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Nevilledog

(51,223 posts)
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:18 PM Jul 2022

Cops stood by while a woman was terrorized by a stalker in her home for 12 hours and then killed



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Read this story a few days ago and it hasn't left me. San Diego cops stood by while a woman was terrorized by a stalker in her home for 12 hours, even as neighbors begged them to do something. Stalker then emerged and told them the woman was dead.

msn.com
NBC 7 Investigates: San Diego Police Face Scrutiny Over Woman's Murder
Neighbors called 911 begging for help nearly two hours before police arrived to the victim’s Rancho Penasquitos home.
12:14 PM · Jul 18, 2022


https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/crime/nbc-7-investigates-san-diego-police-face-scrutiny-over-womans-murder/ar-AAZyqCv

Wilted flowers mark the outdoor staircase leading up to the condo where police say a San Diego man murdered Connie Dadkhah, 45. That man, Parrish Chambers Jr., 44, is now sitting in a jail cell without bail awaiting trial for murder.

Yet three of Connie’s neighbors who spoke with NBC 7 Investigates feel police deserve some of the blame.

“Had they just done their job, she would still be alive,” said Michelle.

“It’s incredibly upsetting,” said Mike. “It’s really unbelievable. Very, very scary.”

“I just feel such a strange combination of anxiety and anger and sadness,” said Sally. “It could have been prevented.”

In order to protect their identities, NBC 7 Investigates is using fictitious names for the neighbors.

Officers found Connie’s lifeless body inside her condo Wednesday morning, June 15. But neighbor interviews, dispatch records, 911 call timestamps and surveillance video all gathered by NBC 7 Investigates show the calls for help started nearly 12 hours earlier.

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Tell me again why we need so many cops?
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Cops stood by while a woman was terrorized by a stalker in her home for 12 hours and then killed (Original Post) Nevilledog Jul 2022 OP
Fuck the police. Abolish it all. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2022 #1
Police are not required to protect you duckworth969 Jul 2022 #2
Too bad Scalia and Rehnquist The Unmitigated Gall Jul 2022 #10
To provide Control and Order on the Masses MarcA Jul 2022 #12
A snippet of a great poem from DA Levy: Dave says Jul 2022 #33
Disgusting. I believe they killed more people than they saved for the past 15 years. nt Samrob Jul 2022 #3
All cops are pigs TxGuitar Jul 2022 #4
The first step toward renewed civility in our society.... nt LAS14 Jul 2022 #6
All right-wing racist cops are lower than pigs. Some good ones on the left. housecat Jul 2022 #40
K&R Solly Mack Jul 2022 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author Baked Potato Jul 2022 #7
Six figure salaries?!! WTF?! duckworth969 Jul 2022 #13
Oh, yes, it's real. Baked Potato Jul 2022 #14
In California their pensions are likely six figures. Mr.Bill Jul 2022 #17
Pension modochartaigh Jul 2022 #34
My brother-in-law is a retired California fireman. Mr.Bill Jul 2022 #35
Pensions vary wildly by state modochartaigh Jul 2022 #38
Plus there is a big pension waiting dalton99a Jul 2022 #21
Regular pay and total pay shouldn't be added together iemanja Jul 2022 #30
snapshot Celerity Jul 2022 #37
The cops who stood by and did nothing DFW Jul 2022 #8
I agree Rebl2 Jul 2022 #24
Some will point to this as an example of why we should have guns Kaleva Jul 2022 #9
Yes, I agree. Things are pointing in that direction. Baked Potato Jul 2022 #11
I thought he was holding her hostage JI7 Jul 2022 #15
The first calls for help started 12 hours earlier. The call was upgraded and the response should chowder66 Jul 2022 #22
Have to be magat police housecat Jul 2022 #16
YEP Rebl2 Jul 2022 #25
Disturbing ejbr Jul 2022 #18
They could have at least gone in with their guns blazing bucolic_frolic Jul 2022 #19
Very disturbing. Evolve Dammit Jul 2022 #20
Many years ago, six SDPD cops shot and killed a mentally ill man who, they niyad Jul 2022 #23
C'mon, it's not scary if they get to shoot folk who can't fight back. Nevilledog Jul 2022 #26
I suggested that, if the fully-armed six of them felt threatened by a guy niyad Jul 2022 #28
She met her killer XanaDUer2 Jul 2022 #27
omg area51 Jul 2022 #29
In the video the neighbor should've been more aggressive to the police response at the time rockfordfile Jul 2022 #31
Good thing it wasn't something threatening iemanja Jul 2022 #32
This is why I own guns Calculating Jul 2022 #36
I know that area well. I had 2 sets of friends that lived in that same apartment complex. ... aggiesal Jul 2022 #39

The Unmitigated Gall

(3,836 posts)
10. Too bad Scalia and Rehnquist
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 06:57 PM
Jul 2022

Had the good fortune to live out their lives peacefully, and never having to beg for their lives to a homicidal maniac while the cops wait around outside.

MarcA

(2,195 posts)
12. To provide Control and Order on the Masses
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 07:12 PM
Jul 2022

while doing after the fact investigations, paperwork and serving and protecting their own.

Dave says

(4,628 posts)
33. A snippet of a great poem from DA Levy:
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 09:01 PM
Jul 2022

The police
Protect the banks
And everything else is secondary

Response to Nevilledog (Original post)

Mr.Bill

(24,334 posts)
17. In California their pensions are likely six figures.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 07:46 PM
Jul 2022

And that's with thirty years on the job. They can literally retire in their early to mid-50s and if they live to be 75-80 they can literally make more money in retirement than they made working.

modochartaigh

(17 posts)
34. Pension
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 09:05 PM
Jul 2022

My pension for 30 years as an RN in one of the largest hospital systems in Texas is $1,860/month. But if the Republicans get their way and abolish pensions it will be pensions like mine that they go after, not police or military pensions.

Mr.Bill

(24,334 posts)
35. My brother-in-law is a retired California fireman.
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 09:10 PM
Jul 2022

Same pension program as cops. He did retire as a Captain. He was 53 when he retired.

His monthly pension check is over $10,000 after deductions.

modochartaigh

(17 posts)
38. Pensions vary wildly by state
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 09:22 PM
Jul 2022

Pensions vary wildly by state and city. So much of the US is protected by volunteer firemen with no pensions. Nursing was no picnic but I never had to run into a burning building either. And relatively few nurses have a pension, much less work long enough at a place with a pension that the pension is decent.

JI7

(89,280 posts)
15. I thought he was holding her hostage
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 07:41 PM
Jul 2022

but reading this he was outside trying to get in and officers didn't arrive until an hour after first call for help.

And he has a record and had been after her since at least 2 years ago.

So the piece of shit should not even have been free.

chowder66

(9,087 posts)
22. The first calls for help started 12 hours earlier. The call was upgraded and the response should
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 08:06 PM
Jul 2022

have been 14 minutes but it was 45 minutes. They knocked on her door and could see the broken glass but they didn't go in. They left and came back the next morning when the killer told a neighbor to call 911 because she was dead.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/crime/nbc-7-investigates-san-diego-police-face-scrutiny-over-womans-murder/ar-AAZyqCv

niyad

(113,630 posts)
23. Many years ago, six SDPD cops shot and killed a mentally ill man who, they
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 08:21 PM
Jul 2022

claimed, threatened them and made them fear for their lives. He was "armed" with a bamboo garden stake.

niyad

(113,630 posts)
28. I suggested that, if the fully-armed six of them felt threatened by a guy
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 08:29 PM
Jul 2022

with a garden stake, that perhaps retraining was in order. . retraining in another field that did not involve weapons. The department, for some reason, ignored me.

rockfordfile

(8,708 posts)
31. In the video the neighbor should've been more aggressive to the police response at the time
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 08:59 PM
Jul 2022

It's time for CA to bring back the death penalty as a option.

iemanja

(53,093 posts)
32. Good thing it wasn't something threatening
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 08:59 PM
Jul 2022

Like air freshener dangling in the car. That will get you killed.

aggiesal

(8,938 posts)
39. I know that area well. I had 2 sets of friends that lived in that same apartment complex. ...
Mon Jul 18, 2022, 09:54 PM
Jul 2022

The police department for that area of San Diego, is literally 2 minutes away.
Driving distance is only about half a mile.

We celebrated a wedding at that complex's "club house".
I always thought it was safe with the police department near by.

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