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LAS14

(13,783 posts)
Tue Nov 29, 2022, 12:18 PM Nov 2022

Lament #2 about what's happening to the latest generation.

In the last few days I've gotten texts from each of my granddaughters, in reply to something I sent, that said "Loved your message " Their mother explained that they could set that to go out automatically if, for some reason, they couldn't/didn't want to respond to text messages. Perhaps they were in class or sick.

I can understand "Sorry, can't respond to texts right now." But to say "loved your message" just trashes real communication. It tells us not to believe anything they tell us. It can't be a good model. Right? Wrong?

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Lament #2 about what's happening to the latest generation. (Original Post) LAS14 Nov 2022 OP
of all the things to get upset about... jcgoldie Nov 2022 #1
It would be foolish to reject the possibility that they loved your messaqe, without asking them. nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #2
I'm guessing what they actually did was click the "heart" button on your message, which means they WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2022 #3
this is the answer here ZonkerHarris Nov 2022 #12
Well, it's not possible for everyone to meet every expectation, I guess. MineralMan Nov 2022 #4
At least it's a response TuxedoKat Nov 2022 #5
Sorry This Happened RobinA Nov 2022 #6
That means they clicked the heart ❤️ emoji. blm Nov 2022 #7
One can only hope that when they receive physical gifts, they do write a real thank yo question everything Nov 2022 #8
Thanks so much. nt LAS14 Nov 2022 #9
Loved your post. JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 2022 #10
Lol! BlackSkimmer Nov 2022 #11

jcgoldie

(11,631 posts)
1. of all the things to get upset about...
Tue Nov 29, 2022, 12:23 PM
Nov 2022

Pretty sure text message auto-replies ranks several tens of thousands of issues down my list.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,356 posts)
3. I'm guessing what they actually did was click the "heart" button on your message, which means they
Tue Nov 29, 2022, 12:29 PM
Nov 2022

saw it and appreciated it, similar to a "like" on a tweet or a DU upvote. And if you don't have an OS that displays that heart message on the text bubble, you will get a message that says " (name) loved your message."

Why do you think "loved your message" doesn't have real sentiment behind it just because they didn't type each letter out?

Many, many people would love to have that level of communication with their grandkids.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
6. Sorry This Happened
Tue Nov 29, 2022, 12:34 PM
Nov 2022

to you. It would make me feel crappy, too. They probably wouldn't be getting many messages from me after that.

blm

(113,063 posts)
7. That means they clicked the heart ❤️ emoji.
Tue Nov 29, 2022, 12:35 PM
Nov 2022

That’s a good thing. Everyone on my family threads does it when a message touches their heart.

question everything

(47,486 posts)
8. One can only hope that when they receive physical gifts, they do write a real thank yo
Tue Nov 29, 2022, 12:50 PM
Nov 2022

thanking for the book, for example. If they read.

I don't understand the belittling responses here. If one think it is unimportant why not just skip and move to the next thread?


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