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In It to Win It

(8,252 posts)
Sat Nov 5, 2022, 02:34 PM Nov 2022

Bullies mocked his shoes. His friend, 12, got him a new pair with his own allowance.

WaPo via Yahoo News

Romello "Mello" Early couldn't stand watching his friend and fellow seventh-grader, Melvin Anderson, get taunted for wearing worn-out sneakers.

"I really didn't appreciate other people talking about him that way," said Mello, 12, a student at Buffalo Creek Academy Charter School in Buffalo.

On Oct. 24, he called his mother on FaceTime, which he does every day after school. That afternoon, though, Mello broke down in tears the moment his mother, Anita James, answered the phone.

"Romello, what happened?" James recalled asking her son.

"I'm getting tired of them bullying my friend about his shoes. It's making me so upset," he responded, explaining that his classmates mocked Melvin for having muddy sneakers.

Then, Mello earnestly asked, "Can we go buy him some shoes?"

James told her son they would talk about it when she got home from work. During their in-person conversation a few hours later, she said, he was still distraught.

Mello was adamant about buying his friend a fresh pair of sneakers to stave off bullies - and remind him that he has people who care about him.

"Can I use my allowance, or you can take something away that I would get for Christmas?" Mello asked his mother.

James admired her son's sincere plea.

"I was floored, because most kids are not willing to give up something to another child; most kids are about themselves," she said. "Just to see at that age he was acting as an adult, it touched me in a way that I almost can't even describe."

For Mello, the decision was intuitive.
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Bullies mocked his shoes. His friend, 12, got him a new pair with his own allowance. (Original Post) In It to Win It Nov 2022 OP
Dang this just made me sob. a kennedy Nov 2022 #1
Children like this young man are our future. Elessar Zappa Nov 2022 #2
absolutely! an old soul. what a sweetheart. bluboid Nov 2022 #11
Mello's sweet heart melts mine 🤗 Deuxcents Nov 2022 #3
when I was in my fifties my mum told me I lost so many sweaters when I was a kid Skittles Nov 2022 #4
Hey, Nike! ProfessorGAC Nov 2022 #5
YEAH! ShazzieB Nov 2022 #14
+1 uponit7771 Nov 2022 #19
MELLO YOU ROCK republianmushroom Nov 2022 #6
Wiping a tear. Just A Box Of Rain Nov 2022 #7
My mother... Genki Hikari Nov 2022 #8
❤️ blm Nov 2022 #9
I almost worked there if my wife got her green card. Glad I didn't. AZLD4Candidate Nov 2022 #10
Mama is raising a fine human being. 3catwoman3 Nov 2022 #12
My thought too Rebl2 Nov 2022 #24
This is what true friendship is all about. patphil Nov 2022 #13
Mello you are a Great Samaritan! GreenWave Nov 2022 #15
Great kid.... SergeStorms Nov 2022 #16
Good kid! world wide wally Nov 2022 #17
What a sweet story! calimary Nov 2022 #18
Now that's how you raise a democratic child! Emile Nov 2022 #20
Quite a lovely YoshidaYui Nov 2022 #21
Incredible friend ejbr Nov 2022 #22
... JuJuChen Nov 2022 #23

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
4. when I was in my fifties my mum told me I lost so many sweaters when I was a kid
Sat Nov 5, 2022, 02:41 PM
Nov 2022

I told her mum, I didn't lose them, I gave them to the poor kids

ProfessorGAC

(65,044 posts)
5. Hey, Nike!
Sat Nov 5, 2022, 02:44 PM
Nov 2022

Make sure these 2 kids get new sneaks twice a year at least until they quit growing.
Great PR for them, great reward for Melo, and keeps Melvin in nifty kicks.
Great story.

 

Genki Hikari

(1,766 posts)
8. My mother...
Sat Nov 5, 2022, 03:17 PM
Nov 2022

One afternoon she called me bawling her eyes out about somebody stealing a pair of shoes she'd bought--a pair that were super-comfy for her work that she couldn't get replacements for. At one point, she said, "Why would they steal those shoes from me? If whoever it was had told me they needed shoes, I would have bought them a pair!"

And I didn't laugh or say, "yeah, sure."

Because I know she really would have bought the person a pair of shoes if they needed it.

She was always buying clothes and shoes for her less fortunate co-workers.

She's also that person that hears someone telling a police officer they've been robbed, they don't even have enough money now to get to their hotel or whatever, she will stop and give them $100, do they need a ride, you're a bit flushed there, do you have a heart condition, I can take you to a doctor--

She did stuff like that most of my life.

She's an idiot about a lot of stuff, and she wasn't the best mother out there, but she was generous to a fault toward those in need. Probably because, when she was young, there were times when she only had one or two dresses to wear or did without. She never got over that.

AZLD4Candidate

(5,691 posts)
10. I almost worked there if my wife got her green card. Glad I didn't.
Sat Nov 5, 2022, 03:28 PM
Nov 2022

As a 6'2" built like a truck teacher, I have no tolerance for bullies. If I say that, I would do what I normally do to bullies: separate the victim and then tell the bullies "do that to me. Come on, tough guy, say and do those things to me right now. You're not so tough when someone bigger and stronger stands in front of you."

"But you're a teacher."

"Right now, I'm not. Come on, tough guy."

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