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"What a stereotype dying looks like." - Kate Kendell (Original Post) JackBeck Dec 2012 OP
A DU rec and wishing them all the best! eom ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2012 #1
aren't they wonderful? ZZ top is getting married. :D THey look like my great roguevalley Dec 2012 #53
I'm a hospice nurse so my mind went elsewhere when I read the OP. mucifer Dec 2012 #2
Same here tavalon Dec 2012 #13
Yeah, it took me a few looks/re-phrases, too. Myrina Dec 2012 #35
I wish I knew where they're registered! Jeff In Milwaukee Dec 2012 #3
kpete posted earlier AnotherDreamWeaver Dec 2012 #4
I know! Aerows Dec 2012 #28
gander mountain....Cabelas....nt Evasporque Dec 2012 #36
Maybe they have a line on hog-hunting out there? Eleanors38 Dec 2012 #56
Can't stop smiling LittleGirl Dec 2012 #5
Da bears! :) MNBrewer Dec 2012 #6
What a great picture. Gives me hope. Gemini Cat Dec 2012 #7
Best wishes to the happy couple! nt Ilsa Dec 2012 #8
Does the Pope marry bears in the woods? Kurovski Dec 2012 #9
Cool! Logical Dec 2012 #10
I had my husband look at that, and murielm99 Dec 2012 #11
Showed my husband too. mountain grammy Dec 2012 #51
That is just wonderful. xxqqqzme Dec 2012 #12
Best Wishes and Congratulations to them Both!! nt msanthrope Dec 2012 #14
I have friends who have been a couple for 26 years. gkhouston Dec 2012 #15
26 years with my partner here in Ohio.. Science Geek Dec 2012 #16
Best of luck to you and your partner. LisaLynne Dec 2012 #21
Nice! (and congrats to them) n/t quaker bill Dec 2012 #17
Bless Them Both. (nt) Paladin Dec 2012 #18
Heartwarming! Quantess Dec 2012 #19
Freedom RobertEarl Dec 2012 #20
Good riddance to the stereotype lunatica Dec 2012 #22
That made me smile! Odin2005 Dec 2012 #23
Congratulations libodem Dec 2012 #24
This straight guy is SO PROUD to live in The Evergreen State! Aristus Dec 2012 #25
But an old stereotype is re-born: Smarmie Doofus Dec 2012 #26
But an old stereotype is re-born: AlbertCat Dec 2012 #27
And I don't see why Aerows Dec 2012 #30
I'm not judging anyone. AlbertCat Dec 2012 #41
I'm not judging anyone. AlbertCat Dec 2012 #42
Fair enough Aerows Dec 2012 #47
You wouldn't say that if it was a straight guy with a beard marrying a woman now would you? Maraya1969 Dec 2012 #40
Oh come on Aerows Dec 2012 #29
Not all stereotypes are negative. JackBeck Dec 2012 #55
That is a heart-warmer. hifiguy Dec 2012 #31
Awwwww... beautiful. K&R! MadrasT Dec 2012 #32
I wish I was invited to the wedding. BeliQueen Dec 2012 #33
The rise of the bears!!! meegbear Dec 2012 #34
So happy for them! MoonRiver Dec 2012 #37
"Get off our lawn!!" PD Turk Dec 2012 #38
I love this! I just sent it to a bunch of people. Including my far right winged minister Maraya1969 Dec 2012 #39
What stereotype? Those guys are obviously bears. craigmatic Dec 2012 #43
Wow, fantastic! mrsadm Dec 2012 #44
LOL! Is that the Redstate Update dudes? Gman Dec 2012 #45
I want to hug them! kurtzapril4 Dec 2012 #46
This is wonderful! maddiemom Dec 2012 #48
Oh, come on, that is totally upholding the stereotype... Arugula Latte Dec 2012 #49
Oh ... you mean TahitiNut Dec 2012 #52
love these guys! frylock Dec 2012 #50
Love this! We really need an equal rights amendmentl Initech Dec 2012 #54
For some reason, "The Red Green Show" popped into my mind Taverner Dec 2012 #57

mucifer

(23,549 posts)
2. I'm a hospice nurse so my mind went elsewhere when I read the OP.
Thu Dec 6, 2012, 11:51 PM
Dec 2012

That said a K and R from me for your post.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
9. Does the Pope marry bears in the woods?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:11 AM
Dec 2012

The answer is "no", but tough toe nails to Mr. Pope.

Congrats, boys!

murielm99

(30,745 posts)
11. I had my husband look at that, and
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:33 AM
Dec 2012

tell me what he thought they were doing. He could not guess. When I told him, he smiled.

It gives both of us hope.

mountain grammy

(26,623 posts)
51. Showed my husband too.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:12 PM
Dec 2012

He also smiled! He used to be fairly homophobic. About 20 years ago, we got new neighbors; 2 gay guys. My husband was not happy. One day, our other neighbor asked my husband to help him help the new guys move some furniture. My husband grudgingly went. A couple of hours later he came home. He'd had a couple of beers, but wasn't drunk, and pronounced to me: "they're just regular guys!" Best damn neighbors we ever had! Hope we get marriage equality in Colorado this year so our friends can finally get married too.

gkhouston

(21,642 posts)
15. I have friends who have been a couple for 26 years.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:49 AM
Dec 2012

I hope they can legally marry before they reach the canes-and-graybeards stage.

Science Geek

(161 posts)
16. 26 years with my partner here in Ohio..
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 04:25 AM
Dec 2012

I'm 50, I've got the gray beard and fear I may need the cane within the next decade.
My partner's 8 years older and has recently been diagnosed with cancer.

It's my dream to marry in Ohio, like both of our parents did, before either one
of us shucks off our mortal coil. I hope it happens. We can't go anywhere else,
all our family is here and there are people who truly depend on us being around.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
21. Best of luck to you and your partner.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:49 AM
Dec 2012

I am sorry for your partner's diagnosis. I wish you both the best.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
20. Freedom
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:34 AM
Dec 2012

Freedom from state oppression. Conservatives should be happy freedom rings a little louder today.

Aristus

(66,382 posts)
25. This straight guy is SO PROUD to live in The Evergreen State!
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:22 PM
Dec 2012

My heart just about bursts every time I see this pic. I'm so happy for both of them!

 

Smarmie Doofus

(14,498 posts)
26. But an old stereotype is re-born:
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:29 PM
Dec 2012

CLONES.

A gay self-created stereotype from the 70s.

Man... it's hard to get by w/o stereotypes of one kind or another.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
30. And I don't see why
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:16 PM
Dec 2012

anyone should be judging them for it. They obviously love one another, whose business is it.

I love pictures like this of our community that are doing what they want to do, and don't try to mind anyone else's relationships. If two bears want to come together, then I am all for it.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
41. I'm not judging anyone.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:14 PM
Dec 2012

Being a member of the "bear community" myself, I see couples like this all the time.


Not all stereotypes are negative.

Besides, it's how the human brain organizes things. Of course it's good to realize stereotypes are useless regarding individuals.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
42. I'm not judging anyone.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:17 PM
Dec 2012

Being a member of the "bear community" myself, I see couples like this all the time.


Not all stereotypes are negative.

Besides, it's how the human brain organizes things. Of course it's good to realize stereotypes are useless regarding individuals.



(for some reason this reminded me of this woman I knew who thought gays couldn't grow beards )

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
29. Oh come on
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:14 PM
Dec 2012

Don't look at it that way. These look like two men that love each other. We all look alike when we love one another. We form our little tribe of two and more if there are children. Love that lasts long enough that you start to look like one another is a beautiful thing.

My parents have been together for 50+ years. They look alike. They look like they fit with one another, which is what love does to you .

JackBeck

(12,359 posts)
55. Not all stereotypes are negative.
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:12 AM
Dec 2012

The LGBT community and African-Americans traditionally vote for Democrats, so clearly, that's not a bad stereotype.

But after researching your post about 'clones', I'm still at a loss as to what your point is with your post.

Maraya1969

(22,482 posts)
39. I love this! I just sent it to a bunch of people. Including my far right winged minister
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:12 PM
Dec 2012

brother and a friend of my mother who is the same. I included a little heart emoticon. I hope it makes something click in them. If not well it brightened my day and many many others.

I wish these two all the very best!!!!

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
49. Oh, come on, that is totally upholding the stereotype...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:29 PM
Dec 2012

...you know, the one about men from the Northwest wearing plaid, sporting beards and looking like lumberjacks.



Congratulations to the happy couple!

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