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So the woman haters are on a roll. Can mandatory FGM* be far behind? (Original Post) niyad Jul 2022 OP
FGM? lark Jul 2022 #1
FGM is Female Genital Mutilation (I had to look it up) Bettie Jul 2022 #2
What the f*** is FGM b ????? Srkdqltr Jul 2022 #3
A very barbaric practice jmowreader Jul 2022 #31
Womb control. sarcasmo Jul 2022 #4
Isn't that what the GOP is doing by denying women healthcare? Irish_Dem Jul 2022 #5
FGM is about more than damage to reproductive organs. Removing the niyad Jul 2022 #7
Yes I know. Irish_Dem Jul 2022 #10
No need to resort to Orientalism to make the point. The oppression we're seeing is 100% homegrown WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2022 #6
Not "resorting" to anything. It is all about hatred of, and controlling of, women. niyad Jul 2022 #11
I really don't think they "hate" women. They ... Whiskeytide Jul 2022 #24
Exactly what I have been thinking. Delmette2.0 Jul 2022 #25
I'd always read of it happening in African countries Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #30
And here, right on cue, the comparison of infant circumcision to FEMALE niyad Jul 2022 #34
Oh, please ... Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #38
Feel free to start your own thread about that practice. And do tell us how niyad Jul 2022 #55
Sure ... circumcision 'compares' as way, way less bad. Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #58
I got burned by DU before by mentioning male genital mutilation Victor_c3 Jul 2022 #71
FGM is about more than damage to reproductive organs. You might want niyad Jul 2022 #76
Believe me, I see what you mean (nt) Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2022 #80
Women are far more important than respect for any ancient cultural practice alphafemale Jul 2022 #35
They will lift the bans on doing this in the US. milestogo Jul 2022 #8
Exactly. niyad Jul 2022 #13
They absolutely will not. whathehell Jul 2022 #26
This. Treefrog Jul 2022 #28
Thank you.. whathehell Jul 2022 #60
The term "Judeo-Christian" is a political creation. Mosby Jul 2022 #83
Please..Regardless of when the term became popular whathehell Jul 2022 #86
Really?? Considering the insane laws the woman-hating christofascists are niyad Jul 2022 #36
Yes, really whathehell Jul 2022 #59
This reminds me of the federal marriage amendment Sympthsical Jul 2022 #75
They won't prosecute doctors who do this to Muslim girls. milestogo Jul 2022 #41
No, I think they would prosecute them. whathehell Jul 2022 #53
One state eventually tried. Ended up getting the older laws against FGM ruled unconstitutional. Lancero Jul 2022 #69
There's a difference between prohibiting FGM and making it "mandatory." onenote Jul 2022 #82
Hundred Dollars says they won't. onenote Jul 2022 #52
In any rational society, these would be boom times for... Hugin Jul 2022 #9
Sadly true. niyad Jul 2022 #15
People here have asked time and again to stop using blind acronym s without explanation. And here i Srkdqltr Jul 2022 #12
My apologies. niyad Jul 2022 #14
But I opened this post precisely because of the asterisk. planetc Jul 2022 #22
Scary thought. God forbid a woman should enjoy sex. Joinfortmill Jul 2022 #16
Exactly. niyad Jul 2022 #17
I can't understand why any man would want a woman to NOT enjoy sex! Aristus Jul 2022 #20
Because most men are lousy at it alphafemale Jul 2022 #32
It's not the lover who insists ... Whiskeytide Jul 2022 #33
All it takes is a prospective husband telling the potential bride's father: Aristus Jul 2022 #39
Yeah, but you fall in love with ... Whiskeytide Jul 2022 #44
Nothing is fair for the poor victims of FGM. It's unconscionable barbarism. Aristus Jul 2022 #45
By "woman haters"... atreides1 Jul 2022 #18
A woman-hating patriarchal culture indoctrinated them. niyad Jul 2022 #21
Yes it certainly can be far behind.. whathehell Jul 2022 #19
Considering the insane "treatments" and "cures" for women's "problems" in niyad Jul 2022 #23
If you can find it in the Bible BlueIdaho Jul 2022 #27
Yes, any of the some 500 versions running around. niyad Jul 2022 #37
Yes! BlueIdaho Jul 2022 #43
"I can't understand why any man would want a woman to NOT enjoy sex!" J_William_Ryan Jul 2022 #29
It most certainly is. niyad Jul 2022 #49
Seriously? You have so little confidence in Americans left, that you think we would allow this? SMH Runningdawg Jul 2022 #40
I give you donald john trump. niyad Jul 2022 #47
Not even remotely the same. Runningdawg Jul 2022 #50
Really? The insanity that gave us the F'n, murdering, orange TRAITOR** gave us niyad Jul 2022 #56
I live in Gilead otherwise known as OK. I KNOW that crazy. Was raised in the cult. Runningdawg Jul 2022 #61
When is the last time Americans shut something down? ecstatic Jul 2022 #64
Throwing out BS scenarios like government ordered mass sexual mutilations Runningdawg Jul 2022 #84
And I live in fundieville, home to a number of whacked-out mega-"churches" niyad Jul 2022 #68
Watching? I was AMONG THEM for decades Runningdawg Jul 2022 #85
Oh please. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #42
"Torture is not culture." quote by Alice Walker author of Possessing the Secret of Joy IcyPeas Jul 2022 #46
Thank you so very much for reminding us of this incredible work. niyad Jul 2022 #48
Is there a Doozy award for DU posts? onenote Jul 2022 #51
No kidding. This is certainly a contender. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #65
Oh Gawd 🙄 Raine Jul 2022 #54
I will "get a grip" when the woman-hating crazies are not wielding power. But niyad Jul 2022 #57
I'm sorry, I was rude and over reacted Raine Jul 2022 #62
Not a problem. I think we are all somewhat edgy these days. niyad Jul 2022 #67
The 'centrists' said the same when we warned about RvW being overturned. nt RandiFan1290 Jul 2022 #66
Damn straight. nt Brenda Jul 2022 #72
It was the "progressives" that said there was little difference treestar Jul 2022 #74
Yikes! ecstatic Jul 2022 #63
No Baggies Jul 2022 #70
Pray tell us what your crystal ball tells you about where the woman-hating crazies niyad Jul 2022 #73
Sure Baggies Jul 2022 #77
What flavour pizza do you like? niyad Jul 2022 #78
As pushback goes Baggies Jul 2022 #79
ohhhhh, HOWEVER will I bear up under the weight of such disapproval? niyad Jul 2022 #81

Bettie

(16,133 posts)
2. FGM is Female Genital Mutilation (I had to look it up)
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:07 AM
Jul 2022

And yeah, who knows what these dickheads have in mind, but I would guess that is farther down the road, but it's a stop they will likely make.

jmowreader

(50,567 posts)
31. A very barbaric practice
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:36 AM
Jul 2022

…perpetuated by people whose religion says sex is only for reproduction. It stands for Female Genital Mutilation, and there are four kinds - each more horrid than the last. (I had to edit this because I’m not sure how detailed you can get in describing FGM without running into DU’s no-sex-threads rule.)

Irish_Dem

(47,546 posts)
5. Isn't that what the GOP is doing by denying women healthcare?
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:09 AM
Jul 2022

Refusing to treat female medical emergencies will result in some having permanent
damage to reproductive organs.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
7. FGM is about more than damage to reproductive organs. Removing the
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:12 AM
Jul 2022

labia and clitoris, sewing the labia together, and on and on.

Irish_Dem

(47,546 posts)
10. Yes I know.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:13 AM
Jul 2022

I was just pointing that there will be other kinds of damage to women's reproductive organs.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,472 posts)
6. No need to resort to Orientalism to make the point. The oppression we're seeing is 100% homegrown
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:11 AM
Jul 2022

Christian white supremacy.

Whiskeytide

(4,463 posts)
24. I really don't think they "hate" women. They ...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:48 AM
Jul 2022

… are intimidated by and fear strong, confident women. Thus, they want to subjugate them - which looks like hatred. I think it’s important to make that distinction to understand and combat this insanity.

For many of them, religion is just a convenient way to justify that goal. They profess to be Christians, but they keep whipping out the Old Testament as a basis for their actions.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
30. I'd always read of it happening in African countries
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:34 AM
Jul 2022

when I've read news accounts of the practice.

Didn't even know it was an Asian thing at all. Not saying it's NOT but I don't associate it with Asian culture particularly, and I'm guessing most people do not

Anyways, it's horrible and disgusting, wherever it happens.

Except when it happens to infant males. Nobody cares much about that.

Apparently the inane scribblings of Bronze-Age nomads ... makes it okay.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
38. Oh, please ...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 12:35 PM
Jul 2022

Maybe I'm just not a fan of MALE INFANT GENITAL MUTILATION (BECAUSE MINE WERE AND I WISH THEY WEREN'T) ... as opposed to 'comparing' the two as if they're exactly alike.

I did NOT do that, it was just an opportunity to soapbox for something that bugs me that's RELATED.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
55. Feel free to start your own thread about that practice. And do tell us how
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:40 PM
Jul 2022

infant male circumcision compares with having the labia and clitoris removed, what remains of the folds sewn together, the endless infections, fistulas, and death, etc.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
58. Sure ... circumcision 'compares' as way, way less bad.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:57 PM
Jul 2022

And I never meant to imply otherwise.

But they're related in the sense that:
1) Young people's genitals have bits cut off of them in both cases, and
2) Those young people didn't consent having bits cut off their genitals, and
3) In both cases, the inane scribblings of Bronze-Age nomads in the Middle East ... are used to explain why it's okay (or possibly even mandated, in some religions).

If you really can't see why one reminds me of the other, I don't know what to tell you.

One is WAY worse, sure ... but they're related enough that one ... makes me think of the other.

Sue me if you don't like it

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
71. I got burned by DU before by mentioning male genital mutilation
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 08:35 AM
Jul 2022

You’re still disfiguring a sex organ and reducing the ability to enjoy sexual pleasure against one’s consent

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
35. Women are far more important than respect for any ancient cultural practice
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:53 AM
Jul 2022

Which the OP did not specify.

That type of mutilation is more to some Muslim practices.

I think Asian countries stopped crippling girls and women with foot binding generations ago.

whathehell

(29,100 posts)
26. They absolutely will not.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:01 AM
Jul 2022

As referenced by WhiskeyGrinder, FGM is NOT part of Western Judeo- Christian culture and it's about as likely to be legalized here as in Great Britain, where it's ALSO a problem. Stop with the hyperbole and alarmism already.

Mosby

(16,388 posts)
83. The term "Judeo-Christian" is a political creation.
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:42 AM
Jul 2022

It became popular after WW2 when leaders became more ecumenical in their outlook due to the threat of Marxism and Communism. There wasn't a hell of a lot of real religious pluralism at the time.

Eta I agree with you about fmg, but the RW are clearly trying to regress to point where women and girls are property.


whathehell

(29,100 posts)
86. Please..Regardless of when the term became popular
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 02:41 PM
Jul 2022

it is valid for reasons lying beyond "political"
consideration.. It reflects the histories and commonalities of the two -- They are linked.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
36. Really?? Considering the insane laws the woman-hating christofascists are
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:55 AM
Jul 2022

promulgating right now, and the absolutely insane crap that has been floating in the reuchwing fir decades, do you actually see a limit on their lust for power over women? Where will they draw the line? When will they be satisfied?

whathehell

(29,100 posts)
59. Yes, really
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:57 PM
Jul 2022

for the reasons already cited..

Again, FMG has NO historical precedent in this country, or in western culture generally. It has absolutely no political or cultural constituency. Suggesting it as a natural progression from the overturning of Roe is facile in the extreme.


Sympthsical

(9,142 posts)
75. This reminds me of the federal marriage amendment
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 09:41 AM
Jul 2022

Which was a pretty shitty time, because it felt like homophobia was being nationalized in an organized way it hadn't before.

Anyway, being a young whippersnapper heavily involved in activism, it was no fun.

Less fun were other people I worked with in the movement were screaming at everyone that Bush was planning to send us all to FEMA camps. Yes, FMA was bad, but what were we going to do about these camps?!

Turns out I did not, in fact, get relocated to Idaho.

But these people seemed to think it was coming and were very exercised about it.

The moral of the story: Reality is bad enough. We need not these kinds of embellishments to be sufficiently horrified.

whathehell

(29,100 posts)
53. No, I think they would prosecute them.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:30 PM
Jul 2022

Last edited Tue Jul 19, 2022, 04:50 PM - Edit history (1)

Unlike resrictions on abortion there is NO history of acceptance for FMG..It a very different issue than abortion.

onenote

(42,794 posts)
52. Hundred Dollars says they won't.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 05:53 PM
Jul 2022

Willing to bet?

There are serious issues to be concerned about. Nonsense like this is just a distraction and makes the things that are being done seem less concerning.

Hugin

(33,222 posts)
9. In any rational society, these would be boom times for...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:13 AM
Jul 2022

Psychiatrists.

When less than 8% of the most religiously insane people take over the train. Watch out!

Srkdqltr

(6,349 posts)
12. People here have asked time and again to stop using blind acronym s without explanation. And here i
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:15 AM
Jul 2022

Is another with absolutely no context. People who complain about it are laughed at and ignored.

planetc

(7,847 posts)
22. But I opened this post precisely because of the asterisk.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:44 AM
Jul 2022

I was confident you'd remind me what that meant, and I would understand. Thanks, Niyad!

Aristus

(66,481 posts)
20. I can't understand why any man would want a woman to NOT enjoy sex!
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:38 AM
Jul 2022

That's, like, the stupidest thing I ever heard in my life! How utterly depraved does a guy have to be to insist to the point of genital mutilation that a woman not enjoy sex?

And the women who go along with it when cutting up their young female family members? "Well, we've just always done it this way. It's our tradition. It's our culture. And if you die from infection or blood loss? Well, remember: tradition and culture!"



 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
32. Because most men are lousy at it
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:41 AM
Jul 2022

And for a woman to enjoy sex it would have to be with someone else.

Whiskeytide

(4,463 posts)
33. It's not the lover who insists ...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:46 AM
Jul 2022

… on it for religious purposes. It’s the father. I think the rationale is that if sex is not pleasurable, his horny teenage daughter will not seek it out and thereby spoil her virginity before marriage. It’s REALLY fucked up.

Why didn’t their all powerful god just leave that part off the women folk? Problem solved, right? I mean, why put a button there if it’s not supposed to be pushed?

Aristus

(66,481 posts)
39. All it takes is a prospective husband telling the potential bride's father:
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 12:48 PM
Jul 2022

"I'm not marrying her if you've cut her up. I don't want to marry into such inhumane savagery."

Whiskeytide

(4,463 posts)
44. Yeah, but you fall in love with ...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 02:44 PM
Jul 2022

… the woman you fall in love with. Hardly seems fair to her, right?

And besides, a father that screwed up would likely say “good - I didn’t want her to marry a non-believer anyway”.

It’s barbaric. Religious barbarism. It should be punished in the extreme.

Aristus

(66,481 posts)
45. Nothing is fair for the poor victims of FGM. It's unconscionable barbarism.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 02:55 PM
Jul 2022

I don't know how this problem is going to be solved without men standing up and saying 'no more'. And women standing up and saying 'To hell with tradition! This is savagery, pure and simple!'

atreides1

(16,100 posts)
18. By "woman haters"...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:32 AM
Jul 2022

You are of course including the enslaved women who are eager allies to the men seeking control?

whathehell

(29,100 posts)
19. Yes it certainly can be far behind..
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:35 AM
Jul 2022

It is absutely NOT part of Western culture, which includes Britain, of course, and when it happens here -- and there -- it happens illegally.


.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
23. Considering the insane "treatments" and "cures" for women's "problems" in
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 10:45 AM
Jul 2022

this country, the ongoing attempts to control women's sexuality and autonomy, the absolute hatred for women, I don't think it that unrealistic. The fact that FGM is currently illegal in both Great Britain and here does not stop the practice.

J_William_Ryan

(1,760 posts)
29. "I can't understand why any man would want a woman to NOT enjoy sex!"
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 11:28 AM
Jul 2022

In traditional cultures it is ‘immoral’ for a woman to enjoy sex; indeed, women shouldn’t enjoy sex because to do so would render her a ‘slut’ or a ‘whore’ and foment sexual lust and desire, promiscuity, infidelity, fornication, and destroy the foundations of both families and society.

And yes, this does sound like the Christo-fascist American right.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
56. Really? The insanity that gave us the F'n, murdering, orange TRAITOR** gave us
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:45 PM
Jul 2022

the current christofascist court and all the crazies in the various legislatures. If you have been watching the reichwingcrazies for the last few decades, you know that their rhetoric and hatred are unbounded.

Runningdawg

(4,526 posts)
61. I live in Gilead otherwise known as OK. I KNOW that crazy. Was raised in the cult.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 08:31 PM
Jul 2022

And as much as I despise the MAGAts with every breath, you start cutting on kids and watch how fast we shut that shit down.

ecstatic

(32,752 posts)
64. When is the last time Americans shut something down?
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 06:15 AM
Jul 2022

Remember all the hell we raised about babies in cages and families being separated? Or how about when Americans witnessed a man being choked to death on video? What was done about that? And the terrorist attack on the Capitol last year? Anything?

I'm glad you're still hopeful. I'm desperately trying to draw inspiration from you and others who are. I have NOT seen any evidence that Americans are going to stand up to what the GOP is doing. Women are literally dying right now because of the inhumane anti-healthcare laws flooding the South. All I'm hearing is talk about inflation and gas prices.

Runningdawg

(4,526 posts)
84. Throwing out BS scenarios like government ordered mass sexual mutilations
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:57 AM
Jul 2022

is something I expect to hear from the MAGAts. And it WILL NOT help women in their current situation.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
68. And I live in fundieville, home to a number of whacked-out mega-"churches"
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 08:25 AM
Jul 2022

and assorted loons. I have been watching the reichwingcrazies for decades. The crap they were spewing years ago that people dismissed as too far out are either happening, or the calls are getting louder and more insistent.

Runningdawg

(4,526 posts)
85. Watching? I was AMONG THEM for decades
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 12:05 PM
Jul 2022

I know exactly what they have planned and you are right. It IS here and now. They aren't interested in mutilation, killing is much more efficient. They haven't been forcing their boys into the military since Vietnam to learn mutilation.

IcyPeas

(21,922 posts)
46. "Torture is not culture." quote by Alice Walker author of Possessing the Secret of Joy
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 05:42 PM
Jul 2022

I recommend this book: Possessing the Secret of Joy for anyone not familiar with FGM. It's a novel I will never forget.

An American woman struggles with the genital mutilation she endured as a child in Africa in a New York Times bestseller “as compelling as The Color Purple” (San Francisco Chronicle).

In Tashi’s tribe, the Olinka, young girls undergo female genital mutilation as an initiation into the community. Tashi manages to avoid this fate at first, but when pressed by tribal leaders, she submits. Years later, married and living in America as Evelyn Johnson, Tashi’s inner pain emerges. As she questions why such a terrifying, disfiguring sacrifice was required, she sorts through the many levels of subjugation with which she’s been burdened over the years.

In Possessing the Secret of Joy, Alice Walker exposes the abhorrent practice of female genital mutilation in an unforgettable, moving novel.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
73. Pray tell us what your crystal ball tells you about where the woman-hating crazies
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 08:48 AM
Jul 2022

are planning to draw the line on their desire to completely subjugate us.

Baggies

(503 posts)
79. As pushback goes
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:07 AM
Jul 2022

As pushback goes, having read several other posters regarding your post, saying “No” was extremely mild. Extremely mild.

Count your blessings.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
81. ohhhhh, HOWEVER will I bear up under the weight of such disapproval?
Tue Jul 19, 2022, 11:29 AM
Jul 2022

Interesting that a newcomer (?) engages in such tactics.

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