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Will Smith apologizes on Instagram: (Original Post) demmiblue Mar 2022 OP
Translation: Jedi Guy Mar 2022 #1
Apt translation 👌 Beakybird Mar 2022 #3
Lol, perfect. JoanofArgh Mar 2022 #6
Yup pandr32 Mar 2022 #11
There also seems to be a bit of "look what you made me do" in this apology. SmittyWerben Mar 2022 #14
Also.... The Grand Illuminist Mar 2022 #24
Chris Rock also apologized ripcord Mar 2022 #2
I like Chris' apology. IcyPeas Mar 2022 #7
I said last night.. I bet he Cha Mar 2022 #8
Class vs ... Sunsky Mar 2022 #23
Aloha, ripcord.. could you tell Cha Mar 2022 #25
Well, I mean, it's a nice apology. Don't know if it was written by him or a publicist but JoanofArgh Mar 2022 #4
He has.. it's in this post above.. Cha Mar 2022 #9
Thanks, Cha! I noticed after I posted. JoanofArgh Mar 2022 #10
You're Welcome, Joan! Cha Mar 2022 #15
I hope he wrote it, I cried reading it........thought it was very heartfelt...... a kennedy Mar 2022 #5
Yeah the dancing, the self-justifying speech, and his son tishaLA Mar 2022 #12
Chris was so wrong to say what he said.. but Cha Mar 2022 #16
I agree and I'm almost positive he wrote it himself tishaLA Mar 2022 #18
I was thinking that, too. An apology Cha Mar 2022 #20
Same here. BlackSkimmer Mar 2022 #26
Wonder how the conspiracy theorists will spin this Doc Sportello Mar 2022 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author BlueCheeseAgain Mar 2022 #17
Meh frazzled Mar 2022 #19
Good point. BlackSkimmer Mar 2022 #27
Well okay ... public apologies accepted by both parties FakeNoose Mar 2022 #21
This whole episode could be nothing more than MOMFUDSKI Mar 2022 #22

Jedi Guy

(3,185 posts)
1. Translation:
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 07:57 PM
Mar 2022
"Dear Academy,

My publicist told me I have to do this. Also, I want to win more awards in the future. Please accept this new performance... er, I mean, this apology, and don't hold last night against me.

Thanks,

Will"

Cha

(297,191 posts)
8. I said last night.. I bet he
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 08:12 PM
Mar 2022

wishes he had never said that.

Thank you for this, ripcord. Definitely a Real Apology.

💙💛

Sunsky

(1,737 posts)
23. Class vs ...
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 09:32 PM
Mar 2022

I have a newfound respect for Chris Rock. Will Smith is one of my faves and I'm deeply disappointed in his inexcusable action and the weak-ass apology he gave at the event but to err is human. I won't dismiss him based on one act. We can all learn from the moment.

Cha

(297,191 posts)
25. Aloha, ripcord.. could you tell
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 05:52 PM
Mar 2022

me the source of Chris Rock's Statement.. I can't find it on Instagram or FB.

Mahalo!
💙💛


JoanofArgh

(14,971 posts)
4. Well, I mean, it's a nice apology. Don't know if it was written by him or a publicist but
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 08:03 PM
Mar 2022

he needed to do it. Chris Rock should now apologize to Jada and everybody can move on.

a kennedy

(29,655 posts)
5. I hope he wrote it, I cried reading it........thought it was very heartfelt......
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 08:05 PM
Mar 2022

am so happy he did it.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
26. Same here.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 06:31 PM
Mar 2022

That sniveling speech when he accepted his reward just made me even more sickened than I was after the slap.

Doc Sportello

(7,517 posts)
13. Wonder how the conspiracy theorists will spin this
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 08:19 PM
Mar 2022

Several on here said it was staged and wouldn't listen to any contrary evidence. Oops.

Response to demmiblue (Original post)

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
19. Meh
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 08:39 PM
Mar 2022

This is my last word on this issue (hopefully), but I feel compelled to explain my contrarian view on this subject and to open up the discussion to what I see as the larger issue ... the very anti-feminist, toxic masculinity that was at the heart not just of the incident but of the film for which Smith (perhaps deservedly)won the Oscar.

Let’s start at the beginning. When I watched King Richard some months ago I truly enjoyed it. It was well made and well acted, and quite entertaining. All good. But in the back of my mind I was a little disturbed about the portrayal of Richard Williams, a figure who had been seen as quite controversial back in the day. What Smith saw as his “fierce protection of his family” might, through a different lens, also be seen as verging on a kind of abusivess based on control. And this was Smith’s vision—he wasn’t just an actor here, this project was his personal baby. But no one was talking about it, so I figured it was just me.

Though Amy Schumer must have been thinking about it, because in the opening segment last night she made this comment:

“After years of Hollywood ignoring women, we finally got a movie about the incredible Williams sisters’ … dad.”

Snap. And I bet that was the beginning of Smith’s anger that night. He was about to be crowned King Will, and that (very accurate) barb was the first wound.

So then let’s look at the other bookend of the evening—the acceptance speech. This shocked me more than anything. To recap, Smith tried to justify his behavior by saying that God himself (herself?) had led him to see his mission as protector of women. Oh really ??!! If this isn’t some twisted version of the White Savior theme (transferred to a Black actor), I don’t know what else to call it. And he’s still using that defense in this apology tweet.

In other words, to me, it’s not the incident that matters. It’s the entitled male vision of his God-appointed role to protect poor defenseless little women ... from what, weak humorous comments? ... that is absolutely galling. This is a women’s issue about macho male attitudes of self-importance, and I would hope that some would see this. The alligator tears last night didn’t convince me ... he’s an actor after all, a very good actor in fact. But he sorely miscalculated and needs some straightening out.

FakeNoose

(32,634 posts)
21. Well okay ... public apologies accepted by both parties
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 09:18 PM
Mar 2022

These guys used to be good friends, am I right?

I sincerely hope that one of them picked up the phone and called the other one. A sincere apology needs to be given in person, or if nothing else at least in-person-over-the-phone. These Twitter "apologies" aren't the same thing.

Just sayin'

MOMFUDSKI

(5,523 posts)
22. This whole episode could be nothing more than
Mon Mar 28, 2022, 09:31 PM
Mar 2022

a pre-planned publicity stunt. Look at all the press these 2 have gotten. Actors gonna act . . . .

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