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DFW

(54,369 posts)
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:01 AM Mar 2022

One of the few perks of a job which takes me to a different country every day is.......

The good old stopped clock phenomenon, which means every now and then, I have to be in Frankfurt on a day when my younger daughter is also there, and can bring one of our granddaughters with her. It was only for about 45 minutes. Then our work schedules diverged again. But as long as we could spare the time...........

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One of the few perks of a job which takes me to a different country every day is....... (Original Post) DFW Mar 2022 OP
Nice ❗️ underpants Mar 2022 #1
Give her about 15 years or less DFW Mar 2022 #2
You're a lucky man DFW ornotna Mar 2022 #3
So cute... orwell Mar 2022 #4
And if fate ALLOWS us to see it! n/t DFW Mar 2022 #41
Dfw rso Mar 2022 #5
I'm not sure if that's what that is DFW Mar 2022 #7
I was thinking it looked like some sort of still! TxGuitar Mar 2022 #10
Does appear to be a beer sitting next to it KS Toronado Mar 2022 #21
No, from Mrs. DFW, not from me! DFW Mar 2022 #42
I reiterate that although close GeoWilliam750 Mar 2022 #55
If I were anywhere near second luckiest, I might get a little more rest than I do these days DFW Mar 2022 #71
Ah, how beautiful your granddaughter is, my dear DFW! I can see your smile from here. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2022 #6
Ah, my dear Peggy, you have to grab these moments while you can DFW Mar 2022 #14
Her smile is as big as yours. It is joy for her as well. TNNurse Mar 2022 #33
Grandkids are the best! Ptah Mar 2022 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Mar 2022 #12
IF you can steal the time!! DFW Mar 2022 #15
:) And boy doesn't your picture say it! He's beautiful. Hortensis Mar 2022 #39
What a beautiful photo Tree Lady Mar 2022 #9
Yes, I don't get it DFW Mar 2022 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Mar 2022 #11
Believe me, when she DOESN'T get what she wants DFW Mar 2022 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Mar 2022 #19
I'm only guilty of posting the one in the OP DFW Mar 2022 #20
How sweet. Lovely child, and so good you get to see her and your daughter now and then. Lonestarblue Mar 2022 #13
It's rare enough, although......... DFW Mar 2022 #16
What a gift! SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2022 #28
Thanks, we'll try!! DFW Mar 2022 #31
What a great gift for a memorable, milestone event! Great nickname too. Thanks for sharing Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #66
That's a wonderful photo! You both look so happy. Yorkie Mom Mar 2022 #22
I get a 45 minute break from work. She gets to order what she wants. DFW Mar 2022 #23
She's gorgeous. lpbk2713 Mar 2022 #24
She inherited a generous dose of my wife's genes. DFW Mar 2022 #27
What a lovely photo! secondwind Mar 2022 #25
Good For You DFW! Lemon Lyman Mar 2022 #26
No idea! DFW Mar 2022 #29
Ha! Lemon Lyman Mar 2022 #35
Oh how I miss those times!!! My granddaughter graduates from Hobart in a couple of months! secondwind Mar 2022 #30
In ten years, you can start again as great grandparents! DFW Mar 2022 #34
Little ray of sunshine! calimary Mar 2022 #32
Such a wonderful picture that captures your connection pandr32 Mar 2022 #36
Thanks! We hope so, too. DFW Mar 2022 #43
Sounds like you will have a wonderful time. pandr32 Mar 2022 #54
Mahalo! n/t DFW Mar 2022 #63
What a bright, sweet gift in your lives, DFW. Hortensis Mar 2022 #37
Good For You! ProfessorGAC Mar 2022 #38
My coming will admittedly not cause the same reaction as what Darth Vader might cause DFW Mar 2022 #45
Beauty!!! ProfessorGAC Mar 2022 #50
Awwww she will treasure such memories. róisín_dubh Mar 2022 #40
I miss mine, too! DFW Mar 2022 #44
Thank you so very much for sharing this beautiful ray of sunshine and joy with us. niyad Mar 2022 #46
Thanks, Niyad! DFW Mar 2022 #47
That's living the high life! Harker Mar 2022 #48
Gotta stop and get out of the fast lane every now and then DFW Mar 2022 #49
Wise words. Harker Mar 2022 #51
Thanks for sharing and giving us a reason to smile. alwaysinasnit Mar 2022 #52
Great! elleng Mar 2022 #53
Very nice picture. Very sweet. You and your granddaughter are lovely. AnotherMother4Peace Mar 2022 #56
You look like a central casting grandpa. trof Mar 2022 #57
There WAS a time when I was the central casting pirate DFW Mar 2022 #64
CUTE ALERT!!! 11 Bravo Mar 2022 #58
Lovely. And those grandkids grow up faster than the kids did. Liberal In Texas Mar 2022 #59
And a LOT easier to carry around! n/t DFW Mar 2022 #69
She is precious! Sogo Mar 2022 #60
Ihre Familie ist sehr hubsch. stollen Mar 2022 #61
Zweisprachig Deutsch/Englisch DFW Mar 2022 #70
very nice photo Demovictory9 Mar 2022 #62
Such a cutie...precious memories 😀 Meowmee Mar 2022 #65
A well-traveled man is a well-educated man. kentuck Mar 2022 #67
I appreciate the point of view DFW Mar 2022 #68

DFW

(54,369 posts)
2. Give her about 15 years or less
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:05 AM
Mar 2022

I wouldn't want to be one of the boys chasing after her. There will be some fierce competition.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
7. I'm not sure if that's what that is
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:13 AM
Mar 2022

Dr. Jekyll moved here after they ran him out of England, and he is rumored to store his new lab in that part of Frankfurt.

KS Toronado

(17,214 posts)
21. Does appear to be a beer sitting next to it
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:47 AM
Mar 2022

but it could be lemonade. So grand daughter got her good looks from DFW.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
42. No, from Mrs. DFW, not from me!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 03:49 PM
Mar 2022


I was only called in as a stopgap provider of supplemental chromasomes.

By the way, it was a hot squeezed lemon with a LOT of honey!! That stuff is SOUR!

GeoWilliam750

(2,522 posts)
55. I reiterate that although close
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 06:13 PM
Mar 2022

You do very much appear to be the second luckiest man in the world

I am also convinced that the truest measure of success is happy grandchildren. It is only then that you know whether you have done well the only really important job in your life.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
71. If I were anywhere near second luckiest, I might get a little more rest than I do these days
Wed Mar 30, 2022, 12:39 PM
Mar 2022

But I'd be an idiot if I started complaining. There is a lot of misery out there that passes us by.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,599 posts)
6. Ah, how beautiful your granddaughter is, my dear DFW! I can see your smile from here.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:08 AM
Mar 2022

I'm glad you had a moment of respite to see your daughter and granddaughter!

DFW

(54,369 posts)
14. Ah, my dear Peggy, you have to grab these moments while you can
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:22 AM
Mar 2022

This week's schedule allowed me to take this brief time out, so I did.

Yesterday, I was in Switzerland--Geneva and Zürich, tomorrow in Paris, the day after in Brussels, Friday in the Netherlands, and then Monday in Spain. There is no rest for the weary, so the weary must steal it where and when we can.

Nothing like the trek we have planned for a week from Friday (look up the distance from Frankfurt am Main to Waikoloa), but at least then we'll all be together.

Response to Ptah (Reply #8)

DFW

(54,369 posts)
15. IF you can steal the time!!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:23 AM
Mar 2022

I have to work at being a master thief in that regard. I envy those that do not.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
39. :) And boy doesn't your picture say it! He's beautiful.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 01:16 PM
Mar 2022

Ours are sadly all too big to run and jump on us when we arrive. Actually, it'd put us in the hospital now, but I really miss when they were that size.

Response to DFW (Original post)

DFW

(54,369 posts)
17. Believe me, when she DOESN'T get what she wants
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:32 AM
Mar 2022

You don't want to be on the same continent with her.

Response to DFW (Reply #17)

DFW

(54,369 posts)
16. It's rare enough, although.........
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:31 AM
Mar 2022

On April 10th, my wife and I celebrate our 40th anniversary. We thought we'd try to get the family together for the occasion. My younger daughter--the one who took this picture--thought she'd pick out a place. We said, sure, go ahead. So, she did--her old high school hangout, which happens to be to Kona side of the Big Island of Hawa'i. This is not a budget undertaking, as you might imagine, so I started to look for affordable flights. She said, well, it would be nicer if my wife and I flew the whole way with them from Frankfurt instead of flying from Düsseldorf and Paris, as we usually do. I explained to her that what she was proposing for us was €3000 more expensive. But she doesn't take "no" for an answer, and just went ahead and bought us the tickets (she makes many multiples of what I do), and called it an anniversary present.

When she was 2 years old, a neighbor once called her "Madame 10,000 volts." She hasn't changed much.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,112 posts)
28. What a gift!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 12:04 PM
Mar 2022

I imagine this whole DST change over means nothing to you. You change time zones more than a new mom changes diapers.

Very exciting anniversary for the whole family. I recall being flown from London back to Los Angeles for my grandparents 40th anniversary when i was studying there for 3 years. So i can relate in some way.

Enjoy your family as you travel across the world!

DFW

(54,369 posts)
31. Thanks, we'll try!!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 12:07 PM
Mar 2022

If I recall correctly, Hawai'i doesn't go on DST, but when you're traveling halfway across the world in one day, I don't think it much matters if we cross eleven time zones or twelve. We'll be wrecks when we get there, no matter WHAT time it is!

DFW

(54,369 posts)
23. I get a 45 minute break from work. She gets to order what she wants.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 11:57 AM
Mar 2022

Happy is the word for it, alright!

She is in that intermediate phase where she understands what I say to her in English, but she still answers in German, her preferred language. Our daughters didn't start responding in English until they were 5 or so.

Lemon Lyman

(1,349 posts)
26. Good For You DFW!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 12:01 PM
Mar 2022

Very cool. I remember you posting pics of your family (2 daughters?), and that your whole family were lookers!

What's the white box'y thing by the window? An air purifier?

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
30. Oh how I miss those times!!! My granddaughter graduates from Hobart in a couple of months!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 12:04 PM
Mar 2022


I miss those days........

pandr32

(11,581 posts)
36. Such a wonderful picture that captures your connection
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 01:01 PM
Mar 2022

I envy you. My kids have now all grown and none seem to want their own families.
Traveling so much must be challenging during this pandemic. You look well, and so does that beautiful girl!
Also, I hope your upcoming anniversary is a lot of fun here on the Big Island of Hawaii.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
43. Thanks! We hope so, too.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 04:11 PM
Mar 2022

Our younger daughter went to school there--it was up in Waimea--for two years, so as you can imagine, it's not exactly unknown territory for us. When we were together in Frankfurt today, my daughter and I were discussing which of her classmates we were going to see, how to drive to where we are staying (up past Hapuna, just before Kawai'i Hae), down to her former roomie's house in South Kona, etc etc. Nineteen years of absence for me (nine for her), and here we were yakking about it again, as if we passed through there every second weekend. What will really be weird for me will be to see all these schoolmates of hers that I knew, all 18 year old kids at the time, now all approaching 40.

This was NOT your typical high school graduation!

pandr32

(11,581 posts)
54. Sounds like you will have a wonderful time.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 05:19 PM
Mar 2022

I love seeing my kids' former classmates. Well maybe except for one. He found the wrong path.
Wishing you much Aloha

ProfessorGAC

(65,010 posts)
38. Good For You!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 01:15 PM
Mar 2022

And, your granddaughter.
80-90% of my trips were anything but pleasure.
If it was me coming (as opposed to one of my staff) it meant the problem was BIG!
I was as welcome a sight as Darth Vader.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
45. My coming will admittedly not cause the same reaction as what Darth Vader might cause
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 04:26 PM
Mar 2022

Although after weeks of our three grandchildren, the State of Hawai'i may declare the date of our departure a State Holiday from here on in. If the Mayors of Kona and Waikoloa come to see us off, and start repeating "mahalo" to the pilot of the plane taking us away, we'll know for sure.

róisín_dubh

(11,791 posts)
40. Awwww she will treasure such memories.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 03:12 PM
Mar 2022

I miss my grandpa every day. What I wouldn't give to sit and have a coffee with him (though he'd lecture me about having not visited Italy yet...)

DFW

(54,369 posts)
44. I miss mine, too!
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 04:15 PM
Mar 2022

He lived to be 102, and has his wits about him to the end. At age 99, he sent out a Christmas card with a photo of himself, looking very much his age, with the caption: "Compliments of the Seasoned." He wouldn't lecture me about anything other than how beautiful he thought his great-grandkids were, and he never got an argument from us of that (or any other) subject.

niyad

(113,278 posts)
46. Thank you so very much for sharing this beautiful ray of sunshine and joy with us.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 04:35 PM
Mar 2022

It truly gladdens the spirits.

Safe travels to you all.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
49. Gotta stop and get out of the fast lane every now and then
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 04:47 PM
Mar 2022

It just ain't worth it if all you see is a blur of the world flying by.

AnotherMother4Peace

(4,243 posts)
56. Very nice picture. Very sweet. You and your granddaughter are lovely.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 06:32 PM
Mar 2022

Thank you for sharing and giving me a smile.

trof

(54,256 posts)
57. You look like a central casting grandpa.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 06:58 PM
Mar 2022

And I mean that as a compliment.
What's you grandpa name?
I'm 'Baba'.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
64. There WAS a time when I was the central casting pirate
Wed Mar 30, 2022, 05:36 AM
Mar 2022

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But time moved on, and central casting forgot to call me!

PS--I'm "Opa" by the way.

Liberal In Texas

(13,548 posts)
59. Lovely. And those grandkids grow up faster than the kids did.
Tue Mar 29, 2022, 10:00 PM
Mar 2022

It's nice that you are able to do this. Worth more than all the gold in the world.

DFW

(54,369 posts)
68. I appreciate the point of view
Wed Mar 30, 2022, 12:30 PM
Mar 2022

Some would no doubt prefer the view that a well-traveled man is a pompous know-it all

I look at my family, consider the math genius, the hotshot legal mind, the PhD in Engineering, the tireless social worker, the adventurer who is sent on development aid trips to Muslim areas of sub-Saharan Africa, none of whom are me, and say, damn, I'm pretty far down the totem pole. But you know what? There's no requirement that everyone has to be top dog, and I can live with that just fine.

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