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25 Awesome Portraits Of Couples Just Married In Washington State (Original Post) trailmonkee Dec 2012 OP
My heart is smiling..... dixiegrrrrl Dec 2012 #1
K for happiness! goclark Dec 2012 #29
Rec. progressoid Dec 2012 #2
Okay I'm crying. dballance Dec 2012 #3
me too! so much happiness! LittleGirl Dec 2012 #44
I always cry at weddings. connecticut yankee Dec 2012 #61
Beautiful, thank you freeplessinseattle Dec 2012 #4
It'a a beautiful thing. Dark n Stormy Knight Dec 2012 #5
Woohooo kick. n/t Agschmid Dec 2012 #6
So many smiling faces. sabrina 1 Dec 2012 #7
. trailmonkee Dec 2012 #8
The happiness in that room xxqqqzme Dec 2012 #9
I am not crying dammit! Just allergys! n-t Logical Dec 2012 #10
How very wonderful for these people. K&R Whovian Dec 2012 #11
Aaah Trailmonkee sheshe2 Dec 2012 #12
I am not gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender Th1onein Dec 2012 #13
Thank you! Science Geek Dec 2012 #23
You're welcome, Science Geek. Th1onein Dec 2012 #64
The Pflag group in the pride parade gets the most cheers Politicub Dec 2012 #71
Glad to hear it. And, the people are waking up, even if our politicians aren't. Th1onein Dec 2012 #79
Same here Doctor_J Dec 2012 #93
Got a little something in my eye... Aristus Dec 2012 #14
Wow, what they say about couples starting to look alike after years together sure is true-- SunSeeker Dec 2012 #15
Its above noticible... Rockyj Dec 2012 #31
How beautiful! n/t Lugnut Dec 2012 #16
I love how these pictures smack in the face EileenFB Dec 2012 #17
Look at all that happy proReality Dec 2012 #18
Thank you... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #19
And as to that pic... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #20
"how can anyone in their right mind not consider this a married couple"- they can't. Warren DeMontague Dec 2012 #22
I hope so, too... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #54
BEAUTIFUL. Warren DeMontague Dec 2012 #21
woo-woo vlyons Dec 2012 #24
What a great thread. Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #25
Thank you so much for posting these. kag Dec 2012 #26
Mazel tov to all the adorable couples sarge43 Dec 2012 #27
Not quite yet.... JimDandy Dec 2012 #28
my wife and i didn't have a lot of $ early on.... trailmonkee Dec 2012 #30
Yes, a justice of the peace JimDandy Dec 2012 #55
Oh! So much love and happiness HappyMe Dec 2012 #32
A practical question: Are the marriages recognized by the feds? JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2012 #33
no obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #38
Is that Dan Savage in pic #8? ellie Dec 2012 #34
it is! thanks for pointing that out... here's a video trailmonkee Dec 2012 #35
Wonderful! MineralMan Dec 2012 #36
Awesome! Just Awesome!! n/t Fla Dem Dec 2012 #37
ahhhhh libodem Dec 2012 #39
These make me cry lunatica Dec 2012 #40
Wow- Beautiful!!! bettyellen Dec 2012 #41
What's amazing is how much these couples resemble each other… MrScorpio Dec 2012 #42
crazy huh? trailmonkee Dec 2012 #46
I was headed to the bottom of the thread to post exactly that Samantha Dec 2012 #78
These pictures have me weeping with absolute joy. cliffordu Dec 2012 #43
Beautiful pictures :) tandot Dec 2012 #45
Warms the cockles of this cynical heart... AzDar Dec 2012 #47
When I saw the pic of the two bearded men this am Bohunk68 Dec 2012 #48
Awwww. That is so sweet. hifiguy Dec 2012 #49
That is what love and commitment looks like Aerows Dec 2012 #50
Stereotype smashed ... Scuba Dec 2012 #51
I guess that old saw about couples that have been together for years start looking alike Ikonoklast Dec 2012 #52
Glad to see that Jackie Broyles finally came out of the closet. Crowman1979 Dec 2012 #53
Beautiful, every one! CrispyQ Dec 2012 #56
Great pics, thanks. Beacool Dec 2012 #57
I'm proud to live in a state like WA. liberalmuse Dec 2012 #58
Aaaaand... liberalmuse Dec 2012 #59
I am forever touched by all these beautiful photos... Congratulations to all! secondwind Dec 2012 #60
The picture I want to see is Rick Santorum crying . . . tclambert Dec 2012 #62
We can dream. shenmue Dec 2012 #76
I hear a crescendo of footsteps... Gumboot Dec 2012 #63
As Tiny Tim said "God Bless us, everyone!" mountain grammy Dec 2012 #65
Just beautiful amuse bouche Dec 2012 #66
pretty awesome shireen Dec 2012 #67
An ocean of smiles! ReRe Dec 2012 #68
Yep,I shed a happy cloud tear or two. Rain Mcloud Dec 2012 #69
I'm so happy for all of them!!! Politicub Dec 2012 #70
Look at what a recognition of rights can do. Look at those smiles. AtheistCrusader Dec 2012 #72
Maybe a little misty-eyed.... SouthernLiberal Dec 2012 #73
Just beautiful! rainin Dec 2012 #74
I has a happy. :) shenmue Dec 2012 #75
These are wonderful pics. Thanks! glinda Dec 2012 #77
Beautiful, K&R! MotherPetrie Dec 2012 #80
Fantastic!! bowens43 Dec 2012 #81
Beautiful MAD Dave Dec 2012 #82
Some of those couples look as if they've been waiting a long time Lydia Leftcoast Dec 2012 #83
That little boy with the camera just kills me! Odin2005 Dec 2012 #84
All my best to every last one of them! It's ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2012 #85
Love the two guys in the beards. Tab Dec 2012 #86
Just remember, we had to fight Obama on this, of course grahamhgreen Dec 2012 #87
Two questions on this Doctor_J Dec 2012 #92
My take is that he's a straight up corporatist opportunist, but will bend to the will grahamhgreen Dec 2012 #94
every single picture makes me cry.. :) stuntcat Dec 2012 #88
I so hope that this happiness can be shared nationwide someday. a la izquierda Dec 2012 #89
What a wonderful thread oberliner Dec 2012 #90
Is it wrong to hate those who fight against these peoples' happiness Doctor_J Dec 2012 #91

xxqqqzme

(14,887 posts)
9. The happiness in that room
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:55 AM
Dec 2012

must have lifted it off the ground. So infectious.



Is that Dan Savage in picture 8?

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
13. I am not gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:01 AM
Dec 2012

None of the above. And, before I came to DU, I couldn't have cared less about these people's rights. Not that I fought against them; I just didn't care, one way or another. For the most part, it was because I didn't see that they had any less rights than any of the rest of us. It was here, on DU, that I found out that that wasn't true.

And, it was here that my heart was touched, and I realized that, although different from me, lgbt human beings are the same. They want to love and be loved; have a family, a home, children, jobs, a marriage, security. And, when we allow them to be deprived of those things, those basic rights, we pave the way for those rights to be taken from any of us, and all of us.

Congrats to the newly wedded. I am so happy for them. And, for the rest of us.





Science Geek

(161 posts)
23. Thank you!
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 04:01 AM
Dec 2012

That has to be one of the nicest things I've ever heard anyone say.
Just the recognition that we need the same things that everyone needs.
And, that you care! That simple fact may seem trivial to some, but it isn't trivial at all.
Leastwise not to me! Not to some kid who may be at the end of his rope.
Just knowing that people can move from indifference to caring and concern
gives me real hope. I mean that truly. I found your words to be very touching.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
64. You're welcome, Science Geek.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:10 PM
Dec 2012

It's hard to look at the pictures and not understand, isn't it? This isn't the first set of wedding pictures from lgbt nuptials I've looked at, and they ALWAYS touch my heart. We really lose a lot as people, and as a society, when we discriminate against those who are not like "normals." (No such thing as "normal," but you know what I mean.) Because life, in all forms, is so rich simply because of all of the differences between us. Such a pity that we don't celebrate them.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
71. The Pflag group in the pride parade gets the most cheers
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:11 AM
Dec 2012

I appreciate your post and it touched me deeply.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
79. Glad to hear it. And, the people are waking up, even if our politicians aren't.
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:56 AM
Dec 2012

Pflag is parents of lesbian and gay? I've heard of it, but not sure what it is.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
93. Same here
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 11:27 AM
Dec 2012

but my critical thinking skills and the experience of having lived through the 60's allowed me to quickly correlate the current anti-gay crusade with the campaign against rights for blacks 2 generations ago. conservatives always find targets for PC hatred to bring their faithful to the polls.

Aristus

(66,382 posts)
14. Got a little something in my eye...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:04 AM
Dec 2012

But I'm smiling, too!

As a straight ally in the fight for LGTB rights, I'm very happy for all of them. Life is good...

SunSeeker

(51,571 posts)
15. Wow, what they say about couples starting to look alike after years together sure is true--
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:05 AM
Dec 2012

it appears especially when they are the same sex. So cute!

EileenFB

(360 posts)
17. I love how these pictures smack in the face
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:33 AM
Dec 2012

of stereotypes that have always been associated with what a Gay/Lesbian person looks like.

A big congrats to all those newly married couples.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
19. Thank you...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:45 AM
Dec 2012

for all the pics of beautiful, happy people. I am a happily married straight man. I am happy others, who couldn't before, can have the happiness I have. We have come far in my lifetime- we must keep moving forward.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
20. And as to that pic...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:50 AM
Dec 2012

"32 years"- how can anyone in their right mind not consider this a married couple? I have been with my wife 20 years, married for 18 of that. Those ladies have me beat by 14. How can anyone in their right mind say it isn't a committed relationship?

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
22. "how can anyone in their right mind not consider this a married couple"- they can't.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:58 AM
Dec 2012

And hopefully, soon, in every state is this nation it won't legally matter even if they do.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
54. I hope so, too...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:48 PM
Dec 2012

Yesterday was my sister and sister-in-law's one year anniversary. She found a good one- I have never seen my sis so happy. Hell, she even makes it to family events on time now (she is known for always being at least an hour late )

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
24. woo-woo
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 04:09 AM
Dec 2012

wonderful. How could anyone object to people loving one another and formally committing to a loving relationship?

kag

(4,079 posts)
26. Thank you so much for posting these.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 04:30 AM
Dec 2012

I am at once incredibly happy that they can now express their love for each other as I have always been able to...

and incredibly angry that that right has been withheld from them for so long.

But on this joyful day I will choose to revel in the former and commit myself to working toward a world where the latter no longer exists for anyone in any state.

Thank you again.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
27. Mazel tov to all the adorable couples
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:08 AM
Dec 2012

Love, laughter and long life together. Your love and joy warms the heart.

JimDandy

(7,318 posts)
28. Not quite yet....
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:30 AM
Dec 2012

These are marriage licenses only. WA has a 3 day waiting period, so they the earliest they can actually marry will be midnight Sunday morning. Yaaaay for them and congrats to all of WA for defeating the ugly referendum.

trailmonkee

(2,681 posts)
30. my wife and i didn't have a lot of $ early on....
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:17 AM
Dec 2012

And seeing all these courthouse marriages, brings back some really good memories for me

JimDandy

(7,318 posts)
55. Yes, a justice of the peace
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 03:05 PM
Dec 2012

is a quick and inexpensive way to seal your love. The happiness in these photos is contagious.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
32. Oh! So much love and happiness
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:27 AM
Dec 2012

in that room! It's like the warmth of a fireplace coming through the computer screen!

Much health, love and happiness for years and years to them all! Mazel tov!

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,350 posts)
33. A practical question: Are the marriages recognized by the feds?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:43 AM
Dec 2012

Can they file a joint tax return?

Do they qualify for survivor Social Security benefits?

Best wishes to all.

MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
42. What's amazing is how much these couples resemble each other…
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 12:28 PM
Dec 2012

Last edited Sat Dec 8, 2012, 06:19 AM - Edit history (1)

Like soul mates.

Now they're as free to be with each other and love each other like anyone else can.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
78. I was headed to the bottom of the thread to post exactly that
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:28 AM
Dec 2012

Amazing, really, in so many instances the similarity in looks. So similar they looked related to each other. But all of these couples looked like they really belonged together. Most of all, they looked so happy.

Sam

Bohunk68

(1,364 posts)
48. When I saw the pic of the two bearded men this am
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:26 PM
Dec 2012

this is what went through my mind, "Gimme all your lovin', all your hugs and kisses, too." With thanks to ZZTop.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
50. That is what love and commitment looks like
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 01:32 PM
Dec 2012

It brings tears to my eyes. I look forward to the day when all states do what Washington State did so bravely, and so honorably.

Love and commitment are not evil things. Preventing love and commitment are evil things.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
52. I guess that old saw about couples that have been together for years start looking alike
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:17 PM
Dec 2012

just might be true!

I know that was supposedly about heterosexual couples, but it looks like it just might have some bit of a factual basis behind it, no matter the sexual orientation.

Crowman1979

(3,844 posts)
53. Glad to see that Jackie Broyles finally came out of the closet.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 02:19 PM
Dec 2012

I'm kidding! Congrats to all of those lovely couples.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
58. I'm proud to live in a state like WA.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 07:49 PM
Dec 2012

Marriage sort of depresses me, but when I see couples like this who've had to fight for that right, it makes me think twice about my marriage willies.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
59. Aaaaand...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 07:51 PM
Dec 2012

Longtime couples really do start to look alike, LOL. Loving these pics. Who is chopping onions in here?

 

Rain Mcloud

(812 posts)
69. Yep,I shed a happy cloud tear or two.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 11:47 PM
Dec 2012

America living up to its promises and obligations,at last.
I am(what ever the Scottish equivalent of)ver klempt.
Congratulations to all!

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
72. Look at what a recognition of rights can do. Look at those smiles.
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:34 AM
Dec 2012

Due Process, Equal Protection. I can't express how happy I am that my fellow Washingtonians passed this referendum.

SouthernLiberal

(407 posts)
73. Maybe a little misty-eyed....
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:56 AM
Dec 2012

But there is now way I could cry over these pictures. On the other hand, I haven't smiled this much over a DU post in... oh... EVER! These are beautiful pictures of incredibly happy events. I wish the very best for each and every one of these couples.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
83. Some of those couples look as if they've been waiting a long time
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:06 PM
Dec 2012

A couple of Sundays ago, when we had our usual blessings for birthdays, anniversaries, and those about to travel, one of the gay couples who attend our church came forward. Although same-sex marriage is not legal in Minnesota, those two men had been together for forty years. I hope they can live long enough to have a state-recognized marriage here.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
84. That little boy with the camera just kills me!
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:02 PM
Dec 2012

He's so happy! The little one's are naturally tolerant, you have to be "carefully taught" to hate.

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
85. All my best to every last one of them! It's
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:34 PM
Dec 2012

nice to see the joy and happiness on all of those beautiful faces!

Tab

(11,093 posts)
86. Love the two guys in the beards.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 02:06 AM
Dec 2012

But notice how many of the first half look the same as each other? Not implying anything, just pointing it out. Struck me as unusual.

More power to them! So sorry some of them had to wait this long. And that's assuming it stays legal.

 

grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
87. Just remember, we had to fight Obama on this, of course
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 04:26 PM
Dec 2012

he did come around.

We still got to push him on a host of other issues too - like getting back to a 94% tax on the rich and increasing capital gains, etc.....


"Obama told MTV he believes marriage is "between a man and a woman" and that he is "not in favor of gay marriage."

"I’ve stated my opposition to this. I think it’s unnecessary," Obama told MTV. "I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage."


http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2008/11/obama-on-mtv-i/

We've got to push him, and push harder than the R's are pushing in the other direction.
 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
92. Two questions on this
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 11:25 AM
Dec 2012

1. Did he "come around", or feel like he needed your votes?
2. Why does he pay any attention at all to what the R's say/want?

 

grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
94. My take is that he's a straight up corporatist opportunist, but will bend to the will
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 01:46 PM
Dec 2012

of the people if he's pushed hard enough.

1. Needed votes.

2. He's not really on our side.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
89. I so hope that this happiness can be shared nationwide someday.
Sun Dec 9, 2012, 08:40 PM
Dec 2012

Congratulations to all the happy couples. Perhaps someday my mom and her partner and my uncle and his partner can join them.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
91. Is it wrong to hate those who fight against these peoples' happiness
Mon Dec 10, 2012, 11:23 AM
Dec 2012

(not to mention their equality)?

A big FU to Fox News, hate Radio, and everyone who pays attention to them.

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