, and that (very accurate) barb was the first wound.
So then lets look at the other bookend of the eveningthe acceptance speech. This shocked me more than anything. To recap, Smith tried to justify his behavior by saying that God himself (herself?) had led him to see his mission as protector of women. Oh really ??!! If this isnt some twisted version of the White Savior theme (transferred to a Black actor), I dont know what else to call it. And hes still using that defense in this apology tweet.
In other words, to me, its not the incident that matters. Its the entitled male vision of his God-appointed role to protect poor defenseless little women ... from what, weak humorous comments? ... that is absolutely galling. This is a womens issue about macho male attitudes of self-importance, and I would hope that some would see this. The alligator tears last night didnt convince me ... hes an actor after all, a very good actor in fact. But he sorely miscalculated and needs some straightening out.
BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)Good post. And spot on.
FakeNoose
(32,634 posts)These guys used to be good friends, am I right?
I sincerely hope that one of them picked up the phone and called the other one. A sincere apology needs to be given in person, or if nothing else at least in-person-over-the-phone. These Twitter "apologies" aren't the same thing.
Just sayin'
MOMFUDSKI
(5,523 posts)a pre-planned publicity stunt. Look at all the press these 2 have gotten. Actors gonna act . . . .