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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAs we age, our appearance changes.
Here is a photo of a beautiful woman. Truly. Her life is clearly visible, and her beauty remains. May we all grow and age well. In the meantime, let us honor the aged ones among us, for we will be in their place one day, if we are lucky.
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seabeyond
(110,159 posts)fascinating. even as a young child...
it is easy for me to see the beauty
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)the beauty in an old person if they look for it. If you do something that makes the person smile, it is there, even if age has brought pain or sadness. But, you have to first see the old person as a person. Only then will you see it.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)I was a bit of a badass in my youth-- it still shows a little. I have a long thin scar on the back of my upper arm that looks like a knife slash. When I'm talking or teaching about patient care, I'll show that scar I'll say "see that? Looks like a knife wound doesn't it? Eyes get big-----
"Nope" I say, this was a scratch that got infected from a fungal toenail received from a very confused patient we were trying clean up, she was fighting. (Then I get the obligatory "EW's)
I use that scar as a teaching tool.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)really is all the difference
well hell, with just about everyone. see the person first.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)young woman, a mature woman and now her. they are all there. it is so wonderful.
I don't mind aging. It beats the alternative.
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)slackmaster
(60,567 posts)The serene facial expression and clear eyes make her look strong and confident. That's beautiful.
My cold reading tells me she's intelligent and quite capable of a bright smile or laughter.
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)"What do you bring with you?" If it is a smile, then she'll give it back, and you will be able to keep it, too.
slackmaster
(60,567 posts)...had lost the ability to smile and to laugh. There was nothing but fear and terror in her eyes at the end. It was very frustrating for me because I knew there was nothing I could do to help her.
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)Whovian
(2,866 posts)She had a stroke and it has been a roller coaster since then.
slackmaster
(60,567 posts)I know we have our differences of opinion here, but you have my sincere sympathy.
Whovian
(2,866 posts)And your sympathy is appreciated. Thank you.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Gregorian
(23,867 posts)Javaman
(62,530 posts)I would love to draw it.
sasha031
(6,700 posts)you can feel all the joys, disappointments & life experience with this image,
the circle of life
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)erinlough
(2,176 posts)I went in to pick up a gift card and while walking out one of the kiosk workers who push nail care products and moisturizers approached me. She said, "mam would you be interested if I told you I could remove those wrinkles on your forehead in 60 seconds?" I smiled and told her that I liked my wrinkles, they are a sign to me that I've lived my life. She honestly looked puzzled and left her script for a moment and said,"really?" I assured her I meant it, thanked her, and walked off arm and arm with my husband. I didn't look back, but I think I would have seen a very puzzled face. The cult of youth is very funny. Might as well make peace with aging, we all get there hopefully.
Johnny Noshoes
(1,977 posts)I always say that I earned every grey hair and every line on my 58 year old face. It has been an interesting journey so far and I look forward to as many "miles " that are left for me to travel. So many sunrises and sunsets yet to see, so much good music and laughter left to hear and yeah so many tears and sorrows too.
BainsBane
(53,035 posts)Thank you!
RedCloud
(9,230 posts)Learn the truth about alternate universes!
eShirl
(18,494 posts)Uncle Joe
(58,366 posts)Thanks for the thread, MineralMan.
Raster
(20,998 posts)All of these lines across my face
Tell you the story of who I am
So many stories of where I've been
And how I got to where I am
But these stories don't mean anything
When you've got no one to tell them to
It's true, I was made for you
BRANDI CARLILE - from THE STORY lyrics
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)"What are those stripes on your face?"
Maybe decorations to forever celebrate wisdom...
Auntie Bush
(17,528 posts)A very embarrassing moment! The difference is...I think the devil gave her every one of those lines for doing his work. She was a mean one...a Grinch type person!
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)malaise
(269,054 posts)Beautiful. I love folks who are comfortable with aging.
ReRe
(10,597 posts)"Yes we do, but that little girl/boy or young woman/man is still in there. If you look straight into our eyes, smile and pat our hand, we smile back. And we have a gazillion stories to tell. About George McGovern & politics in general, perseverance, having babies, making-do with little to nothing, when we lived in Istanbul or London, what WWII was like, about where we were when JFK died and how we reacted to the news, etc., etc., etc. You literally make our day when you show kindness and ask us questions. We were young once, just like you. Please don't forget us...we have so much to share. Our lives are flashing before our eyes."
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Milliesmom
(493 posts)Really sad that all the people that have the fillers and plastic surgery done to their faces will never know the true meaning of beauty. It is within and shines through into your face and body. Try as they may to keep their phyical beauty they need to look within to find their true beauty.
Autumn
(45,107 posts)check in here and there. I come to log in and this is the first post I see. What a wonderful change and a surprise to see such a beautiful post. Wonderful, and thank you.
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)I'll try to post more positive OPs.
cherish44
(2,566 posts)N_E_1 for Tennis
(9,734 posts)I see my every day. It's my love!
My life, my only.
I see....
Knowledge, beyond what most have.
Love, forgotten and remembered.
Wisdom, not taken. Please come again!
Youth, wasted. But learned from.
My lines, my wrinkles, that are my life, as you are.
See my stories, my poems, my art, my beauty.
I .......
Sense the wind on my face, chilling my bones.
Feel the breeze blowing, warming my soul.
All this I need to share with you, all my life.
You that have no time for the little things in life.
Look, See, feel, smell.
The path of my lines are the path that we follow,
Joy, Hope, Happiness,..... the future.
If you are not afraid of me, follow me.
Love me, make me laugh, light up my eyes.
I love you, can't you see?
You are my one, my life , my only, my love !
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)Sometimes he's 10 years old, and sometimes 16. He can be in his 20s or 30s, or any age. He's always there, though.
N_E_1 for Tennis
(9,734 posts)We do live the age we think. I always think of myself as 34.
Really don't know why, must of been a good year.
thanks for posting this.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)ie OLD, so that would "explain" why he might cheat....
When questioned, those comments were all rationalized as being from "Europeans". But in my experience, being a senior citizen and having lines, wrinkles, and gray hair in Europe means the person gets even MORE respect.
Thanks MineralMan. For women especially, the blatant age-ism about the natural appearance of our elders makes me crazy.
PADemD
(4,482 posts)Amazing Face Reading: An Illustrated Encyclopedia for Reading Faces [Illustrated] [Paperback] by Mac Fulfer, J.D.
http://www.amazon.com/Amazing-Face-Reading-Illustrated-Encyclopedia/dp/0965593126/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1354756649&sr=1-1&keywords=mac+fulfer