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Nevilledog

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Fri Oct 14, 2022, 07:05 PM Oct 2022

"My Son Is a Target of Racist Remarks. His School Refuses to Take Proper Action."



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if my kids were getting called racial slurs at school and neither the teachers nor the administration gave a shit i would [redacted]

slate.com
My Son Is a Target of Racist Remarks. His School Refuses to Take Proper Action.
Parenting advice on bullying, racism, and homework.
3:58 PM · Oct 14, 2022


https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/10/bullied-parenting-racism.html


My son is a Black tween who recently entered middle school. The school has a little over half minority enrollment, but only 11 percent of that is made up of Black students, and the neighborhood where the school is located is historically white.

Just a few days into starting at his new school, another student said something extremely racist to him. We immediately called the administration, and they spoke to my son and the other student, who copped to what he said and apologized. They also called the student’s parents but there were no further consequences. My son felt comfortable with how the situation was handled but the very next day, a different student called him the n-word.

Our son reported what had happened to a nearby teacher whom he didn’t know, but he said the teacher pulled the offender aside and spoke to him for a few minutes and there was no further action. When we called the administration, this time even more outraged and concerned, we found out this teacher never even reported the incident.

The administration told us they would speak with our son about the incident that day. They didn’t. When two days went by without anyone asking him about what happened, we insisted on a meeting to find out how they were intending to handle this incident. They pawned us off on the guidance counselor until we demanded to speak to a dean.

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"My Son Is a Target of Racist Remarks. His School Refuses to Take Proper Action." (Original Post) Nevilledog Oct 2022 OP
Around Here... ProfessorGAC Oct 2022 #1
Go to the district Office, tell them you want to file a complaint. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #2
TV station. Find the person designated as community outreach Tetrachloride Oct 2022 #3

ProfessorGAC

(65,044 posts)
1. Around Here...
Fri Oct 14, 2022, 07:14 PM
Oct 2022

...most of the schools have required online training modules that even I have to take, and I'm just a part-time sub.
In those modules, it's made clear that district needs a written policy covering this situations, that each staff member has the responsibility to intervene AND to report to the administration.
It's actually state law that the policy & procedure exist.
I didn't see in the Slate article any mention of which state. But, I have a hard time believing the laws covering this in Illinois are that unusual.

onecaliberal

(32,861 posts)
2. Go to the district Office, tell them you want to file a complaint.
Fri Oct 14, 2022, 07:19 PM
Oct 2022

You’ve already tried to address it with school admin.
Also complain here.
If you have a complaint about student discrimination, harassment, intimidation, or bullying, please visit the CDE Resolution of Discrimination/Harassment Complaint Web page.
https://www.cde.ca.gov/re/di/eo/complaint.asp

Tetrachloride

(7,845 posts)
3. TV station. Find the person designated as community outreach
Fri Oct 14, 2022, 07:22 PM
Oct 2022

if they ignore you, make a youtube video on their front yard

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