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Demovictory9

(36,865 posts)
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 05:39 PM Oct 2023

"sweetest boy" sobs as he is lead away for murder of Ryan Thoresen Carson



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12598385/Suspect-arrested-stabbing-Brooklyn-community-activist-Ryan-Thoresen-Carson.html

The 18-year-old teenager accused of stabbing Brooklyn community activist Ryan Thoresen Carson sobbed today as he was marched out of an NYPD precinct to face first degree murder charges.

Brian Dowling, 18, was arrested at an apartment in Bedford Stuyvesant on Thursday morning on suspicion of stabbing Carson on Monday.

The brutal attack, caught on camera, happened at 3.50am while Carson and his girlfriend were waiting for a bus.

Today, police removed a sweatshirt matching the kind worn by the suspect in the video from Dowling's home, along with a knife that is believed to have been used in the attack.

His home is a five minute walk from where Carson, 32, was stabbed to death.

Neighbors told DailyMail.com he is a 'sweetest boy' who is never normally in trouble.

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"sweetest boy" sobs as he is lead away for murder of Ryan Thoresen Carson (Original Post) Demovictory9 Oct 2023 OP
What a tragic loss of life and potential. yonder Oct 2023 #1
Couldn't have said anymore than what you have. chowder66 Oct 2023 #2
Save your tears malaise Oct 2023 #3
The girlfriend has raised 68k (so far) on a go fund me Mosby Oct 2023 #4
She witnessed the murder of her romantic partner. If people want to donate to her Coventina Oct 2023 #5
I'd be a wreck XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #6
I'm sure it was extremely traumatic Mosby Oct 2023 #9
This is a group of people asking for money for themselves Sympthsical Oct 2023 #13
It's up to 72k now. Mosby Oct 2023 #16
You'd think that would've gotten mentioned Sympthsical Oct 2023 #17
I knew the victim. Danmel Oct 2023 #7
I'm so sorry nt XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #8
Sorry and thank you for letting us know about him. 617Blue Oct 2023 #10
My heart goes out to you, sincere condolences. n/t SheilaAnn Oct 2023 #11
I am sorry for your loss Demovictory9 Oct 2023 #14
Kick nt XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #12
I don't understand. Murders could save themselves all the weeping and whining Aristus Oct 2023 #15

Coventina

(28,479 posts)
5. She witnessed the murder of her romantic partner. If people want to donate to her
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 06:43 PM
Oct 2023

I have zero problem with that.

She will have PTSD for the rest of her life.

XanaDUer2

(15,763 posts)
6. I'd be a wreck
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 06:47 PM
Oct 2023

I hope she's ok and gets money. I couldn't even go to work after witnessing that

Mosby

(18,812 posts)
9. I'm sure it was extremely traumatic
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 06:49 PM
Oct 2023

I hope she can work thru her pain. There is a brand new, effective tx for ptsd, it's called Reconsolidation of Traumatic Memories (RTM).

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2023/07/10/ptsd-treatment-veterans-medicine-mental-health/

Sympthsical

(10,729 posts)
13. This is a group of people asking for money for themselves
Fri Oct 6, 2023, 09:08 AM
Oct 2023

This is weird.

I feel horrible for the girlfriend. This will be a very difficult thing to process for her. It's perfectly understandable to want to support her during this time. Absolutely.

However.

What is going on with this "collective" of friends using the publicity surrounding his death to grasp for money for themselves so they can take time off from work?

Sorry. Weird. Just kind of a shitty look in general. They're trading on their friend's murder to grub for money for themselves. It's really gross to me.

I've experienced all kinds of loss in my life. Deaths, murder, multiple suicides. It never crossed my mind to run to GoFundMe with palm out to the public for hard cash to help me process my grief.

It's weird.

Sympthsical

(10,729 posts)
17. You'd think that would've gotten mentioned
Fri Oct 6, 2023, 05:16 PM
Oct 2023

It's so gross. I had to read it three times to make sure I wasn't missing something. Because it starts out "on behalf of" the girlfriend, but no. They just go right on in with their plans to pay themselves as well.

"Dismantling a profit-centered way of life" indeed. They wrote that while having their hands out.

Welp. This is predictably worming its way through social media - and not in a good way.

Danmel

(5,505 posts)
7. I knew the victim.
Thu Oct 5, 2023, 06:47 PM
Oct 2023

He too was a sweet young man. I work for the New York State Assembly and worked with Ryan on environmental issues.
I'm just devastated.

Aristus

(70,488 posts)
15. I don't understand. Murders could save themselves all the weeping and whining
Fri Oct 6, 2023, 04:28 PM
Oct 2023

if they just took five seconds to consider the potential consequences of their actions.

Five seconds would save the boo-hoo-hooing perp walk.

So please: Give it a five-second thought.

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