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Firestorm49

(4,037 posts)
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:23 AM Mar 15

I recently walked in to a store that sells two wheeled vehicles. There were three associates on the floor.,

One employee was waiting on a customer. The other two couldn’t have cared less that a potential customer was in the store to buy something. When nobody approached me, I eventually walked out. I prefer not to have to beg someone to take my money. I expect some form of service in exchange.

The next day I received a survey (!!!) to tell of my experience at the store, which I did in vivid pissy detail. The whole point of this diatribe is that I was offended (majorly pissed) that I was identified simply by walking in their door and subsequently asked to do a survey. To me, this was an infringement of my privacy.

I don’t know to him I should bitch - my Senator, Ron Johnson? Fat chance. I doubt that he can even read. Tammy Baldwin. Perhaps but she’s not my Senator. Someone locally? I don’t know.

We are all being identified on a daily basis and I for one object in the strongest of terms. I am writing this after reading the Tic Toc post on DU. Yes, this post is somewhat unrelated to the basis of the TicToc post, but still falls into the realm of that soon to be forgotten word, PRIVACY!

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I recently walked in to a store that sells two wheeled vehicles. There were three associates on the floor., (Original Post) Firestorm49 Mar 15 OP
just make eye contact next time, maybe raise your hand a little? Blues Heron Mar 15 #1
Yes. I agree. When I ran our business for thirty six years we would greet the customer, give them a minute, then ask Firestorm49 Mar 15 #9
Mine was "Good morning/afternoon/etc. Let me know if I can help you niyad Mar 15 #23
Absolutely. Pressure tactics are outdated. Common courtesy should be the norm., Firestorm49 Mar 15 #28
My dad had a furniture store Mossfern Mar 15 #67
Agreed. edisdead Mar 15 #61
What do you mean, Tammy Baldwin is not your Senator? Senators are niyad Mar 15 #2
My mistake. Sorry. I will certainly get in touch with her. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #12
How were you identified if you did not interact with anybody? Voltaire2 Mar 15 #3
By his smartphone? CrispyQ Mar 15 #8
They can also pick up the chip in your credit card, if it is not sufficiently shielded. Midnight Writer Mar 15 #22
That's my point. I don't know how I was identified. To me, this was an intrusion. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #11
You didn't interact with them online beforehand at all? TxGuitar Mar 15 #34
Yes, I did look in the windows on a day that they were closed. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #44
seems odd, dangerous? to be identified just by walking into a store. It would mean the store riversedge Mar 15 #36
It happens all the time, and it's not new. DFW Mar 15 #69
OK, you didn't get a survey from them. Probably from Google. Liberal In Texas Mar 15 #59
Do you have location services drmeow Mar 15 #65
Damn good question! I don't know and I don't like it. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #14
Tammy Baldwin is your senator Lefta Dissenter Mar 15 #4
👍 Firestorm49 Mar 15 #15
Leave your phone in the car next time. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 15 #5
"smart" phones put Big Brother to shame orthoclad Mar 15 #7
Far out. I just got the Faraday wallet. Thanks for the tip. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #21
If you have a "smart" phone, orthoclad Mar 15 #27
DING DING! sarisataka Mar 15 #13
Right on Firestorm49 Mar 15 #16
You know, you just don't realize the extent of surveillance until something ridiculous like this happens. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #25
That is a VERY BAD idea dickthegrouch Mar 15 #51
How is Tammy Baldwin not your Senator? obamanut2012 Mar 15 #6
My mistake. No excuses. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #17
Call the Store Manager. MOMFUDSKI Mar 15 #10
The owner of the store was a customer of mine for years. I'm not quite sure how to breach the subject. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #19
Oh. MOMFUDSKI Mar 15 #45
Stepping behind the counter always gets their attention. usonian Mar 15 #18
VPN - very good point. I do use VPN. Now I have to remember to always have it on. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #20
Use airplane mode on the phone while near or in the store. usonian Mar 15 #38
Thanks, that's another good idea. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #49
Yeah, I'd be rather perturbed also... yagotme Mar 15 #24
Ironic, isn't it? Firestorm49 Mar 15 #29
Yup. Seems customer service is in the trash can. nt yagotme Mar 15 #33
When I walk onto a car dealership lot and 2 seconds later a salesman shows up doc03 Mar 15 #26
Nobody likes to be hounded and similarly, ignored. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #32
Employees should be trained to say hi & let us know if you need anything today. CrispyQ Mar 15 #43
I told a salesman that one model has 1500 more pounds towing capacity than another. usonian Mar 15 #40
Those people earn commission on what they sell, PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 15 #58
That is very creepy. What store was it? Scrivener7 Mar 15 #30
It is an Indian motorcycle store. I just wanted to get a price on a Vespa scooter. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #35
Oh, cool. I would love a Vespa. Have you ever seen the Eddie Izzard bit on Italians on Vespas? Scrivener7 Mar 15 #41
No, but thanks for the tip. I'll check it out. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #46
It's in Dressed to Kill. Scrivener7 Mar 15 #50
I know someone whose husband died in a motorcycle accident. usonian Mar 15 #42
Well, it's been 53 years since she told me "over my dead body" so I'm doubtful it will happen. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #47
Speaking of Indian motorcycles. sdfernando Mar 15 #54
Thanks Firestorm49 Mar 15 #62
Next up, facial recognitian everywhere. Prairie_Seagull Mar 15 #31
All the better to nab you. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #37
Why is Ron Johnson your Senator but Tammy Baldwin is not? brooklynite Mar 15 #39
It was my error. I hopefully apologized in earlier posts. Firestorm49 Mar 15 #48
You can 'turn off' location tracking on android. mackdaddy Mar 15 #52
Yeah Conjuay Mar 15 #68
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 15 #53
First of all, Hello. Second, Goodbye. GP6971 Mar 15 #55
They need a motivational talk from Blake. SYFROYH Mar 15 #56
I've been worried about that for a long time. leftyladyfrommo Mar 15 #57
I don't understand why you feel it's necessary to contact your congressional rep EYESORE 9001 Mar 15 #60
Simply to ask, when is enough, enough? Firestorm49 Mar 15 #63
Personally, I'd rather address those with a stake in the business EYESORE 9001 Mar 15 #64
There were three associates on the floor. tavernier Mar 15 #66
Reminds me of something that happened to me in 1985. DFW Mar 15 #70

Blues Heron

(5,940 posts)
1. just make eye contact next time, maybe raise your hand a little?
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:29 AM
Mar 15

some people dislike being swarmed immediately upon entering a store.

Firestorm49

(4,037 posts)
9. Yes. I agree. When I ran our business for thirty six years we would greet the customer, give them a minute, then ask
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:48 AM
Mar 15

what we could do to make their day better.

Mossfern

(2,552 posts)
67. My dad had a furniture store
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 04:24 PM
Mar 15

and when I was there (as a young child) he would let me greet people at the door and bring them to an interior decorator to help them. The customers thought it was cute and I felt important!

CrispyQ

(36,509 posts)
8. By his smartphone?
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:46 AM
Mar 15

I've never had this happen, but I don't allow location services & I lock out applications' access to my phone.

We've traded our privacy for convenience. Pandora's out of the box. There are things one can do to minimize one's digital thumbprint but most of us like the convenience of doing business online. Should the corporations act ethically & respect their customers privacy? They're corporations!

TxGuitar

(4,209 posts)
34. You didn't interact with them online beforehand at all?
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:07 AM
Mar 15

Did you go to their site the day before (or day of) your visit, maybe check their opening hours or look at their address/locaiton map? Don't know how that would let them know you were there, but it could be part of it?

riversedge

(70,299 posts)
36. seems odd, dangerous? to be identified just by walking into a store. It would mean the store
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:08 AM
Mar 15

folks would have to purposely pull up your name?? Is that even legal?

DFW

(54,436 posts)
69. It happens all the time, and it's not new.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 04:59 PM
Mar 15

Over ten years ago, in our small town outside Düsseldorf, my wife and I were walking through the center of the town one evening. She paused at one shop window to look at some piece of clothing. Before we had gotten ten paces away, her phone buzzed, and she was both scared and angry that her phone had just been sent an ad from the store whose window we had just stopped at.

Liberal In Texas

(13,574 posts)
59. OK, you didn't get a survey from them. Probably from Google.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 12:16 PM
Mar 15

The location tracker on your phone will send surveys when you go to restaurants or stores to give a star rating and write a review if you want. I get them all the time. Sometimes I get them for a store I didn't go to because it was next door to one I did. Or I was just in the shopping strip going to a dentist or something. There is an option to say "I didn't go there."

If this bothers you turn off the tracking feature. All phones have this ability, it's a law or something. Anyway, I don't mind as I like to support the places I do like and give the ones that were crap the what-for. It'll also tell you where you left your phone if you misplace it. Like I did once at Kohls.

Google the model of your phone and disable tracking if you want to stop it.


Lefta Dissenter

(6,622 posts)
4. Tammy Baldwin is your senator
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:33 AM
Mar 15

If Ron Johnson is your senator, then Tammy is, too. They are both statewide officials, and you’ll have opportunity to vote for Tammy in the elections this year!

orthoclad

(2,910 posts)
7. "smart" phones put Big Brother to shame
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:46 AM
Mar 15

The greatest surveillance devices ever invented.

And get a Faraday wallet to shield your cards.

orthoclad

(2,910 posts)
27. If you have a "smart" phone,
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:59 AM
Mar 15

which I absolutely refuse to use, get a Faraday pouch/holster for it.

When it's in the Faraday cage, it will run the battery down trying to connect, so remember to turn it off.

sarisataka

(18,770 posts)
13. DING DING!
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:50 AM
Mar 15

This is how the poster was identified.

People worry about "Big Brother" watching us but will pay for the privilege of carrying the greatest tracking device ever built with them everywhere they go.

dickthegrouch

(3,184 posts)
51. That is a VERY BAD idea
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:37 AM
Mar 15

Unless you turn the phone, tablet, laptop off when leaving it in the car. The constantly transmit signals looking for known Wi-Fi hotspots. Thieves can zero in on exactly which vehicles have devices in them even if they’re hidden in the trunk.

usonian

(9,867 posts)
18. Stepping behind the counter always gets their attention.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:54 AM
Mar 15

So fill in the survey. Employees sometimes BEG me to do so because it affects their job reviews.

And buy online. The internet (almost) always is there for you. Use a vpn or tor browser so they don't know who you are.

DU gives me crap when I forget vpn settings and log in from Asia.

usonian

(9,867 posts)
38. Use airplane mode on the phone while near or in the store.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:09 AM
Mar 15

And wear a mask? I still wear an N95 mask in stores.

And buy online! I do prefer retail, especially for food! But I live in the boondocks. My neighbor gets one UPS and one FedEx a day, it seems. But I actually do visit the "big" city now and then.

You can't buy a shirt in this town unless it's Carhart.

Firestorm49

(4,037 posts)
49. Thanks, that's another good idea.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:32 AM
Mar 15

I had no idea I’d get so many responses. I’m going to have a good day. Cheers.

yagotme

(2,919 posts)
24. Yeah, I'd be rather perturbed also...
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:57 AM
Mar 15

"You can identify me walking into your store for a survey, but you can't say "Hi" to me, or ask me what I need, while I'm there." Sheesh.

doc03

(35,364 posts)
26. When I walk onto a car dealership lot and 2 seconds later a salesman shows up
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 10:57 AM
Mar 15

I tell them I am just looking today. If they still follow me around, I say thank you and walk out. Same goes for an appliance store,
electronics or furniture store. When I decide to buy a car or whatever I do my research and 9 times out of 10 I know more about their product than the salesmen.

CrispyQ

(36,509 posts)
43. Employees should be trained to say hi & let us know if you need anything today.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:16 AM
Mar 15

Acknowledging your customers is Customer Service 101.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,895 posts)
58. Those people earn commission on what they sell,
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 12:13 PM
Mar 15

so they are very motivated to stick with you. I'm going to guess that the sales people in the OP don't get commission.

Firestorm49

(4,037 posts)
35. It is an Indian motorcycle store. I just wanted to get a price on a Vespa scooter.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:08 AM
Mar 15

When I married my bride 53 years ago, I knew that her three brothers all had bikes [cycles) and her first words to me when I considered getting one was “Over my dead body”. I’ve never given up on the fact that a small two wheeler would be fun. My stop at the store was more just curiosity than actual purchase intent.

Scrivener7

(51,004 posts)
41. Oh, cool. I would love a Vespa. Have you ever seen the Eddie Izzard bit on Italians on Vespas?
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:13 AM
Mar 15

Very funny,

usonian

(9,867 posts)
42. I know someone whose husband died in a motorcycle accident.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:15 AM
Mar 15

She still drives one. A three-wheeler, IIRC, but to each their own.

Please be careful. Another friend broke his leg just standing there when the bike fell on him.

Firestorm49

(4,037 posts)
47. Well, it's been 53 years since she told me "over my dead body" so I'm doubtful it will happen.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:27 AM
Mar 15

I guess that I value our history together more than need a Vespa.

sdfernando

(4,941 posts)
54. Speaking of Indian motorcycles.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:51 AM
Mar 15

Have you seen the movie "The Worlds Fastest Indian" ??? At first glance I thought it was about a Native American runner...but that was totally off base.

Its a very good movie with one of my favorite actors.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0412080/

Prairie_Seagull

(3,336 posts)
31. Next up, facial recognitian everywhere.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:03 AM
Mar 15

I have a hat from on old Halloween costume that has long hair sticking out of it. This, some shades and a hoody, Just perfect to be arrested. Great just stay home. Hell the TV even watches us if we let it. Fun fun fun (he says sarcastically).

mackdaddy

(1,528 posts)
52. You can 'turn off' location tracking on android.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 11:39 AM
Mar 15

I am skeptical on how much turned off it really is, but it is an option on android.

I was annoyed how many requests for rating and reviews I was getting from Google and decided to turn it off. Some of the places I just walked by going to another nearby store.

This location data as well as just about everything else in you 'phone' is available to about every app you install if look at the terms of service during the app install. And all your data is available for sale somewhere.

There have been some recent court cases where police departments just buy a suspects data rather than subpoenaing it.

We have all sold our rights to any privacy by carrying out little rectangle of knowledge with us everywhere.

Response to Firestorm49 (Original post)

leftyladyfrommo

(18,870 posts)
57. I've been worried about that for a long time.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 12:05 PM
Mar 15

Easy identification can be a good thing but in the wrong hands it could be awful.

EYESORE 9001

(25,975 posts)
60. I don't understand why you feel it's necessary to contact your congressional rep
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 12:57 PM
Mar 15

Or even your state’s AG. Are laws being broken of which I am unaware? This seems more of a customer service problem than anything else - one that the dealership must address. If that fails, you could contact the OEM (original equipment manufacturer) and tell them about the slack-asses hanging out at one of their franchised locations.

EYESORE 9001

(25,975 posts)
64. Personally, I'd rather address those with a stake in the business
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 01:10 PM
Mar 15

and hope they understand that disgruntled potential customers are leaving their showroom ready to rip them apart on social media and via word-of-mouth.

tavernier

(12,400 posts)
66. There were three associates on the floor.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 04:17 PM
Mar 15

I have to tell you, when I first read your article, I thought you had walked in where a robbery was taking place. I vividly pictured three salesmen lying on the floor, and perhaps a gunman standing somewhere in the background. I’m very relieved that that wasn’t what was going on. I guess my imagination just takes me to some crazy places at times. I’m sorry that you were ignored, but you have to admit, my version would make a better movie.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
70. Reminds me of something that happened to me in 1985.
Fri Mar 15, 2024, 05:33 PM
Mar 15

I was in Germany, in the town that would become my permanent residence later on. I needed a car available for my increasingly frequent trips there. The dollar was ridiculously high due to Reagan’s DoT jacking interest rates up. So, one rainy cold day in February, I took the afternoon off to visit the three main car dealerships in town. I wanted a locally (German) made car so that repair would be readily available. I first went to Audi, but their trunks were way too small. I then went over to Mercedes, but they said it would take 18 months for delivery. I then went to BMW, but by that time I was dripping wet, and didn’t look the part of a prospective customer, so none of the ten or so salesmen even said “hi.”

Frustrated, I went to the center of town, where I had to make a stop at the bank where my outfit had its German bank account. When the guy in charge of our account asked me what car I had selected, I said none, and told him why. He said the BMW dealership was family owned and had their account with him. He asked my permission to call the owners and have a talk with them. I said sure, knock yerself out. Well, he called, and they were horrified. They had no idea, and said if I was not too thoroughly pissed off, would I please come back and ask for the owner’s daughter, who was also the manager. I did, and she took care of me personally.

Since the dollar was so high, I was able to order a new BMW four door sedan with the few things I wanted for less than $16,000, and it was ready in six weeks (those were the days). The manager also told me that within six months of my initial visit, they had replaced their whole sales staff. She said, “how the hell are we going to sell cars if the salesmen won’t at least say hi to everyone who walks in the door?” After all, if someone walks into a car dealership of their own free will, it’s reasonable to presume he’s not looking to buy dog food. Besides, even in status-conscious Germany, people didn’t walk around with their net worth on signs hung around their necks.

She was really upset, not least because she had let the problem fester right under her nose without realizing it. She and her husband got to be friends with me and my wife, and we got together regularly before her family sold the business and moved away several years later.

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