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boston bean

(36,223 posts)
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:23 PM Nov 2022

Ok. How about us women? When are our rights codified?

Believe me I am happy about same sex marriage getting codified.

But it doesn’t decrease my anger that women, once again are not recognized as full human beings because we have a womb.

Again, over it. Pissed and distressed.

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Ok. How about us women? When are our rights codified? (Original Post) boston bean Nov 2022 OP
Just asked that on another thread. onecaliberal Nov 2022 #1
+100 Diamond_Dog Nov 2022 #2
They're gonna get right in that ERA thing... AkFemDem Nov 2022 #3
Oh yes 100% certain. Women are next in line. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #14
There's been an argument... appmanga Nov 2022 #33
Wow!! That's just more WTFery !! AkFemDem Nov 2022 #34
Either when we get rid of the filibuster, or get 60 votes in the Senate... Silent3 Nov 2022 #4
51% of the population, but always on the burner farthest back. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #7
We're in third place behind 1. men and 2. fetuses. Sky Jewels Nov 2022 #11
Fourth place Silent3 Nov 2022 #12
and corporations Sky Jewels Nov 2022 #16
Geeeebz, don't go any further or you really make me depressed! electric_blue68 Nov 2022 #37
You are probably right. cksmithy Nov 2022 #43
To be honest, we might not even be on the list. :( Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #17
Oh, wait... electric_blue68 Nov 2022 #38
Yes. How does the US female majority keep getting screwed over? Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #45
There's the inthewind21 Nov 2022 #89
We don't have the votes. Demsrule86 Nov 2022 #73
We are 51% of the population. We have the votes. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #95
I had the same thought mcar Nov 2022 #5
Women's right, period! niyad Nov 2022 #29
I know!! You'd think that would have been a priority since that has ALREADY been taken away! BComplex Nov 2022 #6
It's easier inthewind21 Nov 2022 #90
Yes. MontanaMama Nov 2022 #8
Moo?* electric_blue68 Nov 2022 #39
You got me on that... MontanaMama Nov 2022 #41
{hug} electric_blue68 Nov 2022 #42
I love that L. R. Knost quote. calimary Nov 2022 #78
Awww. Thank you calimary. MontanaMama Nov 2022 #80
When we actually have enough senators.... getagrip_already Nov 2022 #9
So, never.... Bettie Nov 2022 #28
well, we "could" do it wothout repug votes.... getagrip_already Nov 2022 #46
Everyone died in that movie Bettie Nov 2022 #70
Lest we forget.. getagrip_already Nov 2022 #74
We HAVE TO. calimary Nov 2022 #77
It is not just reproductive rights. niyad Nov 2022 #32
yes, just using rr as an example... getagrip_already Nov 2022 #44
Equal Rights Amendment. niyad Nov 2022 #54
been passed and ratified.... all we need to do is recognize it getagrip_already Nov 2022 #64
Of course they will. Woman-hating scum. niyad Nov 2022 #66
+1, uponit7771 Nov 2022 #100
Thank you! It's time to start forcing votes. ananda Nov 2022 #10
Well, a women's right to marry another woman is codified ... Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #13
Women can hold two thoughts at the same time. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #20
When you are a woman. First thing you learn is you always have to wait Walleye Nov 2022 #15
Sadly, once again we are at the bottom. I neve r forget that, basically, three men niyad Nov 2022 #18
Non gay marriage is already codified Fullduplexxx Nov 2022 #19
So, women are supposed to what? Bettie Nov 2022 #30
Kick! Kickety, kicking, kicked! love_katz Nov 2022 #21
Absofuckingloutely! SheltieLover Nov 2022 #22
i'm hoping the next congress has no filibuster. 51 matters. mopinko Nov 2022 #23
Honestly-- when politicians feel like they run a political risk for opposing them. BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2022 #24
Yes, this only goes to show how deeply ingrained misogyny is in America dlk Nov 2022 #25
Yes women are 51% of the population, and we are not treated like full citizens. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #49
Too many women are indoctrinated from an early age to be submissive dlk Nov 2022 #51
All minority rulers train those they subjugate to be submissive. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #53
Exactly and as we've seen, it's extremely difficult to move beyond the status quo dlk Nov 2022 #65
Reproductive freedom is a major key to equality and the men took it away. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #67
Is "codifying" supposed to be some magic bullet that'll Hortensis Nov 2022 #26
There seems to be this misbelief that congress can override Supreme Court decisions they don't like. Midwestern Democrat Nov 2022 #85
Bingo inthewind21 Nov 2022 #92
Prolly never Meowmee Nov 2022 #27
Right there with you. BadgerMom Nov 2022 #31
How would inthewind21 Nov 2022 #93
This message was self-deleted by its author BadgerMom Nov 2022 #101
Women have the power to shut the whole shitshow down. Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2022 #35
Yeah. It's not a pleasant fact to face ... BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2022 #40
As I understand it, he won a majority of old and white. Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2022 #57
Yep woman are the glue that holds the entire shit show together. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #52
The midterms encouraged me -- there's a swell of good sense coming. Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2022 #58
I wish I felt that optimistic. BadgerMom Nov 2022 #61
The crazies in the House will spend 2 years teaching the electorate who they are. Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2022 #62
Why should women have any rights? BigmanPigman Nov 2022 #36
Women need to stage sit-ins at every Republican Senate & House member's home offices - Liberty Belle Nov 2022 #47
(Is this about abortion? Because not every woman has a womb, and not everyone who has a womb is WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2022 #48
What they all have in common is that they live in a state of oppression. n/t Mister Ed Nov 2022 #69
It is not just about that. AllyCat Nov 2022 #87
Men hold minority rule over women who are 51% of the population. Gender apartheid. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #50
Excellent question and thread. K&R Evolve Dammit Nov 2022 #55
When women (and men) stop voting for Republicans. BlueCheeseAgain Nov 2022 #56
That says a lot. But it takes some thinking through. usonian Nov 2022 #63
indeed Skittles Nov 2022 #59
Like everything in DC DownriverDem Nov 2022 #60
I think I'm going to handle it a little differently. Bird Lady Nov 2022 #68
Manchin won't let the filibuster be waived to vote on it. hlthe2b Nov 2022 #71
Then we women need to start our own lobbying group, Corgigal Nov 2022 #79
I don't think we have the votes...I doubt there are 12 GOP Senators willing to do this. Demsrule86 Nov 2022 #72
I doubt there's one GOP senator Bettie Nov 2022 #82
Was thinking the EXACT same thing today! Codify RvW!! FlyingPiggy Nov 2022 #75
Damn Straight! calimary Nov 2022 #76
"Boston Bean", you are a woman ?? Forgive my ignorance! DemocraticPatriot Nov 2022 #81
Not to be too technical but same sex marriage didn't get codified dsc Nov 2022 #83
I understand. But women got no preemptive action. Zip zero nada. boston bean Nov 2022 #84
This isn't "too technical" -- people need to understand it. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2022 #86
:) Good point to bring up. Hortensis Nov 2022 #88
Boston, women are 50%+ of The People and have the right to vote Hortensis Nov 2022 #91
You got a strange way of interpreting my post. boston bean Nov 2022 #96
Well, good, and I apologize for misunderstanding -- to you. Hortensis Nov 2022 #97
Get a grip. People recognize an injustice speak, speak to it and it's an embrace of grievance boston bean Nov 2022 #98
Oh, yeah, probably AT LEAST 100 million. It's epidemic and Hortensis Nov 2022 #99
From on high you have provided your own baseless opinion of my words boston bean Nov 2022 #102
But we're not talking about you. I just made an Hortensis Nov 2022 #103
K&R nt Torchlight Nov 2022 #94

Irish_Dem

(47,382 posts)
14. Oh yes 100% certain. Women are next in line.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:41 PM
Nov 2022

We've only been waiting 200,000 years for equal rights.
Has to be any day now.

Silent3

(15,265 posts)
4. Either when we get rid of the filibuster, or get 60 votes in the Senate...
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:27 PM
Nov 2022

...and 218 in the House.

So, unfortunately, not likely any time soon.

mcar

(42,372 posts)
5. I had the same thought
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:27 PM
Nov 2022

Happy this will pass. Frustrated that women's health rights aren't seen as bipartisan too.

BComplex

(8,064 posts)
6. I know!! You'd think that would have been a priority since that has ALREADY been taken away!
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:27 PM
Nov 2022

Damn it!! Damn it to hell!!!

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
90. It's easier
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 05:23 PM
Nov 2022

to shut the barn door BEOFRE the horses bolt. Prevention is always easier than scrambling after the fact.

MontanaMama

(23,337 posts)
41. You got me on that...
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:31 PM
Nov 2022

I was coming back loaded for bear…but I hear you. It’s all I can do to not scream or cry.

calimary

(81,459 posts)
78. I love that L. R. Knost quote.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 12:05 AM
Nov 2022

Gonna use it in one of my Indivisible group's upcoming Call to Action emails.

MontanaMama

(23,337 posts)
80. Awww. Thank you calimary.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 12:16 AM
Nov 2022

As the mama of a sensitive kiddo…this has been my mantra throughout his childhood.

getagrip_already

(14,837 posts)
9. When we actually have enough senators....
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:29 PM
Nov 2022

To over ride (or eliminate) the filibuster and pass a reproductive rights bill. That's more than 52, since other dem senators might be opposed.

Oh, and a house majority as well.

We don't have the votes. Yet.

getagrip_already

(14,837 posts)
46. well, we "could" do it wothout repug votes....
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:41 PM
Nov 2022

But we would need a house majority willing to vote for it, and 50 dems in the senate that would be willing to eliminate the fillibuster and vote for woman's rights. Oh, and a dem potus.

That isn't impossible. But it isn't a description of this or the next congress.

But in 2 years there will be another crop of young voters that have turned 18. And a large crop of older voters who will have turned dead.

So there is hope. And hope is fuel of the revolution (or something like that according to rogue one).

Bettie

(16,124 posts)
70. Everyone died in that movie
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 09:11 PM
Nov 2022

So, maybe, some day.

But the fact is, if something affects women only, it isn't a priority to most.

getagrip_already

(14,837 posts)
74. Lest we forget..
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 11:42 PM
Nov 2022


In the not distant past, woman couldn't vote, or own real property, or enter into contracts. In some places, they can't show their faces in public. They can't speak out, or hold jobs, and are forced to suffer genital mutilation.

So yeah, this world can suck. But we can still try to make it better.

calimary

(81,459 posts)
77. We HAVE TO.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 12:02 AM
Nov 2022

Nobody else seems that interested. So WE are the ones who have to keep trying to make it better. Oh, yeah, plus two: my husband and my son, and my son-in-law, who knows Mad Mother-in-Law will be breathing down his neck if he doesn't join the fight on our side. Besides, they've given me two granddaughters. I think he's pretty highly-evolved, though, at least from what I've seen. He's got sisters, AND he married our daughter. And she wouldn't have married some knuckle dragger.

getagrip_already

(14,837 posts)
44. yes, just using rr as an example...
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:38 PM
Nov 2022

I know there are others. Discrimination, work pay equity, harrassment, glass ceilings, etc.

But I suspect each would be a different bill, yet all have the same obstacles; a united rethug opposition and dem obstructionists..

getagrip_already

(14,837 posts)
64. been passed and ratified.... all we need to do is recognize it
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:37 PM
Nov 2022

But I suspect this scotus will block it given the amount of time it took.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
13. Well, a women's right to marry another woman is codified ...
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:41 PM
Nov 2022

That's a pretty big deal in my book (men marrying men, too). It does seem much like a step in the proverbial right direction.

For my part, think I'll take this opportunity to celebrate a historic achievement by Democrats for like 2 hours before I return to my usual constant focus on how much other stuff is legit fucked up and wrong in this country and world.

See you on the flip side when the buzz wears off.

Irish_Dem

(47,382 posts)
20. Women can hold two thoughts at the same time.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:53 PM
Nov 2022

We are the queens of multi-tasking.

Women learned in the 1960's that they were not on the agenda at all.

We fought side by side with men but women's rights were discarded.

Anti-war, civil rights, ecology, etc.
But a big NO for women.

Pissed us off then, pissing us off now.

Or course I am glad the senate acted today.

Thrilled actually. It looks like my daughter and her girl friend can get married next year!
We are texting back and forth in joy as I type these words!

niyad

(113,552 posts)
18. Sadly, once again we are at the bottom. I neve r forget that, basically, three men
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 05:48 PM
Nov 2022

cost us the ERA. May they receive everything they deserve.

Bettie

(16,124 posts)
30. So, women are supposed to what?
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:05 PM
Nov 2022

Just sit and be patient, in another fifty or so years, we might get a watered down version of full citizenship?

mopinko

(70,208 posts)
23. i'm hoping the next congress has no filibuster. 51 matters.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 06:34 PM
Nov 2022

i'm confident it can pass in the next congress. it'll be tough in the house, but i think doable if anything is.
who knows, maybe we charge a few traitors and have a few specials.
we'll get a lot more done now.

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
24. Honestly-- when politicians feel like they run a political risk for opposing them.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 06:49 PM
Nov 2022

Right now they clearly don't feel that way. More people who are pro-choice need to vote that way. (Supposedly 61% or so of voters are pro-choice, but Republicans got 51% of the House vote. So a lot of pro-choice people are comfortable voting for people who aren't.)

dlk

(11,576 posts)
25. Yes, this only goes to show how deeply ingrained misogyny is in America
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 06:52 PM
Nov 2022

Same sex marriage is all good and well, however women are the majority of the population.

dlk

(11,576 posts)
51. Too many women are indoctrinated from an early age to be submissive
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:45 PM
Nov 2022

I'm afraid it will take more women, united, and demanding equal protection under the law before anything significant changes. There are too many enjoying the benefits of discrimination. It pays well.

Irish_Dem

(47,382 posts)
53. All minority rulers train those they subjugate to be submissive.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:48 PM
Nov 2022

Woman live under male minority rule.
Gender apartheid.

dlk

(11,576 posts)
65. Exactly and as we've seen, it's extremely difficult to move beyond the status quo
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:40 PM
Nov 2022

It took nearly 100 years of activism with harsh backlash for women to win the right to vote and we stand on their shoulders. We must never give up

Irish_Dem

(47,382 posts)
67. Reproductive freedom is a major key to equality and the men took it away.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:48 PM
Nov 2022

Yes women have been fighting hard for their rights for a long time.
And it gets taken away in an instant.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
26. Is "codifying" supposed to be some magic bullet that'll
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:00 PM
Nov 2022

fend off elimination by the RW Christian extremist SCOTUS supermajority? If so, I have really bad news... It's not. They rule. Most of our modern rights are not stated in the constitution, they're merely inferred and thus HIGHLY endangered.

Elections have consequences, and sometimes they really bite.

Btw, interestingly, the words "man/men" and "woman/women" do not appear in the constitution. Its creaters used the word "person/persons." Same for references to race -- Almost without exception references to "person" are undifferentiated by race. Gender differences (and racial), however, were already deeply-deeply embedded (center of earth practically) in societal attitudes and practices and in local and state laws.

Speaking of "bites" to come, also not stated is the right of the federal government to create programs like Social Security or to protect personal decisions like birth control and choice from state interference, right to a free and open internet, right to decide to have elective surgery on our own bodies. And MANY others as vulnerable as Roe was.

85. There seems to be this misbelief that congress can override Supreme Court decisions they don't like.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 09:56 AM
Nov 2022

And it seems to be an idea that is only recently being promoted - in the past, supporters of school segregation never thought congress could override Brown v Board of Education; supporters of school payer never thought congress could override Engle v. Vitale; opponents of abortion never thought congress could override Roe v Wade; opponents of same sex marriage never thought congress could override Obergefell v Hodges, etc.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
92. Bingo
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 05:31 PM
Nov 2022

It's not like there haven't been very clear intentions made public for the last 40 years. I knew election night 2016 what was coming. Once the SC was lost, it was game over. There also seems to be no knowledge that no matter what congress passes, the SC can rule it unconstitutional and strike it down. Civics 101 teaches that.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
27. Prolly never
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:02 PM
Nov 2022

And although I support what happened I do not believe married people and or people with children should receive better treatment in many areas than single people without children.

BadgerMom

(2,771 posts)
31. Right there with you.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:06 PM
Nov 2022

I read the news headlines from the NY Times and LA Times. After a short burst of elation, I was pissed off royally. This could keep same sex marriage out of the clutches of the Supreme Court and, for that, I’m thrilled. But I’ve been waiting my entire adult life. I was in college when the ERA was partially ratified. I was an adult during the days of Roe. I’ve been patient. I am no longer. I’m just angry-really, really angry. I’d hoped our votes last week would serve to demonstrate I’m not the only one who is angry. I’m ready to peacefully demonstrate, get arrested if need be, follow in Suffragette footsteps. What. about. us?!!!!!

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
93. How would
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 05:37 PM
Nov 2022

it keep it from the clutches of the SC? They are the ultimate deciders. They have over ridden laws passed by congress many times.

Response to inthewind21 (Reply #93)

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
40. Yeah. It's not a pleasant fact to face ...
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:26 PM
Nov 2022

... but a substantial fraction of women vote for Republicans. DeSantis, for example, won a majority of women in Florida this time, when everyone knew that electing him would mean the end of abortion rights there.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,413 posts)
57. As I understand it, he won a majority of old and white.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:02 PM
Nov 2022

That demographic is shrinking in the rest of the country.

Irish_Dem

(47,382 posts)
52. Yep woman are the glue that holds the entire shit show together.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:46 PM
Nov 2022

And we keep holding it all together no matter how badly we are treated.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,413 posts)
58. The midterms encouraged me -- there's a swell of good sense coming.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:11 PM
Nov 2022

I think there is a big, slow-moving blue wave building that started in 2018. It seems a lot of people who have not participated much are beginning to notice they can change what they don't like.

Maybe we just need to yell louder about what's been accomplished since then.

BadgerMom

(2,771 posts)
61. I wish I felt that optimistic.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:17 PM
Nov 2022

I think the House will impeach, obstruct, investigate heroic public servants and generally act against the best interests of the country. I sure hope I’m wrong, but recent history doesn’t buoy me.

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,413 posts)
62. The crazies in the House will spend 2 years teaching the electorate who they are.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:21 PM
Nov 2022

Pres Joe, Speaker Nancy, and Leader Schumer have spent 2 years teaching the electorate what can be done. We need to flash the list of accomplishments every time the GOP House fails.

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
47. Women need to stage sit-ins at every Republican Senate & House member's home offices -
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:41 PM
Nov 2022

and have a team in each district that dogs these members, showing up with bloody coat hanger images every place they go - including GOP fundraisers, speeches at Chamber of Commerce meetings, etc.

Start a list of names of women who died because they couldn't get abortions in some states, and create a quilt with their names like AIDS victims' advocates did. Show it everywhere. Do displays of empty women's shoes for all the victims of these cruel laws.

They should not have a moment's peace until women get equal rights, period.

AllyCat

(16,220 posts)
87. It is not just about that.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 10:07 AM
Nov 2022

Getting rid of abortion rights was the first huge leap to keeping women down. We cannot earn as much when we have no choice on when to bear children. We become more dependent on men for financial survival. Physically, we face greater danger. It’s harder to vote.

Until the ‘70s, we could not apply for loans or hold a credit card.

Dominionists have found a way to control our every action by regulating a part of our bodies.

BlueCheeseAgain

(1,654 posts)
56. When women (and men) stop voting for Republicans.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 07:58 PM
Nov 2022

This isn't simply a women vs men issue. According to exit polls, a majority of Florida women voted for DeSantis this time, and a majority of Texas women voted for Abbott. We're not going to advance reproductive rights when things like that happen.

usonian

(9,866 posts)
63. That says a lot. But it takes some thinking through.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:27 PM
Nov 2022

For people to vote against their own best interests, there have to be other countervailing factors.
Puts on thinking cap ...
• Party loyalty?
• Propagandized against 'those others'
• Really believing some of the phoney baloney "issues" (a.k.a. outrages du jour) such as immigration, inflation, WHATEVER ...
or the weirdest one:
• It's just a cult and cult membership requires no thinking, only outrage at others not in the cult.

I am not averse to kicking in a few bucks to help others in need (you can't say that in GQP land), but sure, it's "against my interest" but I didn't say BEST interest, because my BEST interest is to be a decent human being, if not a sterling example.

But to prioritize that other nonsense over a basic right. Lose your rights, and you have nothing.
I wonder if Abbott will let women "man" those gunboats he plans to use to patrol the border.
One sick wacko.

Bird Lady

(1,819 posts)
68. I think I'm going to handle it a little differently.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 08:52 PM
Nov 2022

I will not spend a minute worrying about these rules and laws.
I will continue to live my life as I did before the ruling.
I don't except any excuses and I won't give any, in this case.

hlthe2b

(102,357 posts)
71. Manchin won't let the filibuster be waived to vote on it.
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 09:47 PM
Nov 2022

I know he has a few defenders, but in terms of support for women, he's a ...

(well, fill in the blank so I don't get a post hidden for not being sufficiently supportive of a nominal Dem)


Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
79. Then we women need to start our own lobbying group,
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 12:11 AM
Nov 2022

put big funding in there, and buy off some of these representations.

calimary

(81,459 posts)
76. Damn Straight!
Wed Nov 16, 2022, 11:55 PM
Nov 2022

It's good news for our gay brothers and sisters and those who love them. So I'm happy.

But women and their wombs? Um, hello? Anybody there? Do we just not care about that or are we just not interested?

Asking for a friend with a womb, and for the woman with the womb who I see in the mirror every day.

DemocraticPatriot

(4,397 posts)
81. "Boston Bean", you are a woman ?? Forgive my ignorance!
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 12:35 AM
Nov 2022

My worldview is altered, or something, LOL

As a self-entitled older white man, with latent misogony (I don't hate women, I love women, BUT as a man I can never entirely 'get it' and probably subsconsciously think myself superior or something)
I tend to automatically presume that posters on a political board are also men, if I don't know otherwise... just a knee-jerk thing... stupidity, I suppose... but then again I don't ask myself "is this a man or a woman", maybe that is a personal failure...

OK, in my younger years, I could never find a woman who would share my interest in politics, so maybe that plays into it-- I am so glad to witness women and Young Women coming out to VOTE this midterm, and THWARTING the 'red wave' !!!!
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!

I am familiar with you for a long time, and have admired your posts and your influence here!


I AGREE with you... but sadly it seems that we can find more Republicans to stand up for gay marriage, than for women's rights over their own bodies... At this time, I can think of only one or two Senate Republicans who might support such a vote to codify abortion rights (Collins and Murkowski?) And then we have Manchin, who might vote against it...

Yes, it SUCKS!!! The recent battle has ended but the war continues!

I do think that the Democrats should bring codification of Roe rights to a vote, while we have the power to do so!
Let the votes fall where they may! And let's get these votes ON THE RECORD, for 2024 advertisements!




dsc

(52,166 posts)
83. Not to be too technical but same sex marriage didn't get codified
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 06:59 AM
Nov 2022

if Obergefell falls then marriage equality will be where abortion is now. We would have the ability to have our marriages recognized by the feds and states which didn't issue the license but not be able to get married in states which refuse to issue licenses. Since many states banned marriage equality with constitutional amendments removing those bans would in many cases be harder.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
91. Boston, women are 50%+ of The People and have the right to vote
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 05:25 PM
Nov 2022

as "full human beings." NO to the notion that any woman needs any more "recognition" than that to work for and be the change she wants.

HALF of ALL racial, ideological, religious, ethnic, and economic groups is one fucking BIG, POWERFUL demographic. So NO to any ridiculous, self-defeating notion that women are helpless victims. No women should cast blame on men without also casting a full share at themselves.

Of course We The People, women included, did create many legally protected rights for women as "full human beings" over the past century. All those that are now endangered, in fact.

They didn't just appear out of thin air and somehow 100 years of legislators of both parties refused to "codify" them. They were the result of enough demand among the people for these rights combining with a liberal democratic government designed to serve the will of The People. Winning out at least mostly over very powerful opposing We The People forces.

And they're in danger now because commitment among The People to protect their rights from those who'd take them away, including the very right to government designed to enact the will of The People, dropped below critical levels.

We're all Full Citizens and have been for a long time, but there's never been a time when those who move society forward didn't have to drag resisters and dead weights (including those who refuse to realize they have a job to do) forward with them. When there aren't enough movers acting together, women same as men, society loses ground. And here we are.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
96. You got a strange way of interpreting my post.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 06:29 PM
Nov 2022

I really disagree with your characterization of it in your first couple of sentences.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
97. Well, good, and I apologize for misunderstanding -- to you.
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 07:13 PM
Nov 2022

NOT to those who embrace grievance and victimization and angrily leap to blame targets of resentment, but not themselves, for...whatever's rousing resentment at the moment.

Many observers believe that those whose political attitudes are formed around negativism and anger toward others have become a huge national problem contributing to every society-endangering problem. That is precisely why enemies of democracy invest so much effort, 24/7/365, into developing grievance in as many citizens as possible as a self-defeating, nation-destroying habit.

RW subversive groups specialize in it, but it's been so extremely successful that many LW subversives have focused very heavily on it as well.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
98. Get a grip. People recognize an injustice speak, speak to it and it's an embrace of grievance
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 07:15 PM
Nov 2022

and victimization???

How insulting.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
99. Oh, yeah, probably AT LEAST 100 million. It's epidemic and
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 08:52 PM
Nov 2022

extremely effective at dividing and conquering, suppressing the vote, depressing belief in democracy itself, of course building dangerous populist anger. Convincing all vulnerable that government is proven corrupt because it could but doesn't FIX (insert grievance).

Why on earth wouldn't any subversive or just dissident group push it BIG? On every main issue?

Btw, regarding this codified theme, I guess I just don't go places that push it, but it sounds on its face typically anti-Democratic Party, as almost all grievance themes ultimately are. Think about it.

Everyone knows Republican Party/trumpists is currently zealously committed to rolling back most of a century of women's rights, so of course no one would complain that they didn't fix it. The narrative, stated or just implied, by default normally becomes that the Democrats are to blame for not avoiding or fixing it.

And when the bottom line is that (insert grievance) couldn't have happened without Democratic colllusion or at best indifference, there's no need to even mention the Republicans, white supremacists, religious right, libertarian billionaires,...anyone who actually were behind it.

In this case, Democrats are the only ones anyone might claim SHOULD codify all state laws guaranteeing individual rights under federal law, right. After all, the Republicans never would. That leaves the Democrats as the ones who should but didn't. And therefore should be blamed.

It might be thought the fact that the demanded (insert fix to grievance) is impossible -- in this case for a bunch of HUGE valid reasons -- would be a problem in selling that narrative. Not. It's a great opportunity. Grievance needs feeding, and if what those who see themselves as victims demand really cannot be done the Democrats will always be guilty of not doing it! Genius! Really invested victims can be angry at the Democrats and refuse to vote for them for the rest of their lives.

Think what that means. No wonder so much effort is spent on this kind of political attitude adjustment.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
102. From on high you have provided your own baseless opinion of my words
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 10:02 PM
Nov 2022

and who I am.

You couldn't be more wrong no matter how many nicely phrased barbs on my character are written by you.

Go ahead and continue on with whatever it is you think about me. I really could care less to engage any further with you in what I regard as completely false accusations on my character and my commitment as a life long democrat.

Have a good night and good time drafting the next 6-10 paragraphs as last word, if it gets you through the night.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
103. But we're not talking about you. I just made an
Thu Nov 17, 2022, 10:07 PM
Nov 2022

assumption based on the subject and pattern (such as not differentiating GOP from Dems on this civil rights issue), and I've apologized for it.

But the subject I raised is itself very important. Training many millions of people of a democracy who have the power of the VOTE to see themselves as helpless, angry victims instead of citizens with a job to do is right out of "How to Destroy a Democracy for Dummies." It's mentioned in the introduction, and in addition to having a long chapter devoted to grievance politics alone, applications are discussed throughout the book.

Maybe google the term. There're a lot more than just one book about this.

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