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AndyS

(14,559 posts)
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 01:13 PM Jul 2022

So I'm at the cancer center with my friend who is being infused

with a chemo cocktail. Across from us is a guy wearing a mask (no mask, no entry!) also being infused. The mask is black with white lettering,"This mask is as useless as Joe Biden."

I so dearly wanted to ask him why he trusted these people to diagnose him with a disease that will kill him, let them infuse his body with the precise amount of poison that will kill the cancer but not him yet not trust them to tell him that a piece of cloth will prevent him from catching a virus. I mean, how does he know that cancer even exists? What makes him think that chemo and surgery even work?

The staff were cheery and chatty with all the other patients but oddly withdrawn around him. Whoda' thunk it?

Fucking morons.

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So I'm at the cancer center with my friend who is being infused (Original Post) AndyS Jul 2022 OP
Know nothings with lots to say. Go to spread their BS around. BSdetect Jul 2022 #1
Exactly. nt okaawhatever Jul 2022 #2
I can see this scene as clearly as if I were there... CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2022 #3
Same fucking morons can't say the words rubbersole Jul 2022 #23
He is leading with negative energy. That can't be good for cancer recovery. Maraya1969 Jul 2022 #4
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Jul 2022 #11
Once cancer has been lodged it's hard to evict without a healthy "raison d'etre". jaxexpat Jul 2022 #24
If their schedule sync up you might see him again. Hope you can print out a list of some of Joe's ac mahina Jul 2022 #5
Hospital staff won't allow such.nt AndyS Jul 2022 #7
He won't read it anyway Dave says Jul 2022 #12
I would be inconspicuously flipping him off Beachnutt Jul 2022 #6
Here goes.. agingdem Jul 2022 #8
Suggestions: If you are afraid of the mask, go to another hospital. Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #9
Where do you see "afraid"? Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #13
Put words in their mouth. Its war. Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #14
I am not at war with AndyS. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #15
of course not. Magats Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #16
My apology, then, as I misunderstood your target in the comment. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2022 #17
))). normally I avoid sarcasm Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #18
I chatted with a nurse at a clinic a while back who told me she dreaded dealing with the MAGAs. Midnight Writer Jul 2022 #10
If they could reason, they wouldn't be Magats. The Mouth Jul 2022 #25
Complain to your doctor or hospital Lars39 Jul 2022 #19
Nailed it! LoisB Jul 2022 #20
Technically, he is correct. HuskyOffset Jul 2022 #21
And yet, the rest of us all know that Joe Biden isn't "useless" at all FakeNoose Jul 2022 #22
At the hospitals I go to around here, aka-chmeee Jul 2022 #26
I did that recently. MrsCoffee Jul 2022 #27
Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. lpbk2713 Jul 2022 #28

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,636 posts)
3. I can see this scene as clearly as if I were there...
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 01:18 PM
Jul 2022

Because the staff are all professionals, they are behaving appropriately.

Good for them.

And oh you bet he's a fucking moron.

rubbersole

(6,699 posts)
23. Same fucking morons can't say the words
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 03:17 PM
Jul 2022

"well regulated militia". Anyone wearing maga swag at this stage of the game is unreachable. "Moron" is actually too kind.

jaxexpat

(6,833 posts)
24. Once cancer has been lodged it's hard to evict without a healthy "raison d'etre".
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 03:22 PM
Jul 2022

Especially stubborn if one's nature is to showcase negativity. A regular "typhoid Mary" sucking the air from the room, an unwitting proponent of carcinogenesis.

mahina

(17,668 posts)
5. If their schedule sync up you might see him again. Hope you can print out a list of some of Joe's ac
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 01:25 PM
Jul 2022

These people are being prevented from learning anything because they are absolutely addicted to media that only support their views

I want to say that I would find a way to challenge it without getting in a conflict with him but I’m not in your situation. Main thing is your friends comfort and happiness. Hope you can find a way to breakthrough his reality with some aloha. At this point it is each of us one on one.

Beachnutt

(7,324 posts)
6. I would be inconspicuously flipping him off
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 01:27 PM
Jul 2022

to his face very quietly, scratch your cheek with your middle finger, pick your middle finger nail , or just lay your hand in plain sight for him to see your flipping him off.
It's your quiet freedom of speech just like his mask..

agingdem

(7,850 posts)
8. Here goes..
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 01:31 PM
Jul 2022

when I was in high school there was super popular handsome as hell football player..and he was the cruelest most vile human being I had every encountered in my young life..and while playing football on a Friday night, he has horribly injured, so much so, he lost a leg..months later, hailed a hero, he returned to school and within minutes of his return, he was, as he always was, a vicious, apathetic asshole..without a leg...

That masked cancer patient, regardless of his illness, is still an asshole..

Tetrachloride

(7,847 posts)
18. ))). normally I avoid sarcasm
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 02:34 PM
Jul 2022

but in a public place where jobs, lives, manners are on the line vs Magats, … what else can be done in 30 seconds

Midnight Writer

(21,768 posts)
10. I chatted with a nurse at a clinic a while back who told me she dreaded dealing with the MAGAs.
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 01:40 PM
Jul 2022

She said they come in needing, asking for help, then they proceed to argue over every little thing, criticize the clinic and the staff, and refuse to take and follow the medical advice. Then they show up days later yelling about how the clinic didn't help them, they're worse than before they came in.

She said there is no reasoning with them.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
19. Complain to your doctor or hospital
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 02:42 PM
Jul 2022

or whoever is in charge of that clinic. There should be Zero political anything anywhere there, even on patients or visitors. Chemo is stressful enough without politics adding to the patients' stress level.

FakeNoose

(32,645 posts)
22. And yet, the rest of us all know that Joe Biden isn't "useless" at all
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 03:12 PM
Jul 2022

Most of us are just fine with him and the job he's doing. The guy wearing that offensive mask was wrong on both counts.

He should have been wearing this mask, it would have made a lot more sense:



MrsCoffee

(5,803 posts)
27. I did that recently.
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 09:31 AM
Jul 2022

I was at my doctor's office and this older man is in line with his mask down over his nose. The receptionist asked him to put his mask on before coming up to the counter. He had the exact same mask. "This mask is as useless as Joe Biden". He started grumbling and complaining loudly that masks don't work.

I just stood up from my chair in the waiting room and asked him directly "If you don't trust your doctors and our leading scientists who tell you to be safe and wear a mask, why on earth are you here? Are you going to tell them you don't want any tests, you don't want any medicines, you don't want their opinion on whatever health issues you came in about? Are you gonna ask Tucker Carlson to come in and examine you and give you a prescription? Come on man."

He was shocked that no one there stood up to take his side. He didn't have a reply. His wife was just staring at me with her mouth wide open until the man put his mask back on and walked up to the counter. Then she looked over at me and mouthed "Thank You".

I'm scared to do that most times. You never know when a Trumper is gonna do something really stupid. But in that moment something took over and I just let loose.

lpbk2713

(42,759 posts)
28. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 10:00 AM
Jul 2022



He could be at the anger stage. Blaming all his problems on Biden and the Libruls.


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