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where were you when you learned the news of JFK's assassination?
I was in Germany (6 years old) and already in bed. All of a sudden I heard real loud voice out in the common area of our 17th floor apartment in Frankfurt Germany All four units on each floor share a common tv in the large lobby of each floor. Pretty soon all the parents were out there and the kids in bed came out to see what the commotion was about. I remember staying up way late watching with every one., On that Monday, stayed up late again to watch the funeral with my parents til I fell asleep in the lobby. I had just seen him in June of that year as he came through Frankfurt
gab13by13
(21,414 posts)We all prayed for him.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)and made an announcement to each class.
It was not a good day.
mopinko
(70,258 posts)it was report card day, so us kids were home. it was about 3 pm when my folks came home.
mom was crying, and da was close. they had announced it on the school pa.
he made a campaign swing through my small town, and drove right by our house.
mom kept saying- i shook his hand.
proud irish who were proud of the irish prez.
Tetrachloride
(7,876 posts)the last Democratic presidential candidate to do so.
ProudMNDemocrat
(16,807 posts)rurallib
(62,455 posts)there was the announcement of the shooting. We all sat quietly very stunned. Then about ten minutes later the announcement that Kennedy had died.
Then about another ten minutes and the announcement that school was done for the day. All after school practices were cancelled. And we all silently went home.
Runningdawg
(4,522 posts)At the time I didn't understand why grandma broke the bowl she was drying or why grandpa came in from the barn a few minutes later crying. Mom and dad closed up their store and came home in the middle of the day. My uncle had a heart attack the day before and died that afternoon too. We went to the neighbors to watch Walter Cronkite on their TV that night.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)Very evocative of those times also, and how they've changed. Today if we didn't have TV in our home we'd watch our choice among thousands of different reports on our smartphones. And, of course, your uncle would probably survive.
elleng
(131,163 posts)Darwins_Retriever
(856 posts)Chin Elementary. Principal came on the intercom and announced that President Kennedy had died. A girl in the class yels, "Yeah, no more president's physical fitness test."
Timewas
(2,196 posts)In Richmond Cal.
Tracer
(2,769 posts)I was with my sister and new brother-in-law on our way back to Syracuse where they were living.
We were in the store laughing and joking around and went to the checkout with our purchases.
The woman at the counter said: "It's a sad day for your country."
We had no idea what she was talking about, until she explained what had happened.
There was no more laughing or joking.
Croney
(4,671 posts)waiting to pick up my husband from work, when the news came on the radio. We had just sent the Kennedys a wedding invitation five months earlier (as was the custom back then) and gotten a nice card in reply (which I still have). It was surreal.
Wicked Blue
(5,854 posts)It was the last class of the day. We were fixing our hair and makeup, when the announcement came over the PA system.
I think the announcement was that he had been shot, not that he was dead.
Almost everyone started crying. A couple of girls were praying for him. I was absolutely stunned silent. It just didn't seem possible.
MiHale
(9,785 posts)In May of that year we moved into our new home in the suburbs. Birthdays were kinda special that year because, first in the new house, ya know kids. All the birthdays went off great, June, July, September, October, my Dad was the last of the year, November, the day the 22nd. Hed be 105 today. Birthdays changed that day.
Then 2 days later
I was witness to a live murder on national tv.
GP6971
(31,222 posts)and at home sick.
Doc Sportello
(7,531 posts)Evan at that age it was shocking. Never recovered in some ways, me or the country.
Biophilic
(3,699 posts)He was really upset, saying they killed my president .
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)announced it and sent the small student body outside, where he and the teachers made themselves available for consoling. Lots of tall pines, lots of picnic lunch tables under them, lots of crying.
KarenS
(4,088 posts)I was 14. We heard an announcement on the loudspeaker but could not make out what they were saying,,, we came into the locker room to hear that he had passed away,,,, we were sent home on our normal buses,,,, sigh,,,, seems like so long ago now.
ironflange
(7,781 posts)Ocelot II
(115,875 posts)3catwoman3
(24,054 posts)I remember the teacher's face turning purple at the second announcement.
Backseat Driver
(4,399 posts)Turning up our art table stools so maintenance could clean the floors. The announcement on the PA ended just as the school day did that JFK had already died, the target of an unknown assassin's gunshot(s). There was much crying on the bus ride home followed by days of non-stop television. I had just begun learning about presidential politics as JFK's "people" had been passing out Kennedy pencils on the sidewalk outside of the elementary school I had gone to. I won't ever forget his inauguration address, the emotions of that day, nor the rhythmic drums of the caissons. I've cried many more times with our nation since that sad day. DH was stationed at the Pentagon and witnessed the Poor People's Campaign in the fires and tents of Resurrection City that lasted six months that ended sadly in police violence. Married 52 years yesterday, we had a short honeymoon there. I've visited the site of JFK's burial flame at Arlington National Cemetery as well as the Viet Nam Memorial Wall and attended that Viet Nam conflict's Unknown (now known) Soldier's interment with friends; I've celebrated Independence Day on the Mall with my young children and never spent enough time at the Smithsonian. I tried to attend the January protest after USA invaded Iraq but was late for the march and speakers (travel temp -13 degrees). My daughter went with us; she thought we'd get arrested. Likely will never go back to DC unless justice for 1/6 I watched Live while crying yet again takes place - Silly me, still the idealist dreaming of one day perhaps happy and thankful to see the cherry blossoms.
3catwoman3
(24,054 posts)...final Air Force assignment. He flew small jets for the 89th Military Airlift Wing, which is best known for Air Force 1.
We lived in Upper Marlboro, MD because he had to be near enough to the base to get there in 20 minutes in case someone needed to go somewhere right now. As I'm sure you know, traffic around the DC beltway is horrible, so needing to be only 20 minutes away ruled out most of the MD-DC-VA area.
Do go see the cherry blossoms. They are truly spectacular. One of the prettiest sights on the planet, IMO.
Congratulations on your long marriage. You must have married young. We will mark 41 years in January. We met in Japan. I was in the Air Force, too, as a nurse practitioner. We were next door neighbors in the Bachelor Officers' Quarters.
ggma
(708 posts)We used to go home for lunch back then. We had just gotten seated when the teacher came in the room, crying so hard she could barely speak. She told us that a tragedy had just occurred, but it was something our parents needed to talk to us about. We lived close to school so I got home just as the adults were gathering around the tv. We all watched the news together. I didn't really understand what was going on.
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Srkdqltr
(6,331 posts)The store was empty by 2ish closed at 5 and we closed until Monday.
rsdsharp
(9,206 posts)We didnt have the TV on during lunch, and would only turn the radio on if we heard sirens, so I still didnt know about it when I returned to school.
I was standing in front of the school, watching a kickball game, when David Grundimeir came up and told me. The news rapidly spread across the playground. Later, after we returned to our classroom, the Principal, Mr. Cole came in and told us the President was dead. I assume he had been monitoring the TV the sixth graders used to watch the required Iowa history class. School was dismissed about an hour later.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)We lived in Illinois at the time but my family were lifelong southerners. In spite of that my mother was deeply infatuated with the Kennedys and Camelot. We spent that Thanksgiving in a state of devastation not shared by my father. Since my mother died just four years later its a strong and important memory I have of her. I like to think that, unlike the rest of the family, shed have ended up a liberal like I did.
Maeve
(42,289 posts)I was in kindergarten when he was elected we had a mock election and I was first in his line, so I got to count the votes. He won.
Pretty sure my folks backed Nixon that year, but what did I know about politics? Kennedy looked nicer. Maybe I did know something..
GentryDixon
(2,963 posts)ananda
(28,879 posts)It came on the loud speaker.
But we didn't know how deadly it was
till later.
Just A Box Of Rain
(5,104 posts)I have no memory of "the moment" when I learned the news.
But I do remember the overwhelming sense of grief in my family and community at large. Everyone was crying.
And have strong memories of watching the funeral on television. The image of the horse-drawn caisson and Jakie and the children burned in my mind.
But--somehow--I have no memory of the moment I first heard the president had been murdered.
chicoescuela
(1,030 posts)Just A Box Of Rain
(5,104 posts)I've always felt it was strange that I have so many memories and impressions of this tragic time, but have no specific recollection of the moment I got the news.
My parents were absolutely grief stricken.
My dad ended up making a film as a tribute to JFK. It was shown at the Democratic Convention in 1964. The official title was "A Thousand Days," but it was more widely known as "the Camelot film":
debm55
(25,481 posts)as I am crying now. Your dad did a excellent job. I have seen this before, but today it brings me chills.
Just A Box Of Rain
(5,104 posts)Peace to you.
Paladin
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A classmate eating a popsicle came up to me and told me that both JFK and Governor Connally had been shot in Dallas. Took me a while to get over my shock and start moving again---I had school friends whose parents were invitees to a speech JFK was scheduled to give in Austin, that evening. Their invitations became family heirlooms.
yorkster
(1,509 posts)The teacher told us that the President had been shot - she had first said something like, "I can't believe this", so we were all listening intently when she told us. Drifted out into the halls, lots of crying. 4 of us started walking to a friend's house. On the way, a town road road crew guy down in a trench or culvert, shouted at us, "Did he make it?". We told him the sad truth. Will never forget that. Felt badly that he was out on the job alone.
usonian
(9,908 posts)Hit the state like a nuke. He was our favorite son.
bahboo
(16,364 posts)will never forget the principal coming in and announcing the president has been shot. We were all sent home. We watched the tv for 3 days straight...one of the few times I remember seeing my dad cry. He was from Boston, and we had a picture of JFK on our living room wall...
sinkingfeeling
(51,477 posts)Marthe48
(17,039 posts)My great aunt had the tv on in the living room, and entirely shocked, told my brother and me that 'the president has been shot.'
Mousetoescamper
(3,288 posts)I was in second grade and the assassination wasn't announced to the lower grades. On the way home some older kids told us that the President had been shot in Texas. My image of Texas back then was that of the Wild West and I imagined he'd been shot by outlaws.
When I arrived home, my father was stringing Christmas lights on the house. I don't recall what he said to me, but when I got in the house my mother was in front of the TV and weeping.
The TV coverage of the flag-draped casket lying in state at the Capitol seemed to go on for days. I think I was probably annoyed at there being no cartoons or other kids' shows on during that time.
I didn't see Jack Ruby's shooting Oswald on TV, but heard about it on the car radio while we were traveling to my grandmother's house in Marlow Heights. My parents explained what had happened and I was frightened and confused by all of the violence.
My memory of the day of the funeral is of the flag-draped casket on the caisson, the horses, and especially of John-John and Caroline. She was a year younger than me. The Vaughn Meader comedy album "The First Family" was played often at our house, so the Kennedys were familiar to me in that way. I don't recall hearing its being played again in our home after the assassination.
Although it probably wouldn't have been described as a traumatic event for children back then, I was traumatized. After that horrible time nothing was quite the same.
yonder
(9,679 posts)A buzz started somewhere and increased till everyone knew. With many people crying, we were escorted back to class, TV's were rolled in and teachers started talking with us as the news developed that the President had, in fact, been assassinated after which we were dismissed early and sent home.
The next several days of TV coverage were devoted exclusively to the President, the succession process and the subsequent murder of Oswald, which was broadcast live as he was being moved in Dallas.
Some things are just not forgotten.
DET
(1,324 posts)In elementary school, which was two blocks from home, which was a couple of miles from the Kennedy Compound. We were just told to go home, where we learned the news. I dont remember much after that.
Still Sensible
(2,870 posts)in Bettendorf, Iowa. We had just returned to class after walking home (and back--about 5 blocks) for lunch.
TigressDem
(5,125 posts)H2O Man
(73,626 posts)IcyPeas
(21,910 posts)Spazito
(50,488 posts)and was in bed listening to the radio when the news broke. I had no idea who President Kennedy was but the announcer's voice was so full of emotion that I cried with him. The memory is still crystal clear even after all these years.
Hekate
(90,841 posts)What I thought in the moment was that it was a tasteless joke. Some of the kids had transistor radios, but our school was typical for the time and place in that there were no intercoms and no TVs. The office had to have sent out runners, because our Chem teacher announced it.
Later in the day there was a school assembly in the courtyard around the flagpole. The Bands best trumpeter played Taps. We were all absolutely stunned. If any of the many military dependents were from the South and thought this was okay (remember those transistor radios: we already knew about outbreaks of cheers) they kept their mouths well shut.
I dont recall being let out early as an adult I can see the logistical problems in getting almost 2,000 students home in that the only buses were school busses. For me it would have meant a 3 mile walk home, and for others it was much further. Also, seriously, what would the kitchen have done with all those hot lunches just before a holiday weekend? (Yes, we got a full hot lunch cooked by real people in a kitchen on the premises. 25c. All students took a day off classes in rotation to help for a day.) Funny the things I never thought of before.
I was glued to the TV at home over the next days. I was young I thought this was unique in our history & would never happen again. By the end of 1968, I knew better.
RIP Jack & Jackie, Bobby, Teddy thank you all for your service to the country.
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debm55
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I remember it was like everything shut down.I also remember the horse(Black Jack?) with the boots turned backward. And that cadence of the drums. Typing this I have chills up my spine.
Elessar Zappa
(14,083 posts)I cant imagine the shock and pain people mustve felt.
BluesRunTheGame
(1,621 posts)Maybe I remember cartoons being preempted for the funeral. I could be mixing it up with RFK and MLK in 68. Id been 9 or 10.
onethatcares
(16,189 posts)I think it was 4th grade.
I had a strange way of dealing with stress and I smiled when it was announced. Sister Mary Beat Ya With Jesus smacked me hard.
Then we got 5 days off of school. My folks were pissed because there was no daycare at that time and there were 5 kids that had to be watched,
My mom bore the brunt of that.
TomSlick
(11,110 posts)The principal came in - whispered to the teacher - who gave us the news. Even as six year-old kids, we were all shocked.
Xoan
(25,324 posts)Stuart G
(38,449 posts)said JFK was shot. I guess we believed him. That is one he couldn't make up!
MarineCombatEngineer
(12,449 posts)we were told to hit the showers and report to the school auditorium.