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The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:32 AM Nov 2012

NOM Now Warning Against Young People Having Gay Friends

The National Organization for Marriage has sunk to a new low of intolerance. In a “Thanksgiving Message” from Jennifer Roback Morse of NOM’s Ruth Institute, she warns that young people are being “pressured” to support LGBT equality because they have gay friends and peers. Morse relates a story of a Catholic resident assistant (RA) at a college who didn’t want to participate in the “drag party” being organized by her gay supervisor. The supervisor “really leaning on her” and tried to “make her feel bad, make her look bad,” an example of a pro-LGBT strategy that Morse feels is a much more significant threat than the media:

MORSE: I think a lot of our students are encountering this type of situation in their dorms and on their college campuses… What I want to say to you, is that the other side has RAs in the dorm where your young people are going to school. There’s no TV message that is going to do the job of countering that type of influence. Somebody’s got to be there talking to young people one at a time in the places where they’re hanging out and doing the things that they’re doing. There’s no mass media strategy by itself that will solve this problem. [...]

And this holiday season, when your young people come home from college, ask them about this. Ask them if they have a gay RA in their dorms… So please, talk to your young people about this and see what kind of pressure they may be under that maybe even they don’t realize how much it’s having an impact upon them.

http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2012/11/26/1233911/nom-now-warning-against-young-people-having-gay-friends/?mobile=nc

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yardwork

(61,712 posts)
2. I'm suspicious of this story. A "drag party" organized by a lead Resident Advisor?
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:36 AM
Nov 2012

One, that doesn't sound particularly pro-gay. It sounds like something a sorority or fraternity might organize to make fun of gay people.

There was an openly gay RA in my dorm in college. He didn't organize drag parties. He did his schoolwork and tried to keep the sophomores on his hall from setting the dorm on fire.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
3. Yes, so horrible!
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:36 AM
Nov 2012

They are being made to feel bad for being bigots! And it's terrible how if you expand your experiences and the people you know, sometimes you will realize that the prejudices you had are wrong and hurtful and actually grow as a human being and CHANGE the way you think! It's really something to guard against.

yardwork

(61,712 posts)
4. It really is something to guard against if one is invested in continuing hatred and intolerance.
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:38 AM
Nov 2012

And some people's very lucrative jobs might go away if nobody cared about passing laws against gay people anymore. There's a lot at stake!

Arkana

(24,347 posts)
7. These people are some of the most horrible elements of society.
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:46 AM
Nov 2012

If there is a just God they will spend eternity in the deepest, darkest circle of Hell.

marmar

(77,092 posts)
8. On the bright side, the fact that NOM felt the need to issue this.....
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:49 AM
Nov 2012

....... shows how desperate and marginalized they have become.


 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
9. Since NOM is a Christian/Mormon religious group, where is the strong opposing
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 11:50 AM
Nov 2012

statement from all of the 'we're not like them' Christians? This sort of thing should make faith folk furiuos, to see their Lord used as a tool of hate, but they always remain silent partners to NOM.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
13. My kids would have laughed at, and shunned, any fool talking that kind of hateful, ignorant trash.
Mon Nov 26, 2012, 01:03 PM
Nov 2012

I'm grateful that they were way too smart and kind to get sucked into any of those heinous pseudo-christian hate cults.

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