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cyclonefence

(5,084 posts)
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 12:17 PM Aug 2024

My intellectually disabled daughter has voted in every election since she turned 18

Her high school special ed teacher took the whole class to the courthouse and registered them to vote (those whose parents agreed; I suspect we all did) in the party the parents/guardians chose.

For the years she lived at home, I had permission from the judge of elections to go into the voting booth with her and cast her vote for her.

Now that she lives with two other women in a community-based home, she is signed up for permanent mail-in voting due to the physical aspects of her disability.

Some people raise their eyebrows when they learn that this woman (38 years old now) votes, and I point out to them that more than anyone else they know, my Sara is dependent on the policies of national, state, and local politicians to control the quality and even the sustainability of her life. Without the help of government agencies, she would die because we cannot afford her medical expenses or the special adaptations her life requires.

She lives a happy, productive (in her own way) life, with the support of wonderful (mostly) women who care for her day and night.

When she was in utero, amniocentesis showed something was wrong, but the opinion of the doctors was that it was nothing that would interfere with a normal life. Had I known better, I might have considered an abortion. At least that was an option at that time. Now more sophisticated testing finds these serious neurological anomalies, and I suspect most women would opt to abort, but too bad for them.

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My intellectually disabled daughter has voted in every election since she turned 18 (Original Post) cyclonefence Aug 2024 OP
Congratulations to you both. delisen Aug 2024 #1
I have an intellectually disabled cousin who knows more about politics than most people. Irish_Dem Aug 2024 #2
Thank you for sharing your story with your daughter--that only reemphasizes the importance of voting... hlthe2b Aug 2024 #3
With you in solidarity.. Tikki Aug 2024 #4
Guard her rights arlyellowdog Aug 2024 #5
So has my ASD/HD son Jilly_in_VA Aug 2024 #6

Irish_Dem

(72,217 posts)
2. I have an intellectually disabled cousin who knows more about politics than most people.
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 12:27 PM
Aug 2024

It took him many years to get his high school diploma, and he took his studies seriously.
His high school diploma means more to him than I can describe.

He understands a great deal about how our government works.
He took the civics/government/history classes to heart.

He follows current events avidly. I have a college degree in political science and have been
a political junkie since childhood and we can hold lively discussions about politics. He often
tells me things I didn't know.

hlthe2b

(110,629 posts)
3. Thank you for sharing your story with your daughter--that only reemphasizes the importance of voting...
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 12:29 PM
Aug 2024

for you both! May you-- and all of us-- have much to celebrate (as well as a very deserved sigh of relief--if all goes well).

Tikki

(14,867 posts)
4. With you in solidarity..
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 12:30 PM
Aug 2024

Our 22 year old grandson with an intellectual deficit has voted and will continue to vote.
We talk about what is important to his life and future and our life’s as Seniors.

He is a great guy that has worked part time since graduation of High School.

The Tikkis

arlyellowdog

(1,429 posts)
5. Guard her rights
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 12:39 PM
Aug 2024

I loved voting with my son. That he lost rights because I sought guardianship killse.

Jilly_in_VA

(12,407 posts)
6. So has my ASD/HD son
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 12:54 PM
Aug 2024

He has to depend on his care assistant (subsitute mom, he calls her) to get him to the polls, but not to tell him how to vote!

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