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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWhat's the scoop with Vasectomies? Are they catching on with Millennials.
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Two of my nephew's friends have had them within the past 6 months, and he's scheduling one.
He says if they want kids they'll try and get them reversed, even though that's not 100% successful.
His two friends are conservatives and he's a liberal who all live in Illinois.
They are all in their mid-30s and career oriented now, after struggling for a decade to secure good jobs.
He states that they all don't want have and be on the hook for an unwanted pregnancy.
Is this a trend with that age demographic?
I'm sure there will be even more with the war on reproductive rights ramping up.
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Lotusflower70
(3,077 posts)Seriously it's nice to see some male responsibility and positive action in this arena.
CountAllVotes
(20,876 posts)Unfortunately he failed to go back to get checked to be sure it worked. He was one of the first men in the USA to get one.
Well on Jan. 25 in 1961 my very sick 40 year old mother gave birth to a baby boy that was not wanted.
We picked her up at the hospital with a wrapped up something in her arms.
Both legs were wrapped in bandages as she had clots in both legs and they had to be stripped right after his birth.
It was anything but a joyous moment. I never cared to have any children after seeing this as a young child. I preferred my stuffed animals instead and never liked dolls. Now you know why!
My father was too "embarrassed" to go back and get checked.
What a fool he was as the brother I had died of cancer in his early 40s. He fell sick after having the those baby shots. He spiked a fever of 106 and had a brain hemorrhage. That set the stage for the rest of my life, a life growing up in poverty as all of the money/assets went for his care.
He lived in various hospitals and institutions for many years. He managed to some how graduate from high school and got a job as a mailman, a job he had until the day he died.
multigraincracker
(32,690 posts)Planned Parenthood is a great, money saving place to have it done. They were the only place I could find to do mine.
CountAllVotes
(20,876 posts)Him and my niece have managed to have four kids in the past few years!
FOUR!
He has a high school diploma and that is the end of his education.
As for herself, she's had a job one time but didn't like going to work. She then began having all of these babies, one right after the next.
They are tRUMPers and born-again something or the others.
hlthe2b
(102,297 posts)on reversal of vasectomy. Collected and stored properly, this gives them decades of a back-up plan.
Good on them, but they need to still remember STIs, including HIV are still out there. Ditto with the women. I was aghast to hear that a state (can't remember which) was discussing banning condoms. What damned fools. A fairly lousy form of birth control but essential to prevent sexually transmitted infections.
Amishman
(5,557 posts)And have had it done.
Millennial generation is acutely conscious of costs and debt, which makes us risk adverse in this area.
sanatanadharma
(3,707 posts)If this is a thing, a trend, a significantly sized population of pro-childlessness could upset the free-market balance of "domestic supply of infants". Then the forced birthers will need to address the issue with sacred-sperm-sharia laws.
Meowmee
(5,164 posts)Meowmee
(5,164 posts)But it seems like a good trend if true as long as it works, sometimes they fail at some point.
sl8
(13,800 posts)ornotna
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(13,800 posts)phylny
(8,380 posts)We have three daughters, and 12 nieces and nephews.
Our oldest daughter and her husband do not want children. Our middle and her husband have one daughter and may not have more. Our youngest and her husband want two kids.
Of my nieces and nephews, one has a son and she and her husband are done. The rest have no children, and 8 of the 11 remaining want no children.
It's an interesting trend.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)There were four of us kids and he was done. I think he was in his mid 40s when he did it.
FakeNoose
(32,645 posts)They have a completely different outlook on the future. They have a lot of dread, and many don't want to bring children into this world. It's very sad, but at the same time understandable.
Before I was 30 I'd already been married and divorced. Even so I never had the intention to not remarry and have children. But it's different world to them.