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Diamond_Dog

(32,057 posts)
Sun May 22, 2022, 09:02 AM May 2022

My heart breaks for this teacher.

We need more like him, not drive them away. So sad.

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LEX 18) — When it comes to his Montgomery County High School classroom, French and English teacher Willie Carver likes to let the students take the lead.

“When I see any human being, I see potential," Carver said.

That teaching style earned him the 2022 Kentucky Teacher of the Year award a few months ago. He also engages with the students outside the classroom through the group he sponsors, Open Light.

They teach themselves lessons on Black history, on LGBTQ history, they teach themselves about women's rights," he said. "Everyone is welcome. Specifically, LGBTQ students are welcome. There are literally spaces in school and groups in school in which they are literally not welcome, so it's important that they have that invitation, that they know this is a place where you can be."

He knows just how important support can be, growing up a gay kid in an area that wasn't always accepting.

(snip)

"75% of LGBTQ youth under the age of 18 said that they are consistently miserable. 50% seriously attempted suicide in the last 12 months. When we know that one, single affirming adult reduces their risk of suicide by 50%, we have to have that affirming adult," he said.

Carver said there was always some pushback, but things were generally ok. In the last couple of years, though, he said it's become intense.

"If I wake up and choose to have a group meeting, then I know someone from the community is going to attack me and attack this group and say that it's, the new word is, a 'grooming' group, despite the fact that I just have kids cleaning up a park. If I choose not to have the group, then I have to deal with the fact that I have a lifesaving mechanism that I'm choosing not to do. It is a no-win situation for any teacher who is trying to make sure that LGBTQ kids feel that they should exist and lately, it's become more and more politicized," Carver said. "Students ripping down posters every single day and the response being, 'Well, don't you feel like you're pushing it down
people's throats? By having signs? I don't think so. The signs just said 'You are loved' or 'No room for hate here', or something along those lines,"

Finally, a few weeks ago, he went online and struck a nerve.

More….

https://www.lex18.com/news/2022-kentucky-teacher-of-the-year-testifies-to-congress-about-lgbtq-inclusion

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My heart breaks for this teacher. (Original Post) Diamond_Dog May 2022 OP
Very sad. jimfields33 May 2022 #1
Which ones do you not approve of? The YMCA? The Community Thtwudbeme May 2022 #3
They aren't run by the school. jimfields33 May 2022 #5
Teachers often work in Thtwudbeme May 2022 #8
I do approve of them on school grounds. jimfields33 May 2022 #9
Your replies make no sense Thtwudbeme May 2022 #10
LQBTQ kids have been at risk in terms of mental health. Now it will get even worse. Irish_Dem May 2022 #2
So are the teachers Thtwudbeme May 2022 #4
Yes indeed. Irish_Dem May 2022 #6
Yes nt XanaDUer2 May 2022 #7

jimfields33

(15,948 posts)
1. Very sad.
Sun May 22, 2022, 09:08 AM
May 2022

I really don’t like the idea of teachers meeting outside the classroom though. Keep activities inside the school. They have a gay alliance club that should be held in a classroom after classes end. I’m glad they have it for students.

 

Thtwudbeme

(7,737 posts)
3. Which ones do you not approve of? The YMCA? The Community
Sun May 22, 2022, 09:16 AM
May 2022

Centers? The public parks and recreation centers? Church groups?

 

Thtwudbeme

(7,737 posts)
8. Teachers often work in
Sun May 22, 2022, 10:03 AM
May 2022

After school programs, and have for decades. Why don't you approve of these?

Irish_Dem

(47,379 posts)
2. LQBTQ kids have been at risk in terms of mental health. Now it will get even worse.
Sun May 22, 2022, 09:11 AM
May 2022

This group has been marginalized, isolated and demonized. Is it any wonder that they are depressed, anxious, and suicidal?

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