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TheBlackAdder

(28,209 posts)
Sun May 8, 2022, 02:23 PM May 2022

What's the scoop with Vasectomies? Are they catching on with Millennials.

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Two of my nephew's friends have had them within the past 6 months, and he's scheduling one.

He says if they want kids they'll try and get them reversed, even though that's not 100% successful.


His two friends are conservatives and he's a liberal who all live in Illinois.
They are all in their mid-30s and career oriented now, after struggling for a decade to secure good jobs.

He states that they all don't want have and be on the hook for an unwanted pregnancy.


Is this a trend with that age demographic?

I'm sure there will be even more with the war on reproductive rights ramping up.

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What's the scoop with Vasectomies? Are they catching on with Millennials. (Original Post) TheBlackAdder May 2022 OP
Kudos to them Lotusflower70 May 2022 #1
My late father had a vasectomy CountAllVotes May 2022 #2
Letting you guys know. multigraincracker May 2022 #3
I hope my nephew gets one real fast CountAllVotes May 2022 #4
They would be wise to have sperm frozen to make it more likely they can, rather than merely relying hlthe2b May 2022 #5
Definitely common, most of my friends in their 30s either had enough kids or didn't want to Amishman May 2022 #6
If this is a thing, a trend, a significantly sized population ... sanatanadharma May 2022 #7
Sacred sperm sharia laws 😹 Meowmee May 2022 #9
I have not heard about it Meowmee May 2022 #8
I don't think they use a scoop anymore. nt sl8 May 2022 #10
You're thinking of hemorrhoids ornotna May 2022 #11
Yeeeeeesh! nt sl8 May 2022 #12
In our family, all the next generation are Millennials. phylny May 2022 #13
My dad had one done. smirkymonkey May 2022 #14
The Twenty-Somethings of today aren't like how we were at their age FakeNoose May 2022 #15

CountAllVotes

(20,876 posts)
2. My late father had a vasectomy
Sun May 8, 2022, 02:34 PM
May 2022

Unfortunately he failed to go back to get checked to be sure it worked. He was one of the first men in the USA to get one.

Well on Jan. 25 in 1961 my very sick 40 year old mother gave birth to a baby boy that was not wanted.

We picked her up at the hospital with a wrapped up something in her arms.

Both legs were wrapped in bandages as she had clots in both legs and they had to be stripped right after his birth.

It was anything but a joyous moment. I never cared to have any children after seeing this as a young child. I preferred my stuffed animals instead and never liked dolls. Now you know why!

My father was too "embarrassed" to go back and get checked.

What a fool he was as the brother I had died of cancer in his early 40s. He fell sick after having the those baby shots. He spiked a fever of 106 and had a brain hemorrhage. That set the stage for the rest of my life, a life growing up in poverty as all of the money/assets went for his care.

He lived in various hospitals and institutions for many years. He managed to some how graduate from high school and got a job as a mailman, a job he had until the day he died.



multigraincracker

(32,690 posts)
3. Letting you guys know.
Sun May 8, 2022, 02:39 PM
May 2022

Planned Parenthood is a great, money saving place to have it done. They were the only place I could find to do mine.

CountAllVotes

(20,876 posts)
4. I hope my nephew gets one real fast
Sun May 8, 2022, 02:46 PM
May 2022

Him and my niece have managed to have four kids in the past few years!

FOUR!

He has a high school diploma and that is the end of his education.

As for herself, she's had a job one time but didn't like going to work. She then began having all of these babies, one right after the next.

They are tRUMPers and born-again something or the others.

hlthe2b

(102,297 posts)
5. They would be wise to have sperm frozen to make it more likely they can, rather than merely relying
Sun May 8, 2022, 03:55 PM
May 2022

on reversal of vasectomy. Collected and stored properly, this gives them decades of a back-up plan.

Good on them, but they need to still remember STIs, including HIV are still out there. Ditto with the women. I was aghast to hear that a state (can't remember which) was discussing banning condoms. What damned fools. A fairly lousy form of birth control but essential to prevent sexually transmitted infections.

Amishman

(5,557 posts)
6. Definitely common, most of my friends in their 30s either had enough kids or didn't want to
Sun May 8, 2022, 04:15 PM
May 2022

And have had it done.

Millennial generation is acutely conscious of costs and debt, which makes us risk adverse in this area.

sanatanadharma

(3,707 posts)
7. If this is a thing, a trend, a significantly sized population ...
Sun May 8, 2022, 06:40 PM
May 2022

If this is a thing, a trend, a significantly sized population of pro-childlessness could upset the free-market balance of "domestic supply of infants". Then the forced birthers will need to address the issue with sacred-sperm-sharia laws.


Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
8. I have not heard about it
Sun May 8, 2022, 06:49 PM
May 2022

But it seems like a good trend if true as long as it works, sometimes they fail at some point.

phylny

(8,380 posts)
13. In our family, all the next generation are Millennials.
Sun May 8, 2022, 07:12 PM
May 2022

We have three daughters, and 12 nieces and nephews.

Our oldest daughter and her husband do not want children. Our middle and her husband have one daughter and may not have more. Our youngest and her husband want two kids.

Of my nieces and nephews, one has a son and she and her husband are done. The rest have no children, and 8 of the 11 remaining want no children.

It's an interesting trend.



 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
14. My dad had one done.
Sun May 8, 2022, 07:16 PM
May 2022

There were four of us kids and he was done. I think he was in his mid 40s when he did it.

FakeNoose

(32,645 posts)
15. The Twenty-Somethings of today aren't like how we were at their age
Sun May 8, 2022, 07:22 PM
May 2022

They have a completely different outlook on the future. They have a lot of dread, and many don't want to bring children into this world. It's very sad, but at the same time understandable.

Before I was 30 I'd already been married and divorced. Even so I never had the intention to not remarry and have children. But it's different world to them.

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