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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsPlease help demodonkey, a DUer in URGENT need.
I am posting this with Skinner's permission (thank you, Skinner!) to ask you all to help a long-time DUer get back on her feet after the tragic loss of her mother and family breadwinner.
Demodonkey has been on DU for many years. She was one of Andy's Angels who helped Andy Stephenson when he had his operation. She is a fierce fighter for better elections who was one of Regional Coodinators on the ground in Ohio for the 2004 Recount. Coming home to Pennsylvania, she founded the very active voting rights and election integrity group VotePA.us and has been working for better voting systems and a lot of other improvements in Pennsylvania's elections ever since. I am one of her organization's members, and I can vouch that there is truly NO OTHER PERSON doing as much for fair and accurate elections in Pennsylvania as demodonkey. I know demodonkey is single-handedly responsible or mostly responsible for getting numerous counties in PA to switch to paper ballots from unverifiable touch screens. Despite all that she has on her plate, she is still helping us work on the rest of the Pennsylvania counties that still use paperless vote-eater machines. She skillfully leads our fight for paper ballots and fair elections in PA, fighting the powers that be for change to the better. But unfortunately up to now our group has not been able to raise enough money to pay demodonkey even a small salary for the great work she does.
What many people do not know is that through all this demodonkey has also been an unpaid full time family caregiver. She gave up a career in the 1990s to help her mother take care of her autistic brother. He passed several years ago, but in the meantime her mother was physically disabled by a severe stroke. Demodonkey has taken care of her mother, who was wheelchair dependent, at home pretty much 24/7 for the last three years or so. She and her mother were very close, an amazing team really, and best friends as well as mother and daughter. Despite the stroke her mom cared deeply about elections as much as demodonkey, and travelled with demodonkey whenever possible in a loaned wheelchair van.
Last summer tragedy struck when demodonkey's mother died after an accident at home. Demodonkey was present when the accident happened but was unable to prevent it. It must have been horrible.
Demodonkey and her mom maintained their home on her mother's small retired teacher's pension and social security. So now, in addition to having lost her mother and best friend, she has no income at all. She received a little money from her mother's small life insurance, and has lived on that since her mother's passing, but she has only enough left to get through this month and then she will have nothing. In the meantime she is dangerously low on heating oil, her car needs major repairs (in the meantime she is still driving the loaned van that eats gas and IT has needed expensive repairs too), and she needs some repairs on her house as well to keep it safe.
In the meantime demodonkey is sending out resumes galore to get other work (she would be a GREAT find for someone), but having been a full time caregiver and unpaid activist for so many years is apparently working against her. She has not gotten even one interview. She has nothing left that she can cash in, sell quickly, or borrow from. She has no children, husband, ex, or close family to help her. This is it. She really needs someone to step in now and give her some support to get through the next few months. She desperately needs at least a few thousand dollars to help her get through this winter safely and to hang on until our organization can pay her or until she finds something that can.
I am writing to ask everyone on DU who is able, to PLEASE kick in whatever you can and help demodonkey get back on her feet. There are several things you can do:
** To send a gift donation directly to demodonkey via PayPal, use her email account sunnykay1 AT comcast DOT net.
** If you want to send something by snail mail or help by other means, please send me a private message and I will let you know how to do this.
** If you want to send something to VotePA in memory of demodonkey's mother or otherwise (all these donations will go toward our organization paying demodonkey for her work) please go to http://www.VotePA.us/donate
I know times are tough for so many people, but demodonkey is a really special case. She has done so much for so many for so long and despite her tragic loss this past year she tells us that she wants to hang on so she can do more. I know every dollar that people invest in helping her will get paid forward many times over.
Please help demodonkey.
MaggieTheVoter in Pennsylvania
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,627 posts)I will see what I can do.
for you and demodonkey!
alfredo
(60,074 posts)Bonobo
(29,257 posts)I hope everyone can help a little too.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)But she runs all over the state working for paper ballots
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)Check in on it.
rox63
(9,464 posts)grasswire
(50,130 posts)....because those sociopaths over at the web site that hates DU can and will try to make trouble for anyone they can ID. Seriously. This kind of compassionate attempt to help another human stirs them into fits.
Suich
(10,642 posts)hedda_foil
(16,375 posts)Demodonkey has done SO much for the cause of voter-verified paper ballots,and not only by her tremendous work in Pa, but also nationally. She has come through time and again for national efforts and organizations, without pay, and often without even reimbursement of her expenses. She has always been there for all of.us in the election integrity community. I know Andy would want DU to be there for her to help her through this awful time.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)I'm so sorry you lost your mother, ma'am. If I ever get the chance to help, I most certainly would.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,130 posts)sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)Will send something to her and best wishes to her ...
barbtries
(28,798 posts)do you prefer a snail mail donation directly to her or a donation to VotePA? i prefer not to do the paypal, i do it so rarely i can never remember my password and it's frustrating. i'll do whichever of these two ways you prefer. it can't be much but i can chip in some for her.
MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)Please PM me for the address.
THANK YOU
Suich
(10,642 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)WillyT
(72,631 posts)Dragonbreathp9d
(2,542 posts)Love, thoughts, vibes, and prayers
Texasgal
(17,045 posts)It's not alot, but I hope it will help.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)I'll see what I can do.
EFerrari
(163,986 posts)as a caregiver. They are in the network of people who look for help and they eventually do the paper.
Good luck, my dear. What a tough time this is.
MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)She told me that she can do lots of things but she knows she is not cut out to be a professional caregiver for the elderly; she only did it for her mother whom she loved so much. Said if she tried to do it for anyone else she would see her mother in front of her everyday. I think it might be too hard to face given the way her mother died.
On edit: It has only been about five months since her mom's accident and I would bet she is still hurting a lot just thinking about it. I know I couldn't imagine myself having to deal with the same type of thing that soon after seeing something like that.
EFerrari
(163,986 posts)I can't imagine myself after my mother's death, period. One of my friends was widowed suddenly and she managed to make ends meet that way for a while as she figured out how to surf that big sudden change.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)JanMichael
(24,890 posts)nt
flvegan
(64,408 posts)I'd be happy to look at a resume and promote her for hire if appropriate in my company in any way I can. She can redact any personal info until I look at the possibles.
MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)and tell me where / how to send it to you. Thank you!
coffeenap
(3,173 posts)I am so sorry for her and I honor her efforts on behalf of all of us.
glinda
(14,807 posts)how awful and hard the situation must have been especially with the accident. Sending her love. All my small amount of money is going to help my elderly parents, travel to see them, etc.....
I hope she gets help, work, support from our peeps here. How horribly sad.
Mojorabbit
(16,020 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,627 posts)hedda_foil
(16,375 posts)Bonobo
(29,257 posts)tawadi
(2,110 posts)MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)Kicking for the AM.
Thank you all to everyone who is helping DemdoD and to all who are keeping this kicked, etc.
She is a good person.
DiverDave
(4,886 posts)but kicking is all I can afford.
If I come into any riches, she is on the list...Hang in there.
jannyk
(4,810 posts)have sent a little - hope others can too.
grntuscarora
(1,249 posts)Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)one_voice
(20,043 posts)I hope it helps!!
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)Thank you all for helping, and keeping this kicked!
Maggie
http://www.votepa.us/donate.html
DiverDave
(4,886 posts)God, I wish I could help.
Spirochete
(5,264 posts)but i did toss in $5. Sorry it couldn't be more. Best of luck to her.
a la izquierda
(11,795 posts)I'll kick down a little bit once I get paid a little later in the week.
DiverDave
(4,886 posts)I hope this is helping, how is she doing?
marzipanni
(6,011 posts)*kick* for demodonkey
If many of us send even a little it will be a big help!
deacon
(5,967 posts)Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)MaggieTheVoter
(37 posts)Have had some problems of my own this week so I haven't been able to check in.
I'm going to try to call DemoD as soon as I can and see how she is. I know the last time we talked she was having problems singing on. Something because of DU2 and DU3 and her browser? As I remember her computer is an older one. When we talked I made her promise that she would absolutely call me if she had real bad trouble.
Anyway thank you all for helping.
Duer 157099
(17,742 posts)Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)I think of her often and still worry about how she is holding up and managing.