Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

tavernier

(12,391 posts)
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 11:36 AM Sep 2022

Asking for some positive vibes.

Grandson is student at Florida Gulf Coast Uni in Fort Meyers. He is in school housing but they set up a shelter for those who can’t leave. We live in the Keys and didn’t want him on the road with hours of traffic and rain and tornado warnings. His roommate’s parents invited him to come and stay with them, big house, shutters, lots of food, nice and friendly family.

So what is my problem? … they live in Cape Coral, an area close to the gulf, known for flooding. If they get the storm surge… pretty guaranteed at this point… they could be in 10 feet of water.

I’m presently visiting family in Indiana so I’m no help to anyone. Freaking out just a little. He is 21 next week, but I helped to raise this one so he’s still my little boy.

34 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Asking for some positive vibes. (Original Post) tavernier Sep 2022 OP
sending vibes for all in Ian's path. niyad Sep 2022 #1
Sending those positive vibes. bronxiteforever Sep 2022 #2
Just my opinion.. Deuxcents Sep 2022 #3
Those were my thoughts too tavernier Sep 2022 #12
Sounds like he will be very safe people Sep 2022 #17
+1! ShazzieB Sep 2022 #18
Sending cate94 Sep 2022 #4
Grand Artificer of this cosmos and many unknown... GreenWave Sep 2022 #5
Sending positive vibes. LeftInTX Sep 2022 #6
Protection vibes on the way to him & All good folks there SheltieLover Sep 2022 #7
thanks for the heads up. thinking of you and your son. peacebuzzard Sep 2022 #8
You've got them. AngryOldDem Sep 2022 #9
I agree with Deuxcents 303squadron Sep 2022 #10
Positive vibes from the area recovering_democrat Sep 2022 #11
Vibes for safety MiHale Sep 2022 #13
Good thoughts for you and yours!! PortTack Sep 2022 #14
+vibes leftstreet Sep 2022 #15
Good vibes for your grandson's safety, that of his host family, and everyone in Ian's path. LoisB Sep 2022 #16
Man, tavernier, I truly feel you. ancianita Sep 2022 #19
I prayed for him. I'm a Nana. Joinfortmill Sep 2022 #20
... tavernier Sep 2022 #23
Sending vibes. forgotmylogin Sep 2022 #21
I hope he is ok. Meowmee Sep 2022 #22
Sending 💖💖💖💖💖 MLAA Sep 2022 #24
Sending good vibes!!! CaptainTruth Sep 2022 #25
Keeping a vigil with you, tavernier. calimary Sep 2022 #26
Sending good vibes malaise Sep 2022 #27
I hope he's got sense enough to pay attention to the forecast Warpy Sep 2022 #28
I'm sorry. I hope they're inland a bit. nolabear Sep 2022 #29
Positive vibes sent! Kaleva Sep 2022 #30
Sending safety vibes for him wendyb-NC Sep 2022 #31
Sending break it up vibes. Bluethroughu Sep 2022 #32
Positive Very Best of Good Luck Cha Sep 2022 #33
My thougts and best wishes to all in harm's way. I hope that your Grandson escapes hlthe2b Sep 2022 #34

Deuxcents

(16,234 posts)
3. Just my opinion..
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 11:40 AM
Sep 2022

He’s safer at the school than in Cape Coral. I live in Ft Myers n the Cape is always flooding n much closer to the coast than the school. I hope whatever he decides, he’s safe

tavernier

(12,391 posts)
12. Those were my thoughts too
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 12:01 PM
Sep 2022

But he rode with his roommate and now he is there. My daughter spoke with the parents and they said that they have a very large hurricane proof concrete home, they are on high ground, abd have loads of supplies and will take care of him like their own. But I do wish that he had stayed on campus because I am aware that FGCU is further in land and I’m sure their shelter facilities are top notch for their students.

people

(624 posts)
17. Sounds like he will be very safe
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 12:33 PM
Sep 2022

It sounds like the family he is staying with is very well prepared, especially if their home is hurricane proof and concrete and on high ground. His roommate's parents sound like they take the danger of hurricanes completely seriously and are well prepared. I will be thinking about your grandson and sending him good, caring vibes.

GreenWave

(6,757 posts)
5. Grand Artificer of this cosmos and many unknown...
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 11:40 AM
Sep 2022

Please protect this one from harm and all around him.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
9. You've got them.
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 11:43 AM
Sep 2022

I can only imagine how frightening this must be.

Please keep us posted in the coming days.

303squadron

(545 posts)
10. I agree with Deuxcents
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 11:44 AM
Sep 2022

Cape Coral was built on a swamp. They dug miles and miles of canals and used the fill dirt to raise up the city. Every canal connected to the Caloosahatchee will get storm surge. FGCU is inland. Much more protected!

11. Positive vibes from the area
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 11:46 AM
Sep 2022

I am in Sarasota County, doing all the prep we can. Supposedly pretty direct for this area. Thoughtful for all in this area, wishing the best.

Learned years ago that Florida resources and residents learn lot and all relevant agencies here are incredibly professional.

Based on your description, he is likely in the best possible site for now. Joining you all for hoping for the best!

ancianita

(36,060 posts)
19. Man, tavernier, I truly feel you.
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 12:58 PM
Sep 2022

If the family he's staying with has a mandatory evacuation order, he should definitely go with them. Everything near the coast will be underwater.

They have today to move out, just to get to higher ground, even if they're still caught in the hurricane. I hope they're not unwise about evacuating. IF he has a car, he should evacuate himself even if they don't. He should head north to the middle of the state above Lake Okeechobee. Anywhere away from inland lakes, like Yeehaw Junction; if he routes it on his gps, it should only take him a few hours.

I hope the best for your son. This is a traumatic disaster for everyone.

forgotmylogin

(7,529 posts)
21. Sending vibes.
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 01:09 PM
Sep 2022

The good thing about Florida is most places aren't a long drive from higher ground.



Poster 19 explained it right - if necessary he should try to evacuate away from capes and all those little islands and the coast and move inland and he'll be fine!

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
22. I hope he is ok.
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 01:11 PM
Sep 2022

I thought the storm hit already? We had some terrible wind 2 days ago and then a surprise severe lt and rain storm. Tg no actual h. Butbif we did have on and lose power no teaching maybe 😹

Warpy

(111,267 posts)
28. I hope he's got sense enough to pay attention to the forecast
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 01:56 PM
Sep 2022

By tomorrow morning, there should be a better defined track for this thing.

I wouldn't want to be in a stick built house within a mile of the seashore, but that might just be me. Reinforced concrete is more likely to stay standing, but people inside had better hope for higher floors and interior hallways if they catch the eye wall and surge.

nolabear

(41,984 posts)
29. I'm sorry. I hope they're inland a bit.
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 01:59 PM
Sep 2022

I’ve been through a few hurricanes, though always left. I’ll be hoping Ian weakens and speeds up so it passes soon.

Is your place in the Keys secure? I know it’s further up but you know those stupid storms.

wendyb-NC

(3,327 posts)
31. Sending safety vibes for him
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 02:13 PM
Sep 2022

Hoping that he is ultra safe where he is staying, also that, Ian, steers clear of the house, and the flooding doesn't overwhelm that area.
I will send positive thoughts both your ways.

I still worry about my kids. They are 42,32, and 26 years old, and still my little boys, too. Oh well, it's just the way things are.

Bluethroughu

(5,172 posts)
32. Sending break it up vibes.
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 02:24 PM
Sep 2022

Storm dissipate please.

Age or competence is no factor in worry for a loved one.

hlthe2b

(102,283 posts)
34. My thougts and best wishes to all in harm's way. I hope that your Grandson escapes
Tue Sep 27, 2022, 09:08 PM
Sep 2022

any and all storm threats but it does sound like his roommate's parents are prepared.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Asking for some positive ...