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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI'm reminded of Kathy Griffin...
By and large, society rewards comedians for being edgy. They get blow back too, and even hard core detractors, for skating close to the edge, but when they get it "just right" mostly they get fame/notoriety (which of course are related), bigger audiences, and commercial success for their ability to throw us off balance, even shock us, with their words and/or images.
Sometimes they clearly go too far. A strong case can be made that Kathy Griffin did so with her beheaded Trump image. And a strong case can be made that Chris Rock did so with his GI Jane joke. Those are high profile examples, but comedians "go too far" every day of the week in comedy clubs and talk radio broadcasts. Mostly they "get away with it." Sometimes they don't. Our culture incentivizes "shock talk". When it goes off the rails all of the blame shouldn't always rest on comedians who increasingly work with very little margin for error.
I don't know the answer, there probably isn't one. The closest I can come is when people fuck up they should own it, both those who hurt with their words and those who in some way overreact to them. And the best resolution, when earned, is forgiveness.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Its a lost art. Along with courtesy , decorum and respect for personal space.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)DemocratSinceBirth
(99,710 posts)No pun intended.
Emile
(22,669 posts)JenniferJuniper
(4,510 posts)who posed no threat to him? Yes, I'd say that's a major eff up.
I don't get people defending this behavior with false equivalency arguments.
Emile
(22,669 posts)Misguided chivalry.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Other reports say Smith slapped him.
If the guy that played Ali punched you, I think that you would have hit the floor.
It so much like sports. One guy can say any gross or disparaging thing. Over and over. But if the target hits back.. they get the punishment. Not sure I entirely agree with that.
Anyway, I cant stand most things that come out of Rocks mouth
JenniferJuniper
(4,510 posts)Doesn't matter what was said. There is no way that sort of behavior is justifiable.
And there is something very wrong with Smith; no sane person would do that in front of millions of witnesses.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)For me, Rock started it and Smith finished it.
Both equally assholes.
JenniferJuniper
(4,510 posts)Sure. But Chris Rock didn't assault Smith.
If I slapped around my neighbor for talking smack to me and this was witnessed by another neighbor, I would be arrested or at least cited when the police arrived. But I'm not a wealthy movie star. My neighbor, on the other hand, would not be arrested for saying mean things to me.
Do you really not see the difference?
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Edit: I ask you why do you see a difference?
JenniferJuniper
(4,510 posts)Chris Rock was physically assaulted. Jada was on the receiving end of a mean - and lame - joke
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)bottomofthehill
(8,329 posts)Talking shit is not an assault. It is being an asshole but not assault.
Emile
(22,669 posts)LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Its your opinion. This is mine.
bottomofthehill
(8,329 posts)Your and my opinion is that Chris Rock is an asshole, and not that funny. You could not take your opinion that Chris Rock assaulted Jada and get an indictment. You could easily take the film of the Slap and get one.
Emile
(22,669 posts)bottomofthehill
(8,329 posts)But that was clearly an assault, unjustified and a chargeable event it Chris Rock chose to press charges. By your standard there are a lot of people who would be assaulted. Then you would have those who talk shit, and then stand their ground. There was no threat from Chris Rock, just a shitty joke for a cheap laugh. Lucky it did not happen in Florida, Rock may have been justified in shooting Will Smith dead. A much larger man who had been trained to throw a punch, even an acting punch would clearly be a threat.
elias7
(3,997 posts)Emile
(22,669 posts)uponit7771
(90,335 posts)... go into being edgy for the sake of being a jerk to undeserving people.
Having none of that kind of comedy we get J6 stupids and Russia where there is no open honest dialogue about anything
GoodRaisin
(8,922 posts)Its still bad taste.
Never been a fan of Chris Rock. I dont find him funny at all.
LakeArenal
(28,817 posts)Just because you are a comedian doesnt give you free range. When you go too far
.the reaction my be a
That shit about sticks and stones breaking bones but words can never heart is bullshit.