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demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
Sat May 28, 2022, 12:59 PM May 2022

I am a teacher. I can retire at any time -----my youngest kid just quit teaching after 5 years

Last edited Sat May 28, 2022, 01:36 PM - Edit history (3)

but staying 4 more years would benefit me greatly but.....


My youngest kid ...she just quit teaching after 5 years. She just can't do it anymore. She teaches English and a lot of her favorite books "fell off her list" of approved books. She was already discouraged. Well, this last shooting did it. She is 30 and said fuck it.

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I am a teacher. I can retire at any time -----my youngest kid just quit teaching after 5 years (Original Post) demtenjeep May 2022 OP
I hope she finds a rewarding next career. I'm sure it is the school district and childrens' loss. MLAA May 2022 #1
the good ones markie May 2022 #2
Yup. Ms. Toad May 2022 #5
As to benefitting you greatly - if you're talking about retirement, run the numbers. Ms. Toad May 2022 #3
its the lump sum payment...4 more years will get me 100,000.00 more than if I went now demtenjeep May 2022 #6
She may be in luck multigraincracker May 2022 #4
believe she is going to do computer work somewhere demtenjeep May 2022 #8
Good luck to you and your daughter. I've only taught... brush May 2022 #7
the dumbest idea is to arm teachers demtenjeep May 2022 #9
Teaching was the most stressful job I've ever had. I didn't last long. hunter May 2022 #10
Japan JET program and others are possible Tetrachloride May 2022 #11

MLAA

(17,338 posts)
1. I hope she finds a rewarding next career. I'm sure it is the school district and childrens' loss.
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:02 PM
May 2022

I’ve never understood why teaching wasn’t one of the better paying careers with lots of support given the influence they have on children and as such all of our futures and I don’t even have children.

markie

(22,758 posts)
2. the good ones
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:03 PM
May 2022

are/will quit... leaving us with middling, at best, teachers for our kids... not a good thing

Ms. Toad

(34,111 posts)
5. Yup.
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:21 PM
May 2022

I left teaching in a public high school in an inner city high school after 11 years. We moved and planned to have a child with me as a stay-at-home mom for at least 5 years, so the timing was convenient.

I knew I would never return. There's the union-driven barrier that they have to pay me for years of experience and education - so I would have to convince a new district to hire me at double the salary of a new teacher (masters + 11 years of experience), they also had to decide within 1 year whether to give me tenure or let me go.

But on top of that, I was burned out. I had more success with the struggling students than anyone else (meaning slightly more than 50% passed, when the average was aroudn 30%). So they rewarded me with more classes full of struggling students. I worked my tail off to individualize the instruction and teach them real-life number crunching skills. (These students had no use for algebra - but it would help them to be able to recognize when their employer cheated them by short-changing their paycheck, or to recognize when a bigger pack of toilet paper rolls was a rip-off because everyone "knows" that bigger is always cheaper.) I worked about 80 hours a week - and it was a very emotionally draining endeavor.

I can't imagine adding the strain of the threat of external violence to the violence which was part of the lives of many of my kids (which they often brought into the schools with them, in the form of street fighting/gang violence).

Ms. Toad

(34,111 posts)
3. As to benefitting you greatly - if you're talking about retirement, run the numbers.
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:11 PM
May 2022

I was just forced to retire, so I had to choose between trying to find other state employment for another 7 years to top off my service years to 30, or just going with the flow. I'm ahead retiring now, rather than working - until I hit 94. However many years I have left after that time, I have no need to bank the extra pay.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
6. its the lump sum payment...4 more years will get me 100,000.00 more than if I went now
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:38 PM
May 2022

the monthly doesn't change much

multigraincracker

(32,729 posts)
4. She may be in luck
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:20 PM
May 2022

Police departments are looking for English majors. No one can write a report.

Best of luck. I retired at age 52 and it was the best thing I ever did. That was 20 years ago.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
8. believe she is going to do computer work somewhere
Sat May 28, 2022, 02:55 PM
May 2022

that was her first major in college until she felt her passion show through.

She is an amazing English teacher-I would even say she is better than me!!!

brush

(53,922 posts)
7. Good luck to you and your daughter. I've only taught...
Sat May 28, 2022, 01:41 PM
May 2022

once as an adjunct professor and couldn't adjust to it after working in publishing where you do your seven/eight hour shift and then go home until the next day.Teaching is much more out-or-classroom work.

And in today's climate I'd be a wreck in the classroom having to constantly worry in the back of the mind if a shooter would show up at the school.

hunter

(38,334 posts)
10. Teaching was the most stressful job I've ever had. I didn't last long.
Sun May 29, 2022, 01:43 AM
May 2022

I've had jobs in emergency medicine with phone calls in the middle of the night that were less stressful.

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