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..she said the largest amount she had at one time was about 15k.
Trump's lawyer is trying to say Fani Willis would not be expected to have her own money.
It's just so offensive that it's infuriating and triggering.
So many times in my life I've been reminded how so many of our countryfolk have such a low opinion of black people as to assume they don't live the same way as their white counterparts, or better.
Older black folks in my family had traditionally distrusted banks and often keep larges sums of cash, on their person and in their home, and that habit is often passed down to their children.
The problem in this questioning is as much about the inferences, as they are about the seemingly innocuous prying into details of Fani Willis' personal habits.
FFs, the attorney just tried to call Wade an employee.
Most close relationships aren't transactional, but this questioning assumes every meeting or outing they had was some quid pro quo, instead of people friendly with each other and enjoying each others' company.
Relationships that aren't between married couples can be uncertain, but this questioning assumes something nefariously binding about the association that's not apparent anywhere but in the insinuations.
I'm going to hope here that these exchanges are viewed though the context of not only the outrageousness of the questioning about sexual behavior in a courtroom trying Donald Trump and associates, but with the understanding that black folks, especially women, have not only always been made to openly justify their sexual and other relationships, but have had those relationships tied to any public assistance they might receive to the degree that black women had to remain unmarried and even hide their male companions from social workers.
Fani Willis would have heard these stories from her parents. That's how recent all of that was, and it looks like people want to bring it all back.
I'm listening to the questioning of Willis and Wade and for the life of me I can't see why their sexual relationship was ever allowed to be raised in open court.
I also don't know how anyone can determine when their relationship was a romantic one; certainly not just because they had intercourse. It was obviously brought up to provide salacious video for ignorant people to grunt at, with no context that the people directly involved get to decide when they are in a romantic relationship, not someone looking on from the outside judging them by their own peculiarities.
Where will our defenses come from today since the substance of these indignities are contained mostly in black folks' fears; and also in their detractors' antipathies; attitudes and perceptions which took generations to alter?
LiberalFighter
(51,096 posts)And that was a long time ago when credit card usage and maybe not even checks.
I don't know if this is right. I don't think my parents used credit cards. It was either cash or check. I think mostly cash. Meaning they tried to be cash accountable. And we were white.
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bigtree
(86,005 posts)when my parents were young.
LiberalFighter
(51,096 posts)So many different household arrangements.
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(13,137 posts)Arazi
(6,829 posts)I fully believe Fani Willis when she says thats how she operates.
Ive said elsewhere that many folks dont even have checks or a checking account anymore
Hekate
(90,828 posts)lynintenn
(649 posts)I don't think it is unusual for some people to keep large amounts of cash.