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I'm not a fan of people that wave their hands around all the time (Original Post) LiberalFighter May 14 OP
Boxing matches must just drive you nuts! marble falls May 14 #1
Parades too! Hassin Bin Sober May 14 #2
How is that the same as moving your hands constantly while talking,? LiberalFighter May 14 #5
Like this: H2O Man May 14 #12
Not the same. No comparison LiberalFighter May 14 #13
Exactly the same, H2O Man May 14 #21
Ernie who? LiberalFighter May 14 #32
I'll speculate H2O Man May 14 #37
And you think it is similar? LiberalFighter May 14 #38
I know it is. H2O Man May 14 #40
You are wrong wrong wrong LiberalFighter May 14 #41
You know nothing H2O Man May 14 #42
Total bull LiberalFighter May 14 #43
You can't say. H2O Man May 14 #44
On a less serious note, H2O Man May 14 #22
A classic talker hand waver is MSNBC Jen Psaki. Always talks with her hands moving. I think it's for emphasis. mitch96 May 14 #26
I may be wrong but think she doesn't move her hands as much LiberalFighter May 14 #29
Is this excessive or normal?...starts at 1:20 mitch96 May 14 #34
Colbert also moves his hands while talking in that clip. wnylib May 14 #53
I have dyslexia. LisaM May 14 #3
But do you do it constantly like Trump? LiberalFighter May 14 #6
I do not. LisaM May 14 #24
Trump is a case unto himself. The problem you face is in generalizing the behavior to everyone else Hekate May 14 #58
We gotta stick together! I'm a left handed dyslexic. marble falls May 14 #45
So am I! LisaM May 14 #48
Something kinetic is at work. My learning style at lectures was to take continuous notes Hekate May 14 #56
Studies have shown NanaCat May 14 #60
What was weird was that my classmates in grad school were all over the place for note-styles... Hekate May 14 #62
Trump plays the air accordion. sop May 14 #4
I think that is a New Yorker thing. former9thward May 14 #7
I've known New Yorkers who didn't do it NanaCat May 14 #61
There is a wide range of "hand gesturing"--subtle doesn't phase me but waving all over my screen... hlthe2b May 14 #8
Priceless description, especially the "plopping". yorkster May 14 #14
Yep! That is the style she uses. LiberalFighter May 14 #18
I like when John Williams does it. sl8 May 14 #9
How would it be if he was vocally giving instructions at the same time? LiberalFighter May 14 #20
Probably not good. sl8 May 14 #23
Don't worry, you hit the mark! marble falls May 14 #46
Thanks. I didn't think I could go far wrong with John Williams. nt sl8 May 14 #50
I've been in choirs, and the conductors do indeed "talk" by mouthing words Hekate May 14 #64
It can be cultural. Elessar Zappa May 14 #10
I can attest to cultural influence on talking with hand movements. wnylib May 14 #55
I'm not either, and being hard of hearing, it makes it hard for a hard-of-hearing person to (1) read their hands SWBTATTReg May 14 #11
I sometimes will look at the lips to help understand what is being said. LiberalFighter May 14 #27
Yes, closed caption is a life saver for me. I've burned out several volume controls in some of my earlier SWBTATTReg May 14 #31
When I am one on one with someone or a small group LiberalFighter May 14 #33
I'm Italian. Can't speak unless my hands are moving. maveric May 14 #15
But are you using the same motions over and over? LiberalFighter May 14 #28
I've got a few moves. Not all the same. maveric May 14 #30
Bill Maher on trump dancing and hand movements. Silent Type May 14 #16
If I speak without using my hands Jerry2144 May 14 #17
It's tough for a New Yorker... appmanga May 14 #19
During the years when I went on job interviews EYESORE 9001 May 14 #25
👇👇👇👁️👁️ Goonch May 14 #35
Play Vogue along with it, it's hysterical ... marble falls May 14 #47
In my Black/Spanish family we use our hands when we speak. Sometimes wildly! Sometimes in different languages! MenloParque May 14 #36
I do that. orange jar May 14 #39
Yes... politicians who play "invisible bongos" or who gesticulate like they're conducting an orchestra * Oopsie Daisy May 14 #49
pro tip: do not go on holiday to Italy Celerity May 14 #51
Video: IcyPeas May 14 #52
Very distracting. I can't not follow the waving and gesturing movements, like a cat. betsuni May 14 #54
Trump plays air accordion jcgoldie May 14 #57
Do not go to Italy NanaCat May 14 #59
Trump reminds me of this guy with his preacher voice and hand movements. Ping Tung May 14 #63
You should have seen my Italian family's Sunday dinners in the 90's Polybius May 14 #65

LiberalFighter

(51,781 posts)
5. How is that the same as moving your hands constantly while talking,?
Tue May 14, 2024, 11:47 AM
May 14

Especially if they don't represent the words being spoken?

LiberalFighter

(51,781 posts)
32. Ernie who?
Tue May 14, 2024, 01:01 PM
May 14

The boxing situation again is not the same. Muhammad Ali was boxing which require using your hands. And he wasn't talking constantly especially when he was either fending off blows or hitting him. He was throwing taunts which were not constant and only the opponent heard him.

H2O Man

(73,808 posts)
37. I'll speculate
Tue May 14, 2024, 02:57 PM
May 14

that you have never boxed, or sat ringside. Having done both many, many times, I can say with zero chance of error that lots of boxers talk to their opponents. More, if you actually watch the film, with sound on, you can hear the Champ talking to Ernie Terrell.

LiberalFighter

(51,781 posts)
41. You are wrong wrong wrong
Tue May 14, 2024, 04:45 PM
May 14

What you refer to in boxing is not the same.

There is no gesturing with the hands. Hands are in boxing gloves that does not allow the use of fingers to move and coordinate with any talking.

The gloved hands are limited in the motions they will use. They are not the same as a speaker gesturing with their hands.

Any talking is only for the purpose of taunting and distraction directed at the opponent.

H2O Man

(73,808 posts)
42. You know nothing
Tue May 14, 2024, 04:51 PM
May 14

about boxing, as your statements illustrate. Why, you'be hardly hit the tip of the ive cube on why fighters talk. Maybe you've watched a Eocky movie. But I will assure you that all of human life imitates the great sport of boxing.

H2O Man

(73,808 posts)
44. You can't say.
Tue May 14, 2024, 05:23 PM
May 14

I mean, you can type meaningless stuff, or say it out loud to yourself. But you have no idea. No more than a celebate person guessing about sex.

(I note than you ignore my second comment, per the evolution of human language.)

H2O Man

(73,808 posts)
22. On a less serious note,
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:33 PM
May 14

if you study the history of our species and the evolution of language, you find that moving the hands while speaking is something built in to us.

mitch96

(13,969 posts)
26. A classic talker hand waver is MSNBC Jen Psaki. Always talks with her hands moving. I think it's for emphasis.
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:43 PM
May 14

My old man talked with his hands. Hold the hands and he could not talk!!
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LisaM

(27,889 posts)
24. I do not.
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:36 PM
May 14

But I just wanted to point out that sometimes people have reasons for moving their arms when they talk (though was the OP about Trump?)

Hekate

(91,309 posts)
58. Trump is a case unto himself. The problem you face is in generalizing the behavior to everyone else
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:58 PM
May 14

There are any number of cultures on this planet where everybody waves their arms around and talks with their hands. America and England just happen to be rather stiff that way.

Hekate

(91,309 posts)
56. Something kinetic is at work. My learning style at lectures was to take continuous notes
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:54 PM
May 14

Then I focused and remembered. In grad school I learned I am moderately ADD. I realized something in the bodily movement of note taking helped me. I suspect that there might be something similar at work for you, even though dyslexia operates differently than ADD.

NanaCat

(1,861 posts)
60. Studies have shown
Tue May 14, 2024, 08:08 PM
May 14

That note-taking by hand is by far the most effective method of retaining and understanding information, for most of us.

That applies to neurotypical and ADD people.

Hekate

(91,309 posts)
62. What was weird was that my classmates in grad school were all over the place for note-styles...
Tue May 14, 2024, 08:51 PM
May 14

Some put a tape recorder in their desks. Some actually sat back and just listened. Some only jotted here and there. I essentially made a transcript.

One of my classmates was an Educational Kinesiologist, and during breaks would go outdoors to do her exercises. Eventually about half of us followed her out to do the same.

My ADD only came up more than halfway thru the program because of some assigned reading. When we returned my classmates were all “Oh that was interesting,” but I had cried all night. Let’s just say I was in my mid-40s and had spent a lifetime trying to block out my mother’s stated feelings that something was terribly wrong with me because I did not study in the manner that she did — and suddenly it turned out she was in essence correct about my being different. Though still wrong to assign it to my being passive-aggressive toward herself.

So much of what I did that got me thru to my BA in youth and my MA/PhD in midlife was a matter of inventing things that worked for me, like being a night-owl and writing when the world was asleep and quiet. Ha, also moving out at 19 so I didn’t disturb anyone with my being awake and typing when I should have been asleep like all right-thinking people.

No matter now — I am an old grandma, and have had an interesting life because so many things are fascinating to me. Many many interesting things.

former9thward

(32,259 posts)
7. I think that is a New Yorker thing.
Tue May 14, 2024, 11:50 AM
May 14

People from NY and especially NYC always seem to wave their hands around when speaking.

NanaCat

(1,861 posts)
61. I've known New Yorkers who didn't do it
Tue May 14, 2024, 08:10 PM
May 14

But the Italians from there were not among them.

Might seem like a NYC thing, when it's really an ethnic thing that's more noticeable there because the city is such a melting pot of world cultures.

hlthe2b

(102,721 posts)
8. There is a wide range of "hand gesturing"--subtle doesn't phase me but waving all over my screen...
Tue May 14, 2024, 11:52 AM
May 14

like Trump with his "air accordion" and taking it from mild emphasis to a near upper arm workout is beyond distracting to me.

I guess I haven' seen Misty Marris too much previously. She does seem to be a little excessive with her gestures. She probably ought to be on the food network--with all her "mixing, spreading, stirring, kneeding, and seemingly "plopping" gestures in rhythm to her speech. LOL

yorkster

(1,579 posts)
14. Priceless description, especially the "plopping".
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:17 PM
May 14

I say this as someone who is somewhat of a gesturer myself.

I hope she avoids "beating". 🥣

sl8

(14,280 posts)
9. I like when John Williams does it.
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:12 PM
May 14


John Williams & Vienna Philharmonic – Williams: Imperial March (from “Star Wars”)

Deutsche Grammophon - DG

[...]


Elessar Zappa

(14,193 posts)
10. It can be cultural.
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:14 PM
May 14

I know in my area Hispanics tend to use their hands more when speaking. Not sure of Morris’s background.

wnylib

(21,967 posts)
55. I can attest to cultural influence on talking with hand movements.
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:53 PM
May 14

My ex used to needle me about "talking with my hands." Said I'd be mute if I sat on them.

My ethnic background is a mix of northern European and Native American. But I grew up in a city with a lot of Italian immigrants and first generation Italian Americans. Had many Italian American classmates and friends.

It's a cultural habit with many Italian Americans. I guess I absorbed it from my environment.

Also, I had a cousin who learned sign language when her mother started losing her hearing. We went to the same junior high school. A student was mainstreamed into our classes from a school for the deaf. The two of them used sign language and taught me to use it.






SWBTATTReg

(22,388 posts)
11. I'm not either, and being hard of hearing, it makes it hard for a hard-of-hearing person to (1) read their hands
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:14 PM
May 14

if they sign (2) the waving around of hands makes it almost impossible for a person (me for example) to read lips, the hands moving around all of the time distract me.

I think that they do this (the constant moving of hands etc.) is a sign of nervous energy. Calm down!

LiberalFighter

(51,781 posts)
27. I sometimes will look at the lips to help understand what is being said.
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:48 PM
May 14

I have congenital atresia of the bones. Did not have ear canals either. Had numerous corrective surgeries for both the ears and inner ears. After surgery for an eardrum my hearing was such I could hear down the hall of the hall. It didn't last long.

I continue to use a bone conduction type hearing aid.

It doesn't help when the TV is out of sync with the people talking. At least close caption helps.

SWBTATTReg

(22,388 posts)
31. Yes, closed caption is a life saver for me. I've burned out several volume controls in some of my earlier
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:57 PM
May 14

TVs, so it's a nice touch not to have the blaring of the TV so loud (my roommates and neighbors appreciate it too). It's to the point now that the volume on the TVs isn't enough, so the CC is nice for me. I do even have a box to add CC to a subtitle, if the program in ? doesn't have CC (in the early days, few if any programs had it, CC).

Perhaps someone offers lip reading in your area. That was the one choice I had, among signing too, that I was offered. Signing was just coming out, and I'd already kind of 'read lips' already by then (I was nine years old when they discovered that my 'issue' was simply a hard-of-hearing issue, and not being mentally challenged as the common diagnosis was back then).

I too, hate it when the TV is out of sync w/ the characters' mouths. Usually on those programs, I just skip them and go elsewhere.

LiberalFighter

(51,781 posts)
33. When I am one on one with someone or a small group
Tue May 14, 2024, 01:07 PM
May 14

I am usually looking at their lips.

At meetings when someone comes to ask me a question I get down from the stage so I am closer to them and hear better. Acoustics are not good. When I need to I will pull the control box of my hearing aid out and hold it closer to them.

EYESORE 9001

(26,080 posts)
25. During the years when I went on job interviews
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:39 PM
May 14

I was advised to use my hands more when talking. The furtive gestures I made seemed to attract a laser-like gaze at what my hands were doing, so I abandoned the practice. I guess I’m just not fluent in hand jive.

MenloParque

(516 posts)
36. In my Black/Spanish family we use our hands when we speak. Sometimes wildly! Sometimes in different languages!
Tue May 14, 2024, 01:59 PM
May 14

I have no issues with those who do not use their hands when speaking. Why would I?!?

orange jar

(113 posts)
39. I do that.
Tue May 14, 2024, 03:21 PM
May 14

I have anxiety + a fear of public speaking. When I have to give presentations, I tend to use hand gestures while talking to focus and calm myself down. I don't think I'm super animated about it, though.

Some people are also just naturally hyper. If she's new, it'll probably subside over time.

Oopsie Daisy

(2,978 posts)
49. Yes... politicians who play "invisible bongos" or who gesticulate like they're conducting an orchestra *
Tue May 14, 2024, 06:49 PM
May 14

* it's incredibly distracting and annoying. There are times when it's an effective way to make a point... but when every syllable is a finger-jab in the air, or a squeeze-box (concertina) pantomime... these excessive gestures become ridiculous.

betsuni

(25,996 posts)
54. Very distracting. I can't not follow the waving and gesturing movements, like a cat.
Tue May 14, 2024, 07:46 PM
May 14

David Muir makes unnecessary hand gestures (although he seems to be getting better about it) when he anchors the news. I need to concentrate on the words of the news and not turn into a cat.

NanaCat

(1,861 posts)
59. Do not go to Italy
Tue May 14, 2024, 08:04 PM
May 14

One of my aunties came to America when she was a baby. Growing up in the US didn't change how she would have gone full-on mute if someone had handcuffed her. Her whole family was that way.

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