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Novara

(5,845 posts)
Tue May 10, 2022, 01:13 PM May 2022

Oh, So Now Media Men Want to Talk About 'Roe'

If there was ever a moment to center women’s voices, it was in the coverage of the destruction of abortion rights in this country.

But never let it be said that men missed an opportunity to shout over us. To center their own voices. To show off their savvy and political smarts and deep, vital knowledge of how things would poll. To quote one another as they dispassionately discussed the ramifications of allowing the government to force us to bear children.

From the moment Politico published Justice Samuel Alito’s draft opinion striking down Roe v. Wade and allowing states to ban abortion without exception, America’s Media Men began talking and they haven’t stopped all week.

They’ve said that maybe this is good news, actually!


snip...........

Male lawmakers already treat women, cis and trans, as an exotic constituency they know not of, whose bodies should be subject to regulation like dangerous animals or narcotic drugs. They routinely opine that our internal organs can voluntarily prevent pregnancy. They talk about “legitimate” sex crimes and fantasize about the kinds of sexual assault they think should justify a rape exemption in abortion law.

They can’t even name the body parts they’re trying to pass laws to control, and when called on their ignorance they hide behind religious reasoning that has no place in matters of state.

Even when they’re attempting to convince us how much they care for us, they do so by objectifying us as sainted mothers, objects onto which they can project their fantasies of childbearing unimpeded by the infrastructure needed to nurture those children.

They turn us into lists of circumstances under which they find our lives worthy of consideration and ignore anything that doesn’t fit their narrative.

We are hypotheticals to be discussed secondarily to things like reverence to the Constitution or the comfort of the Supreme Court.

We are scary stories, to be used as cautionary tales for polling purposes, as motivations for this or that constituency and bulwarks of support for a party.

We are anything and everything but people who need the freedom to decide if, when, and how we will get medical care.

It may be beyond the realm of the possible for Republican politicians, enamored as they are equally of stupidity and fascism, to consider that, but our brothers in the press might want to consider taking a step back and letting their female colleagues speak for ourselves.

Instead of approvingly retweeting every savvier-than-thou take on what this means for the holiness of the mostly male Supreme Court or the mostly male U.S. Senate or the entirely male U.S. presidency, media bros should be amplifying the voices of the people whose lives are under attack today.

That the corporate press considers their views less legitimate, less urgent, less fundamental to the future of this country, is a large part of how we wound up here in the first place and we’re not going to get out of this without listening to them.


[link:https://www.damemagazine.com/2022/05/10/oh-so-now-media-men-want-to-talk-about-roe/|
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Oh, So Now Media Men Want to Talk About 'Roe' (Original Post) Novara May 2022 OP
K&R Solly Mack May 2022 #1
K&R onecaliberal May 2022 #2
K & R Arkansas Granny May 2022 #3
K&R. Wednesdays May 2022 #4
As a Group stage left May 2022 #5
When I turn on the news and see a man talking about women's reproductive systems ... Novara May 2022 #6
I Have To Say RobinA May 2022 #11
Doesn't mean we have to listen to them. Novara May 2022 #12
An amazing amount of money is spent advertising to women PurgedVoter May 2022 #7
Interesting that the author refers to cis and trans women Wahyee May 2022 #8
K&R because M$M now stands for Misogynistic Money Controlled Media. Tommymac May 2022 #9
Yep Novara May 2022 #13
This. Every fucking WORD of this. n/t TygrBright May 2022 #10

Novara

(5,845 posts)
6. When I turn on the news and see a man talking about women's reproductive systems ...
Tue May 10, 2022, 03:44 PM
May 2022

... or telling me how horrible it is that other men are stripping me of my rights, I turn the goddamned TV off.

I want to hear women talking about what this means to women, because people without uteruses, and people who have never had the government dictating what they can do with their reproductive systems need to SHUT THE FUCK UP.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
11. I Have To Say
Tue May 10, 2022, 03:56 PM
May 2022

I don't understand this attitude. If men want to talk about stripping my rights, have at it. The more people, farm animals, fire hydrants we have on our side the better. I'll take anything constructive I can get. Men are just as able to talk about rights as women are.

Novara

(5,845 posts)
12. Doesn't mean we have to listen to them.
Tue May 10, 2022, 05:49 PM
May 2022

I want to hear what WOMEN are saying. You know, people with uteruses. People whose rights are being stripped. Until men have the government legislating parts of their bodies they can't possibly understand it from our perspective, and while I am grateful for their advocacy, I want to hear what my fellow sisters have to say about how it feels to have government legislating our bodies.

PurgedVoter

(2,218 posts)
7. An amazing amount of money is spent advertising to women
Tue May 10, 2022, 03:49 PM
May 2022

I think an across the board boycott of products who's companies support conservatives or republican's should be the rule of the day. Since they are solid for or look the other way when women's rights come up, lets all look the other way when they advertise. If the switch back after change, then they get a full 4 years boycott even after they see the error of their ways. You mess with women, you should pay the price.

If they advertise a product produced by a company that supports Republicans or Conservatives, change the channel. Let them feel the cold shoulder. They are not just practicing cancel culture, they are destroying lives directly. Till they drop their cancel culture we should not bend on ours. They started it. We are just used to the cancel culture from their side. They should reap what they sow.

 

Wahyee

(610 posts)
8. Interesting that the author refers to cis and trans women
Tue May 10, 2022, 03:49 PM
May 2022

but fails to mention lesbians. What's up with that?

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