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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsSo I'm at the cancer center with my friend who is being infused
with a chemo cocktail. Across from us is a guy wearing a mask (no mask, no entry!) also being infused. The mask is black with white lettering,"This mask is as useless as Joe Biden."
I so dearly wanted to ask him why he trusted these people to diagnose him with a disease that will kill him, let them infuse his body with the precise amount of poison that will kill the cancer but not him yet not trust them to tell him that a piece of cloth will prevent him from catching a virus. I mean, how does he know that cancer even exists? What makes him think that chemo and surgery even work?
The staff were cheery and chatty with all the other patients but oddly withdrawn around him. Whoda' thunk it?
Fucking morons.
BSdetect
(8,998 posts)okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,636 posts)Because the staff are all professionals, they are behaving appropriately.
Good for them.
And oh you bet he's a fucking moron.
rubbersole
(6,699 posts)"well regulated militia". Anyone wearing maga swag at this stage of the game is unreachable. "Moron" is actually too kind.
Maraya1969
(22,483 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)jaxexpat
(6,833 posts)Especially stubborn if one's nature is to showcase negativity. A regular "typhoid Mary" sucking the air from the room, an unwitting proponent of carcinogenesis.
mahina
(17,668 posts)These people are being prevented from learning anything because they are absolutely addicted to media that only support their views
I want to say that I would find a way to challenge it without getting in a conflict with him but Im not in your situation. Main thing is your friends comfort and happiness. Hope you can find a way to breakthrough his reality with some aloha. At this point it is each of us one on one.
AndyS
(14,559 posts)Dave says
(4,618 posts)He only gets his info read to him. By Fox News propagandists only.
Beachnutt
(7,324 posts)to his face very quietly, scratch your cheek with your middle finger, pick your middle finger nail , or just lay your hand in plain sight for him to see your flipping him off.
It's your quiet freedom of speech just like his mask..
agingdem
(7,850 posts)when I was in high school there was super popular handsome as hell football player..and he was the cruelest most vile human being I had every encountered in my young life..and while playing football on a Friday night, he has horribly injured, so much so, he lost a leg..months later, hailed a hero, he returned to school and within minutes of his return, he was, as he always was, a vicious, apathetic asshole..without a leg...
That masked cancer patient, regardless of his illness, is still an asshole..
Tetrachloride
(7,847 posts)Or a horse farm.
( typing 1 handed)
Hermit-The-Prog
(33,349 posts)Tetrachloride
(7,847 posts)Hermit-The-Prog
(33,349 posts)Tetrachloride
(7,847 posts)Hermit-The-Prog
(33,349 posts)Tetrachloride
(7,847 posts)but in a public place where jobs, lives, manners are on the line vs Magats, what else can be done in 30 seconds
Midnight Writer
(21,768 posts)She said they come in needing, asking for help, then they proceed to argue over every little thing, criticize the clinic and the staff, and refuse to take and follow the medical advice. Then they show up days later yelling about how the clinic didn't help them, they're worse than before they came in.
She said there is no reasoning with them.
The Mouth
(3,150 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)or whoever is in charge of that clinic. There should be Zero political anything anywhere there, even on patients or visitors. Chemo is stressful enough without politics adding to the patients' stress level.
HuskyOffset
(889 posts)By that I mean, both the mask & Joe Biden are far from useless.
FakeNoose
(32,645 posts)Most of us are just fine with him and the job he's doing. The guy wearing that offensive mask was wrong on both counts.
He should have been wearing this mask, it would have made a lot more sense:
aka-chmeee
(1,132 posts)you are required to use the masks they provide.
MrsCoffee
(5,803 posts)I was at my doctor's office and this older man is in line with his mask down over his nose. The receptionist asked him to put his mask on before coming up to the counter. He had the exact same mask. "This mask is as useless as Joe Biden". He started grumbling and complaining loudly that masks don't work.
I just stood up from my chair in the waiting room and asked him directly "If you don't trust your doctors and our leading scientists who tell you to be safe and wear a mask, why on earth are you here? Are you going to tell them you don't want any tests, you don't want any medicines, you don't want their opinion on whatever health issues you came in about? Are you gonna ask Tucker Carlson to come in and examine you and give you a prescription? Come on man."
He was shocked that no one there stood up to take his side. He didn't have a reply. His wife was just staring at me with her mouth wide open until the man put his mask back on and walked up to the counter. Then she looked over at me and mouthed "Thank You".
I'm scared to do that most times. You never know when a Trumper is gonna do something really stupid. But in that moment something took over and I just let loose.
lpbk2713
(42,759 posts)He could be at the anger stage. Blaming all his problems on Biden and the Libruls.