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Why is vasectomy still legal? (Original Post) milestogo Jul 2022 OP
Hold on now WA-03 Democrat Jul 2022 #1
Didn't they used to call that "Rhythm and Blues?" Wounded Bear Jul 2022 #5
Old joke: What do they call catholics who use the "rhythm" method? Parents. niyad Jul 2022 #15
The Catholic families in my neighborhood used this method milestogo Jul 2022 #23
Same here but we called it "Vatican Roulette." OMGWTF Jul 2022 #28
The old Pull and Pray Method. Probatim Jul 2022 #35
Do doctors routinely refuse to perform vasectomies on men Mad_Machine76 Jul 2022 #2
Not sure what you mean by "routinely" but yes some doctors do refuse... PoliticAverse Jul 2022 #8
Some do DetroitLegalBeagle Jul 2022 #12
My grandson just got a vasectomy with no trouble, and he's 22. Aristus Jul 2022 #16
But its supposed to be reversible, isn't it? milestogo Jul 2022 #22
They can be, but its not guaranteed DetroitLegalBeagle Jul 2022 #25
Freeze some sperm. viva la Jul 2022 #26
Pretty sure the doctor that wound up performing the vasectomy DetroitLegalBeagle Jul 2022 #27
That's what I was told when I got mine. CaptainTruth Jul 2022 #37
Yes they do. Jokerman Jul 2022 #13
Wonder Rebl2 Jul 2022 #44
Some doctors won't do them, period. BadgerKid Jul 2022 #18
They're not finished yet. Maine Abu El Banat Jul 2022 #3
Because the real goal is the subjugation of women. Irish_Dem Jul 2022 #4
Sad, but true...nt Wounded Bear Jul 2022 #6
You nailed it MLAA Jul 2022 #7
Exactly this. StarryNite Jul 2022 #20
The supreme idiots on the court, complain... Omnipresent Jul 2022 #9
Simple PJMcK Jul 2022 #10
Small comfort though it is SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #11
Just wait inthewind21 Jul 2022 #19
Possible, but highly doubtful SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2022 #24
oh they are going for that next Skittles Jul 2022 #39
"We're all practicing catholics now, aren't we?" dchill Jul 2022 #14
Bull Bucky Jul 2022 #17
Because Men's health is everything goes. Womens health is a dirty sin! FSogol Jul 2022 #21
Aren't erections evidence of God's will? CloudWatcher Jul 2022 #29
Most practicing Catholics don't follow those rules. pnwmom Jul 2022 #30
I find most Catholics are fairly moderate. Elessar Zappa Jul 2022 #36
Right, especially in the US. The US Bishops are much more right wing pnwmom Jul 2022 #38
It's never been about reproduction, conception, or babies Novara Jul 2022 #31
EVery sperm is sacred, if a sperm gets wasted RANDYWILDMAN Jul 2022 #32
+1, an argument can be made sperm is more sentient than eggs therefore is the prime component uponit7771 Jul 2022 #41
Yes because they're all swimmers! milestogo Jul 2022 #42
I had my... k0rs Jul 2022 #33
Or wanking IronLionZion Jul 2022 #34
K&R, uponit7771 Jul 2022 #40
✔️ ✔️ ✔️ ✔️ ✔️ n/t msfiddlestix Jul 2022 #43

WA-03 Democrat

(3,050 posts)
1. Hold on now
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:34 AM
Jul 2022

I attended Catholic schools and was taught that the “Rhythm” method of birth control could be done, in a marriage, with a calendar and work most of the time.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
23. The Catholic families in my neighborhood used this method
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 11:34 AM
Jul 2022

until the 6th child. Then they suddenly started using real birth control or stopped having sex.

Mad_Machine76

(24,415 posts)
2. Do doctors routinely refuse to perform vasectomies on men
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:38 AM
Jul 2022

of a certain age like they refuse to perform hysterectomies or tubal ligation on women of a certain age?

PoliticAverse

(26,366 posts)
8. Not sure what you mean by "routinely" but yes some doctors do refuse...
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:48 AM
Jul 2022

See:
Incidence of vasectomies refused and reasons for refusal. Survey of clinics and physicians.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1434684/?page=1

DetroitLegalBeagle

(1,924 posts)
12. Some do
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:59 AM
Jul 2022

A buddy wanted to get snipped years ago when we were 25 and he had to go to 3 doctors before he found one to do it. The first two said the same thing, they won't do it if you are under 30. Further research he did showed a lot refuse for under 30 and are hesitant for under 35.

DetroitLegalBeagle

(1,924 posts)
25. They can be, but its not guaranteed
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 11:41 AM
Jul 2022

And because its not guaranteed, medically, they are considered permanent and irreversible if I remember right.

DetroitLegalBeagle

(1,924 posts)
27. Pretty sure the doctor that wound up performing the vasectomy
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 11:46 AM
Jul 2022

Told him to do just that, just in case, since reversal isn't guaranteed.

Jokerman

(3,518 posts)
13. Yes they do.
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 11:01 AM
Jul 2022

I asked a doctor about a vasectomy when I was 25 and he laughed at me.

I asked a different doctor when I was 30 and she refused to even discuss it.

At 35 I had it done but this doctor insisted that he have my wife's consent in writing.

Rebl2

(13,527 posts)
44. Wonder
Wed Jul 13, 2022, 10:09 AM
Jul 2022

in the third instance, what the doctor would have said if you were not married. Would she/he refuse? When I got a tubal ligation in my mid thirties, I did not have to get permission from my husband.

Irish_Dem

(47,137 posts)
4. Because the real goal is the subjugation of women.
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:41 AM
Jul 2022

Men won't receive draconian reproductive control by the male power structure.

PJMcK

(22,037 posts)
10. Simple
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:49 AM
Jul 2022

It's the same reason some insurance will cover ED medications while they won't cover birth control.

Subjugation of women.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
11. Small comfort though it is
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 10:57 AM
Jul 2022

if the Dobbs decision had been based on Catholic teaching, abortion would have been completely banned nationwide rather than sent back to the states.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
24. Possible, but highly doubtful
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 11:38 AM
Jul 2022

Dobbs would have been the perfect case to ban abortion completely, had the six wanted to do so.

CloudWatcher

(1,850 posts)
29. Aren't erections evidence of God's will?
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 12:44 PM
Jul 2022

Isn't the doctrine that any women encountering an erection is required to submit to God's will and bend over? Otherwise why make men the stronger sex? It's just rape if you resist.

"A hard man is good to find" -- Mae West (possibly)

[please tell me I don't need to include the sarcasm emoji]

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
30. Most practicing Catholics don't follow those rules.
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 12:48 PM
Jul 2022

And the average Catholic is more likely to use birth control than the average Protestant (since that group includes fundies.)

Elessar Zappa

(14,006 posts)
36. I find most Catholics are fairly moderate.
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 01:25 PM
Jul 2022

I think the nutcases are a minority in the Church. Unfortunately, some of them have power.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
38. Right, especially in the US. The US Bishops are much more right wing
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 02:18 PM
Jul 2022

than either US Catholics in general or Pope Francis and Catholics in much of the world.

Novara

(5,844 posts)
31. It's never been about reproduction, conception, or babies
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 12:55 PM
Jul 2022

It's always been about making sure women can't compete with men on an even playing field.

Face it, sisters. RW men are deathly afraid of us because of their own feelings of inferiority. They can't handle the competition.

RANDYWILDMAN

(2,672 posts)
32. EVery sperm is sacred, if a sperm gets wasted
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 12:58 PM
Jul 2022

god gets quite irate.


Love the monty python guys they were and always will be way ahead of their time


uponit7771

(90,347 posts)
41. +1, an argument can be made sperm is more sentient than eggs therefore is the prime component
Wed Jul 13, 2022, 05:19 AM
Jul 2022

... reproduction that needs to be protected.

Life begins at ejaculation !!!

k0rs

(72 posts)
33. I had my...
Tue Jul 12, 2022, 01:00 PM
Jul 2022

...vasectomy performed at Planned Parenthood in Denver in 1976 and it was quite inexpensive. The surgeon wasn't a doctor but an intern which accounted for the low cost...$25. Sorta like going to a barber school for a haircut. Talk about "practicing medicine." I was 25 at the time. I recall having to go through an extensive interview/counseling session before they agreed to perform the operation that included both my wife and myself. They wanted assurances of our (both of us) seriousness. At the time, reversal was much less common and far more "iffy." They counseled that the operation was permanent so we had better be sure. I guess we were convincing enough to satisfy them. Although I'm no longer married to the same women, I've never regretted the decision. My former wife has happily remained childless as have I. I do have a friend who had his vasectomy reversed when he married and now has two children.

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