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Does anybody else feel tempted to post something short and mean (Original Post) raccoon Jul 2022 OP
All the time. Meadowoak Jul 2022 #1
I smoke a lot of weed... Ohio Joe Jul 2022 #2
Yep works for me too JanMichael Jul 2022 #17
Yes but I cannot find Better Days Ahoy Jul 2022 #3
No. I'm usually long-winded. RockRaven Jul 2022 #4
I try to think things through for a moment before I post often I decide not to and mucifer Jul 2022 #5
When I started posting on DU BigmanPigman Jul 2022 #6
I get done typing them and then hit the back button. ZZenith Jul 2022 #7
Yeah. yardwork Jul 2022 #8
Short and mean, no. Hugin Jul 2022 #9
I post them in the middle of the night and delete if I was going too far. I'm my own brewens Jul 2022 #10
Only since January 20th, 2017. n/t Mr.Bill Jul 2022 #11
On Twitter all the time. Maraya1969 Jul 2022 #12
I use this instead, "This message was self-deleted prior to posting." n/t spike jones Jul 2022 #13
That is similar to what I say to people at times. LiberalFighter Jul 2022 #15
Yes. spike jones Jul 2022 #19
I must confess to rarely fighting the urge to post short, sometimes one word, snide comments. Solly Mack Jul 2022 #14
Self-posting is best posting Sympthsical Jul 2022 #27
Yeah, lots of times Raine Jul 2022 #16
Yes. Yes I do. Stinky The Clown Jul 2022 #18
Especially lately iemanja Jul 2022 #20
Lots of times Leith Jul 2022 #21
Yep Rebl2 Jul 2022 #22
Mean only if it's done in a witty or really informative way. usonian Jul 2022 #23
Lately, more and more. Like this: dchill Jul 2022 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author traitorsgalore Jul 2022 #25
When the temptation hits me Torchlight Jul 2022 #26
I have homicidal thoughts HAB911 Jul 2022 #28
Why do you ask? MineralMan Jul 2022 #29

mucifer

(23,544 posts)
5. I try to think things through for a moment before I post often I decide not to and
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 09:14 PM
Jul 2022

once in a while someone will point out something I posted that was insensitive and I delete it.

BigmanPigman

(51,593 posts)
6. When I started posting on DU
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 09:15 PM
Jul 2022

I got banned by the jury several rimes until I realized what crosses the line. I don't do Fakebook or Twitter so I am not familiar with the rules.

I still edit or delete many posts before posting them. My emotions are too strong sometimes.

ZZenith

(4,122 posts)
7. I get done typing them and then hit the back button.
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 09:17 PM
Jul 2022

A lot.

Discretion being the better part of valor and all.

brewens

(13,588 posts)
10. I post them in the middle of the night and delete if I was going too far. I'm my own
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 09:34 PM
Jul 2022

therapist and it seems to help. I hope that's not like representing yourself in court though.

Solly Mack

(90,767 posts)
14. I must confess to rarely fighting the urge to post short, sometimes one word, snide comments.
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 09:44 PM
Jul 2022

But as my comments usually only make sense to me - the connection not being obvious as they are generally a reflection of the associations my own brain makes - I can do it without attracting attention.

Well, that and few people pay attention to me anyway.

But I do try to avoid the truly mean comments and find it helps to type them out and then delete without posting.

Gets it out of my system.

Also, I sometimes post actual truths about myself, but - again - as few people pay attention to me anyway, it doesn't matter.

Sympthsical

(9,073 posts)
27. Self-posting is best posting
Tue Jul 5, 2022, 03:15 PM
Jul 2022

I squirrel in literary references to posts all the time as an alternative to being unkind. Most of the time they go sailing unless someone is familiar with the work. This month I'm on a Dickens kick. A few months back, I was lacing William Carlos Williams into a bunch of unrelated things.

Most of the time it really is just because I think they're funny.

If other people do too, well that's a nice bonus.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
16. Yeah, lots of times
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 09:54 PM
Jul 2022

I feel like make making an ugly response to someone else's OP or another poster in that thread but I don't. 🤔

Leith

(7,809 posts)
21. Lots of times
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 10:04 PM
Jul 2022

When I'm in a lashing out mood, I type a response and then I reread it 3 or 4 times to make corrections and soften language. Once I got it out of my system, I delete the post and move on.

Recently though, I couldn't stop myself from blessing out an irritating poster and it didn't get the hide I expected. Perhaps it was reported, but enough people agreed with me to leave that post alone.

usonian

(9,802 posts)
23. Mean only if it's done in a witty or really informative way.
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 10:13 PM
Jul 2022

Or some incredible graphic that is so laden with "MEAN"ing that I can't resist posting it (or creating it, Nyuk, Nyuk, Nyuk)

And if at all possible, I try to include something positive to help me and others get something out of it ourselves.

Two sayings:

• “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” (a certified fake Buddha quote, but true)
• Wisdom turns poison into medicine by channeling anger into positive action.

So without further ado:
MY ASS-KICKING GOTV PAGE. (Dan and Eddie would approve)
https://democraticunderground.com/100216884744

and as always:

and THEN take names.

dchill

(38,493 posts)
24. Lately, more and more. Like this:
Mon Jul 4, 2022, 10:15 PM
Jul 2022

I think we should change the name of this holiday. It's not Independence Day anymore. It's Second Amendment Day. A completely Republican Party/NRA success. Murder, mayhem and Constitutional mischief by Rogue SCOTUS.

Response to raccoon (Original post)

Torchlight

(3,337 posts)
26. When the temptation hits me
Tue Jul 5, 2022, 03:10 PM
Jul 2022

I generally respond with, sounds serious. good luck.

Began doing that a long, long time ago in my everyday life, and it's become kind of a habit of mine to say that instead of sneering at or trying to hurt anyone.

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