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usonian

(9,813 posts)
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 01:20 PM Nov 2022

Are you a DOING DU'er or a DEBBIE DOWNER?

DOING DU'er.


DEBBIE DOWNER, PARALYZED BY POLLSTERS


YOU MUST CHOOSE WISELY.
DOOMPOSTING IS VOTER SUPPRESSION.

DOWN IN THE DUMPS?
MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
Preparing For Election Day - A Mobilizing Guide For DU Activists

https://democraticunderground.com/100217276427
Thank you, Wednesdays!

CALL, TEXT, EMAIL YOUR GOOD FRIENDS
Thanks to jxla for the tip.
Friends Ask Friends to Vote

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First, make a list of your people: friends, family, and community groups you are a part of; people you see regularly; and people you work with. Next, identify who on that list aligns with our ACLU values, but may not always vote. Then, let them know there’s an important election coming up and help them make a plan to vote (when, where, and how). Call them if you usually call them, text them if you typically text them, or talk to them when you see them next. We’ll also provide you with a conversation guide

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Are you a DOING DU'er or a DEBBIE DOWNER? (Original Post) usonian Nov 2022 OP
❣️❣️🇺🇸🗳🇺🇸🗳🇺🇸🗳😊🇺🇸❣️❣️❣️👍 LakeArenal Nov 2022 #1
if people put the same energy in finding contacting people to vote DestinyIsles Nov 2022 #2
This deserves its own post. we can do it Nov 2022 #4
Do it! usonian Nov 2022 #10
Bump and kicked LW1977 Nov 2022 #3
A Pessimistic Peter can be a downer for Debby. wnylib Nov 2022 #27
Both. I do what I can, but try to keep my expectations realistic Amishman Nov 2022 #5
My first real encounter with politics involved moving rubber-tree plants and usonian Nov 2022 #8
Agreed. Realism is NOT the same as "being a downer" FoxNewsSucks Nov 2022 #16
Every election... sarisataka Nov 2022 #6
Yes. BlackSkimmer Nov 2022 #21
I want to get more actively involved. Initech Nov 2022 #7
None of the school board candidates on my local ballot had anything substantive to say. usonian Nov 2022 #11
Same here. Initech Nov 2022 #12
GOTV! GOTV! GOTV! Wednesdays Nov 2022 #9
Yes thank you! This message needs to be made loud and clear FakeNoose Nov 2022 #13
Thank you!!!! ColinC Nov 2022 #14
I'm a Doing-Act-Blue-More-than-I-should-er. n/t pnwmom Nov 2022 #15
Ask friends to vote! Talk to people! Tell young ones & elders about qpuke plans to gut SS & Medicare SheltieLover Nov 2022 #17
Neither n/t GusBob Nov 2022 #18
Wonderful post! Thank you! crickets Nov 2022 #19
I'm doing a Dwayne downer (Debbie is fine) if..fish..had..wings Nov 2022 #20
"DOOMPOSTING" BumRushDaShow Nov 2022 #22
I'll be poll watching this weekend and on election day mcar Nov 2022 #23
Oh, FFS. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #24
Because...? Wednesdays Nov 2022 #28
Because there are two types of people in the world. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #29
I see usonian as someone trying to rally votes for Democrats Wednesdays Nov 2022 #30
I do too. Sad that he has to insult DEMOCRATS who read polls in this OP. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #31
I'm definitely a DU DUer. Worry is misuse of the imagination. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2022 #25
There is always time for regrets afterward DFW Nov 2022 #26
Recommended. H2O Man Nov 2022 #32
This is how I feel. usonian Nov 2022 #33
 

DestinyIsles

(263 posts)
2. if people put the same energy in finding contacting people to vote
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 01:31 PM
Nov 2022

as they do finding gloom and doom articles to post, I think we would be pretty good for our chances.

usonian

(9,813 posts)
8. My first real encounter with politics involved moving rubber-tree plants and
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 02:23 PM
Nov 2022

dreaming impossible dreams.

And that was realized.

By HOPEFUL, WISE and DETERMINED people.
That triumvirate is actually a key to success in all aspects of life.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,434 posts)
16. Agreed. Realism is NOT the same as "being a downer"
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 03:11 PM
Nov 2022

Hiding from truths or disregarding warnings that the other side is lying cheating and stealing, is not a responsible way of doing things.

They'd love nothing better than for us to be a bunch of pollyannas "being positive" right up to the moment they slit our throats.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
6. Every election...
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 02:15 PM
Nov 2022

Wash, rinse, repeat.

Now if only someone can guarantee this election is "in the bag".



Just Vote

Initech

(100,080 posts)
7. I want to get more actively involved.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 02:21 PM
Nov 2022

I was pretty mortified when I heard that my local school board was banning books and any mention of CRT from classrooms because the board was taken over by religious Fox bots. It's criminally insane. These people must be stopped!

usonian

(9,813 posts)
11. None of the school board candidates on my local ballot had anything substantive to say.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 02:27 PM
Nov 2022

Makes you wonder if they aren't hiding an agenda.

Initech

(100,080 posts)
12. Same here.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 02:42 PM
Nov 2022

There is one legitimate candidate, and the others have nothing to do with education and are white men who probably watch way too much Fox News for their own good. And the last Fox bot / MAGA fan that inexplicably got elected turned out to be an absolute nightmare. No way in hell would I vote for any of them. If they're running for school board and are not connected to education in anyway, that should be a giant red flag.

FakeNoose

(32,645 posts)
13. Yes thank you! This message needs to be made loud and clear
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 02:50 PM
Nov 2022

DU is all about getting Democrats elected. That's our purpose.

Anyone who comes on here and says "Democrats can't or won't be elected" is doing a disservice. Those messages should be alerted and removed because they are against our Terms of Service (TOS) that we all agreed to when we joined Democratic Underground.

If you've forgotten your TOS agreement, you can read it here:
(link) https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice

I don't ever want to see another "doom and gloom" message on DU again because they don't belong here.
We are positive and affirmative. We get Democrats elected. We get things done!

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
17. Ask friends to vote! Talk to people! Tell young ones & elders about qpuke plans to gut SS & Medicare
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 03:11 PM
Nov 2022

Ever read "How to lie with statistics?"

Screw them.

Let's go, DU!

crickets

(25,981 posts)
19. Wonderful post! Thank you!
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 03:32 PM
Nov 2022

Also, today I voted in GA. It felt so good! Everybody who can vote now, go vote! If not, make plans for Tuesday early. Get a group of friends and go vote together. Turn it into a par-tay and GO VOTE. 💙

Scrivener7

(50,955 posts)
29. Because there are two types of people in the world.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 04:29 PM
Nov 2022

The first wants to believe their desired outcome is likely until or unless they are proven wrong.

The second wants to prepare themselves mentally for bad outcomes and is pleasantly surprised when things go well.

Neither is right, neither is wrong. On DU we have both types. And ALL OF THEM ARE DEMOCRATS.

Those on DU who believe we will win have been steadily denigrating those who post polls or link to things that are not hopeful for Democrats. I have seen pessimistic DEMOCRATS and those who post unfavorable polls being accused of not getting out the vote and of not donating. I have seen umpteen threads of people congratulating themselves for being optimistic and denigrating those who are pessimistic.

Fine. Be optimistic. I am optimistic in this election. But do we really need to be denigrating those who approach the information about this election differently?

Do we really need multiple threads using infantile names to make fun of OUR FELLOW DEMOCRATS??

Scrivener7

(50,955 posts)
31. I do too. Sad that he has to insult DEMOCRATS who read polls in this OP.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 04:58 PM
Nov 2022

As in, half the audience he wanted to reach.

usonian

(9,813 posts)
33. This is how I feel.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 06:52 PM
Nov 2022

I am 74, and I have no time for negativity.
Worry is its own reward.

I am an engineer by nature (physics degree) and my first real job was to work error budgets on space telescopes.
One has to be realistic, identify the major sources and deal with them. Focus efforts on the biggest reward for your effort. Don't waste time, energy and money on things that waste them and make no improvement (think: the 80/20 rule)

Worrying is like pushing on a rope.
Taking action is like pulling on a rope. Pull people towards you.



So when I say Be HOPEFUL, WISE and DETERMINED, that is borne out by pop psychology.

It means being realistic, using objective measures (because relying on faulty sources is danger, Will Robinson)
It means focusing on positive energy, because only that gets things done, and
It means not giving in to other people's opinions, which can steer you off course, sap your energy, and sometimes is done deliberately.

The repubs work by a bunch of D's
deny, delay, distort, deceive and distract




Being hopeful, wise and determined corresponds to three Buddhist principles:
Faith, Study and Practice.
In many ways (as cosmic physics is discovering) "With our thoughts, we make the world"

And since the repubs also are over the top in PROJECTION, think about projection.
Projection, in short, is taking your own faults and failures and projecting them on to someone else.

EVERYTHING THEY SAY IS PROJECTION
https://democraticunderground.com/100216777247
Every Accusation is a Confession

I choose to project my inner strength, compassion and goodness.

I am no Pollyanna. I expect things to fail because they do fail. If I have a tool belt ready, and spare fuses, thermocouples, light bulbs and such ready, it's not that I am paranoid (only a little), but it's because I want to feel confident that I can meet challenges as they arise, and not feel helpless. And I help others when I can.

I am not a psychologist, but many people say that taking action is often the best way to beat depression, because it's controlling what you can control and influencing those you can influence, and as I listen to sports talk (sometimes) I find it just amazing that people spend time, energy, and sometimes rage, over things over which they have ZERO influence.

Getting out the vote is something in which each of us agency,
If everyone called or emailed just one friend in their district, outside their district, or out of state, that could have an amazing effect.




OR BE KICKED!

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