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Anybody doing Buy Nothing Day? (Original Post) tavalon Nov 2012 OP
I'm not buying anything today. Nada. BlueCaliDem Nov 2012 #1
I've been doing it for years tavalon Nov 2012 #4
I try to avoid stores from today until about jan 15th tavalon Nov 2012 #11
LOL I have no money to spend anyway Marrah_G Nov 2012 #2
Same here. n/t Misskittycat Nov 2012 #39
Me, too. Louisiana1976 Nov 2012 #106
Me...yesterday and today. Sekhmets Daughter Nov 2012 #3
If it weren't for my bills rocktivity Nov 2012 #5
Ditto. dixiegrrrrl Nov 2012 #56
Glad to know I'm not alone..... llmart Nov 2012 #81
Lovely thing about being retired is dixiegrrrrl Nov 2012 #96
So true. llmart Nov 2012 #113
After we pay the garage to fix our 20 year old car, there's no money for Big Box stuff. leveymg Nov 2012 #6
I bought bagels today. Kber Nov 2012 #7
I tend to try to go with the letter rather than the spirit tavalon Nov 2012 #9
The zombie mall walk sounds vaguely fun tavalon Nov 2012 #8
Survival shopping. no_hypocrisy Nov 2012 #10
scheduled to work at hospital lab today magical thyme Nov 2012 #12
Yep. ladym55 Nov 2012 #13
I think your alternative is a perfectly nuanced statement tavalon Nov 2012 #15
I have to go buy some sinus medicine. Fawke Em Nov 2012 #14
I'm sorry tavalon Nov 2012 #17
I bought an extra package last week since I can't always find it Rhiannon12866 Nov 2012 #151
Me! Tree-Hugger Nov 2012 #16
Woot tavalon Nov 2012 #19
I plan to stay in my jammies all day lunatica Nov 2012 #18
Me too tavalon Nov 2012 #21
Same here. Not leaving the house today. femmocrat Nov 2012 #34
Well, I do have to run out for wine and booze, but other than that, nothing. HopeHoops Nov 2012 #20
Lol tavalon Nov 2012 #22
WHAT? HopeHoops Nov 2012 #28
I just thought it was cute tavalon Nov 2012 #29
Well I STILL need to go get wine and booze. HopeHoops Nov 2012 #36
A lot of booze is produced in the US, and comes with decent wages 4th law of robotics Nov 2012 #52
Yeah, that's all I buy. US made. HopeHoops Nov 2012 #58
I hear Kentucky has a distillery or two . . . 4th law of robotics Nov 2012 #62
Ya think? HopeHoops Nov 2012 #64
Kinda, sorta... luvs2sing Nov 2012 #23
Almost, but I have a meeting scheduled in a coffee shop Jackpine Radical Nov 2012 #24
An annual tradition in this house... thatgemguy Nov 2012 #25
of course! Tumbulu Nov 2012 #26
Almost. My wife is making me take her to the craft store to buy "just one thing" that we need. Ian David Nov 2012 #27
We are doing the opposite of buying gollygee Nov 2012 #30
good idea! dhill926 Nov 2012 #78
Watching James Bond tinymontgomery Nov 2012 #31
Shopped at a local store in our little village today. redwitch Nov 2012 #32
Wish I could customerserviceguy Nov 2012 #33
Yup. Going to be in my shop fixing stuff. n/t lumberjack_jeff Nov 2012 #35
I never shop on Black Friday Freddie Nov 2012 #37
Other than to get some milk and cereal, nada Love Bug Nov 2012 #38
Too broke to shop.... ProudProgressiveNow Nov 2012 #40
I needed some bananas Horse with no Name Nov 2012 #41
I'm not buying anything today. Spirochete Nov 2012 #42
I'm probably going to end up Aerows Nov 2012 #43
I'm cleaning and prepping for the big dinner tomorrow Retrograde Nov 2012 #44
If my husband were still alive, it would be our anniversary too. It would also be his b-day notadmblnd Nov 2012 #87
That's probably pretty hard, huh? tavalon Nov 2012 #129
Yup. You will not find me in the stores on Black Friday. RebelOne Nov 2012 #45
I haven't done it since the 80s. KatyaR Nov 2012 #46
We had to buy a battery for our son's pick up truck...twas dead, it was...but went in the truck... Tikki Nov 2012 #47
I am buying sustainable vegetable seeds. nt bluestate10 Nov 2012 #48
I needed water after covering the leafleting nadinbrzezinski Nov 2012 #49
I bought a cup of coffee at a sole proprietorship coffee shop then took my daily driver vehicle in slackmaster Nov 2012 #50
I'm buying a new shower head... CincyDem Nov 2012 #51
I am in fact I am buying nothing this season gopiscrap Nov 2012 #53
How Does "Buy Nothing" Help the President Or Our Party?/nt DemocratSinceBirth Nov 2012 #54
Are you concerned that way about EVERYTHING RoccoR5955 Nov 2012 #75
See My Handle/nt DemocratSinceBirth Nov 2012 #77
Yeah, so am I RoccoR5955 Nov 2012 #80
Actually, it doesn't tavalon Nov 2012 #130
This message was self-deleted by its author DemocratSinceBirth Nov 2012 #162
yep grasswire Nov 2012 #55
A quart of paint and a brush from a locally owned and operated hardware store. cordelia Nov 2012 #57
I buy nothing *most* days. silverweb Nov 2012 #59
A cup of coffee for a business meeting at a locally-owned coffee shop this morning. Habibi Nov 2012 #60
Well, I bought, but union_maid Nov 2012 #61
Nothing at all! Squinch Nov 2012 #63
Me me me.. Home enjoying the day with my two cats and honey!! Thekaspervote Nov 2012 #65
coupl'a beers is all, nt polemic_realism Nov 2012 #66
So far. Deep13 Nov 2012 #67
That can actually be a lot of fun tavalon Nov 2012 #131
Been doing my Xmas shopping day after T-Day... Iggo Nov 2012 #68
All that digging RoccoR5955 Nov 2012 #72
New shovel! Iggo Nov 2012 #94
We had to buy milk and cat food susanr516 Nov 2012 #69
Technically I didn't buy anything today (except a bottle of iced tea). Twinguard Nov 2012 #70
I have been doing it RoccoR5955 Nov 2012 #71
I've come to abhor crowds tavalon Nov 2012 #132
Had to buy gas, the horse is 7 days a week. But otherwise, nothing. n/t Egalitarian Thug Nov 2012 #73
LOL. It's 2:30 and I am still in my pjs. No online shopping either catbyte Nov 2012 #74
Sounds like heaven to me..... llmart Nov 2012 #83
The news showed guys playing golf yesterday, better than that Lions game catbyte Nov 2012 #88
Thank you..... llmart Nov 2012 #112
You make it sound like Nirvana tavalon Nov 2012 #133
We WERE, but a repair emergency got in the way. Daemonaquila Nov 2012 #76
yup! madrchsod Nov 2012 #79
This is my 12th year... prairierose Nov 2012 #82
I got a coffee on my way to work notadmblnd Nov 2012 #84
bought pre-owned jewelry on ebay. does that count? eom ellenfl Nov 2012 #85
That's another of those letter vs spirit tavalon Nov 2012 #134
I never do. It has always struck me as strange to do this. CTyankee Nov 2012 #86
I have a hair appointment every four weeks; it just happened that this month's is today REP Nov 2012 #89
I'm buying beer & tequila. CrispyQ Nov 2012 #90
Awesome! Kath1 Nov 2012 #124
Back at 'cha! CrispyQ Nov 2012 #160
About your sig line tavalon Nov 2012 #135
Colorado is an odd state. CrispyQ Nov 2012 #158
moi Matariki Nov 2012 #91
I haven't bought anything on black Friday for many, many years. It's simply not worth it. nt Nay Nov 2012 #92
No shopping for us DesertRat Nov 2012 #93
Me for sure and even if it wasn't a Cleita Nov 2012 #95
Might go out later for a gallon of milk. gkhouston Nov 2012 #97
Tried but coffee pot broke and had to buy one on sale. Dang* glinda Nov 2012 #98
I bought nothing that was unimportant. Panasonic Nov 2012 #99
check grahamhgreen Nov 2012 #100
I bought beer. Throd Nov 2012 #101
No shopping for me. hrmjustin Nov 2012 #102
Hung out on the beach. I didn't want to get pepper sprayed in the electronics section. sarcasmo Nov 2012 #103
It is a well known biblical fact Golden Raisin Nov 2012 #104
LOL tavalon Nov 2012 #136
Me! On Wednesday I bought plenty of food, NashvilleLefty Nov 2012 #105
oops already bought a chili at Wendy's. Will try to abide tomorrow instead. limpyhobbler Nov 2012 #107
ABSOLUTELY not buying a thing all weekend! nt Raine Nov 2012 #108
Here, bvar22 Nov 2012 #109
Nice tavalon Nov 2012 #137
Ran out of half and half today (lots of company yesterday and today) so that's my only purchase riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #110
nuthin undergroundpanther Nov 2012 #111
If you don't count postage, I didn't buy anything. Frustratedlady Nov 2012 #114
I tried hard but I desperately needed grocery's jimlup Nov 2012 #115
Whether you are growing old or not, I cannot say tavalon Nov 2012 #156
Bought some drano and a lightbulb at the locally owned, walking distance, hardware store diane in sf Nov 2012 #116
Oh just remembered we have a new small business hardware store in town. jackbenimble Nov 2012 #119
Absolutely tavalon Nov 2012 #138
I'm participating! lbrtbell Nov 2012 #117
I didn't spend a cent today. jackbenimble Nov 2012 #118
Done nt Zorra Nov 2012 #120
Only a few groceries. ozone_man Nov 2012 #121
Honey, my husband owns a construction business. We have been doing 'Buy Nothing Day'... renie408 Nov 2012 #122
Bought Nothing! Kath1 Nov 2012 #123
Right here! WinkyDink Nov 2012 #125
GAs for the car, as I was traveling, mattvermont Nov 2012 #126
We went to Zion National Park Nevernose Nov 2012 #127
Just going to a national park instead of Walmart is great tavalon Nov 2012 #140
Does toilet paper count? panAmerican Nov 2012 #128
I've been a little under the weather Warpy Nov 2012 #139
I'm buying nothing. But the OP knew that, seeing that I'm her husband. :) jmondine Nov 2012 #141
Hi you! tavalon Nov 2012 #144
I didn't buy anything for Black Friday csziggy Nov 2012 #142
Nice thread, tavalon. luv_mykatz Nov 2012 #143
Well, the PNW is kind of large, but if we live anywhere near each other tavalon Nov 2012 #145
Your offer of help is really sweet. luv_mykatz Nov 2012 #148
My three favorite places are Seattle, Portland and Vancouver (BC) tavalon Nov 2012 #149
Good for you! Kath1 Nov 2012 #146
Yes'm. We didn't go anywhere at all, today. countryjake Nov 2012 #147
Shopping on Black Friday is the last thing I would want to do. RedCappedBandit Nov 2012 #150
I bought some Coke and gas. Drunken Irishman Nov 2012 #152
I never shop on Black Friday. Never have, never will appleannie1 Nov 2012 #153
Going to work in Retail Sherman A1 Nov 2012 #154
I WENT TO WAL-MART ON BLACK FRIDAY--PROUDLY!!! pinboy3niner Nov 2012 #155
That, my friend, is a step up from Buy Nothing Day tavalon Nov 2012 #157
Almost, Free delivery on Black Friday from my favorite Union Grocery kickysnana Nov 2012 #159
I'm in... Jasana Nov 2012 #161
As many days as I can. Every day no balances drop is a good day. RB TexLa Nov 2012 #163

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
1. I'm not buying anything today. Nada.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:51 PM
Nov 2012

Did the last bit of shopping last night and won't shop again till Sunday.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
3. Me...yesterday and today.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:53 PM
Nov 2012

Tomorrow I will go to my local small business pet store and buy Christmas presents for my dog and my daughter's dog.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
56. Ditto.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:13 PM
Nov 2012

The budget I wrote out 5 years ago is no longer realistic for current food and utility prices.
But our income has not increased.
Except for neccessities, every day is buy nothing day.

llmart

(15,555 posts)
81. Glad to know I'm not alone.....
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:55 PM
Nov 2012

Every day is buy nothing day, not that I'm complaining since I have a nice roof over my head and enough food not to be hungry. Besides, I have just enough and have no desire to own any more crap, especially crap made in China.

Even if I had money, I sure as hell wouldn't be out shopping today. I avoid stores as much as I can this time of year except for groceries.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
96. Lovely thing about being retired is
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 05:40 PM
Nov 2012

we have all the essentials the house needs, plus the bills go down compared to the expenses of working.
Plus, as you say, "crap from China" is not tempting, we focus on getting good old American stuff, 2nd hand.

God bless online buying!

llmart

(15,555 posts)
113. So true.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:22 PM
Nov 2012

I've just retired in July and can't believe how much money I save just by not having to fill up the gas tank every week or buy work clothes which I seldom did anyway. I told a friend that I only have to fill my gas tank about once a month now and she was so envious.

I like the Salvation Army stores because you can get the older stuff that was made in the US.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
6. After we pay the garage to fix our 20 year old car, there's no money for Big Box stuff.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:56 PM
Nov 2012

Doing our part, but we have priorities.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
9. I tend to try to go with the letter rather than the spirit
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:59 PM
Nov 2012

But I think food and transportation probably work fine within the spirit. Walmart door busters definitely don't.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
12. scheduled to work at hospital lab today
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:02 PM
Nov 2012

and for the rest of the holiday weekend.

Otherwise, I'd pick up the 2 missing ingredients I need to bake cookies, then meditate and nap today.

ladym55

(2,577 posts)
13. Yep.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:03 PM
Nov 2012

This is a buy nothing day. Or we have done the alternative ... Head for Main Street local shops and support their businesses. They don't have "deals," but they have friendly people and a relaxed atmosphere. Big box stores rarely see me ... Especially on Black Friday.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
15. I think your alternative is a perfectly nuanced statement
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:05 PM
Nov 2012

I think it would get ad busters seal of approval.

Fawke Em

(11,366 posts)
14. I have to go buy some sinus medicine.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:03 PM
Nov 2012

Otherwise, I'm participating.

I HATE going out on Black Friday. I HATE to shop, anyway, so I could kick myself for not remembering to get it Wednesday (I spent all day yesterday cooking or watching movies with my husband and kids and, of course eating with them and my Mom).

Rhiannon12866

(206,157 posts)
151. I bought an extra package last week since I can't always find it
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 02:22 AM
Nov 2012

Wish I could pass it on so you didn't have to go out. I agree that necessary medical supplies don't count.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
18. I plan to stay in my jammies all day
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:07 PM
Nov 2012

just surfing around DU and giving the TV some attention too. It's couch potato day in my house.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
34. Same here. Not leaving the house today.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:23 PM
Nov 2012

I brought work home with me, so it's not exactly do-nothing day, though.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
36. Well I STILL need to go get wine and booze.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:23 PM
Nov 2012

On Edit: Oh, and Irish Creme for my wife's coffee - sorry, forgot that.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
52. A lot of booze is produced in the US, and comes with decent wages
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:06 PM
Nov 2012

likewise a lot of liquor stores are local or regionally owned. So . . . I think booze should get a pass.

luvs2sing

(2,220 posts)
23. Kinda, sorta...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:11 PM
Nov 2012

I forgot about a bill that is due Monday, so paid it today. Other than that, not buying anything I wouldn't normally buy: coffee and black cohosh (damn hot flashes!) from small, local businesses, and dinner/entertainment tonight at a small, local restaurant/music club owned by long-time friends. We normally avoid the big box stores as much as possible, and never shop on the big days, so it's not unlike any other day.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
24. Almost, but I have a meeting scheduled in a coffee shop
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:11 PM
Nov 2012

& so will probly at least buy a cup of coffee.

At least it's a local, non-mega-chain shop.

Other than that, nichts.

thatgemguy

(506 posts)
25. An annual tradition in this house...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:11 PM
Nov 2012

I have to go to the bank to make a deposit, otherwise we stay home on this day.

Tumbulu

(6,292 posts)
26. of course!
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:12 PM
Nov 2012


But...... I was picking produce with a crew of women who pick produce for a living. They work outside 10 hr days 6 days a week and make minimum wage. The thing they look forward to all year long is this Black Friday thing. They do the camp out in the parking lots- everything! They see it a big fun sport and they buy a few things for family that normally they cannot afford with their low wages that they work so hard for.

And so I need to temper my rush to conclusions about who or why people participate in this blood sport.

Ian David

(69,059 posts)
27. Almost. My wife is making me take her to the craft store to buy "just one thing" that we need.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:15 PM
Nov 2012

We all know how THAT always turns out.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
30. We are doing the opposite of buying
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:21 PM
Nov 2012

We're going through, room by room, all this long weekend purging of things we don't need/don't use. We'll either trash or donate those items depending on if they might be of value to anyone else.

redwitch

(14,948 posts)
32. Shopped at a local store in our little village today.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:22 PM
Nov 2012

Needed silver dip for jewelry polishing. All the little stores and restaurants were hopping. It made me happy to see that. I sell to little stores, it's how I make my living. When they do well our communities thrive. I also bought some floor cleaner at our little KMart, no chance of buying that here at a little independent store but at least most of the tax dollars spent there stay local.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
33. Wish I could
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:23 PM
Nov 2012

Bastards at the airline lost my luggage yesterday. They managed to find my lady's suitcase, so she's calmed down, at least. And my stuff was in a backpack that I usually carry on, but I was trying to be a nice guy, and make room in the overhead bins.

The lesson is, always pack at least a two-day supply of clothes and meds to take with you in carry-on. Had to explain to the jerkoff in Bangalore why I didn't want to go out in crowds of stupid people on Black Friday.

Freddie

(9,275 posts)
37. I never shop on Black Friday
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:31 PM
Nov 2012

Not my idea of fun, although I can respect folks who regard bargain shopping as a "sport". Spending the day with my little granddaughter and we'll get a pizza (local place, not a chain) for dinner.

Love Bug

(6,036 posts)
38. Other than to get some milk and cereal, nada
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 01:56 PM
Nov 2012

Groceries shouldn't count. Grocery store madness happens before thanksgiving, anyway.

Spirochete

(5,264 posts)
42. I'm not buying anything today.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:21 PM
Nov 2012

I want absolutely nothing in common with all those cement-heads that stampede into the stores to fight to the death over a $50 Bluray player.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
43. I'm probably going to end up
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:34 PM
Nov 2012

ordering a pizza. I've been craving one. I can't face Thanksgiving leftovers today because I ate so much stuffing yesterday I think I'm about to turn into stuffing.

Fighting Black Friday? Oh, hell no. You couldn't pay me to get mixed up in that mess.

Retrograde

(10,162 posts)
44. I'm cleaning and prepping for the big dinner tomorrow
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:35 PM
Nov 2012

We always do our Thanksgiving dinner on Saturday: we started that tradition because it's much easier for two working people, and it's our anniversary, kinda.

So I'm spending the day baking pies, cleaning, looking for my extra dishes, and enjoying the sunshine.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
87. If my husband were still alive, it would be our anniversary too. It would also be his b-day
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:18 PM
Nov 2012

Happy Anniversary!

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
129. That's probably pretty hard, huh?
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:07 AM
Nov 2012

Nonetheless, it's nice to see you wish him a happy anniversary. I'm sorry he's gone.

KatyaR

(3,445 posts)
46. I haven't done it since the 80s.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:58 PM
Nov 2012

I had a friend who used to come into town for the weekend, and we would go shopping and see a movie or two. He's long gone now, and it's never had the same appeal since then. I live two blocks from a major shopping center, and less than a mile from a major shopping district up May Avenue, so the traffic is horrid to try to get almost anywhere. Plus the fact that now it seems to be literally taking your life into your hands to go out, so I just stay at home. I've been off all week, cleaning house and trying to get over a lousy cold, so I'm content to just be here with the dog, enjoying my time off. I'm already dreading going back to work on Monday....

Tikki

(14,559 posts)
47. We had to buy a battery for our son's pick up truck...twas dead, it was...but went in the truck...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 02:59 PM
Nov 2012

Last edited Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:32 PM - Edit history (1)

not under the tree.

p s the old battery was 12 years old...and it will be recycled.
Tikki

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
50. I bought a cup of coffee at a sole proprietorship coffee shop then took my daily driver vehicle in
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:01 PM
Nov 2012

...to a Sanford and Son type operation in my neighborhood for a smog check.

The coffee was fine, my vehicle passed, and I feel good that I am in compliance with California's strict pollution control laws and that I supported the little guy by not going to a Starbucks or to a big corporate chain smog place.

CincyDem

(6,401 posts)
51. I'm buying a new shower head...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:04 PM
Nov 2012

It's "honey-do" day in our household so every year I get to trudge out to places no normal after-holiday shopper goes. This year, it's the plumbing supply house. We're havin' fun now.

gopiscrap

(23,765 posts)
53. I am in fact I am buying nothing this season
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:06 PM
Nov 2012

other than fod, rent, insurance utilities..but nothing that I wouldn't pay for during any other month. FUCK CHRISTMAS!!!!

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,716 posts)
54. How Does "Buy Nothing" Help the President Or Our Party?/nt
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:07 PM
Nov 2012

That being said I doubt I will buy anything but it won't be by design.

 

RoccoR5955

(12,471 posts)
80. Yeah, so am I
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:49 PM
Nov 2012

Since when does that have anything to do with it. Everyone makes mistakes. You don't just blindly follow the Party Line, do you?
I should say every politician makes mistakes, and they should be pointed out, whatever party you are on, but making every one of your life's actions adhere to the ever-changing policies of any one political party is not very healthy.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
130. Actually, it doesn't
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:09 AM
Nov 2012

It helps our planet. There was a time, in my lifetime, when we were called citizens, not consumers.

If you are willing, go to the link I provided and watch the "infamous" pig commercial.

Response to tavalon (Reply #130)

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
59. I buy nothing *most* days.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:20 PM
Nov 2012

[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]It's easy to make a special point of it today, but not even necessary.

Habibi

(3,598 posts)
60. A cup of coffee for a business meeting at a locally-owned coffee shop this morning.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:21 PM
Nov 2012

Later, some drinks at a locally-owned bar. I think the Rev. Billy would be okay with that.

union_maid

(3,502 posts)
61. Well, I bought, but
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:25 PM
Nov 2012

it was just at the supermarket. Nothing Black Fridayish at all. I needed to get food due to a last minute decision to make a Thanksgiving dinner today for my son, who had to work at a restaurant yesterday.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
131. That can actually be a lot of fun
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:11 AM
Nov 2012

The 100 mile diet has become a popular marketing thing in these parts.

Iggo

(47,572 posts)
68. Been doing my Xmas shopping day after T-Day...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:38 PM
Nov 2012

...since I was a teenager.

I dig the malls, I dig the crowds, and I dig gettin' it done a month ahead of time.

Sue me.

susanr516

(1,425 posts)
69. We had to buy milk and cat food
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:39 PM
Nov 2012

but that's something we buy every week.

I only went Black Friday shopping once. It was awful, I felt like the crowd was seconds away from a stampede the whole 5 minutes I was brave enough to stay in the store.

Twinguard

(531 posts)
70. Technically I didn't buy anything today (except a bottle of iced tea).
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:39 PM
Nov 2012

I did, however, stand in line for my mother-in-law so she could get a new DVD player. She bought it, I just sacrificed a few hours of sleep. She is really a great MiL, and she would do the same for me if I were to ask.

Now I'm home, and I'm staying here!

 

RoccoR5955

(12,471 posts)
71. I have been doing it
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:40 PM
Nov 2012

for many years now. So many that I lost count.
I also hate to shop, so I probably did it before Adbusters came out with their campaign.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
132. I've come to abhor crowds
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:15 AM
Nov 2012

I know I haven't always because I use to go to Disney World all the time and San Antonio's fiesta celebration- very crowded and it didn't bother me. Now, even a small crowd makes my skin crawl a bit.

catbyte

(34,466 posts)
74. LOL. It's 2:30 and I am still in my pjs. No online shopping either
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:42 PM
Nov 2012

Just watching movies with all 3 cats sleeping near me. It is snowing out after it being 60F yesterday. Love Michigan--weather's a crapshoot. This is Nirvana.

llmart

(15,555 posts)
83. Sounds like heaven to me.....
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:07 PM
Nov 2012

I am reading a good book with my dog sleeping on the floor next to me. I've got a fire in the fireplace, a throw blanket on my legs and a cup of tea. It is so nice to be able to thoroughly enjoy peace and quiet and not the rat race.

Oh, and it just started to flurry here (3:00 PM) and I'm in the Detroit suburbs. How could it be so nice yesterday and then today????

Well, it's Michigan

catbyte

(34,466 posts)
88. The news showed guys playing golf yesterday, better than that Lions game
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:18 PM
Nov 2012


I'm in GR so we're getting some lake effect flurry action. Your day sounds heavenly like mine. Who would want to go shopping today? I don't think shopping should be a contact sport. Enjoy you day!!

llmart

(15,555 posts)
112. Thank you.....
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:19 PM
Nov 2012

I've told some of my women friends that I think I didn't get the shopping gene like a lot of women did

I hate shopping and always have. Now that I'm 63 I can't think of a darned thing I need or want. I have enough already. If I have books and music I'm fine.

Grand Rapids always gets more snow than we do. I'm in Macomb.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
133. You make it sound like Nirvana
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:17 AM
Nov 2012

Wow, that's some weather. In my neck of the woods, it rains from about the end of October until July. Unfortunately, in the last few years global climate change has given us surprising amounts of snow. Seattlites kind of understand rain. Snow, not at all.

 

Daemonaquila

(1,712 posts)
76. We WERE, but a repair emergency got in the way.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 03:44 PM
Nov 2012

We had to go get a tool or have water spraying everywhere.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
84. I got a coffee on my way to work
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:12 PM
Nov 2012

other than that, I didn't buy anything. Don't plan on going out of the house for the next two days so the car can wait for gas til monday. It should be chesper then too.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
134. That's another of those letter vs spirit
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:19 AM
Nov 2012

Recycle, reuse and the other word doesn't come to mind. While I'm not buying anything today, I'm not about to rag on anybody about it.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
135. About your sig line
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:23 AM
Nov 2012

You guys did it far better than we did, but we also relegalized it. I think yours, though, will be the one that is less likely to be struck down. And while I don't personally like pot, I'm offended at the criminalization of drugs overall, so I'm hoping this pebble starts an avalanche and buries the drug war.

And as an aside, we also legalized same sex marriage. I had a colleague who was genuinely confused that I, not being gay, would vote for the referendum. I have to admit I'm confused by her confusion.

CrispyQ

(36,533 posts)
158. Colorado is an odd state.
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 11:21 AM
Nov 2012

I don't recall exactly, but it was many years ago we had some anti-gay bill pass that ended up being controversial. Also, more than once, we've had fetal rights bills on our ballots. They tried to get one this year, but didn't have enough sigs.

I don't know how the various states have set up their medical marijuana programs, but I've heard Colorado's is a good model.

The legalization of weed & equal rights for our LGBT community are coming! I did not think I would see this much success on the war on a leaf, in my lifetime, so I am feeling slightly positive.

As for your colleague, that is just narrow minded thinking.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
95. Me for sure and even if it wasn't a
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 05:21 PM
Nov 2012

statement of principle, I have $4 in my purse until next Wednesday.

gkhouston

(21,642 posts)
97. Might go out later for a gallon of milk.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 05:51 PM
Nov 2012

The grocery store is pretty much the only place we ever go on Black Friday.

 

Panasonic

(2,921 posts)
99. I bought nothing that was unimportant.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 06:18 PM
Nov 2012

But I had to buy medications and necessities today from the local groceries.

Wife's med cost this week: $100, and that was just from the Urgent Care - and we're trying to return the mouthwash that was not needed (Mouthwash is $30)

Golden Raisin

(4,614 posts)
104. It is a well known biblical fact
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 07:23 PM
Nov 2012

that the 3 Magi were on line at 3:00am late Thanksgiving night waiting to purchase their myrrh, frankincense and gold.

NashvilleLefty

(811 posts)
105. Me! On Wednesday I bought plenty of food,
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 07:30 PM
Nov 2012

rum, cokes, and (of course) dog food. I'm drinking the rum and cokes and watching the Fringe marathon. I may have to go out tomorrow to buy milk (non-rBST, of course), but otherwise I'm set!

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
109. Here,
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 07:55 PM
Nov 2012

...but everyday is Buy Nothing NEW Day since we moved to The Woods and went On Strike in 2006.

We buy or barter for 2nd Hand or salvage, directly from the previous owner wherever possible, and make it work,
or do without.
We produce a good percentage of our own food (HoneyBees, Chickens, Berries, Fruit Trees and a BIG Veggie Garden),
and do all building & labor ourselves mostly with hand tools.
What we can't produce ourselves, we buy in bulk and cook from scratch.
We are current developing a local Co-Op with a few neighbors to increase our bulk buying capabilities.

We are still On the Corporate Hook for ISP, Phone, TV, and energy,
but are steadily reducing those dependencies.

Our motto is:

[font size=4]Next Year, we will !CONSUME! Less![/font]

So far, so good,
but this lifestyle is not for everybody.
My Wife & I very fortunate to be healthy and strong,
and have a good set of complimentary skills that make this fun (most of the time).

Today was no different from most other days as far as our buying & spending behavior is concerned.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
137. Nice
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:26 AM
Nov 2012

You are reclaiming the title of citizen instead of consumer. I'm trying to as well. I buy everything at thrift stores.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
110. Ran out of half and half today (lots of company yesterday and today) so that's my only purchase
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:02 PM
Nov 2012

Cause I'm not facing work at 6:30 am tomorrow morning without my coffee!!

But I got it at the employee-owned, locally owned, Woodman's.

undergroundpanther

(11,925 posts)
111. nuthin
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:15 PM
Nov 2012

And hell no black friday things are MOBBED,I hate the crowds and such,I stay AWAY from shopping as much as I can..Especially on black friday,and the holidaze,which I hate BTW.If I get gifts it's for a very few and they are meaninful and decent gifts I can't afford to do otherwise.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
114. If you don't count postage, I didn't buy anything.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:39 PM
Nov 2012

I had to mail an order out, but aside from that, I've been decorating at home.

You couldn't pay me to get mixed in with those crowds. There is nothing I need that much.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
115. I tried hard but I desperately needed grocery's
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 09:45 PM
Nov 2012

And cat food. My kitty is happy. I sort of don't think consumables count though.

I don't know, in past years it has seemed like excessive consumerism and stuff but it hasn't been this grotesque or am I just getting old?

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
156. Whether you are growing old or not, I cannot say
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 08:53 AM
Nov 2012

But I do know that in my life I went from being called a citizen to being called a consumer. I think that alone is grotesque and yes, I think it is becoming more like Bread and Circuses every year.

jackbenimble

(251 posts)
119. Oh just remembered we have a new small business hardware store in town.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:00 PM
Nov 2012

I'm going to make a point of going there tomorrow. I need some paint rollers and a vent cap. I will probably go by a couple small antique stores as well. Got to support the small businesses in a town filled with big box stores.

lbrtbell

(2,389 posts)
117. I'm participating!
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 10:44 PM
Nov 2012

There are a few things I need to order online (as they're not available locally), but I'm not even going to do that until after midnight, when it's officially Saturday.

jackbenimble

(251 posts)
118. I didn't spend a cent today.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 10:55 PM
Nov 2012

Not one cent! No black friday shopping for me. In fact I will likely take some vacation time to do the small amount of shopping I need to do for Christmas just so I can avoid the crowds. I don't like shopping anyhow, unless it is online. I do like to research my purchases online then go pick them up at a store if I can.

ozone_man

(4,825 posts)
121. Only a few groceries.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:08 PM
Nov 2012

Necessities.To be fair, the kids are all grown. But not partaking in this mass materialistic consumption holiday is freeing!

renie408

(9,854 posts)
122. Honey, my husband owns a construction business. We have been doing 'Buy Nothing Day'...
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:10 PM
Nov 2012

for the past four years straight.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
123. Bought Nothing!
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:28 PM
Nov 2012

Did nothing! Actually, I got gloriously stoned for the first time in forever with my daughter and her friend Tracy and we laughed our asses off at Fox News for an hour. Then I went back to bed until noon. Being part of that lazy 47% has advantages!

mattvermont

(646 posts)
126. GAs for the car, as I was traveling,
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:44 PM
Nov 2012

a few bottles of wine from a Vermont country store and a smll box of black licorice from same. Did I overdo it? I do not do big box ever, and my dollars, aside from the gas went local....did I pass?

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
127. We went to Zion National Park
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:51 PM
Nov 2012

The ranger told me it wasn't just unseasonably crowded, but the biggest Thanksgiving weekend she'd seen in twenty years.

We bought gas and a Christmas ornament ( the latter from the park), and in the way home stopped for burgers. I don't know if that qualifies us for "Buy Nothing," but it was a hell of a lot better than Black Friday.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
140. Just going to a national park instead of Walmart is great
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:30 AM
Nov 2012

It's the spirit of the thing. "They" are trying to make us massive consumers and any little push back is just fine. Good on ya.

panAmerican

(1,206 posts)
128. Does toilet paper count?
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:59 PM
Nov 2012

I would argue, and I suspect there'd be no dissent, that this can go in the "essential purchases" category

csziggy

(34,138 posts)
142. I didn't buy anything for Black Friday
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:53 AM
Nov 2012

My husband went to the grocery store and bought bananas, salad, and medicine for his cold. If I go anywhere Saturday I will only go to local stores or the farmer's market.

luv_mykatz

(441 posts)
143. Nice thread, tavalon.
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 01:04 AM
Nov 2012

I am staying home today. Was going to buy nothing, but then saw that an online charity which benefits homeless pets in animal shelters was having a sale. I needed to replace a fleece jacket which got lost, and I bought some rain boots because I want to put in raised beds this winter, and phase out the lawn.
So, the homeless pets will benefit by receiving 56 bowls of food, and I will get a needed winter jacket and boots.

Like you, I am enjoying staying home with my cat, in the PNW's endless winter rain. It feels very good to stay home today, and avoid the maniac crowds. I have been celebrating Buy Nothing Day for many years. Hooray for Ad Busters. Cheers!

Oh, yeah, and the raised beds will have to be built from scrounged or cheap locally sourced materials, because my income dropped drastically in the last year, and hasn't gone up in ...forever.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
145. Well, the PNW is kind of large, but if we live anywhere near each other
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 01:22 AM
Nov 2012

I'd love to come help you build those raised beds. Many hands, light work and all that......

luv_mykatz

(441 posts)
148. Your offer of help is really sweet.
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 01:52 AM
Nov 2012


I think we live about 3-4 hours driving apart, though. You live up near Seattle, and I live in Portlandia.

Anyway, thank you for the offer.

And, hooray for our rain...even if it goes on for longer than we might like, at times.

I watched the Ken Burn's special about the Dust Bowl, online, thanks to a link from Curmedeoness. Yikes! I will take our rain, thank you.

Happy Buy Nothing Day.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
149. My three favorite places are Seattle, Portland and Vancouver (BC)
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 01:54 AM
Nov 2012

Don't forget your beer traps. Those slugs are slow but relentless!

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
146. Good for you!
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 01:24 AM
Nov 2012

Excellent. It felt so good today to buy nothing and do nothing. Patting myself on the back. Felt like I did so much by doing nothing at all!

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
147. Yes'm. We didn't go anywhere at all, today.
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 01:28 AM
Nov 2012

My man was stuck on the couch watching football the entire day (that's where he was when I got up and he's still there, right now). I did go out and took a nice walk to look at the freshly snow-capped foothills...I do love a rainy, blustery day.

You couldn't pay me to go shopping this weekend, tho we might have to go into town tomorrow to see about finding a weird pronged light bulb at the farmer's supply/hardware store.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
155. I WENT TO WAL-MART ON BLACK FRIDAY--PROUDLY!!!
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 05:15 AM
Nov 2012

Metrolink train ticket to L.A. Union Station, including 3 subway line connections and 1 bus ride to reach Paramount, CA Wal-Mart: $28.00 round-trip.

Sandwich and coffee at Union Station convenience shop: $4.88.

Joining striking workers and more than 1,000 supporters in protesting at Wal-Mart: PRICELESS!




kickysnana

(3,908 posts)
159. Almost, Free delivery on Black Friday from my favorite Union Grocery
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 11:22 AM
Nov 2012

I then take the money I would normally pay for delivery and extra tip the delivery guy cause sometimes we just can't. Thanksgiving is now our last out of building trip until April 1st except for medical appointments.

Jasana

(490 posts)
161. I'm in...
Sat Nov 24, 2012, 12:10 PM
Nov 2012

Buying nothing that is. Of course, one has to have money to buy things but even if I did have money, I wouldn't buy things on Black Friday. Black Friday is evil.

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