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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsBullies mocked his shoes. His friend, 12, got him a new pair with his own allowance.
WaPo via Yahoo News"I really didn't appreciate other people talking about him that way," said Mello, 12, a student at Buffalo Creek Academy Charter School in Buffalo.
On Oct. 24, he called his mother on FaceTime, which he does every day after school. That afternoon, though, Mello broke down in tears the moment his mother, Anita James, answered the phone.
"Romello, what happened?" James recalled asking her son.
"I'm getting tired of them bullying my friend about his shoes. It's making me so upset," he responded, explaining that his classmates mocked Melvin for having muddy sneakers.
Then, Mello earnestly asked, "Can we go buy him some shoes?"
James told her son they would talk about it when she got home from work. During their in-person conversation a few hours later, she said, he was still distraught.
Mello was adamant about buying his friend a fresh pair of sneakers to stave off bullies - and remind him that he has people who care about him.
"Can I use my allowance, or you can take something away that I would get for Christmas?" Mello asked his mother.
James admired her son's sincere plea.
"I was floored, because most kids are not willing to give up something to another child; most kids are about themselves," she said. "Just to see at that age he was acting as an adult, it touched me in a way that I almost can't even describe."
For Mello, the decision was intuitive.
a kennedy
(29,663 posts)Elessar Zappa
(13,996 posts)Well done, Mello!
bluboid
(560 posts)Deuxcents
(16,221 posts)Skittles
(153,160 posts)I told her mum, I didn't lose them, I gave them to the poor kids
ProfessorGAC
(65,044 posts)Make sure these 2 kids get new sneaks twice a year at least until they quit growing.
Great PR for them, great reward for Melo, and keeps Melvin in nifty kicks.
Great story.
ShazzieB
(16,399 posts)What a great idea!
uponit7771
(90,339 posts)republianmushroom
(13,595 posts)You are the future if there is to be one.
Just A Box Of Rain
(5,104 posts)Good going Mello.
Genki Hikari
(1,766 posts)One afternoon she called me bawling her eyes out about somebody stealing a pair of shoes she'd bought--a pair that were super-comfy for her work that she couldn't get replacements for. At one point, she said, "Why would they steal those shoes from me? If whoever it was had told me they needed shoes, I would have bought them a pair!"
And I didn't laugh or say, "yeah, sure."
Because I know she really would have bought the person a pair of shoes if they needed it.
She was always buying clothes and shoes for her less fortunate co-workers.
She's also that person that hears someone telling a police officer they've been robbed, they don't even have enough money now to get to their hotel or whatever, she will stop and give them $100, do they need a ride, you're a bit flushed there, do you have a heart condition, I can take you to a doctor--
She did stuff like that most of my life.
She's an idiot about a lot of stuff, and she wasn't the best mother out there, but she was generous to a fault toward those in need. Probably because, when she was young, there were times when she only had one or two dresses to wear or did without. She never got over that.
AZLD4Candidate
(5,691 posts)As a 6'2" built like a truck teacher, I have no tolerance for bullies. If I say that, I would do what I normally do to bullies: separate the victim and then tell the bullies "do that to me. Come on, tough guy, say and do those things to me right now. You're not so tough when someone bigger and stronger stands in front of you."
"But you're a teacher."
"Right now, I'm not. Come on, tough guy."
3catwoman3
(23,994 posts)Way to go, mom and Mello!
Rebl2
(13,510 posts)Shes doing something right.
patphil
(6,178 posts)GreenWave
(6,756 posts)May your deed travel far beyond!
SergeStorms
(19,201 posts)and that comes from having a great mother. You taught your son well, Ms. Early.
world wide wally
(21,743 posts)calimary
(81,272 posts)This is the kind of thing that restores ones faith.
Emile
(22,766 posts)YoshidaYui
(41,831 posts)Story!
ejbr
(5,856 posts)More like a brother. May they both be blessed.