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imanamerican63

(13,815 posts)
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:35 AM Jul 2022

Is it me or I'm just crazy?

In a truck stop eating my breakfast when some guy sitting in a table next to me asked “if I voted for Trump in the last election”? I politely answered no. He says “oh, you’re one of those people”. I just looked at him and replied “we are all the same people, yet we can’t get along to even carry on a conversation that make any sense”. He was dumbfounded by my reply. He set there a few minutes and started in again about Trump was being railroaded by the Democrats. I politely told him I was going to talk about Trump. He wanted to start an argument, but I was not going to let him. As I finished eating, another guy walks in and sat in another table. Sure enough, the 1st guy starts in with the same question. The 2nd guy was willing to carry on with him. I couldn’t get out of there quick enough.

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Is it me or I'm just crazy? (Original Post) imanamerican63 Jul 2022 OP
why do people bait others into arguments? Novara Jul 2022 #1
Not people. Followers of tfg. Only them. Always them. Scrivener7 Jul 2022 #8
Some people enjoy fighting. Nt raccoon Jul 2022 #17
You're not crazy, they are. Meadowoak Jul 2022 #2
answer: "No matter how you spin it anyone who still supports trump is betraying their county" RAB910 Jul 2022 #3
these people have no boundaries about decency at all..trump eroded all that samnsara Jul 2022 #4
I don't know if he wants an argument or maybe just doc03 Jul 2022 #5
Next time say "I'm Canadian" AntivaxHunters Jul 2022 #6
Right! Omnipresent Jul 2022 #12
Or "I can't vote--I'm an illegal immigrant from Russia." Sky Jewels Jul 2022 #21
I used to get these dumbasses come up to me in the grocery store Diamond_Dog Jul 2022 #7
This is how they do it. This is how they spread disinformation. Baitball Blogger Jul 2022 #9
My nephew told me yesterday... Cracklin Charlie Jul 2022 #10
Noise canceling headphones. Or wordle. Or audio books. Or... cbabe Jul 2022 #19
just say you do a mail in ballot onethatcares Jul 2022 #11
They can't help being confrontational. They are hooked on anger. CrispyQ Jul 2022 #13
I just jabber a few sentences in Lithuanian - their eyes glaze over and they shut up. Talitha Jul 2022 #14
I live among them. Chainfire Jul 2022 #15
Howdy, neighbor! Midnight Writer Jul 2022 #16
My answer is, I voted with the majority of Americans! Emile Jul 2022 #18
Lol. Sky Jewels Jul 2022 #20
I remember the time when Obama won his first term. I Emile Jul 2022 #22
Ha ha, very satisfying. Sky Jewels Jul 2022 #23

Novara

(5,851 posts)
1. why do people bait others into arguments?
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:39 AM
Jul 2022

Why would you want to ruin your meal by looking for an argument?

RAB910

(3,511 posts)
3. answer: "No matter how you spin it anyone who still supports trump is betraying their county"
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:52 AM
Jul 2022

Don't engage beyond that. One of the worst things Trump did as President was to make it okay to express racism, bigotry, and anti-American sentiment acceptable in public conversation.

samnsara

(17,636 posts)
4. these people have no boundaries about decency at all..trump eroded all that
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:55 AM
Jul 2022

..they think they are entitled to wave their giant flag in our faces....

doc03

(35,378 posts)
5. I don't know if he wants an argument or maybe just
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:55 AM
Jul 2022

fishing for someone that will agree with him. They are usually more subtle like making a comment on gas prices or food prices to get a response.

Diamond_Dog

(32,068 posts)
7. I used to get these dumbasses come up to me in the grocery store
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 08:56 AM
Jul 2022

Trying to bait me into talking about their politics. You can always tell what side they’re on. I have yet to be “baited” by a liberal. We just don’t do that.

Maybe because I’m white, female, and 60-ish they think I’m on their side. Who knows with these kooks. Thankfully it hasn’t happened in a while.

You have a right to eat your breakfast in peace, imanamerican63. Good for you not egging him on.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
10. My nephew told me yesterday...
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 09:58 AM
Jul 2022

That he has to ride in a truck with 4 trumpers every day for an hour to get to and from a job site.

I would guess, from the colorful language he used, that they are driving him crazy. I felt sorry for him.

onethatcares

(16,185 posts)
11. just say you do a mail in ballot
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 10:16 AM
Jul 2022

and now that there are no ballot drop boxes you won't be voting for him this year.

Not like you would vote for him but you don't have to say that.

Chainfire

(17,643 posts)
15. I live among them.
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 12:15 PM
Jul 2022

I am a retired construction worker, I look like them, I dress like them, I drive a pick-up truck, I am old, Southern, white, live in a rural area, I am overweight and have a short haircut. You can imagine the conversations that I overhear. I avoid conversations on politics with them for reasons of health and safety. It is my ability to invisibly move among them that has me so fearful of what they are willing and capable of. There are some really nasty bastards living among us.

Emile

(22,924 posts)
22. I remember the time when Obama won his first term. I
Sun Jul 17, 2022, 02:18 PM
Jul 2022

walked into the dispatch office the next morning to a group of whiny ass truck drivers all bitching about the election. My transportation manager looked at me and said I imagine your happy about the election. I replied, the majority of voters in Americas are happy. I smiled, grabbed my paperwork and left.

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